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Publish Not your original work? Add source Someone's personality is formed by a lot of different things: their behavior, social attitudes, what they believe in and other things. It is influenced by our environment and how we react to it. Most often a personality is constant and we can even predict what a person would like or how they would react to an unknown thing because they follow a specific pattern. Personality is a complex concept, however, some people tend to simplify it and choose one thing to base it on. It may become annoying, at least according to the experience of redditors who responded to Kandiblu's question "What's something that people turn into their whole personality?" The thread became quite popular with over 58k people upvoting it and almost 44k of them joining in. These are some of the annoying personalities based on one thing that most people found very annoying. Do you agree with them? Which ones that you find unbearable weren't in this list? Let us know in the comments! More info: Reddit This post may include affiliate links. #1
It’s so f**king horrible to watch. It’s like being mocked. FragranceCandle , Mark Healey Report Final score: 349points POST RoseTheMad RoseTheMad Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago (edited) I'm half Irish, and there's people I've spoke to that are in the US and found out they are maybe like.. one tenth Irish, but they make jokes like "haha us ginger leprechauns" .. I don't really mind, but please. You're American, not Irish. Same way that I wouldn't say I'm fully Irish or fully Romanian, I'm half and half, yes, but I'm British. Edit: I don't wanna say don't be proud of your heritages, I certainly am, I've been learning Romanian and Irish, make Irish and Romanian foods, etc. But I would never say I'm FROM those countries, just that my ancestors are. 187 187points reply View More Replies... View more comments #3
I can’t imagine being close to somebody before and after their transition into that life. It seems like it’d be scary… EmmyLynn23 , Peter Kaminski Report Final score: 268points POST NsG NsG Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 6 months ago I think the title should really say "obsessive fans". You can be a fan of a celebrity without being frightening. I am a fan of David Tennant. I've never met the man, but I do enjoy whatever I see him in, and it will influence whether or not I watch something if he is one of the stars. 182 182points reply View More Replies... View more comments #8
Happened in my small town, then out of nowhere 3 other “branches” popped up in the revolving small towns. (Which basically means the owner conned 3 more into joining so that they can get their profit). There’s a documentary out there called like One in a Million or something that breaks down the pyramid and how little people at the bottom are actually making. They also show that the shakes are nothing more than liquid laxative, so of COURSE you’re losing weight.
Also, keto. bussebailey , Eduardo Francisco Vazquez Report Final score: 219points POST SuperChicken SuperChicken Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Herbalife is "nothing more than liquid laxative"? Which means, one is only losing water. That's not healthy - and, people still buy them. 95 95points reply View More Replies... View more comments #13
Sports parent elohra_2013 , Studio Sarah Lou Report Final score: 211points POST *Displayname*=idk *Displayname*=idk Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Yes... Just, yes.... 70 70points reply View More Replies... View more comments #14
Those people were nuts. They made Doctor Who and Sherlock their whole personalities. AbigailLilac , Mark Hillary Report Final score: 191points POST RoseTheMad RoseTheMad Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago (edited) Don't forget Harry Potter! I'm a fan of Dr Who, Sherlock and HP, but goddamn I don't make it my personality... 150 150points reply View More Replies... View more comments #16
/* Stares into the invisible camera * AnonHereToRant , NBCUniversal Television Distribution Report Final score: 145points POST RoseTheMad RoseTheMad Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago or even worse... Friends. ITS NOT EVEN THAT FUNNY. 176 176points reply View More Replies... View more comments #23
This isn’t Boiler Room or Wolf of Wall Street. You don’t need to convince me to get into trading as we talk over a food service counter. [deleted] , OTA Photos Report Final score: 106points POST Peter H Peter H Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago And then there are the Bitcoin people. 64 64points reply View More Replies... View more comments #31
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Keisha Keisha Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Gym rats and sports fans were both on the list. 2 2points reply NOMAD Anshelm NOMAD Anshelm Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Sports fans were on the list. 1 1point reply Will Tiernan Will Tiernan Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I looked twice and didn't see sport fans. -1 -1point reply Gnub Gnub Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago (edited) Hahahaha THANK YOU for mentioning this I always dread to be pushed in the awful 'vegan corner' at parties that include dinner. Unfortunately I am vegan myself and I definitely don't enjoy nagging about it 24/7, nor am I even remotely interested in anyone else nagging about their enlightened veganhood. So yeah these parties are hell... Vegans are the worst. 9 9points reply Aria Lake Aria Lake Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Vegans I know barely talk about it when no one asks except for when we talk about what to eat or gifts for them so I won't say they are the worst. 2 2points reply Poultry Geist Poultry Geist Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I’m not vegan but I get really excited about yummy vegan treats and dishes 1 1point reply Noelle Martineau Noelle Martineau Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Or meat eaters. Gotta talk about bacon or steak every 3 minutes or their faces get all red 1 1point reply Aria Lake Aria Lake Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Because being vegan is an ethical choice it is by a fact a direct consequence of your personality and requires some commitment to it in everyday life. So yeah, it will be a consistent part of your life, it just can't be otherwise. 0 0points reply Luther von Wolfen Luther von Wolfen Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I'm surprised smoking pot wasn't here. I'm for full legalization - do what ya want - but some people really go overboard. It's a recreational drug, not a lifestyle. 49 49points reply Britt_Max Britt_Max Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Agreed. Marijuana is not a personality. 4 4points reply Load More Replies... Amy Stone-Chandler Amy Stone-Chandler Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Well.. when your stoned it is...haha 1 1point reply tirebiter tirebiter Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago In that regard, wine and scotch drinkers. 1 1point reply Beatcomber, Craig A. Beatcomber, Craig A. Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago It's a counterculture not so much a personality 0 0points reply Florence Florence Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago (edited) i’m sorry if this sounds offensive, because it’s not supposed to be and im bi myself, but, being lgbtq. i get that you should have pride in who you are, but making ur whole personality about being gay is really annoying to me, and it can be toxic to someone who is closeted and has homophobic parents/gaurdians 43 43points reply Eiram Eiram Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Thanks! My dad "suddenly" turned gay after 23 years of marriage and 7 kids. He was so over the top (gaining an accent, gay movies/stars, flashing pics of men kissing at an 8year old's birthday) it made me sick. I had to analyze was it the homosexual part (theiving and lying boyfriends), or just him. It was him... turns out I wasn't homophobic at all. 12 12points reply Load More Replies... Keisha Keisha Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago He probably just went a little overboard after finally being out of the closet. I have several friends that have done this at the beginning after being closeted for decades. It's just the freedom for most. Sometimes they don't go back to acting less gay but most find themselves and the person they have been supresssing is allowed to be free. But alot of gay people eventually find their actual genuine selves and are finally happy with their life. 6 6points reply Holly Bee Holly Bee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago When it comes to our parents, nothing is black or white. There's always going to baggage with them. It doesn't mean you're homophobic. 