Parents Kick Out Their Daughter For Coming Out As Trans Their DIL Gets Revenge On Them That Ends With Them Having To Sell Their House Bored Panda Bored Panda works better on our iPhone app Continue in app Continue in browser Like what you're reading? Subscribe to our top stories Please enter email address By submitting email you agree to get Bored Panda newsletter. We respect your privacy. We will not publish or share your email address in any way. Almost finished... To complete the subscription process, please click the link in the email we just sent you. Almost finished... To complete the subscription process, please click the link in the email we just sent you. Are you leaving already? Are you sure you want to post this? We're asking people to rethink comments that seem similar to others that have been reported or downvoted this warning is a mistake x x Let's fight boredom together! Continue with Facebook Continue with Google or Log In Don't have an account? Sign Up Forgot your password? Creating an account means you agree with Bored Panda's Terms of Service 0, text: error()"> Become a member Sign Up Have an account? Login Forgot your password? Creating an account means you agree with Bored Panda's Terms of Service 0, text: error(), css: errorCssClass"> Password reminder Please provide your email address and we will send your password shortly. Send Have an account? Login Don't have an account? Sign Up Get our top 10 stories in your inbox: Finish 0, text: error(), css: errorCssClass"> Please enter your email to complete registration Finish 0, text: error(), css: errorCssClass"> Activate to continue Your account is not active. We have sent an email to the address you provided with an activation link. Check your inbox, and click on the link to activate your account. I have already activated my account Resend activation link We and our trusted partners use technology such as cookies on our site to personalize content and ads, provide social media features, and analyze our traffic. You can read more about it and change your preferences here. Agree Bored Panda iOS App Available on App Store Continue in App Bored Panda Android App Available on Google Play Continue in App By using our services you agree to our use of cookies to improve your visit. You can change your preferences here. Agree BoredPanda Login Add Post Search ArtPhotographyAnimalsFunnyTravelIllustrationComicsDIYGood NewsParentingChallengeAsk Pandas More Featured Trending Latest Newsletter The Bored Panda iOS app is live! Fight boredom with iPhones and iPads here. Bored Panda Parents Kick Out Their Daughter For Coming Out As Trans Their DIL Gets Revenge On Them That Ends With Them Having To Sell Their House Home Partnership Advertise Success stories Jobs About us Contact 180points 5.7K People, Relationships9 months ago
Parents Kick Out Their Daughter For Coming Out As Trans Their DIL Gets Revenge On Them That Ends With Them Having To Sell Their House
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BoredPanda staff There might be some struggles that every family has to overcome or situations where people close to each other don't actually see eye-to-eye on things. Usually, when these cases happen, family members find a way to solve these problems, but not everyone is successful in finding the right solution. That is what happened to Reddit user @LivingBunch6371, who decided to share some family drama. The woman revealed how she found a way to teach her in-laws a lesson after their kicked out their 18-year-old daughter because she came out as transgender. This enraged her parents who then threw her out without any things, money, or documents. More Info: Reddit Sometimes family disputes are unavoidable but very often people do everything they can to solve them the best way possible
Image credits: Nina Hale The user started her story by explaining how she and her husband had to take care of her 18-year-old sister-in-law after she was kicked out of her parents' house without her things, documents and money. The parents didn't take the news that their kid is transgender well, so they decided to cut all ties with her, not allowing her to take any of her things; they cleared out her bank account where she had her own savings and sold her car. One Reddit user decided to share a complicated family situation that ended in her plotting a revenge plan against her in-laws
Image credits: LivingBunch6371 The woman shared that her sister-in-law was kicked out of the house after she came out as transgender
Image credits: LivingBunch6371 Other relatives, including the narrator, her husband, and her brother-in-law were shocked by the parents' behavior. Their actions made the rest of the family stop talking to them, but the woman didn't think that this was enough of a punishment knowing that they not only turned their back against their own kid but also tried to ruin her life in every way possible. So she came up with a plan that also involved her workplace. After not being able to bring her in-laws to sense the narrator came up with the idea to sabotage their business
Image credits: LivingBunch6371 The narrator revealed that her workplace was a client of a business operated by her father-in-law. After this incident, the woman talked with her boss about it and he suggested that if she found a new place from which they could buy their supplies, they could switch to them. The woman took some extra time to work on this task and found someone more suitable for their company. But instead of going to her boss right away, the narrator revealed that she waited until her in-laws started to remodel their home and would need all the finances to cover it. The woman took some time to find a new business that could provide supplies to her workplace that used her in-laws services
