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Dad Texts Wife The Kitchen Is On Fire Because He’ s Mad She Left Him With Baby Longer Than Expected It Backfires When Cops Show Up

Ilona Baliūnaitė and
Liucija Adomaite
It's no secret that being a stay-at-home mom is one of the most draining, physically and mentally demanding duties many women go through at some point in their lives. Studies suggest that stay-at-home moms report more depression, sadness, and anger, and that's without taking into account societal pressure or getting overlooked altogether. So this story from a fully exhausted 31-year-old SAH mom with a husband who's working full-time shows the level of insanity so many women experience in what should be the comfort of their home. "My sister's wedding is coming up and we already received an invite, but the thing is, I had to go dress shopping and get my hair done. I asked my husband on his day off if he could stay with our son for just 2 hours," the woman who goes by u/Adjust-Ad3654 wrote on the AITA subreddit. It seemed that the husband was less than happy with the prospect but finally "he shrugged, saying 'fine, go… but 2 hours and not a minute more!'" Not only did he keep calling her every ten minutes asking when she'd be back, he sent her heart to her heels by texting something no mom would ever wish to hear. If that's not manipulation at its worst, I don't know what is. Read the full story below, and be sure to share your thoughts in the comment section.

One woman has recently shared a story of how her husband got so mad she left him with their baby  and didn t come back home earlier he sent her a false text to frighten her br

Image credits: Helena Lopes (not the actual photo)