5 5points reply LuckyNumbers LuckyNumbers Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 6 months ago Your dad didn't suddenly turn gay. He suddenly found the courage to be open about something he's hidden for more than a quarter of a century. And judging by how derogatory you have written your comment I would revisit the not being homophobic thing. 5 5points reply DDmaybeandor DDmaybeandor Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Eiram, I get what you’re saying. People of all genders have such a variety of personalities and it’s perfectly ok to not like some of them. You’re allowed to like Will and not like Jack just like you’re allowed to like Grace and not like Karen. Some people are just grating. 3 3points reply Aria Lake Aria Lake Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago "I'm not homophobic but I just can't stay gay people acting gay or have interest in gay culture" yeah... Sure. You know what we say ? Things before the "but" doesn't count, Marie... So I may understand your father may have been clumsy experimenting his own culture and personality at his age but judging him about it is (sadly) homophobic. And if you can't stand some of your loved ones acting "gay" maybe there's deep down there some homophobia and family issues you should address. 2 2points reply BDawg BDawg Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago (edited) Don’t listen to these offended idiots. You’re allowed to be effected by your father upending your life, and yes, showing sexualized photos at a child’s birthday is not appropriate. This culture of one sided empathy has gotten out of hand, I’m sorry your family went through this, you’re allowed to process. 1 1point reply goldBalls goldBalls Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago yes, it turns out you are homophobic. Your dad is finally enjoying life the way he wants. if that includes gay movies, gay accent, etc, and it makes you sick, you are homophobic. and there is nothing wrong with 8 year old's watching men kissing. 0 0points reply Keisha Keisha Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I remember being on a field trip in New Orleans when I was 10 years old and there was a gay couple sitting on a bench holding hands. I had never seen gay people showing affection before. When they got up to leave they said something to one another,laughed and kissed before they walked away holding hands and it's been ingrained into my brain for 41 years how happy I was to see them being so happy and free to be themselves. Talking about it even all these years later these two men had no idea how much of a life altering impression they made on a 10 year old little girl. 8 8points reply -Cr1cK3t-In_aBlaNk3t -Cr1cK3t-In_aBlaNk3t Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I agree! I'm part of LGBTQ+ too, it's perfectly fine to be proud of who you are, but just don't shove it down everyone's throats please 10 10points reply Aria Lake Aria Lake Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Yeah, we should be more silent to not bother those who don't want to give us equal rights. What about no? -1 -1point reply Kristina H.N. Kristina H.N. Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago It's not about that, and you probably know that. Gay and annoyed how everyone is blowing it out of proportions these days. 4 4points reply Lijo Kim Lijo Kim Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago (edited) Absolutely! I am also bisexual and there have been times when I questioned my sexuality just because it wasn't my personality. I am not the type of person to talk about my sexual orientation a lot just because I feel like it's nobody's business but that doesn't make me any less bisexual 8 8points reply Keisha Keisha Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I have never understood why people think gay or bisexual people have to come out and share that. When I knew I liked boys nobody expected me to come out as straight. I always told my kids if you love someone and they love you and you are kind to one another I don't care what sex they are. I would accept them with open arms because my children are everything to me and I just want them to be happy. I rather them be with someone kind and loving of the same sex than someone that treats them like dirt simply because they are the opposite sex.Had and so called friends or family not felt the same they would no longer be a part of our lives. 4 4points reply Skylar Jaxx Skylar Jaxx Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I was a lesbian out open until I was 30 n it annoys the f**k outta me to. I just was me. I didn't make it a focus. Didn't put it in people's faces but I want shy about it. But it didn't rule my life. 6 6points reply Jamilah toenailkilla Jamilah toenailkilla Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Don't listen to the people calling you homophobic, you're not. There's not such thing as "acting gay" you're either just gay or you're not. Idk why anybody who's gay or whatever feels the need to act over the top and talk with a lisp and all that. That's just like when people tell me "you don't talk like you're black." Well I am black and I don't need to sound like a hoodrat now do I? 4 4points reply Rebecca Surette Rebecca Surette Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago No, it isn't just you. Anyone of any sexual orientation who makes that orientation their main character trait drives me crazy. And it happens with ALL of them to some degree. I am more than either my biology OR my gender. 3 3points reply Metallicd3ath Metallicd3ath Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 6 months ago I mentioned this in an earlier post and seeing as I'm cishet I'm a *little* worried it'll get taken the wrong way, (or that my point will be proven as I get attacked/mobbed by those I'm describing) 3 3points reply Steph Maule Steph Maule Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I expected to see that too 2 2points reply It's Me It's Me Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago It’s when someone from that way of life makes it seem like it has to be all of their life. Your sexuality will never come up in conversation with me. I guarantee it. I don’t support or not support. I simply have nothing to do with it. 2 2points reply Pan dulce Pan dulce Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago When you're having a conversation w/ someone who is telling a story about someone they know & describe them as being gay... I once rhetorically asked them after them saying that, "I wonder if gay people ever say, '...and he/she's straight?'" They just kept on blabbering... pft 2 2points reply venny venny Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Straight people made being straight their whole personality and life, and expect other people to follow it. But when lgbt+ do it it's annoying, toxic and weird. Not to be rude. This just rubs me the wrong way -2 -2points reply Load More Comments POST Ivana Bašić Ivana Bašić Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago It's getting bad when vegans don't even make the list. :D 76 76points reply Sergio Bicerra Sergio Bicerra Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Or crossfit, or sports fans. 23 23points reply Load More Replies... Keisha Keisha Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Gym rats and sports fans were both on the list. 2 2points reply NOMAD Anshelm NOMAD Anshelm Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Sports fans were on the list. 1 1point reply Will Tiernan Will Tiernan Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I looked twice and didn't see sport fans. -1 -1point reply Gnub Gnub Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago (edited) Hahahaha THANK YOU for mentioning this I always dread to be pushed in the awful 'vegan corner' at parties that include dinner. Unfortunately I am vegan myself and I definitely don't enjoy nagging about it 24/7, nor am I even remotely interested in anyone else nagging about their enlightened veganhood. So yeah these parties are hell... Vegans are the worst. 9 9points reply Aria Lake Aria Lake Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Vegans I know barely talk about it when no one asks except for when we talk about what to eat or gifts for them so I won't say they are the worst. 2 2points reply Poultry Geist Poultry Geist Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I’m not vegan but I get really excited about yummy vegan treats and dishes 1 1point reply Noelle Martineau Noelle Martineau Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Or meat eaters. Gotta talk about bacon or steak every 3 minutes or their faces get all red 1 1point reply Aria Lake Aria Lake Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Because being vegan is an ethical choice it is by a fact a direct consequence of your personality and requires some commitment to it in everyday life. So yeah, it will be a consistent part of your life, it just can't be otherwise. 