Image credits: LivingBunch6371 When the timing was right, her company switched to a new client because they didn't have an agreement to stick with her father-in-law's business, so this way he couldn't do anything about the situation. This change resulted in her father-in-law having to sell their house in order to save their business. The woman also revealed that after that, they weren't able to buy a new house and are still upset about the whole revenge plan taking place. The plan resulted in them having to sell their house as their business had flopped
Image credits: LivingBunch6371 A lot of people online were shocked by the parents' decision to disown their daughter, so they agreed that the way the narrator handled the situation was great. Users questioned the parents and their choices, not understanding why and how they could do this to their daughter. What do you think about this situation? Don't forget to leave your thoughts in the comments down below! People online couldn t believe that the parents turned their back against their daughter
So they thought that the user s revenge plan was the right thing to do in order to teach the parents a lesson
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They told us that if we were a member of the LGBTQ+ community that they would love us the same. I don't understand how these parents could not only throw their daughter out but also take everything away from her. They were essentially setting her up to fail hoping that would change how she feels. She is so blessed to have such amazing siblings and siblings in law. Children are not put on this earth for their parents to abandon them when times get tough. Children are gifts from God and it is a parents job to love them unconditionally. 54 54points reply v v Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Religion. People put more love and devotion into an imaginary thing than they do the flesh and blood people right in front of them. It doesn't even matter if that person is there own flesh and blood. 8 8points reply Load More Replies... Suzi Q Suzi Q Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Exactly! Children aren't there to live the life they choose. It's awful how these judgmental parents think they can dictate who their children love or who they want to be. They acted on hate against their own child. It's hard to imagine that hate against the LGBT+ can be stronger than the love of their own child. Something is seriously wrong with those parents. They deserve what they got. 2 2points reply Chris Hutchinson Chris Hutchinson Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago I agree totally with what you say! We told our kids that there was nothing they could do that would stop us loving them. We are still very close as they enter their thirties and I cannot think of any other way I would want our lives! 0 0points reply The Red Panda (she/her) The Red Panda (she/her) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago (edited) Whoever these parents are, I hope someone comes along and f**ks up their lives even more. I am transgender and lesbian and have heard enough of these stories to hate people who would do this with every particle in my body. That is just evil, and those parents/in-laws deserve whatever is coming to them. EDIT: Everyone discounting Ryan Parker, Istax, and Devil's Advocate, thank you for being so supportive and defending me. The aforementioned transphobes, go f**k off. 37 37points reply Istax Istax Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago "transgender lesbian"... you mean you're a straight dude? 0 0points reply Load More Replies... The Red Panda (she/her) The Red Panda (she/her) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago You mean you are a transphobe? I know who I am, so STFU. 0 0points reply Lukas-not-Luca (he/him) Lukas-not-Luca (he/him) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 8 months ago Can't reply directly to devil's advocate, so I'll do it here. First off, Red Panda, I fully support you. I'm also trans and people like them... *sigh*. Now, Devil's Advocate, I'm speaking to you. She didn't decide anything. Your assigned gender at birth and gender identity has nothing to do with your sexuality. To put it simply- gender is who you want to have sex as, sexuality is who you want to have sex with. So, using the label of transgender woman and lesbian, we can assume (though this may not be the case), that she wants to have sex as a girl, with a girl. My labels, being a transgender guy and bisexual, mean I want to have sex as a guy with both guys and girls (and any other gender, I just use the term bisexual or queer). Hope that helps! 