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“ We Have Two Rooms Available” Woman Is Confused After Fiancé Refuses To Let Her Family Move In For A While Even Though She Helped His Family Years Ago

Konstancija Gasaitytė and
Saulė Tolstych
Maintaining a strong and healthy relationship takes a lot of work. Especially when life throws some challenges to test it along the way. However, these tough times show how committed people really are to each other. Having this in mind, Reddit user @62vdo2nns addressed people online by asking them if she was right for asking her fiancé to keep his word and help her mother in times of need. The story received almost 18k upvotes and sparked a discussion with 1.3k comments. More Info: Reddit

Caring for your significant other s family can be seen as a sign of a strong and serious relationship

Image credits: Amanda Mills The user started her story by stating that 3 years ago, her fiancé's mother needed a place to stay as she was not on good terms with her boyfriend. At that time, the user and her fiancé lived in a 2-bedroom apartment. One of these rooms was made into an office for the woman because she worked from home. Despite the fact that there wasn't a lot of space and the woman had to give up her "office" space for this, she agreed to help because her fiancé assured her that "When the day comes, you know I would do the same for you if your family ever needed it."

A concerned user online asked if she was wrong for asking her fiancé to let her family live with them for a while

Image credits: 62vdo2nns

The user shared a situation that occurred 3 years ago when her fiancé s mother asked to move in with them and the woman agreed

Image credits: 62vdo2nns The original poster also added that the place where her fiancé's mother lived was actually hers and so the user didn't quite understand why she wanted to move in with them anyway. After a few months of living with them and not helping at all in the apartment, the mother left for her boyfriend. The woman continued her story by telling that after some time, they moved into a bigger house with 4 bedrooms as they were hoping to expand their family. One day, the user found out that her mother and her two siblings lost the place they lived in due to foreclosure. Having in mind that they had 2 empty rooms and that her fiancé had promised to help in similar situations, the woman asked him if her family could live with them for a bit. Image credits: 62vdo2nns The man replied that he doesn't feel comfortable knowing that her family will live with them for a while. This is when the woman reminded him of the things he said a few years ago. However, the fiancé still didn't agree as he didn't want "two teenagers running the house." The woman asked people online whether she is wrong for pushing him to do something he is not comfortable with. Image credits: 62vdo2nns

Now the user feels that her fiancé didn t keep his promise to show the same kindness that she showed when his mother was in a though situation

Image credits: 62vdo2nns People in the comments section were agreeing with the user that it is about time he stuck to his word. A lot of users also noticed that this shouldn't be something the couple should be arguing about because it involves family and the right thing to do is to help them as much as possible. Some users even shared their own experiences, questioning whether this couple should even stay together. What is your take on this situation? Don't forget to leave your thoughts in the comments down below!

People online all agreed that this is not how her fiancé should ve reacted

Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing! Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda! Share on Facebook Konstancija Gasaitytė Konstancija Gasaitytė Writer, BoredPanda staff Konstancija is a Content Creator at Bored Panda. She has a bachelor’s degree in Translation and Interpreting and a master’s degree in Future Media and Journalism. She is very interested in sustainable fashion and is a perfect companion to go to second-hand shops and antiques for nearly anything: clothes, books or furniture. Her interests also include photography, literature and hiking. Read more » Saulė Tolstych Follow Unfollow Saulė Tolstych Author, BoredPanda staff Saulė is a photo editor at Bored Panda with bachelor's degree in Multimedia and Computer Design. The thing that relaxes her the best is going into YouTube rabbit hole. In her free time she loves painting, embroidering and taking walks in nature. 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I'd get rid of your fiance', OP, because apparently your family doesn't matter to him and he reneged on that offer. So, you aren't that important to him either. 28 28points reply A Head A Head Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago The husband is the A all the way. I will say, though, that if Senior-Term-635 thinks that two 14 y.o. boys (who would be living in the same room, sounds like) will follow rules to the letter, and not damage the house in any way, they're living in a dream world. Speaking as someone who has 15 and 14 y.o. kids. I think the smell of their bedrooms has lowered the value of our house by 10-15%.... 5 5points reply Load More Replies... Kat Kat Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago I also have 2 teenagers and they don't smell and clean their room etc. Maybe it's about the upbringing... 3 3points reply classbag classbag Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago (edited) This comment is hidden. Click here to view. *reneged I wouldn't normally bother correcting you, but that misspelling is a serious faux pas. -8 -8points reply WilvanderHeijden WilvanderHeijden Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 1 year ago Jessica LanSpe didn't weave in the misspelling to make some racist joke. Shame on you for implying that. 4 4points reply BigOrangeTractor BigOrangeTractor Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 1 year ago (edited) That's what a faux pas is though, an unintentional social misstep. (Not sure I'd call this one 'serious' though; its meaning is clear from the context). 7 7points reply Stephanie IV Stephanie IV Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago (edited) Shame on you for thinking they did. 0 0points reply VogueGal VogueGal Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago NTA, and RUN! He's not a good partner in long term for you or for anyone until he realizes he needs to grow up and understand that relationship involves respect and compromise from both sides. 21 21points reply Nikole Nikole Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Dump the jackass. He's just going to keep pulling s**t like this. 21 21points reply Load More Comments POST Jessica LanSpe Jessica LanSpe Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago (edited) I completely agree with Senior-Term-635 above. I'd get rid of your fiance', OP, because apparently your family doesn't matter to him and he reneged on that offer. So, you aren't that important to him either. 28 28points reply A Head A Head Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago The husband is the A all the way. I will say, though, that if Senior-Term-635 thinks that two 14 y.o. boys (who would be living in the same room, sounds like) will follow rules to the letter, and not damage the house in any way, they're living in a dream world. Speaking as someone who has 15 and 14 y.o. kids. I think the smell of their bedrooms has lowered the value of our house by 10-15%.... 5 5points reply Load More Replies... Kat Kat Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago I also have 2 teenagers and they don't smell and clean their room etc. Maybe it's about the upbringing... 3 3points reply classbag classbag Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago (edited) This comment is hidden. Click here to view. *reneged I wouldn't normally bother correcting you, but that misspelling is a serious faux pas. -8 -8points reply WilvanderHeijden WilvanderHeijden Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 1 year ago Jessica LanSpe didn't weave in the misspelling to make some racist joke. Shame on you for implying that. 4 4points reply BigOrangeTractor BigOrangeTractor Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 1 year ago (edited) That's what a faux pas is though, an unintentional social misstep. (Not sure I'd call this one 'serious' though; its meaning is clear from the context). 7 7points reply Stephanie IV Stephanie IV Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago (edited) Shame on you for thinking they did. 0 0points reply VogueGal VogueGal Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago NTA, and RUN! He's not a good partner in long term for you or for anyone until he realizes he needs to grow up and understand that relationship involves respect and compromise from both sides. 21 21points reply Nikole Nikole Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 year ago Dump the jackass. He's just going to keep pulling s**t like this. 21 21points reply Load More Comments Popular on Bored Panda I Used AI To See What These 23 Popular Cartoon Characters Would Look Like In Real Life 30 Y.O. 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