0 0points reply Luther von Wolfen Luther von Wolfen Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I'm surprised smoking pot wasn't here. I'm for full legalization - do what ya want - but some people really go overboard. It's a recreational drug, not a lifestyle. 49 49points reply Britt_Max Britt_Max Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Agreed. Marijuana is not a personality. 4 4points reply Load More Replies... Amy Stone-Chandler Amy Stone-Chandler Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Well.. when your stoned it is...haha 1 1point reply tirebiter tirebiter Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago In that regard, wine and scotch drinkers. 1 1point reply Beatcomber, Craig A. Beatcomber, Craig A. Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago It's a counterculture not so much a personality 0 0points reply Florence Florence Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago (edited) i’m sorry if this sounds offensive, because it’s not supposed to be and im bi myself, but, being lgbtq. i get that you should have pride in who you are, but making ur whole personality about being gay is really annoying to me, and it can be toxic to someone who is closeted and has homophobic parents/gaurdians 43 43points reply Eiram Eiram Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Thanks! My dad "suddenly" turned gay after 23 years of marriage and 7 kids. He was so over the top (gaining an accent, gay movies/stars, flashing pics of men kissing at an 8year old's birthday) it made me sick. I had to analyze was it the homosexual part (theiving and lying boyfriends), or just him. It was him... turns out I wasn't homophobic at all. 12 12points reply Load More Replies... Keisha Keisha Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago He probably just went a little overboard after finally being out of the closet. I have several friends that have done this at the beginning after being closeted for decades. It's just the freedom for most. Sometimes they don't go back to acting less gay but most find themselves and the person they have been supresssing is allowed to be free. But alot of gay people eventually find their actual genuine selves and are finally happy with their life. 6 6points reply Holly Bee Holly Bee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago When it comes to our parents, nothing is black or white. There's always going to baggage with them. It doesn't mean you're homophobic. 5 5points reply LuckyNumbers LuckyNumbers Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 6 months ago Your dad didn't suddenly turn gay. He suddenly found the courage to be open about something he's hidden for more than a quarter of a century. And judging by how derogatory you have written your comment I would revisit the not being homophobic thing. 5 5points reply DDmaybeandor DDmaybeandor Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Eiram, I get what you’re saying. People of all genders have such a variety of personalities and it’s perfectly ok to not like some of them. You’re allowed to like Will and not like Jack just like you’re allowed to like Grace and not like Karen. Some people are just grating. 3 3points reply Aria Lake Aria Lake Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago "I'm not homophobic but I just can't stay gay people acting gay or have interest in gay culture" yeah... Sure. You know what we say ? Things before the "but" doesn't count, Marie... So I may understand your father may have been clumsy experimenting his own culture and personality at his age but judging him about it is (sadly) homophobic. And if you can't stand some of your loved ones acting "gay" maybe there's deep down there some homophobia and family issues you should address. 2 2points reply BDawg BDawg Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago (edited) Don’t listen to these offended idiots. You’re allowed to be effected by your father upending your life, and yes, showing sexualized photos at a child’s birthday is not appropriate. This culture of one sided empathy has gotten out of hand, I’m sorry your family went through this, you’re allowed to process. 1 1point reply goldBalls goldBalls Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago yes, it turns out you are homophobic. Your dad is finally enjoying life the way he wants. if that includes gay movies, gay accent, etc, and it makes you sick, you are homophobic. and there is nothing wrong with 8 year old's watching men kissing. 0 0points reply Keisha Keisha Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I remember being on a field trip in New Orleans when I was 10 years old and there was a gay couple sitting on a bench holding hands. I had never seen gay people showing affection before. When they got up to leave they said something to one another,laughed and kissed before they walked away holding hands and it's been ingrained into my brain for 41 years how happy I was to see them being so happy and free to be themselves. Talking about it even all these years later these two men had no idea how much of a life altering impression they made on a 10 year old little girl. 8 8points reply -Cr1cK3t-In_aBlaNk3t -Cr1cK3t-In_aBlaNk3t Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I agree! I'm part of LGBTQ+ too, it's perfectly fine to be proud of who you are, but just don't shove it down everyone's throats please 10 10points reply Aria Lake Aria Lake Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Yeah, we should be more silent to not bother those who don't want to give us equal rights. What about no? -1 -1point reply Kristina H.N. Kristina H.N. Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago It's not about that, and you probably know that. Gay and annoyed how everyone is blowing it out of proportions these days. 4 4points reply Lijo Kim Lijo Kim Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago (edited) Absolutely! I am also bisexual and there have been times when I questioned my sexuality just because it wasn't my personality. I am not the type of person to talk about my sexual orientation a lot just because I feel like it's nobody's business but that doesn't make me any less bisexual 8 8points reply Keisha Keisha Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I have never understood why people think gay or bisexual people have to come out and share that. When I knew I liked boys nobody expected me to come out as straight. I always told my kids if you love someone and they love you and you are kind to one another I don't care what sex they are. I would accept them with open arms because my children are everything to me and I just want them to be happy. I rather them be with someone kind and loving of the same sex than someone that treats them like dirt simply because they are the opposite sex.Had and so called friends or family not felt the same they would no longer be a part of our lives. 4 4points reply Skylar Jaxx Skylar Jaxx Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I was a lesbian out open until I was 30 n it annoys the f**k outta me to. I just was me. I didn't make it a focus. Didn't put it in people's faces but I want shy about it. But it didn't rule my life. 6 6points reply Jamilah toenailkilla Jamilah toenailkilla Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Don't listen to the people calling you homophobic, you're not. There's not such thing as "acting gay" you're either just gay or you're not. Idk why anybody who's gay or whatever feels the need to act over the top and talk with a lisp and all that. That's just like when people tell me "you don't talk like you're black." Well I am black and I don't need to sound like a hoodrat now do I? 4 4points reply Rebecca Surette Rebecca Surette Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago No, it isn't just you. Anyone of any sexual orientation who makes that orientation their main character trait drives me crazy. And it happens with ALL of them to some degree. I am more than either my biology OR my gender. 3 3points reply Metallicd3ath Metallicd3ath Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 6 months ago I mentioned this in an earlier post and seeing as I'm cishet I'm a *little* worried it'll get taken the wrong way, (or that my point will be proven as I get attacked/mobbed by those I'm describing) 3 3points reply Steph Maule Steph Maule Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I expected to see that too 2 2points reply It's Me It's Me Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago It’s when someone from that way of life makes it seem like it has to be all of their life. Your sexuality will never come up in conversation with me. I guarantee it. I don’t support or not support. I simply have nothing to do with it. 2 2points reply Pan dulce Pan dulce Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago When you're having a conversation w/ someone who is telling a story about someone they know & describe them as being gay... I once rhetorically asked them after them saying that, "I wonder if gay people ever say, '...and he/she's straight?'" They just kept on blabbering... pft 2 2points reply venny venny Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Straight people made being straight their whole personality and life, and expect other people to follow it. But when lgbt+ do it it's annoying, toxic and weird. Not to be rude. This just rubs me the wrong way -2 -2points reply Load More Comments Popular on Bored Panda I Used AI To See What These 23 Popular Cartoon Characters Would Look Like In Real Life 30 Y.O. 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35 Things People Embody So Deeply That Their Entire Personality Revolves Around It As Shared In This Online Group
