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Woman Finally Snaps After Her BF Keeps Spoiling The Endings During Movie Night Asks Who The Real A-Hole Is
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BoredPanda staff Having a hobby that you absolutely love is great and being able to share it with someone really close to you makes it even more special. This not only means that you get to spend more time together but also helps to communicate better or even see the true colors of another person. Reddit user @Keanulove99 decided to talk about her experience of sharing the same interest in movies with her boyfriend and ask for advice seeing that they don't see eye to eye on some of the things. More Info: Reddit Sharing the same interest with your significant other is a great way to find out about each other even more
Image credits: Ginny The user revealed that she is very much into movies, she enjoys watching her favorite actors play, and she even has certain rituals that she follows when she watches them. So she and her boyfriend decided to have weekly movie nights where he would come over and they would spend their time together doing something they both like. However, the woman revealed that her boyfriend has a very annoying habit of spoiling movie endings for her. Reddit user decided to tell the story of how she tried to share the love for movies with her boyfriend
Image credits: Keanulove99 Soon she encountered a problem of her boyfriend telling her the spoilers of the movies
Image credits: Keanulove99 This kept happening, so the user decided to have a conversation with the boyfriend and ask him to stop this. The man explained this behavior as a "habit" but he agreed that it was wrong for him to act this way, so he promised to cut it. However, he did not keep his promise for long. This kept happening, so the user decided to have a conversation with the boyfriend and ask him to stop this. The man explained this behavior as a "habit" but he agreed that it was wrong for him to act this way, so he promised to cut it. However, he did not keep his promise for long. Image credits: Keanulove99 The couple decided to have their movie Thursdays as usual after the boyfriend (who the user called Andy) promised that he would not try to find the movie spoilers on the Internet. Some people might think that maybe there is nothing wrong with wanting to know something in advance, but the thing that triggered the narrator the most was that she didn't want to know the end of the movie until she saw it herself. However, the boyfriend would spoil it for her too even after she explicitly told him not to do it. Image credits: Keanulove99 The user noticed that during the movie the man was uncomfortable but he didn't do anything suspicious. That was until the girlfriend heard some noise that reminded a lot of phone keyboard when she realized that the boyfriend broke his promise and now was looking for clues about how the movie ended. This made her really mad, so she decided to stop watching movies with him as he made it really difficult for her to enjoy his company. Now the woman is thinking and asking whether she was right by reacting this way. Image credits: Keanulove99 Even though the woman insisted to stop doing this and ruining movie endings for him he still kept doing so until she decided to end their movie Thursdays
Image credits: Keanulove99 People in the comments were pretty unanimous with their decision. They found the guy being disrespectful and selfish. A lot of users even agreed that they should break up because if he doesn't take into consideration such small but clearly important things to his girlfriend, how their relationship can evolve into something more serious. What do you think about this situation? Leave your thoughts in the comments down below! People online agreed that his behavior was unacceptable and even suggested that she should break up with him
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Cold Contagious Cold Contagious Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Absolutely ! It seems like it could be a almost masochistic cycle of taking pleasure in her pain/anguish by ruining something she loves then having sex with her. It seems that he was more than a little upset about being denied the opportunity to partake of his reward that last night. It's a little disturbing how excited he seemed to be (per her story) that he had to tell her how the movie ends only moments after being warned not to on the 14th or 15th time. 4 4points reply Devil's Advocate Devil's Advocate Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Definitely this, along with therapy for the guy! I occasionally look up spoilers for TV shows rather than waiting a week or several, glance at where things go, but it's generally when they've gone from good to hit-and-miss, and never for movies. This guy has some weird compulsion and needs to stop, nobody likes spoilers, but especially not when you've told them!! 2 2points reply Leah L Leah L Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago I’m seeing a trend on these advice threads. Dysfunctional relationships that people are desperate to make functional. It’s never about the issue at hand but what’s underneath. In this case he doesn’t respect or value her. This will manifest in a hundred other ways down the line. While perhaps fixable it’s early enough in the relationship that she should just find better 60 60points reply Azure Adams Azure Adams Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago nailed it! 15 15points reply Load More Replies... Night Owl Night Owl Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago (edited) He doesn't respect her at all and seems to get some sadistic pleasure out of hurting her and expects her to accept him doing it because it's just how he is and can't (in reality doesn't want to) change. And they had usually sex after so I guess they sometimes had sex even after he spoiled a movie. She should respect herself more and don't accept anyone's disrespectful behavior towards her, especially not from someone she's dating/in relationship with 8 8points reply Marnie Marnie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Agreed. And how is it possible that this man has never been yelled at before for this behavior? Probably not possible. He says it's a habit that is hard to break. I would bet quite a bit that he knew it was a bad habit and never tried to break it because he's quite simply an a**hole. Probably respects no one. 1 1point reply FrancesCat FrancesCat Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago What Leah said, 1,000 times! It may seem like a little thing but this guy fully disrespects his gf, and he/it will only get worse over time. #DTMFA. 