30 Times Brides Rightfully Called Out Their Bridesmaids For Ruining Their Weddings
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Publish Not your original work? Add source Your wedding is supposed to be the happiest day in your life. But with all the pressure for it to be perfect, stress and sleepless nights, things more often than not go sour. Blame it on the bad weather, lack of planning, mercury in retrograde, or bridesmaids… speaking of whom, that's who this post is really about. You are probably familiar with the corner of Reddit called "Wedding Shaming" where people gather to roast failed weddings, from tacky dresses to indecent behavior. With 312k members, it's Reddit's destination to blow off that steam if you just returned from a wedding you'd much rather have missed. This time, brides are sharing the worst bridesmaid stories that happened during their weddings both on the subreddit and this Ask Reddit thread. The stories below make you wonder how important it is to choose your close friends and family members so you don't end up with a stolen spotlight and a bad memory. This post may include affiliate links. #1
I didn’t want a hen do & my hubby didn’t want a stagger so we just had a wee pre-wedding party, it was just cheesey good natured fun including games and stuff. I totally understand that’s not everyone’s idea of fun but, y’know... it was our wedding. She sat apart from us all, audibly making fun of everything we did but I just ignored her because she was always nasty & insufferably ‘cool’ & I didn’t want drama when my sister had organised it & we were having fun.
“E” has stretched ear lobes so I asked her if she wouldn’t mind wearing flesh coloured plugs and earrings to match the other girls. She said yes but on the day she said she’d lost the plugs I’d bought her and had in obnoxiously large black things that really drew your eye but I’m not a maniac, these things happen & I didn’t really care that much.... until I found out she’d been making fun of how she loved throwing the plugs in the bin and that I’m such an idiot, I’d believe her. Why wouldn’t I since I’d only asked her to do it for me as a favour because I liked the earring I bought my bridesmaids, I would never demand someone change their appearance for me.
On my wedding day, she waltzed into breakfast at the venue in her pyjamas with a bucket, claiming she had a migraine and was going to be spewing all day. I knew she was faking because it’s nearly impossible to fake a full on migraine while you’re walking about talking to people & laughing. I suggested that she can go lie down in one of the bedrooms but she aggressively said “I guess I’ll just have to deal with it but I’ll need to have a bucket at the ceremony”. My sister told her that wasn’t an acceptable option and if she needed to go home that could be arranged for her but she didn’t go home nor show any further signs of a migraine. She was snippy for the whole rest of the day & made a scene on the dance floor at night by doing an unplanned choreographed dance with her new friend to a song that we used to dance to when we went out at weekends as kids. It was a kick in the teeth although I was too happy to get upset. Our friendship was never the same after that day & she ended up finishing the friendship in a storm of drama just after I had my first kid. She’s an awful person. courageous_stumbling Report Final score: 141points POST Nick Rinnert Nick Rinnert Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago There it is again. "friendship". These people have no clue what friendship actually means. 112 112points reply View More Replies... View more comments #16
Had a bridesmaid who had been a somewhat close friend. Her boyfriend (of 6 months, but they “had known each other for longer”) had not proposed to her yet, and she would consistently take her frustration about that out on me. Saying things like how they “deserve” to get married first since they knew each other longer than my now husband and I (which, I might add was false), saying nasty, damning with faint praise things to me. Insulting my body, insulting me in general, little caustic comments that would just hurt honestly. It got really out of hand. She finally stopped talking to me and would purposely leave me out of things that our friend group would do. She was a very homely type of person, and a big part of a Church crowd which made things so much worse imo. She constantly acted holier than thou and many people saw her “innocence” as kindness and assumed she was nice just because she was Churchy.
About a month or so later, I confronted her about it. I told her that I felt like our friendship was dwindling and I didn’t understand why. I told her how I felt and that if it was something I had done that I’d do my best to amend it. She flipped out saying “she wasn’t jealous but she just knew what was right and wrong”, inferring that her relationship was “better” somehow. It was absolutely mad. I asked her if she even wanted to be in the wedding at this point. She said she did, she really did and never even apologized. Looking back on this situation I should’ve never asked her in the first place. She suddenly went cold-Turkey ignoring me. I finally asked if she and I could talk and she acquiesced. I “fired” her from being a bridesmaid. I felt horrible about it. I truly did. At the same time, I couldn’t handle all the straight up bullying I was taking. I never once yelled at her, never once called her any names. She told everyone I yelled at her and called her a b***h. Even if I had, that would’ve been nothing compared to the s**t I endured from her.
