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Mother Imposes “ No Sleeping With BF” Rule On Her Grown Up Daughter Asks Online If She’ s Wrong

Konstancija Gasaitytė and
Robertas Lisickis
Parents are parents for life, no matter how old their children are. And, of course, who hasn't heard the famous phrase "You'll understand me once you have your own children"? But it is thought that with years it is getting easier for parents and their children to get along. However, there are still things that are hard to agree on no matter the age. And as we get older, the disagreements between parents and children could determine a broken relationship. More info: reddit.com

It takes a lot for a parent to realize that their child is all grown up but this mother sure takes her time

Image credits: verkeorg One Reddit user, who is a mother to her already grown-up daughter, is asking whether she is being too sensitive about the idea of her daughter sleeping with her boyfriend when they come to visit her family. And this mother is not the only one who is looking for answers in this situation. Believe it or not, but debates about whether parents should let their kids sleep with their boyfriend/girlfriend are quite frequent on Google.

This mother asked Reddit users if she s wrong for imposing her no boyfriend in bed rule on her grown-up daughter

Image credits: u/upsetmother12 What draws attention to this particular case is the reactions of other Reddit users. In almost 4.5 thousand comments people are discussing the boundaries parents and children should accept based on their own experience. Image credits: u/upsetmother12 What intensifies the discussion is some personal information that the woman shares with the audience: her daughter is a 25-year woman who already lives with her 26-year-old boyfriend. So what is all the fuss about you might think? As the mother and her husband are certain that there should be no sleeping around before the marriage, they do not allow her daughter to sleep with her boyfriend when they come to visit the family. Image credits: u/upsetmother12 Her daughter, being a respectful human being, decided to comply with her parents' wishes by not visiting them as often as they would want. This, of course, got her mother upset and lost as the only people who think that this is all right and her daughter is being simply rude is herself and her husband. A lot of Reddit commentators agree that by flashing her "no sleeping before marriage" card, the mother is jeopardizing her relationship with her daughter. Image credits: u/upsetmother12 It seems that the main concern with which most of the parents face, especially those who raise daughters, is an unplanned pregnancy. But as the times change, the stigma of becoming a teen parent is also changing. Instead of saying a brief and strict "no", most of the parents are now looking for advice on how to talk to their children and how to prepare them for the next chapter of their lives. As we can see, open discussion on various platforms could be one of them.