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Publish Not your original work? Add source Someone's personality is formed by a lot of different things: their behavior, social attitudes, what they believe in and other things. It is influenced by our environment and how we react to it. Most often a personality is constant and we can even predict what a person would like or how they would react to an unknown thing because they follow a specific pattern. Personality is a complex concept, however, some people tend to simplify it and choose one thing to base it on. It may become annoying, at least according to the experience of redditors who responded to Kandiblu's question "What's something that people turn into their whole personality?" The thread became quite popular with over 58k people upvoting it and almost 44k of them joining in. These are some of the annoying personalities based on one thing that most people found very annoying. Do you agree with them? Which ones that you find unbearable weren't in this list? Let us know in the comments! More info: Reddit This post may include affiliate links. #1
OCD
OCD.i dont know why many people in my lives believe they have OCD and they are proud about it. There is a difference between keeping everything organized and OCD. tiredmomneedsabreak , I am R. Report Final score: 401points POST *Displayname*=idk *Displayname*=idk Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Yes. I don't have OCD, but I like everything being organized, but at a certain point I just don't care... 138 138points reply View More Replies... View more comments While most people found these things they mentioned annoying and in some cases they even expressed fear seeing someone so obsessed about just one thing, the people who always bring up the same topic in every conversation might not be doing it on purpose. Bored Panda reached out to Denise Marigold, an Associate Professor and Chair of Social Development Studies at the Renison University College in Waterloo, Canada to learn more about this. #2Americans Making Their Viking Heritage Their Whole Personality
I’m Norwegian. When I say that, a shocking amount of people assume that I’m American with Norwegian heritage. There are so many americans making their «viking heritage» their whole personality, butchering the norse faith and fighting with actual Norwegians over the correct way to make a traditional dish and the spelling and usage of «skål» (cheers).It’s so f**king horrible to watch. It’s like being mocked. FragranceCandle , Mark Healey Report Final score: 349points POST RoseTheMad RoseTheMad Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago (edited) I'm half Irish, and there's people I've spoke to that are in the US and found out they are maybe like.. one tenth Irish, but they make jokes like "haha us ginger leprechauns" .. I don't really mind, but please. You're American, not Irish. Same way that I wouldn't say I'm fully Irish or fully Romanian, I'm half and half, yes, but I'm British. Edit: I don't wanna say don't be proud of your heritages, I certainly am, I've been learning Romanian and Irish, make Irish and Romanian foods, etc. But I would never say I'm FROM those countries, just that my ancestors are. 187 187points reply View More Replies... View more comments #3
Work
Work. Some people just make it their whole life and I don't get it. Work to live, don't live to work. My workplace's normal business hours are 8:30 - 5:00, but I'm constantly hearing people say s**t like "when I was working on it this weekend" or talk about how they work so late, it makes me cringe. Pope_Landlord , Jason ford Report Final score: 295points POST LagoonaBlueColleen LagoonaBlueColleen Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 6 months ago It makes me wonder if they're avoiding something else in their life. Like being at the office is better than being at home. 131 131points reply View More Replies... View more comments She explained to us that it's not unusual for people to focus their attention on one thing, like a goal or interest. The professor explains why it happens, "When you get absorbed in a goal, it can be like a flow state, where everything else can disappear while one becomes pleasantly engrossed in what they are doing." When you get into something with high concentration, "Other thoughts and feelings that are irrelevant to the topic get automatically inhibited. This can be adaptive because it facilitates goal progress and freedom from distractions and conflicts. When people do this well, they get a lot of enjoyment out of it." #4Influencer
Influencer captainstyles , addisonraee Report Final score: 284points POST signore cappelletti signore cappelletti Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago ... the real losers are the influenced idiots..... 262 262points reply View More Replies... View more comments #5Astrology
Astrology. The only full moon presiding over me is my own bare a**. Thecatspajamas000 , marmaduk Report Final score: 280points POST LagoonaBlueColleen LagoonaBlueColleen Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 6 months ago I find it fun but that's about it. Every personality can be associated to anyone born at any time of the year. 133 133points reply View More Replies... View more comments #6Brands
Brands. People think chosing a brand of clothing speaks lota about them. Ferna_89 , Sage & Simple Report Final score: 276points POST Is Be Is Be Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Especially brands that have their labels visible, I refuse to pay for something and then have to advertise it. I am not a billboard. 227 227points reply View More Replies... View more comments Depending on the level of absorption, this kind of state may be either beneficial to a person or interfere with their normal life. Dr. Denise Marigold reveals what positive and negative results it can bring, "Absorption in a goal or interest may also serve as a way to get relief from unwanted thoughts and feelings. If people are doing this to block out awareness of unwanted thoughts and feelings, they also tend to lack awareness of the effects their behavior has on others around them (e.g., how boring and lonely it can be for others to be around them when they have gone to their obsessive 'happy place')." #7Being Fans Of Celebrities
Some fans are kinda scary. Their whole life becomes dedication to a celebrity’s. And it’s not just their personality, they make everything around them about that person. Posters, music, merchandise, weird things bought on the internet—supposedly with relation to the subject of their obsession—and so on.I can’t imagine being close to somebody before and after their transition into that life. It seems like it’d be scary… EmmyLynn23 , Peter Kaminski Report Final score: 268points POST NsG NsG Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 6 months ago I think the title should really say "obsessive fans". You can be a fan of a celebrity without being frightening. I am a fan of David Tennant. I've never met the man, but I do enjoy whatever I see him in, and it will influence whether or not I watch something if he is one of the stars. 182 182points reply View More Replies... View more comments #8
Being Sick Sickly
Being sick/ sickly. I've always had very poor health, and in high school and early college, as my conditions worsened, I didn't like that I couldn't live a "normal" life, so I kind of leaned into it. Always joked about how sickly I was while secretly hating myself for not being able to "keep up" with my peers. Some maturing and some guidance from my mother has helped me to learn that, yes, poor health sucks, and yes, I can't always do the things that healthy people can, but that doesn't have to control my identity. Doing far better now, learning what my true limits are and how to work with them! MissFortune2222 , Presidencia de la República Report Final score: 259points POST Ozacoter Ozacoter Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 6 months ago But it is your identity. Being chronically ill changes who you are. The person i was before being ill, her hobbies, her hopes and dreams, her aproach to life is dead. If you are 24/7 ill, feeling your pain and weakness it becomes part of you. 201 201points reply View More Replies... View more comments #9Disney