0 0points reply Ryan Parker Ryan Parker Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Talk about hate?!?! You people are FULL of hate towards anyone who just simply disagrees with, or doesn't accept your mental disorder as something normal. -23 -23points reply Vera1 Vera1 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Being transgender is NOT a mental disorder 9 9points reply Ryan Parker Ryan Parker Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. It absolutely is!! It's called Gender Identity Disorder. -4 -4points reply Say What Say What Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago You're kidding, right? They didn't simply disagree, they did everything in their power to ruin her life including making her homeless and stealing all her money. Also, you're a complete hypocrite for calling the commenters FULL of hate for simply disagreeing with the parents. You're an even bigger hypocrite for giving a pass to the parents who are FULL of hate for their daughter. Your bias is astounding. 9 9points reply Ryan Parker Ryan Parker Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Sure, maybe the parents HATE that their son (or "daughter", or whatever) has this mental disorder. Another example of the massive damage these kinds of decisions cause. -5 -5points reply Bisces Bisces Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 8 months ago You're a walking disorder 1 1point reply Lukas-not-Luca (he/him) Lukas-not-Luca (he/him) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 8 months ago What the actual f**k. There are no f*****g decisions. I'm trans and trust me if I had the choice?! I'd never choose this. Each day is a living hell because I'm f*****g trapped in a body that isn't mine. It's not a f*****g choice, and it's not a mental disease. Maybe, like being queer, it was ORIGINALLY classified as a mental disorder, but I assure you, it's not. So, maybe f**k off. 1 1point reply Istax Istax Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago you say you're "trapped in a body that isn't mine"? sure, you may hate your body - that's called dysmorphia. this whole situation seems very similar to anorexia: you think your body is wrong, and want to change it, mutilate it, through harmful measures. but with anorexic people we don't indulge in their starvation of themselves, we tell them that their body is fine and that they should accept themselves. the same should go for "transgender" people, like yourself. you - as a female - hate your body because you think it's "wrong". just like anorexia, it's a problem with the head, not the body, and you should learn to accept yourself for who you are, you aren't "trapped in the wrong body", you are a fine person, a woman. you ARE your body, and your body is female. there's nothing you can do to change that, and you should learn to accept it. -2 -2points reply Ryan Parker Ryan Parker Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 8 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Yeah, you sound like a very mentally stable person. Seek some help, get educated on FACTS, not feelings, learn to speak intelligently, and maybe your words would carry more weight. Until then, keep being miserable. -4 -4points reply Sequoia Sequoia Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 8 months ago (edited) Daughter you transphobic as$ 0 0points reply Potato Potato Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago This is such a hateful comment. 1 1point reply Walking On Sunshine Walking On Sunshine Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Troll account. 0 0points reply Devil's Advocate Devil's Advocate Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Just to clarify, you were born male, liked girls, so decided to become a girl and be lesbian? I'm so confused -23 -23points reply Brian bell Brian bell Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Just to clarify part 2: She was born mentally female at birth, biologically male. Made NO decision whatsoever to "become" anything but who she already was. Don't be confused. Think about your own conceptions of your own gender and your own sexuality and how nobody has a "right" to question those feelings, act accordingly with others. 18 18points reply Istax Istax Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago "She was born mentally female at birth"... what is being "mentally female"? 0 0points reply Brian bell Brian bell Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Ah, sorry about the double wording. Prior to physically transitioning, a (binary) transgender person in mentally one gender, while physically another. They owe nobody an explanation or a reason. Exactly like anyone born without the incongruence. Thus, whatever that person TELLS another that their pronouns are should be respected for that. 0 0points reply The Red Panda (she/her) The Red Panda (she/her) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago That is a complicated question to answer, but I'll pretend you aren't a transphobe and answer anyway. Mentally or psychologically female is how you identify, biologically female is a combination of physically and genetically female. 0 0points reply Rachael Sampson Rachael Sampson Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago (edited) Good grief you're dumb. No she was born with a male body but she was always female. And she only likes girls, so that makes her a gay woman. How is that hard to figure out. Gender identity and sexual orientation are not the same thing. 8 8points reply Irish Lad Irish Lad Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago So sorry that when someone asks a question, they are dumb. 1 1point reply Pearl Pearl Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Lad, he wasn't asking a question. He was mocking her. He knew very well what she meant. 