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Lunatic Bride Is Scared Her Friend Who Had A Stillbirth Would Steal All The Attention At The Wedding Gets Dumped By The Groom

Jonas Grinevičius and
Ilona Baliūnaitė
Prepare to give up what's left of your faith in humanity. Losing a child is a devastating event. And in that difficult time, the love and support of your closest family and friends are paramount as you grieve. It's also a time when you realize who your friends are and who are heartless, selfish folks without any empathy. One bride-to-be (described as a "human trash bag" and a "bridezilla" by some on the internet) proved that she has no morals when she asked her bridesmaid, who recently had a stillbirth, to not come to her wedding. The woman was afraid that her friend would steal her thunder with her sadness. Things escalated from there. Sounds fake? We wish. Unfortunately, it's all real. A note of warning, dear Pandas: the topic below is extremely sensitive and may not be for everyone. If you're feeling overwhelmed, we recommend you read something lighter and more wholesome, instead.

An exchange between a bride-to-be and her grieving friend went viral for all the wrong reasons

Image credits: quavondo (not the actual photo)

The bride later on battled it out with her other friends on Facebook

The wedding got canceled and the groom-to-be dumped his heartless fiance. It's heavily implied on the internet that the bride's messages to her grieving friend played a major part in the breakup. The woman also went all-out and tried to defend herself to her friends on Facebook, showing that her emotional range of empathy is less than that of a teaspoon. It's devastating to read.

The groom left his fiance after he heard about what happened how she treated her friend who lost her baby

WebMD explains that many women tend to blame themselves for miscarriage, however, most of them are outside of their control. "Try not to add to your grief by blaming yourself. You may need time to heal emotionally after you lose a baby to miscarriage. It is very normal to grieve, not just for your baby, but also for all of the dreams you had for you and your child." Grief can take very different forms for different mothers. While some might feel lonely and guilty, others can feel angry. Mothers who lost their babies may also have a very difficult time being around families with children. What's more, women can suddenly feel another wave of grief when they get pregnant again. According to WebMD, grief can be worse if a woman miscarries later on in her pregnancy because she has had more time to get attached to her baby. In this difficult time, you and your partner must support each other. They may be grieving as well even if it's difficult to recognize. Their grief may also be different from yours. Consider seeking a counselor's help or finding a support group alongside opening up to your closest friends and family members. You have to find a way to grieve and recover that is right for you specifically.

This is how the internet has been reacting to the horrible way the woman treated her friend who needed support