The online group users were very supportive&hellip of the daughter

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If you're not comfortable with your daughter sleeping with her partner in your house then you need to accept that she will not visit you as much. 165 165points reply ADHORTATOR ADHORTATOR Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago You said it short and clear, rules have consequences 40 40points reply Load More Replies... Diane Knight Diane Knight Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago As someone above mentioned that is less about 'punishment' from the daughter and more that the parents 'Feel they' are 'entitled' to more visits. 1 1point reply Lillukka79 Lillukka79 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago I also get a feeling that this isn't the only thing she's done to try and control her daughter. 19 19points reply Dale Dale Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Shes not controlling her daughter she is enforcing a moral belief she has and her daughter refuses to respect that and feels offended by her mons beliefs its stupid. -16 -16points reply Ozacoter Ozacoter Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 1 year ago Also she is asusming that they are going to get married. What if they dont or they take many years? Would she want them to sleep apart forever? 19 19points reply Thenatural Thenatural Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Exactly...and if they have children out of wedlock? Will they still impose the no sharing a bed rule? This seems to be more about the control that they no longer have. 10 10points reply Dale Dale Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Sleep apart when in her house. Her house her rules! -5 -5points reply Ozacoter Ozacoter Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 1 year ago (edited) Good way to keep your daughter away 5 5points reply Dale Dale Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. If her daughter refuses to respect her mothers wishes and cant sleep in separate rooms for a short visit then she is being petty not the mom. -9 -9points reply Lilith the Demon Panda Lilith the Demon Panda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago the mother is crazy bitch when obviously they are living together and sleeping together for years... it doesn't mean they would necessarily have sex in that house, they just want to sleep together... and she does respect her wishes - she stays the hell out of there which is exactly what I would do but fortunately I don't have crazy mother 3 3points reply King Joffrey King Joffrey Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Dale, if you think a rule is more important than your daughter, this is exactly how it will end. 4 4points reply Wilf Wilf Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago I can't imagine what it would be like to value some outdated religious dogma over a strong and loving relationship with your own daughter. How sad that this woman cannot recognise what she is doing to the relationship with her daughter. 120 120points reply beckster308 beckster308 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago And we're not even talking about someone who's 18 or 19. We're talking about someone well into adulthood. It's even worse. 28 28points reply Load More Replies... backatya backatya Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago (edited) This comment is hidden. Click here to view. It's not a matter of adulthood. It's a matter of her mother's wishes which I presume has to to do with religious or moral beliefs. Either way it's the parents home. Most of you must be atheists saying the daughter should f**k whoever she wants even though it's under her parents roof. That's what's wrong these days with people. People go overboard on the freedoms given in this country and not respect others especially their own parents. -7 -7points reply Alex_cat lover Alex_cat lover Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 1 year ago Idiot 0 0points reply Dale Dale Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago (edited) This comment is hidden. Click here to view. We're also not talking about the mother saying she cant visit or have a relationship we are talking about respecting her mothers moral beliefs, if her mom was vegan and said hey dont bring beef into my house, or Muslim and said no pork in my house I have a feeling all the comments might be different, if you want to visit your mom respect her beliefs and slept in separate rooms for the duration of the stay no big deal. -8 -8points reply Joonscrab Joonscrab Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Yeah so that don't want to do it. As the top comment said, rules have consequences. They're literally 25-26 FFS and been together for 3 years 5 5points reply Dale Dale Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. I'm 36, and I still respect my parents I dont understand the issue here. Respect her wishes dont be a cry baby and visit your parents. -4 -4points reply Catherine Kane Catherine Kane Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago she's not disrespecting her parents or "being a cry baby" as you so eloquently put it. She's following their rules when she visits but not visiting as often because she wants to sleep with her partner OP / mom on the other hand, is being a cry baby. she sets rules that disrespect her daughter's relationship and then claims because daughter doesn't want to visit as much. She complains that daughter is "punishing her" when all daughter is doing is respecting mom's rules but also respecting her own adult relationship 4 4points reply Kt Kt Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago But they are respecting the rules....by staying away. They don't agree with the rules, that's not disrespectful. It would be disrespectful to go and stay in the house and sneak in to the same bed during the night. Stayig away is not disrespectful. Notice the mother doesn't mention making effort to visit her children, only that her son visits regularly and the daughter doesn't 1 1point reply backatya backatya Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. You're a child that didn't grow up. You just want to take vengeance on the parents. -6 -6points reply fin_evander fin_evander Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Robert, not all parents deserve respect. 4 4points reply backatya backatya Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago It's assuming her parents are good people since they didn't mention anything bad -2 -2points reply RJS RJS Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Well, since her mom is the one providing all the information, that’s unlikely to happen. 