Disney T_tessa41 , DAVID BURILLO Report Final score: 245points POST Tempest Tempest Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Disney has become a religion. The songs are hymns. Theaters are temples. Toys are icons. Characters are priests and you make pilgrimage to the parks for milestone celebrations or as a final quest for the dying. 110 110points reply View More Replies... View more comments Some people might get annoyed that there is nothing else to talk about with that person because they will force the same topic on you. You will have to deal with that by assessing the situation and your relationship with that person. Dr. Denise Marigold suggests that "In some relationships you might feel comfortable being completely honest and direct and saying something like 'It's nice that you are enthusiastic about that! Unfortunately it's not something I can really get into. Because it's hard for me to engage in that topic and feel connected with you, I find myself losing interest quickly.' If you feel the need to be less direct, you can still aim to validate their interest while steering the conversation towards other topics you can both engage in." #10Being A Badass In School
Being a badass in school. Like giving teachers a day of hell just cuz they’re “real” and say what they think without filtering it NaagyO , alamosbasement Report Final score: 234points POST LagoonaBlueColleen LagoonaBlueColleen Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 6 months ago LOL This is such a phase. I was like this for a year in a Bart Simpson sort of way. 64 64points reply View More Replies... View more comments #11Conspiracy Theories
Conspiracy theories. lefty121 , eric molina Report Final score: 226points POST Laurence Thomas Laurence Thomas Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I'm so confused by this picture... 207 207points reply View More Replies... View more comments So if someone is really focused on a particular interest, it's just their happy place and they feel comfortable and passionate talking about it. Also, if you get bored of talking about it or listening to it, there are nice ways to try and explain to the person without making them feel like they are a boring interlocutor. #12Herbalife
HERBALIFE. having to literally explain to people that it’s an MLM is so frustrating. They prey on small towns, create “nutrition shops” that sell $9 shakes when it’s literally just Herbalife and is helping the owner barely break even.Happened in my small town, then out of nowhere 3 other “branches” popped up in the revolving small towns. (Which basically means the owner conned 3 more into joining so that they can get their profit). There’s a documentary out there called like One in a Million or something that breaks down the pyramid and how little people at the bottom are actually making. They also show that the shakes are nothing more than liquid laxative, so of COURSE you’re losing weight.
Also, keto. bussebailey , Eduardo Francisco Vazquez Report Final score: 219points POST SuperChicken SuperChicken Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Herbalife is "nothing more than liquid laxative"? Which means, one is only losing water. That's not healthy - and, people still buy them. 95 95points reply View More Replies... View more comments #13
Dance Moms
Dance momsSports parent elohra_2013 , Studio Sarah Lou Report Final score: 211points POST *Displayname*=idk *Displayname*=idk Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Yes... Just, yes.... 70 70points reply View More Replies... View more comments #14
Political Party
Political party malibu-gold , Patrick Feller Report Final score: 206points POST LagoonaBlueColleen LagoonaBlueColleen Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 6 months ago Imo out of all of them these are the worst no matter what side they're on. 113 113points reply View More Replies... View more comments #15Doctor Who And Sherlock
My Texas high school had a British club. I'm actually a British citizen, so I tried to join.Those people were nuts. They made Doctor Who and Sherlock their whole personalities. AbigailLilac , Mark Hillary Report Final score: 191points POST RoseTheMad RoseTheMad Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago (edited) Don't forget Harry Potter! I'm a fan of Dr Who, Sherlock and HP, but goddamn I don't make it my personality... 150 150points reply View More Replies... View more comments #16
Drinking
Drinking cherry_latte , Ralf Smallkaa Report Final score: 190points POST Alison Kennedy Alison Kennedy Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I hate that people expect me to explain why I don't drink, like there is something fundamentally wrong with me! 255 255points reply View More Replies... View more comments #17Disliking Something
Disliking something. Met someone the other day who hates avocados so damn much every conversation they’d have would come back to how different they were from most people cuz they hated avocados HooblesWasTaken , Global Panorama Report Final score: 187points POST LagoonaBlueColleen LagoonaBlueColleen Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 6 months ago " If you like/don't like what I like/don't like we can't be friends". This gets old real quick. 105 105points reply View More Replies... View more comments #18The Generation They re Born In
The generation they're born in Meat_Slugger , Judith Jackson Report Final score: 159points POST LagoonaBlueColleen LagoonaBlueColleen Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 6 months ago I feel closer to the mindset of gen X than millennials but I'm classified as millennial by when I was born. It's a novelty just like astrology. 96 96points reply View More Replies... View more comments #19Being In The Army
Being in the army, military. Also gym newaccountbit**es , Evan Delshaw Report Final score: 156points POST I like donuts I like donuts Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago It might be a way of coping with the emotional pain though... (For army/military) 19 19points reply View More Replies... View more comments See Also on Bored Panda Woman Shows How "Harry Potter" Characters Were Supposed To Look According To Book Descriptions (35 Pics) 50 ‘Weird Facts’ About The World That Might Give You A Fresh Perspective #20Music Taste
Their music taste. I am very much guilty of this. AlexithymiacBluefish , Umair Abbasi Report Final score: 149points POST Geeki Nikki Geeki Nikki Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I am exhausted by the thousands of different music genres now. People ask what kind of music I like.... the good kind. 130 130points reply View More Replies... View more comments #21Disliking Something Mainstream Popular Common
Disliking something mainstream/popular/common shwatermelon18 , NRK P3 Report Final score: 147points POST LagoonaBlueColleen LagoonaBlueColleen Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 6 months ago I can't stand this. Wonder how many people are out there missing out on things they might love because they feel like they need to keep up an image they fabricated of being too "edgy' "unique" "original" to like anything mainstream and popular. 92 92points reply View More Replies... View more comments #22The Office
The Office./* Stares into the invisible camera * AnonHereToRant , NBCUniversal Television Distribution Report Final score: 145points POST RoseTheMad RoseTheMad Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago or even worse... Friends. ITS NOT EVEN THAT FUNNY. 176 176points reply View More Replies... View more comments #23
Owning A Tesla
Owning a tesla QwertytheCoolOne , rulenumberone2 Report Final score: 144points POST *Displayname*=idk *Displayname*=idk Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago DON'T NEED A TESLA TO IMPRESS HER, MY GIRL IS HAPPY ROLLIN ON A VESPA! 97 97points reply View More Replies... View more comments #24Living In NYC
Living in NYC godora5 , Artem Zarutskiy Report Final score: 132points POST Is Be Is Be Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Oh no I am not from NYC I am from Manhattan. Hear that one a lot. 75 75points reply View More Replies... View more comments #25Vaping
Vaping I_Smell_A_Lockdown , Mike Mozart Report Final score: 127points POST *Displayname*=idk *Displayname*=idk Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Vaping is very bad for your lungs. And the rest of your body. 65 65points reply View More Replies... View more comments #26Their Boyfriends Girlfriends