And this is what people commented on this whole situation

Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing! Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda! Share on Facebook Ilona Baliūnaitė Ilona Baliūnaitė Author, BoredPanda staff Ilona is a photo editor at Bored Panda with an MA in Communication Of Creative Society. Before Bored Panda, she worked as a social media manager and freelance graphic designer. When she is not photoshopping or searching for the most interesting photos for stories, she is usually watching good movies and says that The Godfather is the best. Read more » Liucija Adomaite Liucija Adomaite Writer, BoredPanda staff Liucija Adomaite is a creative mind with years of experience in copywriting. She has a dynamic set of experiences from advertising, academia, and journalism. This time, she has set out on a journey to investigate the ways in which we communicate ideas on a large scale. 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He has to watch the (his!) child for 4 hours and can't handle it? Maybe he's the provider of the familiy, but guess what: Taking care of a child and managing the house and everything else is often enough way more work than actual "work" is. When does his wife get a day off from her work? The way he treats his wife and kid is just aweful and disrespectful in many ways. Often enough both parents have to go to work and have to take care of their kids and the house. That's what most people have to deal with. Maybe someone should grow-up and stop acting like a spoiled child himself. 84 84points reply Sinkvenice Sinkvenice Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago Nah. You don't sound harsh at all; be harsher! :-) I just posted a comment saying that him and his family sound like utter c**ts. 40 40points reply Load More Replies... Ozacoter Ozacoter Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 10 months ago Exactly. People dont understand that a homemaker is expected to work 24/7 with no days off, holidays or sick leave. F**k it. The husband works full time and so does she. When he is off they are both on duty not only her. 14 14points reply Leo Domitrix Leo Domitrix Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago You're kinder than I'd be, @Marc! 7 7points reply Ashlea Saunders Ashlea Saunders Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago You're totally right about a paid occupation being less work than being a SAHM. There's a reason I'm a childless 35yr old woman. It's because I like that work had an end time. My sister is a SAHM to 4 children and I have no clue how she does it and I respect her immensely for it. 3 3points reply Martha Meyer Martha Meyer Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago It sounds like he'd never been alone with his baby before. The problems here started long before she needed to go to a salon and get her hair done. The whole SAHM model is f****d up. 3 3points reply Mewton’s Third Paw Mewton’s Third Paw Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. It’s not about who has it harder. And we don’t know what his job is. That’s a bad take. The real issue is the money. It’s not up to him to decide to pay for a babysitter or not. Fine if he’s tired from work, but there’s no excuse for financial abuse and withholding money. If she wanted a sitter that’s up to her. -8 -8points reply EEP EEP Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago It doesn't matter what his job is, it's not a 24/7 job so why does the wife have to be on duty 24/7? An equal approach would be for her to do housework and care for the baby when the husband is working. The rest of the time these tasks should be shared. 9 9points reply Sinkvenice Sinkvenice Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago Wow. Just... wow. This dude has serious problems that need to be addressed immediately. He thinks she lied to him, which is an unbelievably moronic thing to say, so his solution is to lie to her about the kitchen being on fire; WTF? Him and his family all sound like utter c**ts. He's throwing a temper tantrum because he has to look after the son he created and his family are angry because it was his one day off; He should’ve been looking forward to spending a whole day with his son. What's the point of being a parent if he's going to whinge about spending an incredibly short amount of time with his child? If what this woman says is completely accurate, there are so many red flags it looks like a field of poppies… or a field of red flags even :-) This is abhorrent, it’s emotional abuse. Either she needs to leave him or they both go to some sort of counselling. For the sake of their kid, at least. Hopefully their son will never know about this. 49 49points reply Viviane Viviane Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago (edited) I don't think the counseling will work on his end (especially if he has to pay for it), but worth a shot. His family reinforces his behaviour by taking his side - he obviously looks to them for confirmation that his wife is the bad one in every situation. 30 30points reply Load More Replies... Sinkvenice Sinkvenice Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago Oh yes, his family are complete enablers. I wonder why the OP wanted to marry and have a child with someone who's still attached to mummy by the umbilical cord. Pathetic. 7 7points reply Frankenfrog Frankenfrog Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago He's a baby himself. He probably never wanted a child, but was pushed into it. He obviously needs to be sent back to his own mum for a proper smacking over the head. What an absolute idiot 0 0points reply Beth S Beth S Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago Absolutely NTA... I would like to offer this piece of advice - run. 32 32points reply Squiddles Squiddles Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago I know most people don’t like suggesting divorce…but yeah do it while you haven’t been out of the work force for too long. Do not trust this man, he’s emotionally abusive and his family supports it. Sharing joint custody is better than getting deeper and deeper into that. 8 8points reply Load More Replies... Load More Comments POST Marc Marc Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago I might sound a bit harsh with what I say, but - What a cry baby! He has to watch the (his!) child for 4 hours and can't handle it? Maybe he's the provider of the familiy, but guess what: Taking care of a child and managing the house and everything else is often enough way more work than actual "work" is. When does his wife get a day off from her work? The way he treats his wife and kid is just aweful and disrespectful in many ways. Often enough both parents have to go to work and have to take care of their kids and the house. That's what most people have to deal with. Maybe someone should grow-up and stop acting like a spoiled child himself. 84 84points reply Sinkvenice Sinkvenice Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago Nah. You don't sound harsh at all; be harsher! :-) I just posted a comment saying that him and his family sound like utter c**ts. 40 40points reply Load More Replies... Ozacoter Ozacoter Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 10 months ago Exactly. People dont understand that a homemaker is expected to work 24/7 with no days off, holidays or sick leave. F**k it. The husband works full time and so does she. When he is off they are both on duty not only her. 14 14points reply Leo Domitrix Leo Domitrix Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago You're kinder than I'd be, @Marc! 7 7points reply Ashlea Saunders Ashlea Saunders Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago You're totally right about a paid occupation being less work than being a SAHM. There's a reason I'm a childless 35yr old woman. It's because I like that work had an end time. My sister is a SAHM to 4 children and I have no clue how she does it and I respect her immensely for it. 3 3points reply Martha Meyer Martha Meyer Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago It sounds like he'd never been alone with his baby before. The problems here started long before she needed to go to a salon and get her hair done. The whole SAHM model is f****d up. 3 3points reply Mewton’s Third Paw Mewton’s Third Paw Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. It’s not about who has it harder. And we don’t know what his job is. That’s a bad take. The real issue is the money. It’s not up to him to decide to pay for a babysitter or not. Fine if he’s tired from work, but there’s no excuse for financial abuse and withholding money. If she wanted a sitter that’s up to her. -8 -8points reply EEP EEP Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago It doesn't matter what his job is, it's not a 24/7 job so why does the wife have to be on duty 24/7? An equal approach would be for her to do housework and care for the baby when the husband is working. The rest of the time these tasks should be shared. 9 9points reply Sinkvenice Sinkvenice Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago Wow. Just... wow. This dude has serious problems that need to be addressed immediately. He thinks she lied to him, which is an unbelievably moronic thing to say, so his solution is to lie to her about the kitchen being on fire; WTF? Him and his family all sound like utter c**ts. He's throwing a temper tantrum because he has to look after the son he created and his family are angry because it was his one day off; He should’ve been looking forward to spending a whole day with his son. What's the point of being a parent if he's going to whinge about spending an incredibly short amount of time with his child? If what this woman says is completely accurate, there are so many red flags it looks like a field of poppies… or a field of red flags even :-) This is abhorrent, it’s emotional abuse. Either she needs to leave him or they both go to some sort of counselling. For the sake of their kid, at least. Hopefully their son will never know about this. 49 49points reply Viviane Viviane Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago (edited) I don't think the counseling will work on his end (especially if he has to pay for it), but worth a shot. His family reinforces his behaviour by taking his side - he obviously looks to them for confirmation that his wife is the bad one in every situation. 30 30points reply Load More Replies... Sinkvenice Sinkvenice Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago Oh yes, his family are complete enablers. I wonder why the OP wanted to marry and have a child with someone who's still attached to mummy by the umbilical cord. Pathetic. 7 7points reply Frankenfrog Frankenfrog Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago He's a baby himself. He probably never wanted a child, but was pushed into it. He obviously needs to be sent back to his own mum for a proper smacking over the head. What an absolute idiot 0 0points reply Beth S Beth S Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago Absolutely NTA... I would like to offer this piece of advice - run. 32 32points reply Squiddles Squiddles Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago I know most people don’t like suggesting divorce…but yeah do it while you haven’t been out of the work force for too long. Do not trust this man, he’s emotionally abusive and his family supports it. Sharing joint custody is better than getting deeper and deeper into that. 8 8points reply Load More Replies... Load More Comments Popular on Bored Panda I Used AI To See What These 23 Popular Cartoon Characters Would Look Like In Real Life 30 Y.O. 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