What do you think about the entire situation, dear Pandas? Was it as difficult for you to read the story as it was for us? Do you think there's any hope for people who absolutely don't care about anyone but themselves? Share your thoughts and feelings below. Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing! Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda! Share on Facebook Jonas Grinevičius Follow Unfollow Jonas Grinevičius Writer, BoredPanda staff Jonas is a Bored Panda writer who previously worked as a world news journalist elsewhere. After getting his bachelor's degree in Politics and International Relations at the University of Manchester, he returned home and graduated from Vilnius University with a master's degree in Comparative Politics. Jonas enjoys writing articles ranging from serious topics like politics and social issues to more lighthearted things like art, pop culture, and nature. In his spare time, Jonas writes books and short stories and likes to draw lighthearted illustrations. A huge fan of literature, films, philosophy, and tabletop games, he also has a special place in his heart for anything related to fantasy or science fiction. Read more » Ilona Baliūnaitė Ilona Baliūnaitė Author, BoredPanda staff Ilona is a photo editor at Bored Panda with an MA in Communication Of Creative Society. Before Bored Panda, she worked as a social media manager and freelance graphic designer. When she is not photoshopping or searching for the most interesting photos for stories, she is usually watching good movies and says that The Godfather is the best. Read more » Show All Contributors Get the latest inspiring stories via our awesome iOS app! Download Bored Panda app! 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POST Rick Seiden Rick Seiden Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago "It's been two months, how much time do you need?" A lifetime. 136 136points reply Vicky Zar Vicky Zar Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Yes indeed 22 22points reply Load More Replies... I want cake I want cake Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Exactly. My grandma still grieves her stillborn youngest child. My aunt would've been in her fifties now and I don't think my grandma feels less pain over it now than when it happened. 8 8points reply W. 5 W. 5 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago It's been 14 years ago and I'll miss my baby every day. People who tell you "to get over it" have no heart. I remember someone scolding me for mourning him "because you still have one" as If children were a thing like a spare T-Shirt. My heart goes out to this mom. And I truly hate the bride for her words when she could have been a decent being. 5 5points reply Donna Leske Donna Leske Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago justice was served in a big way, she didn't get to be a bride 0 0points reply Misstaken138 Misstaken138 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Yup. I had a miscarriage 10 years ago and it still bothers me to this day. I've been blessed with 2 great children since then, but I've never gotten over the one we lost. It's a lot of wondering if there was something I could've done to prevent it and wondering what they would've been like. It's not something you ever get over. This lady had a stillbirth which is a whole different horror. I can't even imagine what that feels like. 5 5points reply BluEyedSeoulite BluEyedSeoulite Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Nice to see this updated that the wedding was canceled. My mom had a stillbirth, 2 months overdue. Very terrible doctor. She left toys on his grave on his birthday, every year. It isn't something you get over. 86 86points reply Viviane Viviane Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Glad to hear it was cancelled - the potential spouse dodged a bullet. As did any potential children. 57 57points reply Load More Replies... Sonia Bailey Sonia Bailey Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Yep that was my thought too! 14 14points reply alicia Kondrad alicia Kondrad Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This is so sad im sorry for your mom... 5 5points reply Suzanne Haigh Suzanne Haigh Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. A still birth is not the same as loosing a baby. If a female looses a fetus then there is something wrong with the fetus, it would not make a full baby. It is hard but why women morn for so long when it is natures way of dealing with faults. NO I do not agree with the ex bride, her behaviour was bad, really bad. -36 -36points reply Pusfarm Pusfarm Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago You and the ex-bride should hook up. You both seem to have about the same emotional depth. 20 20points reply BluEyedSeoulite BluEyedSeoulite Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago I didn't see how far along she was but still, it doesn't really matter. Also, a fetus is a medical term meaning the baby hasn't been born yet. 10 weeks or 35 weeks, still a fetus. 4 4points reply VeninTheRogue VeninTheRogue Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago That bride is a complete b******e. I’m just a kid, I don’t have any children, but I have many siblings and if any of them died I would never get over it. Bride got what she deserved 49 49points reply Chillace Chillace Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago same, i have a lot of siblings too. even though we fight a lot if one of them died i would shut down 23 23points reply Load More Replies... Leo Domitrix Leo Domitrix Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Only had one, we didn't even get along, but I shut down for nearly a year. I still think of her a lot, and it's 30 years since she died. I can't imagine this bride's attitude.... 16 16points reply Rens Rens Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago My boyfriend lost his sister (and her unborn baby) over 30 years ago and he's never got over it. 8 8points reply I am avoiding my homework I am avoiding my homework Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago She definitely did 1 1point reply Load More Comments POST Rick Seiden Rick Seiden Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago "It's been two months, how much time do you need?" A lifetime. 136 136points reply Vicky Zar Vicky Zar Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Yes indeed 22 22points reply Load More Replies... I want cake I want cake Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Exactly. My grandma still grieves her stillborn youngest child. My aunt would've been in her fifties now and I don't think my grandma feels less pain over it now than when it happened. 8 8points reply W. 5 W. 5 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago It's been 14 years ago and I'll miss my baby every day. People who tell you "to get over it" have no heart. I remember someone scolding me for mourning him "because you still have one" as If children were a thing like a spare T-Shirt. My heart goes out to this mom. And I truly hate the bride for her words when she could have been a decent being. 5 5points reply Donna Leske Donna Leske Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago justice was served in a big way, she didn't get to be a bride 0 0points reply Misstaken138 Misstaken138 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Yup. I had a miscarriage 10 years ago and it still bothers me to this day. I've been blessed with 2 great children since then, but I've never gotten over the one we lost. It's a lot of wondering if there was something I could've done to prevent it and wondering what they would've been like. It's not something you ever get over. This lady had a stillbirth which is a whole different horror. I can't even imagine what that feels like. 5 5points reply BluEyedSeoulite BluEyedSeoulite Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Nice to see this updated that the wedding was canceled. My mom had a stillbirth, 2 months overdue. Very terrible doctor. She left toys on his grave on his birthday, every year. It isn't something you get over. 86 86points reply Viviane Viviane Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Glad to hear it was cancelled - the potential spouse dodged a bullet. As did any potential children. 57 57points reply Load More Replies... Sonia Bailey Sonia Bailey Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Yep that was my thought too! 14 14points reply alicia Kondrad alicia Kondrad Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This is so sad im sorry for your mom... 5 5points reply Suzanne Haigh Suzanne Haigh Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. A still birth is not the same as loosing a baby. If a female looses a fetus then there is something wrong with the fetus, it would not make a full baby. It is hard but why women morn for so long when it is natures way of dealing with faults. NO I do not agree with the ex bride, her behaviour was bad, really bad. -36 -36points reply Pusfarm Pusfarm Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago You and the ex-bride should hook up. You both seem to have about the same emotional depth. 20 20points reply BluEyedSeoulite BluEyedSeoulite Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago I didn't see how far along she was but still, it doesn't really matter. Also, a fetus is a medical term meaning the baby hasn't been born yet. 10 weeks or 35 weeks, still a fetus. 4 4points reply VeninTheRogue VeninTheRogue Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago That bride is a complete b******e. I’m just a kid, I don’t have any children, but I have many siblings and if any of them died I would never get over it. Bride got what she deserved 49 49points reply Chillace Chillace Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago same, i have a lot of siblings too. even though we fight a lot if one of them died i would shut down 23 23points reply Load More Replies... Leo Domitrix Leo Domitrix Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Only had one, we didn't even get along, but I shut down for nearly a year. I still think of her a lot, and it's 30 years since she died. I can't imagine this bride's attitude.... 16 16points reply Rens Rens Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago My boyfriend lost his sister (and her unborn baby) over 30 years ago and he's never got over it. 8 8points reply I am avoiding my homework I am avoiding my homework Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago She definitely did 1 1point reply Load More Comments Popular on Bored Panda I Used AI To See What These 23 Popular Cartoon Characters Would Look Like In Real Life 30 Y.O. 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