Their boyfriends/girlfriends. thestephanieloves , Vincent Diamante Report Final score: 118points POST KitFrey KitFrey Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago If both of their personalities are eachother, what personality do they have? 80 80points reply View More Replies... View more comments #27Their Vehicle
Their vehicle livestardustpuppet , Tap Tapzz Report Final score: 113points POST Bi-Polar Express Bi-Polar Express Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I love my mini. I don't really talk to others about it, though. It's private. 45 45points reply View More Replies... View more comments #28Coffee
Coffee bekcy , secretlondon123 Report Final score: 112points POST RoseTheMad RoseTheMad Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I might be guilty of this one. I love a good coffee or tea far too much... 92 92points reply View More Replies... View more comments #29Anime Protagonists
anime protagonists _Amberflame_ , Ari Helminen Report Final score: 106points POST *Displayname*=idk *Displayname*=idk Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Well. This one is funny, but also annoying. Like I have a friend who was OBSESSED with My hero acadamia, s/he would try to be as close as she could to be like the protagonist.. eventually she quit, but some of it still was habit. 53 53points reply View More Replies... View more comments See Also on Bored Panda Overworked Employee Quits Because He Wasn't Getting A Fair Wage, Costs The Company $40 Million 40 Embarrassing Moments People Didn't Know Who They Were Talking To And Made A Fool Of Themselves #30Stocks Trading Investments
Stocks Trading InvestmentsThis isn’t Boiler Room or Wolf of Wall Street. You don’t need to convince me to get into trading as we talk over a food service counter. [deleted] , OTA Photos Report Final score: 106points POST Peter H Peter H Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago And then there are the Bitcoin people. 64 64points reply View More Replies... View more comments #31
Memes
I wanna say "memes" but that just makes me sad about myself GuyN1425 , softnwholesomememes Report Final score: 104points POST LagoonaBlueColleen LagoonaBlueColleen Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 6 months ago What? People make these their personality? 65 65points reply View More Replies... View more comments #32Horses
Horses PhDPepper5 , Aaron Hall Report Final score: 100points POST KitFrey KitFrey Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I mean, I like horses but I wouldn't make them my whole personality! 45 45points reply View More Replies... View more comments #33Rick And Morty
Rick and Morty. Nidisu_Dr , Paul Sableman Report Final score: 92points POST Epiphonia Epiphonia Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Any TV show, at all. No exceptions. 66 66points reply View More Replies... View more comments #34Redditors Who Act Out Their Usernames
Redditors who act out their usernames. MagicMushroomFungi , Jeff Keacher Report Final score: 55points POST LagoonaBlueColleen LagoonaBlueColleen Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 6 months ago I think their usernames are more of a reflection of their personalities. 63 63points reply View More Replies... View more comments #35Travel
Travel speech_speech_speech , Rosanetur Report Final score: 44points POST LagoonaBlueColleen LagoonaBlueColleen Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 6 months ago I don't mind these types of people. They're living a life of adventure and exploration. I wish I could have that lifestyle. 128 128points reply View More Replies... View more comments Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing! Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda! Add Your Answer! Not your original work? Add source Publish Change image Upload Photo Ooops! Your image is too large, maximum file size is 8 MB. Upload Upload Edit Image Error occurred when generating embed. Please check link and try again. Render conversationUse html version
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Keisha Keisha Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Gym rats and sports fans were both on the list. 2 2points reply NOMAD Anshelm NOMAD Anshelm Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Sports fans were on the list. 1 1point reply Will Tiernan Will Tiernan Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I looked twice and didn't see sport fans. -1 -1point reply Gnub Gnub Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago (edited) Hahahaha THANK YOU for mentioning this I always dread to be pushed in the awful 'vegan corner' at parties that include dinner. Unfortunately I am vegan myself and I definitely don't enjoy nagging about it 24/7, nor am I even remotely interested in anyone else nagging about their enlightened veganhood. So yeah these parties are hell... Vegans are the worst. 9 9points reply Aria Lake Aria Lake Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Vegans I know barely talk about it when no one asks except for when we talk about what to eat or gifts for them so I won't say they are the worst. 2 2points reply Poultry Geist Poultry Geist Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I’m not vegan but I get really excited about yummy vegan treats and dishes 1 1point reply Noelle Martineau Noelle Martineau Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Or meat eaters. Gotta talk about bacon or steak every 3 minutes or their faces get all red 1 1point reply Aria Lake Aria Lake Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Because being vegan is an ethical choice it is by a fact a direct consequence of your personality and requires some commitment to it in everyday life. So yeah, it will be a consistent part of your life, it just can't be otherwise. 0 0points reply Luther von Wolfen Luther von Wolfen Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I'm surprised smoking pot wasn't here. I'm for full legalization - do what ya want - but some people really go overboard. It's a recreational drug, not a lifestyle. 49 49points reply Britt_Max Britt_Max Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Agreed. Marijuana is not a personality. 4 4points reply Load More Replies... Amy Stone-Chandler Amy Stone-Chandler Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Well.. when your stoned it is...haha 1 1point reply tirebiter tirebiter Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago In that regard, wine and scotch drinkers. 1 1point reply Beatcomber, Craig A. Beatcomber, Craig A. Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago It's a counterculture not so much a personality 0 0points reply Florence Florence Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago (edited) i’m sorry if this sounds offensive, because it’s not supposed to be and im bi myself, but, being lgbtq. i get that you should have pride in who you are, but making ur whole personality about being gay is really annoying to me, and it can be toxic to someone who is closeted and has homophobic parents/gaurdians 43 43points reply Eiram Eiram Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Thanks! My dad "suddenly" turned gay after 23 years of marriage and 7 kids. He was so over the top (gaining an accent, gay movies/stars, flashing pics of men kissing at an 8year old's birthday) it made me sick. I had to analyze was it the homosexual part (theiving and lying boyfriends), or just him. It was him... turns out I wasn't homophobic at all. 12 12points reply Load More Replies... Keisha Keisha Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago He probably just went a little overboard after finally being out of the closet. I have several friends that have done this at the beginning after being closeted for decades. It's just the freedom for most. Sometimes they don't go back to acting less gay but most find themselves and the person they have been supresssing is allowed to be free. But alot of gay people eventually find their actual genuine selves and are finally happy with their life. 6 6points reply Holly Bee Holly Bee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago When it comes to our parents, nothing is black or white. There's always going to baggage with them. It doesn't mean you're homophobic. 5 5points reply LuckyNumbers LuckyNumbers Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 6 months ago Your dad didn't suddenly turn gay. He suddenly found the courage to be open about something he's hidden for more than a quarter of a century. And judging by how derogatory you have written your comment I would revisit the not being homophobic thing. 5 5points reply DDmaybeandor DDmaybeandor Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Eiram, I get what you’re saying. People of all genders have such a variety of personalities and it’s perfectly ok to not like some of them. You’re allowed to like Will and not like Jack just like you’re allowed to like Grace and not like Karen. Some people are just grating. 