3 3points reply elfin elfin Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago She can't because she thinks it's her daughter who's doing it. 1 1point reply Flavia Slag Flavia Slag Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago The message of the cross is foolish to those who are headed for destruction! -3 -3points reply Catherine Kane Catherine Kane Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago actually the cross has nothing to do with it. the Bible has nothing to say about sleeping with your partner in your parents' home 3 3points reply Evelyn Haskins Evelyn Haskins Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Not necessarily a religious objection. It is simply old time morality. The parents haven't actually accepted that and I think that the daughter needs to come to her senses! -5 -5points reply backatya backatya Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. The morality is not old its just that people are wanting to do away with it so they can do what they want. -4 -4points reply Robert Thompson Robert Thompson Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. If they had a "strong and loving relationship", respect would be part of it. Respect for each other and their standards. It is not "Some outdated religious dogma" It is MOM! And if she doesn't like her MOM! (Happy mothers day by the way!) Then it is the daughter that is damaging the relationship. -33 -33points reply Katrina B. Katrina B. Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago The whole "who waits three months between seeing their parents" is ridiculous. Before covid, I saw my parents.... twice a year. I can't really afford to travel and didn't have a ton of vacation time. Which is true for most younger people. 93 93points reply Franc Esca Franc Esca Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Sounds like overbearing parents. 54 54points reply Load More Replies... Pedro Pedro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago I think you spelled twäts wrong :) 6 6points reply Evelyn Haskins Evelyn Haskins Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Nup. Overbearing parents would simply not accept their daughter back while she was 'living in sin'. -4 -4points reply backatya backatya Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. I guess you didn't respect yours. -5 -5points reply Esca Sav Esca Sav Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago On top of that, I don't know why, but I have like a slight suspicion that they might not be visiting because of other reasons, too... Like the way her daughter left after her mom confronted her, just the way it was written makes me picture that the daughter was tired of listening. I don't know the full situation, but I don't see anything wrong from either sides. The mom established rules, the daughter obeyed. Again, it comes with consequences. 27 27points reply Joe Reaves Joe Reaves Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Presumably they see his family too so by expecting them to visit every three months she's expecting them to take trips every 6 weeks or so (equal time with his family) and that's a lot of time and effort. I'm also not seeing any indication that they are willing to travel to see her, just that she is supposed to travel to see them. That alone is something of an indication of their relationship - the daughter is the one expected to put all the effort in. 17 17points reply Ron Santos Ron Santos Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago That’s an excellent point! Do the parents visit the daughter and boyfriend? If so, do the parents have a problem with them sharing a bed then? 11 11points reply Ozacoter Ozacoter Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 1 year ago By my experience usually families expect you to visit but barely ever visit you 4 4points reply Don't Look Don't Look Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Same. I only see my parents about twice a year. 6 6points reply Ozacoter Ozacoter Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 1 year ago I agree. If she is sleeping with them it means that tmshe lives far away. We live 3km away from my inlaws. It would be bad to visit them only every 3 months. But i live about 2000km away from my parents. If I am lucky i visit twice a year. 5 5points reply Load More Comments POST anarkzie anarkzie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago I don't think it's a right or wrong situation, you have your rules but your rules have consequences. If you're not comfortable with your daughter sleeping with her partner in your house then you need to accept that she will not visit you as much. 165 165points reply ADHORTATOR ADHORTATOR Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago You said it short and clear, rules have consequences 40 40points reply Load More Replies... Diane Knight Diane Knight Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago As someone above mentioned that is less about 'punishment' from the daughter and more that the parents 'Feel they' are 'entitled' to more visits. 1 1point reply Lillukka79 Lillukka79 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago I also get a feeling that this isn't the only thing she's done to try and control her daughter. 19 19points reply Dale Dale Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Shes not controlling her daughter she is enforcing a moral belief she has and her daughter refuses to respect that and feels offended by her mons beliefs its stupid. -16 -16points reply Ozacoter Ozacoter Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 1 year ago Also she is asusming that they are going to get married. What if they dont or they take many years? Would she want them to sleep apart forever? 19 19points reply Thenatural Thenatural Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Exactly...and if they have children out of wedlock? Will they still impose the no sharing a bed rule? This seems to be more about the control that they no longer have. 10 10points reply Dale Dale Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Sleep apart when in her house. Her house her rules! -5 -5points reply Ozacoter Ozacoter Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 1 year ago (edited) Good way to keep your daughter away 5 5points reply Dale Dale Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. If her daughter refuses to respect her mothers wishes and cant sleep in separate rooms for a short visit then she is being petty not the mom. -9 -9points reply Lilith the Demon Panda Lilith the Demon Panda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago the mother is crazy bitch when obviously they are living together and sleeping together for years... it doesn't mean they would necessarily have sex in that house, they just want to sleep together... and she does respect her wishes - she stays the hell out of there which is exactly what I would do but fortunately I don't have crazy mother 3 3points reply King Joffrey King Joffrey Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Dale, if you think a rule is more important than your daughter, this is exactly how it will end. 4 4points reply Wilf Wilf Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago I can't imagine what it would be like to value some outdated religious dogma over a strong and loving relationship with your own daughter. How sad that this woman cannot recognise what she is doing to the relationship with her daughter. 120 120points reply beckster308 beckster308 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago And we're not even talking about someone who's 18 or 19. We're talking about someone well into adulthood. It's even worse. 