1 1point reply LeilaOdinis LeilaOdinis Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Spoiled 14 movies. I would have dumped him after the second time he did it. What a manipulative dong. 49 49points reply Night Owl Night Owl Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago (edited) Me too. First time I would explain why it's important to me and ask him to please stop doing it, second time it's over. 20 20points reply Load More Replies... Otter Otter Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago I might have given him 3 or 4 chances, if he had other qualities that made me want to stay with him. Without those other chances, it'd have been over the 1st or 2nd time. I'm not a very forgiving person. 6 6points reply Katchen Katchen Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me 14 times, shame on me. 5 5points reply Load More Comments POST D H D H Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago She should have texted him "Hey Andy, here's a spoiler I looked up, we do not have a happy ending and I end up dumping you" 84 84points reply Assistant to DJ Assistant to DJ Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago THIS. 10 10points reply Load More Replies... Cold Contagious Cold Contagious Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Absolutely ! It seems like it could be a almost masochistic cycle of taking pleasure in her pain/anguish by ruining something she loves then having sex with her. It seems that he was more than a little upset about being denied the opportunity to partake of his reward that last night. It's a little disturbing how excited he seemed to be (per her story) that he had to tell her how the movie ends only moments after being warned not to on the 14th or 15th time. 4 4points reply Devil's Advocate Devil's Advocate Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Definitely this, along with therapy for the guy! I occasionally look up spoilers for TV shows rather than waiting a week or several, glance at where things go, but it's generally when they've gone from good to hit-and-miss, and never for movies. This guy has some weird compulsion and needs to stop, nobody likes spoilers, but especially not when you've told them!! 2 2points reply Leah L Leah L Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago I’m seeing a trend on these advice threads. Dysfunctional relationships that people are desperate to make functional. It’s never about the issue at hand but what’s underneath. In this case he doesn’t respect or value her. This will manifest in a hundred other ways down the line. While perhaps fixable it’s early enough in the relationship that she should just find better 60 60points reply Azure Adams Azure Adams Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago nailed it! 15 15points reply Load More Replies... Night Owl Night Owl Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago (edited) He doesn't respect her at all and seems to get some sadistic pleasure out of hurting her and expects her to accept him doing it because it's just how he is and can't (in reality doesn't want to) change. And they had usually sex after so I guess they sometimes had sex even after he spoiled a movie. She should respect herself more and don't accept anyone's disrespectful behavior towards her, especially not from someone she's dating/in relationship with 8 8points reply Marnie Marnie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Agreed. And how is it possible that this man has never been yelled at before for this behavior? Probably not possible. He says it's a habit that is hard to break. I would bet quite a bit that he knew it was a bad habit and never tried to break it because he's quite simply an a**hole. Probably respects no one. 1 1point reply FrancesCat FrancesCat Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago What Leah said, 1,000 times! It may seem like a little thing but this guy fully disrespects his gf, and he/it will only get worse over time. #DTMFA. 1 1point reply LeilaOdinis LeilaOdinis Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Spoiled 14 movies. I would have dumped him after the second time he did it. What a manipulative dong. 49 49points reply Night Owl Night Owl Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago (edited) Me too. First time I would explain why it's important to me and ask him to please stop doing it, second time it's over. 20 20points reply Load More Replies... Otter Otter Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago I might have given him 3 or 4 chances, if he had other qualities that made me want to stay with him. Without those other chances, it'd have been over the 1st or 2nd time. I'm not a very forgiving person. 6 6points reply Katchen Katchen Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me 14 times, shame on me. 5 5points reply Load More Comments Popular on Bored Panda I Used AI To See What These 23 Popular Cartoon Characters Would Look Like In Real Life 30 Y.O. 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