1 1point reply Ryan Parker Ryan Parker Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Haha!! Did you just say he's dumb?? Listen to what you just said!! That's the DUMBEST comment I've ever heard. Just read it out loud and you'll hear how DUMB it really is!! -17 -17points reply LynzCatastrophe LynzCatastrophe Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago (edited) Why are people down voting Devil's comment here? If someone doesn't actually understand, then educate them! I grew up in a very small minded small town, I had no idea there was anything beyond the world besides male/female straight through, nobody told me, nobody taught me, I had no examples. I moved to a big city when I went to college and had MANY questions because suddenly the world got a lot bigger. I didn't have a single clue how anything worked. Just like this commenter who probably doesn't know. 7 7points reply ChickyChicky ChickyChicky Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Because Devil says this kind of s**t all the time, to be a shitty s**t face, not because they don't actually understand. They constantly like to make comments that stress that the person is ActUALly whatever they were assigned at birth. This "person" is on their own anti-trans crusade. "Just to clarify....you're wrong about your gender and I am right." 5 5points reply 未周 陸 未周 陸 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Basically, this is A perfect example that people are either More open-minded to learn something Different or NOT. In this case, we know that most of people do Not know "Gender Indetity" is Not the Same as AND has NO Direct Correlation with ... [Ta-Da!] "Sexual Orientation". 0 0points reply Ryan Parker Ryan Parker Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago So when you got to the liberal city, you got brainwashed. That's what happened. -2 -2points reply aroace man, but german aroace man, but german Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 7 months ago my god, this is from a month ago, and even i find this stupid, to help you (through i may have been late) here is the definition of gender. Gender is the range of characteristics pertaining to femininity and masculinity and differentiating between them. Depending on the context, this may include sex-based social structures (i.e. gender roles) and gender identity. [wikipedia] and here is the DICTIONARY DEFINITION. either of the two sexes (male and female), especially when considered with reference to social and cultural differences rather than biological ones. The term is also used more broadly to denote a range of identities that do not correspond to established ideas of male and female. hope that helps. 0 0points reply Dorlinda Chong Dorlinda Chong Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Your perception of your gender (a misnomer, technically, since true 'gender' is a language term, pertaining to words that contain a reference to sex not inherent in the object itself, like "La pluma" (female gender, for a pen), however, it was appropriated to mean how one feels ones sex is, while ones attraction to another person is defined by sexuality, ie heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual. So while one can be attracted to the 'correct' sex, one can still not feel that they are the correct gender, and having the proper body for the gender they feel, is more important for their mental stability than conforming to society's mores. 1 1point reply Kim Lorton Kim Lorton Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago If the sister in law was 18 when they kicked her out, her parents committed theft by taking her savings! It was not theirs and they should be giving her that money back, plus interest! That is the worst thing I've heard in a long while of parental behavior. I am so glad she is doing well and has love in her life, and the family she needs! 27 27points reply Monday Monday Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago The law is a bit grey on those areas, especially if she shared a bank account with her parents (it mentions a joint account in the story). Since they were equal owners of the account they had rights to the money, so it legally isn't theft even though realistically it totally is. 23 23points reply Load More Replies... Joe Reaves Joe Reaves Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago If it's a joint account one party can empty it without the consent of the other unfortunately. Its why so often one spouse cleans the other out before a divorce if they're an asshole. 2 2points reply anarkzie anarkzie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Wait, if your kids are under that age you can legally steal their money? I did not know that was a thing. 2 2points reply Mad Dragon Mad Dragon Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago (edited) Unfortunately, in the US, if a person is under the age of 18, their parents can legally take money from them without permission, unless the money is held in a trust and the parent abuses the funds. It may not be ethical in most cases, but is is legal. 8 8points reply Eva B Eva B Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago ..but in the storyline she is mentioned as being 18 already. 1 1point reply Mad Dragon Mad Dragon Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago That is different. She had a joint account that her parents' names were on. In that case, they can take all the money out without her permission, just as she could do the same without their permission. It's the same trick some underhanded people use to divert funds before serving divorce papers on their spouse. 