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This Student Asks People Online If She Ruined Her Classmate’ s Career By Reporting Him For His Aggressive Behavior
Konstancija Gasaitytė
BoredPanda staff Having a bright and successful future for a lot of people means working and studying hard from a very early age. For this reason, a lot of young students try to get the best grades possible and to snatch a place at highly prestigious internships that might lead to getting a job there. What we tend to forget sometimes is that studying and working hard are not the only things that are taken into consideration when someone wants to hire you. A good worker also has to have morals and principles that they follow. However, not everyone thinks so and this story that was shared on Reddit perfectly illustrates that. Reddit user @Anonymous33- decided to share the situation that she was involved in and to ask for people's advice. More Info: Reddit Being a student comes with its own challenges that at the end of the day make them more prepared for life
Image credits: m00by The woman who is a 20-year-old student shared that a lot of students in her country try to find an internship during their college years because it increases their chances of getting a better job in the future. The author of the story also shared that she's been talking with a guy she called R, adding that they are also in the same study program. A college student decided to share a story of a time she refused to go on a date with a guy who was her classmate
Image credits: Anonymous33- The Redditor continued her story by saying that R started flirting with her and even asked her out. The woman politely declined the invitation and even apologized if she'd made an impression that she was interested in him. After this, R was gone, but not for long. After a couple of days, he was back and asked her out again, to which she gave the same answer. The guy justified his absence by saying that he gave her some time to rethink her answer. This got the woman mad and so she asked him to leave her alone. Image credits: Anonymous33- After her refusal the guy started harassing her to which she reacted by confronting him on social media
Image credits: Anonymous33- This conversation got to a point where R got mad and called the student "all the names under the moon" after which she blocked him and his friends who were on his side and were starting to pick on her too. This made the narrator go on social media and tell her followers about the situation and also add screenshots of their conversations. One of the people who saw her stories was a placement mentor at her college. This person found this behavior of R to be appalling, so he told the head of the department about this situation Soon responsible people at her college found out about this and suspended the guy
Image credits: Anonymous33- One of the professors at this college decided that she should forgive him so he could have his internship back
Image credits: Anonymous33- Soon after, the woman was called to his office to prove that this all really happened and provide them with proof. As it turned out, this behavior is not tolerated in their college and could lead to suspension. R got suspended for 3 months and lost his internship at a prestigious government company. After hearing this, a professor, who was indicated as professor P and who liked R very much, called the woman to his office and pushed her to take back what was said about student R. What followed later was a meeting with the head of the department, professor P, R, and his parents as well as the narrator of the story. When she was asked if she was willing to forgive him, she refused, so his punishment continued. This made his parents and the professor get mad at the young woman who they saw as ruining his career and accused her of doing all of this because she sees him as his competitor. Image credits: Anonymous33- The woman declined to let him get away with this making a lot of people at her college say that she took this too far
Image credits: Anonymous33- The woman revealed that now that their internship has started, she doesn't feel good about all of this and is doubting her choices because she feels pressure from other people. A lot of her groupmates tell her that she took it too far and now ruined this guy's future. People online disagreed with this, saying that it was his own fault and that people like him shouldn't be given such internship opportunities in the first place. This story opened a discussion about how women are treated and what horrible situations they have to go through every day. What is your take on this situation? Don't forget to leave your thoughts in the comments down below! Despite the student doubting her choices a lot of users online supported her and said that what she did was totally right
The woman elaborated a little bit more on the situation in the comments section
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Man behaves abusively towards a woman because she turned him down. Man gets called out for it and punished for his actions. Everyone turns on the woman for "ruining his career." Victim blaming at its worst. 81 81points reply qwerty qwerty Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 11 months ago Because even though we live in the 21st century, a man's career is still valued more than a woman's safety. 47 47points reply Load More Replies... Full Nameю Full Nameю Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Thankfully always was and always will be. Absolutely. -27 -27points reply K Witmer K Witmer Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago There's something deeply wrong w you? How many times have you've been arrested for touching people wo their consent? I bet you it's been quite a few times. Your parents must be absolutely vile to have raised someone like you. People like your parents shouldn't be allowed to have children bc then we get men like you that contribute nothing to society but make it worse for everyone. Honestly your parents are criminally responsible. All of you belong in prison where you can be w your own kind of violent abusers. 1 1point reply Full Nameю Full Nameю Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Don't have kid's. If persistent pain in a butt makes it okay to wipe out entire generations. She lead him on & dropped him. Hopefully he's the Dr & she's the patient. He'll remember what she did. Instead of leaving it alone. She manufacturered the circumstances. She'd be the type who'd invite someone over & claim the man was a trespasser. Get him arrested. -25 -25points reply GenericPanda09 GenericPanda09 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 11 months ago People can change their shitty attitudes, but rarely are they ever motivated to learn and change them if they never face any real consequences. Also...for christ's sake people (tbf, mostly guys it seems) why the hell do so many get butthurt and nasty just because someone doesn't want to go out with them? It's one of those traits that I think indicates much nastier traits are just under the surface waiting to come out when someone freaks the f**k out just because they're told 'no'. 38 38points reply Little Miss Killjoy Little Miss Killjoy Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Professor P is just such an asshole, she rightfully reported R for harassing her, and then there's just this shithead who is too sexist for his own good and is now blaming her when she did absolutely nothing wrong! She should report Professor P. She has every right, and he would deserve it. 14 14points reply Load More Comments POST BusyLizzy BusyLizzy Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago And here is everything that is wrong with the system. Man behaves abusively towards a woman because she turned him down. Man gets called out for it and punished for his actions. Everyone turns on the woman for "ruining his career." Victim blaming at its worst. 81 81points reply qwerty qwerty Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 11 months ago Because even though we live in the 21st century, a man's career is still valued more than a woman's safety. 47 47points reply Load More Replies... Full Nameю Full Nameю Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Thankfully always was and always will be. Absolutely. -27 -27points reply K Witmer K Witmer Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago There's something deeply wrong w you? How many times have you've been arrested for touching people wo their consent? I bet you it's been quite a few times. Your parents must be absolutely vile to have raised someone like you. People like your parents shouldn't be allowed to have children bc then we get men like you that contribute nothing to society but make it worse for everyone. Honestly your parents are criminally responsible. All of you belong in prison where you can be w your own kind of violent abusers. 1 1point reply Full Nameю Full Nameю Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Don't have kid's. If persistent pain in a butt makes it okay to wipe out entire generations. She lead him on & dropped him. Hopefully he's the Dr & she's the patient. He'll remember what she did. Instead of leaving it alone. She manufacturered the circumstances. She'd be the type who'd invite someone over & claim the man was a trespasser. Get him arrested. -25 -25points reply GenericPanda09 GenericPanda09 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 11 months ago People can change their shitty attitudes, but rarely are they ever motivated to learn and change them if they never face any real consequences. Also...for christ's sake people (tbf, mostly guys it seems) why the hell do so many get butthurt and nasty just because someone doesn't want to go out with them? It's one of those traits that I think indicates much nastier traits are just under the surface waiting to come out when someone freaks the f**k out just because they're told 'no'. 38 38points reply Little Miss Killjoy Little Miss Killjoy Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Professor P is just such an asshole, she rightfully reported R for harassing her, and then there's just this shithead who is too sexist for his own good and is now blaming her when she did absolutely nothing wrong! She should report Professor P. She has every right, and he would deserve it. 14 14points reply Load More Comments Popular on Bored Panda I Used AI To See What These 23 Popular Cartoon Characters Would Look Like In Real Life 30 Y.O. 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