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Bride Wants Her Stepdaughter To Cut Her Hair For The Wedding Is Livid When The Stepdaughter Refuses Interview
Liucija Adomaite and
Ilona Baliūnaitė
We've all heard stories about bridezillas running amok during the wedding planning. But when bridezilla is also the future wife of your father, things are quite different. After all, who doesn't want to see their dad happy? So this story comes from a 15-year-old teen whose mom passed away 2 years ago, and her dad started dating another woman eight months later. "After they got engaged, Alice approached me and said we needed to talk. She said she has a clear vision of how she wants her wedding to be and that I have to comply so that everything will be perfect," the author wrote on r/AITA. But she didn't expect her stepmom to give her such questionable directions. Turns out, the stepmom not only wanted her hair cut short, she also demanded that she not wear heels nor fake lashes. Let's see how this whole situation unfolded and make sure to leave your thoughts in the comments below. A 15-year-old teen has recently shared this complex situation she had with her stepmom who s about to marry her dad
Image credits: Tatsiana Volkava (not the actual photo) Turns out the stepmom asked her to cut her hair short among other things so that everything will be perfect but the author refused
Bored Panda reached out to the teen who shared this whole story about her dad getting married and the difficult situation that came with it. "When Alice told me her requests I was taken aback," she told us. "The flats and light makeup sounded reasonable to me but asking me to cut my hair was too much. I thought it was unfair." The author feels like she put her dad in a tight situation so she asked people if she was right to refuse her stepmom s request
However, the author is very thankful she posted her situation on Reddit. "Not only did they give me validation, I was also given good pieces of advice. I made my decision not to cut my hair because of the support I received on Reddit," she said. Having said that, the author assured us that "Alice is a nice person." "She never forced me to have a relationship with her and before this situation, we were cordial to each other. I think I can get along with her but it will depend on how she will react to my decision not cutting my hair." She later added a couple of edits and the update on her final decision
To all the daughters and sons who struggle getting along with their step parent, the teen said to learn to accept the situation. "Understand that your parent deserves to be happy." She also suggested writing "a journal where you can pour all your thoughts and emotions. It has helped me a lot, especially after my mother passed and my dad moved on too soon." "Lastly, reflect on your attitude towards your step parent. At least be polite to them even if you don't get along well," the teen in the pivot of this complex situation concluded. And this is what people had to comment on this whole situation
Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing! Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda! Share on Facebook Liucija Adomaite Liucija Adomaite Writer, BoredPanda staff Liucija Adomaite is a creative mind with years of experience in copywriting. She has a dynamic set of experiences from advertising, academia, and journalism. This time, she has set out on a journey to investigate the ways in which we communicate ideas on a large scale. Her current mission is to find a magic formula for how to make ideas, news, and other such things spread like a virus. Read more » Ilona Baliūnaitė Ilona Baliūnaitė Author, BoredPanda staff Ilona is a photo editor at Bored Panda with an MA in Communication Of Creative Society. Before Bored Panda, she worked as a social media manager and freelance graphic designer. When she is not photoshopping or searching for the most interesting photos for stories, she is usually watching good movies and says that The Godfather is the best. Read more » Show All Contributors Get the latest inspiring stories via our awesome iOS app! Download Bored Panda app! 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The nerve of this POS. Who gave her the God given right to demand such things? She is totally insecure in her own life. You should not cut your hair, as it is something you and your Mom bonded . I dont even think you should opt out of heels and fake lashes if that's what you prefer. She has absolutely no right to make such demands. When you married someone with children, you have to accept the children as well just as they are. It's a package deal. Just Wow. I am disgusted by this lady, if you can call her that. Definitely NTA at all. Stand your ground! 48 48points reply Aunt Messy Aunt Messy Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago She has a mental age of about 12. Remember, the father was already 14 years old before his new wife was BORN. 27 27points reply Load More Replies... Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago That poor girl. All the comment aside about the step mum (who is a bitch btw) I really feel for this young lady. She is between the rock and the hard place. I wish I could give her a hug. 36 36points reply FrancesCat FrancesCat Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago I had a step-monster like this growing up. Truly the evilest, most selfish, nastiest person on the planet. As the daughter, there really is nothing you can do but count your time and hope they get divorced someday. 11 11points reply Load More Replies... Marianne Marianne Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago NTA. You simply do not decide about your guests' looks, end of the discussion. (Maybe apart from not wanting your guests to wear a white dress...) Stepmom should try to get professional help if she feels so insecure about her looks that a teenager might upstage her on her own wedding. 22 22points reply Anil Anil Sahani Anil Anil Sahani Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. I basically make about $6,000-$8,000 a month online. It’s enough to comfortably replace my old jobs income, especially considering I only work about 10-13 hours a week from home. I was amazed how easy it was after I tried it….. ===))> ???.???????.??? -33 -33points reply Load More Replies... Load More Comments POST Lovin' Life Lovin' Life Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Just Wow! The nerve of this POS. Who gave her the God given right to demand such things? She is totally insecure in her own life. You should not cut your hair, as it is something you and your Mom bonded . I dont even think you should opt out of heels and fake lashes if that's what you prefer. She has absolutely no right to make such demands. When you married someone with children, you have to accept the children as well just as they are. It's a package deal. Just Wow. I am disgusted by this lady, if you can call her that. Definitely NTA at all. Stand your ground! 48 48points reply Aunt Messy Aunt Messy Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago She has a mental age of about 12. Remember, the father was already 14 years old before his new wife was BORN. 27 27points reply Load More Replies... Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago That poor girl. All the comment aside about the step mum (who is a bitch btw) I really feel for this young lady. She is between the rock and the hard place. I wish I could give her a hug. 36 36points reply FrancesCat FrancesCat Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago I had a step-monster like this growing up. Truly the evilest, most selfish, nastiest person on the planet. As the daughter, there really is nothing you can do but count your time and hope they get divorced someday. 11 11points reply Load More Replies... Marianne Marianne Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago NTA. You simply do not decide about your guests' looks, end of the discussion. (Maybe apart from not wanting your guests to wear a white dress...) Stepmom should try to get professional help if she feels so insecure about her looks that a teenager might upstage her on her own wedding. 22 22points reply Anil Anil Sahani Anil Anil Sahani Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. I basically make about $6,000-$8,000 a month online. It’s enough to comfortably replace my old jobs income, especially considering I only work about 10-13 hours a week from home. I was amazed how easy it was after I tried it….. ===))> ???.???????.??? -33 -33points reply Load More Replies... Load More Comments Popular on Bored Panda I Used AI To See What These 23 Popular Cartoon Characters Would Look Like In Real Life 30 Y.O. 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