6 6points reply Eiram Eiram Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Also scam artists. I know a lady who put an online "boyfriend" on it... bad things happened. 0 0points reply anarkzie anarkzie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Thx Mad Dragon 0 0points reply Frannie Kaplan Frannie Kaplan Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Tapk is cheap. The police will do nothing 0 0points reply Load More Comments POST deanna woods deanna woods Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago My parents told my siblings and I that all they want for us is for us to be happy. They told us that if we were a member of the LGBTQ+ community that they would love us the same. I don't understand how these parents could not only throw their daughter out but also take everything away from her. They were essentially setting her up to fail hoping that would change how she feels. She is so blessed to have such amazing siblings and siblings in law. Children are not put on this earth for their parents to abandon them when times get tough. Children are gifts from God and it is a parents job to love them unconditionally. 54 54points reply v v Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Religion. People put more love and devotion into an imaginary thing than they do the flesh and blood people right in front of them. It doesn't even matter if that person is there own flesh and blood. 8 8points reply Load More Replies... Suzi Q Suzi Q Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Exactly! Children aren't there to live the life they choose. It's awful how these judgmental parents think they can dictate who their children love or who they want to be. They acted on hate against their own child. It's hard to imagine that hate against the LGBT+ can be stronger than the love of their own child. Something is seriously wrong with those parents. They deserve what they got. 2 2points reply Chris Hutchinson Chris Hutchinson Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago I agree totally with what you say! We told our kids that there was nothing they could do that would stop us loving them. We are still very close as they enter their thirties and I cannot think of any other way I would want our lives! 0 0points reply The Red Panda (she/her) The Red Panda (she/her) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago (edited) Whoever these parents are, I hope someone comes along and f**ks up their lives even more. I am transgender and lesbian and have heard enough of these stories to hate people who would do this with every particle in my body. That is just evil, and those parents/in-laws deserve whatever is coming to them. EDIT: Everyone discounting Ryan Parker, Istax, and Devil's Advocate, thank you for being so supportive and defending me. The aforementioned transphobes, go f**k off. 37 37points reply Istax Istax Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago "transgender lesbian"... you mean you're a straight dude? 0 0points reply Load More Replies... The Red Panda (she/her) The Red Panda (she/her) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago You mean you are a transphobe? I know who I am, so STFU. 0 0points reply Lukas-not-Luca (he/him) Lukas-not-Luca (he/him) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 8 months ago Can't reply directly to devil's advocate, so I'll do it here. First off, Red Panda, I fully support you. I'm also trans and people like them... *sigh*. Now, Devil's Advocate, I'm speaking to you. She didn't decide anything. Your assigned gender at birth and gender identity has nothing to do with your sexuality. To put it simply- gender is who you want to have sex as, sexuality is who you want to have sex with. So, using the label of transgender woman and lesbian, we can assume (though this may not be the case), that she wants to have sex as a girl, with a girl. My labels, being a transgender guy and bisexual, mean I want to have sex as a guy with both guys and girls (and any other gender, I just use the term bisexual or queer). Hope that helps! 0 0points reply Ryan Parker Ryan Parker Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Talk about hate?!?! You people are FULL of hate towards anyone who just simply disagrees with, or doesn't accept your mental disorder as something normal. -23 -23points reply Vera1 Vera1 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Being transgender is NOT a mental disorder 9 9points reply Ryan Parker Ryan Parker Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. It absolutely is!! It's called Gender Identity Disorder. -4 -4points reply Say What Say What Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago You're kidding, right? They didn't simply disagree, they did everything in their power to ruin her life including making her homeless and stealing all her money. Also, you're a complete hypocrite for calling the commenters FULL of hate for simply disagreeing with the parents. You're an even bigger hypocrite for giving a pass to the parents who are FULL of hate for their daughter. Your bias is astounding. 