3 3points reply Aria Lake Aria Lake Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago "I'm not homophobic but I just can't stay gay people acting gay or have interest in gay culture" yeah... Sure. You know what we say ? Things before the "but" doesn't count, Marie... So I may understand your father may have been clumsy experimenting his own culture and personality at his age but judging him about it is (sadly) homophobic. And if you can't stand some of your loved ones acting "gay" maybe there's deep down there some homophobia and family issues you should address. 2 2points reply BDawg BDawg Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago (edited) Don’t listen to these offended idiots. You’re allowed to be effected by your father upending your life, and yes, showing sexualized photos at a child’s birthday is not appropriate. This culture of one sided empathy has gotten out of hand, I’m sorry your family went through this, you’re allowed to process. 1 1point reply goldBalls goldBalls Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago yes, it turns out you are homophobic. Your dad is finally enjoying life the way he wants. if that includes gay movies, gay accent, etc, and it makes you sick, you are homophobic. and there is nothing wrong with 8 year old's watching men kissing. 0 0points reply Keisha Keisha Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I remember being on a field trip in New Orleans when I was 10 years old and there was a gay couple sitting on a bench holding hands. I had never seen gay people showing affection before. When they got up to leave they said something to one another,laughed and kissed before they walked away holding hands and it's been ingrained into my brain for 41 years how happy I was to see them being so happy and free to be themselves. Talking about it even all these years later these two men had no idea how much of a life altering impression they made on a 10 year old little girl. 8 8points reply -Cr1cK3t-In_aBlaNk3t -Cr1cK3t-In_aBlaNk3t Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I agree! I'm part of LGBTQ+ too, it's perfectly fine to be proud of who you are, but just don't shove it down everyone's throats please 10 10points reply Aria Lake Aria Lake Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Yeah, we should be more silent to not bother those who don't want to give us equal rights. What about no? -1 -1point reply Kristina H.N. Kristina H.N. Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago It's not about that, and you probably know that. Gay and annoyed how everyone is blowing it out of proportions these days. 4 4points reply Lijo Kim Lijo Kim Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago (edited) Absolutely! I am also bisexual and there have been times when I questioned my sexuality just because it wasn't my personality. I am not the type of person to talk about my sexual orientation a lot just because I feel like it's nobody's business but that doesn't make me any less bisexual 8 8points reply Keisha Keisha Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I have never understood why people think gay or bisexual people have to come out and share that. When I knew I liked boys nobody expected me to come out as straight. I always told my kids if you love someone and they love you and you are kind to one another I don't care what sex they are. I would accept them with open arms because my children are everything to me and I just want them to be happy. I rather them be with someone kind and loving of the same sex than someone that treats them like dirt simply because they are the opposite sex.Had and so called friends or family not felt the same they would no longer be a part of our lives. 4 4points reply Skylar Jaxx Skylar Jaxx Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I was a lesbian out open until I was 30 n it annoys the f**k outta me to. I just was me. I didn't make it a focus. Didn't put it in people's faces but I want shy about it. But it didn't rule my life. 6 6points reply Jamilah toenailkilla Jamilah toenailkilla Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Don't listen to the people calling you homophobic, you're not. There's not such thing as "acting gay" you're either just gay or you're not. Idk why anybody who's gay or whatever feels the need to act over the top and talk with a lisp and all that. That's just like when people tell me "you don't talk like you're black." Well I am black and I don't need to sound like a hoodrat now do I? 4 4points reply Rebecca Surette Rebecca Surette Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago No, it isn't just you. Anyone of any sexual orientation who makes that orientation their main character trait drives me crazy. And it happens with ALL of them to some degree. I am more than either my biology OR my gender. 3 3points reply Metallicd3ath Metallicd3ath Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 6 months ago I mentioned this in an earlier post and seeing as I'm cishet I'm a *little* worried it'll get taken the wrong way, (or that my point will be proven as I get attacked/mobbed by those I'm describing) 3 3points reply Steph Maule Steph Maule Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I expected to see that too 2 2points reply It's Me It's Me Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago It’s when someone from that way of life makes it seem like it has to be all of their life. Your sexuality will never come up in conversation with me. I guarantee it. I don’t support or not support. I simply have nothing to do with it. 2 2points reply Pan dulce Pan dulce Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago When you're having a conversation w/ someone who is telling a story about someone they know & describe them as being gay... I once rhetorically asked them after them saying that, "I wonder if gay people ever say, '...and he/she's straight?'" They just kept on blabbering... pft 2 2points reply venny venny Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Straight people made being straight their whole personality and life, and expect other people to follow it. But when lgbt+ do it it's annoying, toxic and weird. Not to be rude. This just rubs me the wrong way -2 -2points reply Load More Comments POST Ivana Bašić Ivana Bašić Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago It's getting bad when vegans don't even make the list. :D 76 76points reply Sergio Bicerra Sergio Bicerra Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Or crossfit, or sports fans. 23 23points reply Load More Replies... Keisha Keisha Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Gym rats and sports fans were both on the list. 2 2points reply NOMAD Anshelm NOMAD Anshelm Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Sports fans were on the list. 1 1point reply Will Tiernan Will Tiernan Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I looked twice and didn't see sport fans. -1 -1point reply Gnub Gnub Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago (edited) Hahahaha THANK YOU for mentioning this I always dread to be pushed in the awful 'vegan corner' at parties that include dinner. Unfortunately I am vegan myself and I definitely don't enjoy nagging about it 24/7, nor am I even remotely interested in anyone else nagging about their enlightened veganhood. So yeah these parties are hell... Vegans are the worst. 9 9points reply Aria Lake Aria Lake Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Vegans I know barely talk about it when no one asks except for when we talk about what to eat or gifts for them so I won't say they are the worst. 2 2points reply Poultry Geist Poultry Geist Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I’m not vegan but I get really excited about yummy vegan treats and dishes 1 1point reply Noelle Martineau Noelle Martineau Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Or meat eaters. Gotta talk about bacon or steak every 3 minutes or their faces get all red 1 1point reply Aria Lake Aria Lake Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Because being vegan is an ethical choice it is by a fact a direct consequence of your personality and requires some commitment to it in everyday life. So yeah, it will be a consistent part of your life, it just can't be otherwise. 0 0points reply Luther von Wolfen Luther von Wolfen Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I'm surprised smoking pot wasn't here. I'm for full legalization - do what ya want - but some people really go overboard. It's a recreational drug, not a lifestyle. 49 49points reply Britt_Max Britt_Max Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Agreed. Marijuana is not a personality. 4 4points reply Load More Replies... Amy Stone-Chandler Amy Stone-Chandler Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Well.. when your stoned it is...haha 1 1point reply tirebiter tirebiter Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago In that regard, wine and scotch drinkers. 