28 28points reply Load More Replies... backatya backatya Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago (edited) This comment is hidden. Click here to view. It's not a matter of adulthood. It's a matter of her mother's wishes which I presume has to to do with religious or moral beliefs. Either way it's the parents home. Most of you must be atheists saying the daughter should f**k whoever she wants even though it's under her parents roof. That's what's wrong these days with people. People go overboard on the freedoms given in this country and not respect others especially their own parents. -7 -7points reply Alex_cat lover Alex_cat lover Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 1 year ago Idiot 0 0points reply Dale Dale Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago (edited) This comment is hidden. Click here to view. We're also not talking about the mother saying she cant visit or have a relationship we are talking about respecting her mothers moral beliefs, if her mom was vegan and said hey dont bring beef into my house, or Muslim and said no pork in my house I have a feeling all the comments might be different, if you want to visit your mom respect her beliefs and slept in separate rooms for the duration of the stay no big deal. -8 -8points reply Joonscrab Joonscrab Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Yeah so that don't want to do it. As the top comment said, rules have consequences. They're literally 25-26 FFS and been together for 3 years 5 5points reply Dale Dale Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. I'm 36, and I still respect my parents I dont understand the issue here. Respect her wishes dont be a cry baby and visit your parents. -4 -4points reply Catherine Kane Catherine Kane Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago she's not disrespecting her parents or "being a cry baby" as you so eloquently put it. She's following their rules when she visits but not visiting as often because she wants to sleep with her partner OP / mom on the other hand, is being a cry baby. she sets rules that disrespect her daughter's relationship and then claims because daughter doesn't want to visit as much. She complains that daughter is "punishing her" when all daughter is doing is respecting mom's rules but also respecting her own adult relationship 4 4points reply Kt Kt Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago But they are respecting the rules....by staying away. They don't agree with the rules, that's not disrespectful. It would be disrespectful to go and stay in the house and sneak in to the same bed during the night. Stayig away is not disrespectful. Notice the mother doesn't mention making effort to visit her children, only that her son visits regularly and the daughter doesn't 1 1point reply backatya backatya Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. You're a child that didn't grow up. You just want to take vengeance on the parents. -6 -6points reply fin_evander fin_evander Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Robert, not all parents deserve respect. 4 4points reply backatya backatya Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago It's assuming her parents are good people since they didn't mention anything bad -2 -2points reply RJS RJS Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Well, since her mom is the one providing all the information, that’s unlikely to happen. 3 3points reply elfin elfin Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago She can't because she thinks it's her daughter who's doing it. 1 1point reply Flavia Slag Flavia Slag Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago The message of the cross is foolish to those who are headed for destruction! -3 -3points reply Catherine Kane Catherine Kane Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago actually the cross has nothing to do with it. the Bible has nothing to say about sleeping with your partner in your parents' home 3 3points reply Evelyn Haskins Evelyn Haskins Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Not necessarily a religious objection. It is simply old time morality. The parents haven't actually accepted that and I think that the daughter needs to come to her senses! -5 -5points reply backatya backatya Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. The morality is not old its just that people are wanting to do away with it so they can do what they want. -4 -4points reply Robert Thompson Robert Thompson Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. If they had a "strong and loving relationship", respect would be part of it. Respect for each other and their standards. It is not "Some outdated religious dogma" It is MOM! And if she doesn't like her MOM! (Happy mothers day by the way!) Then it is the daughter that is damaging the relationship. -33 -33points reply Katrina B. Katrina B. Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago The whole "who waits three months between seeing their parents" is ridiculous. Before covid, I saw my parents.... twice a year. I can't really afford to travel and didn't have a ton of vacation time. Which is true for most younger people. 93 93points reply Franc Esca Franc Esca Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Sounds like overbearing parents. 54 54points reply Load More Replies... Pedro Pedro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago I think you spelled twäts wrong :) 6 6points reply Evelyn Haskins Evelyn Haskins Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Nup. Overbearing parents would simply not accept their daughter back while she was 'living in sin'. -4 -4points reply backatya backatya Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. I guess you didn't respect yours. -5 -5points reply Esca Sav Esca Sav Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago On top of that, I don't know why, but I have like a slight suspicion that they might not be visiting because of other reasons, too... Like the way her daughter left after her mom confronted her, just the way it was written makes me picture that the daughter was tired of listening. I don't know the full situation, but I don't see anything wrong from either sides. The mom established rules, the daughter obeyed. Again, it comes with consequences. 27 27points reply Joe Reaves Joe Reaves Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Presumably they see his family too so by expecting them to visit every three months she's expecting them to take trips every 6 weeks or so (equal time with his family) and that's a lot of time and effort. I'm also not seeing any indication that they are willing to travel to see her, just that she is supposed to travel to see them. That alone is something of an indication of their relationship - the daughter is the one expected to put all the effort in. 17 17points reply Ron Santos Ron Santos Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago That’s an excellent point! Do the parents visit the daughter and boyfriend? If so, do the parents have a problem with them sharing a bed then? 11 11points reply Ozacoter Ozacoter Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 1 year ago By my experience usually families expect you to visit but barely ever visit you 4 4points reply Don't Look Don't Look Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Same. I only see my parents about twice a year. 6 6points reply Ozacoter Ozacoter Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 1 year ago I agree. If she is sleeping with them it means that tmshe lives far away. We live 3km away from my inlaws. It would be bad to visit them only every 3 months. But i live about 2000km away from my parents. If I am lucky i visit twice a year. 5 5points reply Load More Comments Popular on Bored Panda I Used AI To See What These 23 Popular Cartoon Characters Would Look Like In Real Life 30 Y.O. 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