9 9points reply Ryan Parker Ryan Parker Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Sure, maybe the parents HATE that their son (or "daughter", or whatever) has this mental disorder. Another example of the massive damage these kinds of decisions cause. -5 -5points reply Bisces Bisces Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 8 months ago You're a walking disorder 1 1point reply Lukas-not-Luca (he/him) Lukas-not-Luca (he/him) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 8 months ago What the actual f**k. There are no f*****g decisions. I'm trans and trust me if I had the choice?! I'd never choose this. Each day is a living hell because I'm f*****g trapped in a body that isn't mine. It's not a f*****g choice, and it's not a mental disease. Maybe, like being queer, it was ORIGINALLY classified as a mental disorder, but I assure you, it's not. So, maybe f**k off. 1 1point reply Istax Istax Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago you say you're "trapped in a body that isn't mine"? sure, you may hate your body - that's called dysmorphia. this whole situation seems very similar to anorexia: you think your body is wrong, and want to change it, mutilate it, through harmful measures. but with anorexic people we don't indulge in their starvation of themselves, we tell them that their body is fine and that they should accept themselves. the same should go for "transgender" people, like yourself. you - as a female - hate your body because you think it's "wrong". just like anorexia, it's a problem with the head, not the body, and you should learn to accept yourself for who you are, you aren't "trapped in the wrong body", you are a fine person, a woman. you ARE your body, and your body is female. there's nothing you can do to change that, and you should learn to accept it. -2 -2points reply Ryan Parker Ryan Parker Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 8 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Yeah, you sound like a very mentally stable person. Seek some help, get educated on FACTS, not feelings, learn to speak intelligently, and maybe your words would carry more weight. Until then, keep being miserable. -4 -4points reply Sequoia Sequoia Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 8 months ago (edited) Daughter you transphobic as$ 0 0points reply Potato Potato Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago This is such a hateful comment. 1 1point reply Walking On Sunshine Walking On Sunshine Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Troll account. 0 0points reply Devil's Advocate Devil's Advocate Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Just to clarify, you were born male, liked girls, so decided to become a girl and be lesbian? I'm so confused -23 -23points reply Brian bell Brian bell Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Just to clarify part 2: She was born mentally female at birth, biologically male. Made NO decision whatsoever to "become" anything but who she already was. Don't be confused. Think about your own conceptions of your own gender and your own sexuality and how nobody has a "right" to question those feelings, act accordingly with others. 18 18points reply Istax Istax Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago "She was born mentally female at birth"... what is being "mentally female"? 0 0points reply Brian bell Brian bell Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Ah, sorry about the double wording. Prior to physically transitioning, a (binary) transgender person in mentally one gender, while physically another. They owe nobody an explanation or a reason. Exactly like anyone born without the incongruence. Thus, whatever that person TELLS another that their pronouns are should be respected for that. 0 0points reply The Red Panda (she/her) The Red Panda (she/her) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago That is a complicated question to answer, but I'll pretend you aren't a transphobe and answer anyway. Mentally or psychologically female is how you identify, biologically female is a combination of physically and genetically female. 0 0points reply Rachael Sampson Rachael Sampson Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago (edited) Good grief you're dumb. No she was born with a male body but she was always female. And she only likes girls, so that makes her a gay woman. How is that hard to figure out. Gender identity and sexual orientation are not the same thing. 8 8points reply Irish Lad Irish Lad Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago So sorry that when someone asks a question, they are dumb. 1 1point reply Pearl Pearl Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Lad, he wasn't asking a question. He was mocking her. He knew very well what she meant. 1 1point reply Ryan Parker Ryan Parker Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Haha!! Did you just say he's dumb?? Listen to what you just said!! That's the DUMBEST comment I've ever heard. Just read it out loud and you'll hear how DUMB it really is!! -17 -17points reply LynzCatastrophe LynzCatastrophe Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago (edited) Why are people down voting Devil's comment here? If someone doesn't actually understand, then educate them! I grew up in a very small minded small town, I had no idea there was anything beyond the world besides male/female straight through, nobody told me, nobody taught me, I had no examples. I moved to a big city when I went to college and had MANY questions because suddenly the world got a lot bigger. I didn't have a single clue how anything worked. Just like this commenter who probably doesn't know. 7 7points reply ChickyChicky ChickyChicky Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Because Devil says this kind of s**t all the time, to be a shitty s**t face, not because they don't actually understand. They constantly like to make comments that stress that the person is ActUALly whatever they were assigned at birth. This "person" is on their own anti-trans crusade. "Just to clarify....you're wrong about your gender and I am right." 