1 1point reply Beatcomber, Craig A. Beatcomber, Craig A. Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago It's a counterculture not so much a personality 0 0points reply Florence Florence Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago (edited) i’m sorry if this sounds offensive, because it’s not supposed to be and im bi myself, but, being lgbtq. i get that you should have pride in who you are, but making ur whole personality about being gay is really annoying to me, and it can be toxic to someone who is closeted and has homophobic parents/gaurdians 43 43points reply Eiram Eiram Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Thanks! My dad "suddenly" turned gay after 23 years of marriage and 7 kids. He was so over the top (gaining an accent, gay movies/stars, flashing pics of men kissing at an 8year old's birthday) it made me sick. I had to analyze was it the homosexual part (theiving and lying boyfriends), or just him. It was him... turns out I wasn't homophobic at all. 12 12points reply Load More Replies... Keisha Keisha Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago He probably just went a little overboard after finally being out of the closet. I have several friends that have done this at the beginning after being closeted for decades. It's just the freedom for most. Sometimes they don't go back to acting less gay but most find themselves and the person they have been supresssing is allowed to be free. But alot of gay people eventually find their actual genuine selves and are finally happy with their life. 6 6points reply Holly Bee Holly Bee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago When it comes to our parents, nothing is black or white. There's always going to baggage with them. It doesn't mean you're homophobic. 5 5points reply LuckyNumbers LuckyNumbers Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 6 months ago Your dad didn't suddenly turn gay. He suddenly found the courage to be open about something he's hidden for more than a quarter of a century. And judging by how derogatory you have written your comment I would revisit the not being homophobic thing. 5 5points reply DDmaybeandor DDmaybeandor Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Eiram, I get what you’re saying. People of all genders have such a variety of personalities and it’s perfectly ok to not like some of them. You’re allowed to like Will and not like Jack just like you’re allowed to like Grace and not like Karen. Some people are just grating. 3 3points reply Aria Lake Aria Lake Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago "I'm not homophobic but I just can't stay gay people acting gay or have interest in gay culture" yeah... Sure. You know what we say ? Things before the "but" doesn't count, Marie... So I may understand your father may have been clumsy experimenting his own culture and personality at his age but judging him about it is (sadly) homophobic. And if you can't stand some of your loved ones acting "gay" maybe there's deep down there some homophobia and family issues you should address. 2 2points reply BDawg BDawg Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago (edited) Don’t listen to these offended idiots. You’re allowed to be effected by your father upending your life, and yes, showing sexualized photos at a child’s birthday is not appropriate. This culture of one sided empathy has gotten out of hand, I’m sorry your family went through this, you’re allowed to process. 1 1point reply goldBalls goldBalls Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago yes, it turns out you are homophobic. Your dad is finally enjoying life the way he wants. if that includes gay movies, gay accent, etc, and it makes you sick, you are homophobic. and there is nothing wrong with 8 year old's watching men kissing. 0 0points reply Keisha Keisha Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I remember being on a field trip in New Orleans when I was 10 years old and there was a gay couple sitting on a bench holding hands. I had never seen gay people showing affection before. When they got up to leave they said something to one another,laughed and kissed before they walked away holding hands and it's been ingrained into my brain for 41 years how happy I was to see them being so happy and free to be themselves. Talking about it even all these years later these two men had no idea how much of a life altering impression they made on a 10 year old little girl. 8 8points reply -Cr1cK3t-In_aBlaNk3t -Cr1cK3t-In_aBlaNk3t Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I agree! I'm part of LGBTQ+ too, it's perfectly fine to be proud of who you are, but just don't shove it down everyone's throats please 10 10points reply Aria Lake Aria Lake Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Yeah, we should be more silent to not bother those who don't want to give us equal rights. What about no? -1 -1point reply Kristina H.N. Kristina H.N. Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago It's not about that, and you probably know that. Gay and annoyed how everyone is blowing it out of proportions these days. 4 4points reply Lijo Kim Lijo Kim Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago (edited) Absolutely! I am also bisexual and there have been times when I questioned my sexuality just because it wasn't my personality. I am not the type of person to talk about my sexual orientation a lot just because I feel like it's nobody's business but that doesn't make me any less bisexual 8 8points reply Keisha Keisha Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I have never understood why people think gay or bisexual people have to come out and share that. When I knew I liked boys nobody expected me to come out as straight. I always told my kids if you love someone and they love you and you are kind to one another I don't care what sex they are. I would accept them with open arms because my children are everything to me and I just want them to be happy. I rather them be with someone kind and loving of the same sex than someone that treats them like dirt simply because they are the opposite sex.Had and so called friends or family not felt the same they would no longer be a part of our lives. 4 4points reply Skylar Jaxx Skylar Jaxx Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I was a lesbian out open until I was 30 n it annoys the f**k outta me to. I just was me. I didn't make it a focus. Didn't put it in people's faces but I want shy about it. But it didn't rule my life. 6 6points reply Jamilah toenailkilla Jamilah toenailkilla Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Don't listen to the people calling you homophobic, you're not. There's not such thing as "acting gay" you're either just gay or you're not. Idk why anybody who's gay or whatever feels the need to act over the top and talk with a lisp and all that. That's just like when people tell me "you don't talk like you're black." Well I am black and I don't need to sound like a hoodrat now do I? 4 4points reply Rebecca Surette Rebecca Surette Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago No, it isn't just you. Anyone of any sexual orientation who makes that orientation their main character trait drives me crazy. And it happens with ALL of them to some degree. I am more than either my biology OR my gender. 3 3points reply Metallicd3ath Metallicd3ath Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 6 months ago I mentioned this in an earlier post and seeing as I'm cishet I'm a *little* worried it'll get taken the wrong way, (or that my point will be proven as I get attacked/mobbed by those I'm describing) 3 3points reply Steph Maule Steph Maule Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago I expected to see that too 2 2points reply It's Me It's Me Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago It’s when someone from that way of life makes it seem like it has to be all of their life. Your sexuality will never come up in conversation with me. I guarantee it. I don’t support or not support. I simply have nothing to do with it. 2 2points reply Pan dulce Pan dulce Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago When you're having a conversation w/ someone who is telling a story about someone they know & describe them as being gay... I once rhetorically asked them after them saying that, "I wonder if gay people ever say, '...and he/she's straight?'" They just kept on blabbering... pft 2 2points reply venny venny Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 6 months ago Straight people made being straight their whole personality and life, and expect other people to follow it. But when lgbt+ do it it's annoying, toxic and weird. Not to be rude. This just rubs me the wrong way -2 -2points reply Load More Comments Popular on Bored Panda I Used AI To See What These 23 Popular Cartoon Characters Would Look Like In Real Life 30 Y.O. 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