5 5points reply 未周 陸 未周 陸 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Basically, this is A perfect example that people are either More open-minded to learn something Different or NOT. In this case, we know that most of people do Not know "Gender Indetity" is Not the Same as AND has NO Direct Correlation with ... [Ta-Da!] "Sexual Orientation". 0 0points reply Ryan Parker Ryan Parker Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago So when you got to the liberal city, you got brainwashed. That's what happened. -2 -2points reply aroace man, but german aroace man, but german Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 7 months ago my god, this is from a month ago, and even i find this stupid, to help you (through i may have been late) here is the definition of gender. Gender is the range of characteristics pertaining to femininity and masculinity and differentiating between them. Depending on the context, this may include sex-based social structures (i.e. gender roles) and gender identity. [wikipedia] and here is the DICTIONARY DEFINITION. either of the two sexes (male and female), especially when considered with reference to social and cultural differences rather than biological ones. The term is also used more broadly to denote a range of identities that do not correspond to established ideas of male and female. hope that helps. 0 0points reply Dorlinda Chong Dorlinda Chong Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Your perception of your gender (a misnomer, technically, since true 'gender' is a language term, pertaining to words that contain a reference to sex not inherent in the object itself, like "La pluma" (female gender, for a pen), however, it was appropriated to mean how one feels ones sex is, while ones attraction to another person is defined by sexuality, ie heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual. So while one can be attracted to the 'correct' sex, one can still not feel that they are the correct gender, and having the proper body for the gender they feel, is more important for their mental stability than conforming to society's mores. 1 1point reply Kim Lorton Kim Lorton Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago If the sister in law was 18 when they kicked her out, her parents committed theft by taking her savings! It was not theirs and they should be giving her that money back, plus interest! That is the worst thing I've heard in a long while of parental behavior. I am so glad she is doing well and has love in her life, and the family she needs! 27 27points reply Monday Monday Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago The law is a bit grey on those areas, especially if she shared a bank account with her parents (it mentions a joint account in the story). Since they were equal owners of the account they had rights to the money, so it legally isn't theft even though realistically it totally is. 23 23points reply Load More Replies... Joe Reaves Joe Reaves Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago If it's a joint account one party can empty it without the consent of the other unfortunately. Its why so often one spouse cleans the other out before a divorce if they're an asshole. 2 2points reply anarkzie anarkzie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Wait, if your kids are under that age you can legally steal their money? I did not know that was a thing. 2 2points reply Mad Dragon Mad Dragon Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago (edited) Unfortunately, in the US, if a person is under the age of 18, their parents can legally take money from them without permission, unless the money is held in a trust and the parent abuses the funds. It may not be ethical in most cases, but is is legal. 8 8points reply Eva B Eva B Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago ..but in the storyline she is mentioned as being 18 already. 1 1point reply Mad Dragon Mad Dragon Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago That is different. She had a joint account that her parents' names were on. In that case, they can take all the money out without her permission, just as she could do the same without their permission. It's the same trick some underhanded people use to divert funds before serving divorce papers on their spouse. 6 6points reply Eiram Eiram Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Also scam artists. I know a lady who put an online "boyfriend" on it... bad things happened. 0 0points reply anarkzie anarkzie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Thx Mad Dragon 0 0points reply Frannie Kaplan Frannie Kaplan Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Tapk is cheap. The police will do nothing 0 0points reply Load More Comments Popular on Bored Panda I Used AI To See What These 23 Popular Cartoon Characters Would Look Like In Real Life 30 Y.O. 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