My other bridesmaids were amazing and really took my side on this. She finally got engaged and married to that dude and I hope she’s happy now. Jesus she made my life miserable for a solid 6 months.
tl;dr lesson - if you choose to have bridesmaids, pick only the people you know you’ll be close to for years to come. And don’t let people bully you! needsacaffeinedrip Report Final score: 120points POST MacKenzie Moore MacKenzie Moore Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago I'm so sorry for you!! 47 47points reply View More Replies... View more comments #18
They fought me on every single decision when it came to the dress. Everyone they chose looked too casual or was very inappropriate for a wedding (think either a faux leather peplum dress from Guess, or a casual Wilfred dress from Aritzia). After I searched for weeks online and at stores, they finally agreed on one from Nordstrom which I had to order and take care of. They fought me on any "duties" or helping with any sort of prep. They showed up for 4 hours the day before. Argued on any placement of decorations and took off after I begged everyone to do a short rehearsal. Even though I told them I needed help. (Keep in mind they did not have to travel for the wedding, my husband and I arranged it so WE were the only ones who had to travel far). No bridal shower, no bachelorette party. They claimed they were too busy. A friend offered to throw one and they told her no, they would plan one...they never did. Two nights before the wedding, I told them I booked reservations for us and my mom at a local pub just to have something. I ended up having to cancel because they didn't want too. (My mom enabled and justified a lot of their behavior. And she wonders why I felt like they were the favourites growing up). The day of they did not help me at all get ready at all. My photographers were amazing who did everything from help me finish my hair and make up
(they even ran out to get me new lashes because mine got wrecked) and get me into my dress. And, at the reception, they made a toast...which was so awkward. It was basically about who should have been the maid of honour and basically being all about them. I remember looking out and peoples faces were just cringing. At the end I just focused on having fun the rest of the night and ignoring them.
Looking back, I should have not had them. I came pretty close to having a bridezilla moment, because I was just so fed up. All they did was go dress shopping with me once, they went out one afternoon to look for bridesmaid dresses which they didn't find any, I had too. They showed up a the hall for 4 hours to set up, and they showed up at the wedding. That was it. Anything additional I asked, I got told no. Or, any plans I tried to make to have a bit of fun before I was told no. I had a couple friends who step up big time the weeks before, and I felt so shitty because I should have asked them. _northernlights Report Final score: 106points POST Linda van der Pal Linda van der Pal Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago You would not have been a bridezilla even if you would have blown up! 74 74points reply View more comments #22
About 4 months ago, my fiancé and I were thinking it over and decided it’d be cheaper and easier to just have a backyard wedding to save some money, as we were due to spend at least $16k at our current venue. I told my MOH about it, thinking she’d be supportive, but instead she just s**t all over the idea. She called it trashy and a “glorified graduation party”.
Thinking it would do no harm I asked her mom if it’d be a possibility for us to have the wedding in her backyard. Due to liability reasons she declined. The next day my MOH confronts me and calls me a sh**ty person and selfish for going behind her back and asking her mom. They don’t have the best relationship, but they still talk every now and then and I really thought it wouldn’t be an issue. I apologized over and over to my friend, while she repeatedly told me I was stupid and didn’t know how to use my f*****g brain and didn’t know what I was doing. I finally ended the conversation by basically kicking her out of the wedding party.
We’re now getting married in 3 months on the beach in Florida, with a small set of close friends and family. Either my friend doesn’t know, or she does and hasn’t bothered to confront me about it. I’ve only spoken to her once since our fight a few months ago - to wish her a happy birthday and she was a complete d**k to me. Sad to say I lost one of my best friends over my own wedding, because I didn’t agree with her.
And she called me the selfish one... thosethickthighs Report Final score: 98points POST Carol Emory Carol Emory Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago I do think it was weird for you to bypass her and ask her mother if you could use her backyard. 46 46points reply View More Replies... View more comments #25
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Just because someone is on your social media and "likes" the stuff you post, does not equal friend. Acquaintances, people you party with, generally not friends. Most people are only going to have 1-2 REAL friends in their lives, the rest are just fluff. 0 0points reply Load More Replies... Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago I have a good nightmare bridesmaid story. It was at the wedding of a close relative. The woman in question got to be a bridesmaid because she was married to the Best Man (IIRC she made a fuss until she was asked) she wasn't especially close to the bride or groom herself. In fact they found her really annoying and tolerated her because she was the wife of a very good friend. I had made the wedding cake. I have also been fencing / demonstration sword fighting since I was about 15 and I have some nice swords. So brought one to cut the cake with style. The kids at the wedding were fascinated and I was letting them have their photo taken holding it under very close supervision. Cue the bridesmaid from hell coming over and trying to snatch the sword off one of the kids to have a go herself. I took it off her, and she had a tantrum because, "You'll let the kids hold it but not me and I am an adult." My response was, "There are three reasons for that. The kids asked first... 1/2 21 21points reply Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago "...The kids listened to the safety briefing and didn't try to wave it about in a crowded marquee, and most importantly, the kids aren't steaming drunk before we've even got to the toasts." I spent the next hour (until the cake was cut) standing guard because she kept trying to steal the sword. After the cutting I locked it in my room. Fast forward to today. The bridesmaid from hell cheated on the Best Man (lovely chap who did not deserve that) and they are now divorced. The juiciest bit? All this time she has worked as one of Boris Johnson's "advisors" and she is now heavily implicated in the Partygate scandal. I shouldn't laugh. 2/2 23 23points reply Load More Replies... Auntriarch Auntriarch Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago Well it's laugh or cry... 8 8points reply Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago Laughing so I don't cry, I think. 5 5points reply MimSorensson MimSorensson Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago (edited) Yeah, or, you know… laughing UNTIL you cry. 3 3points reply BobTDG BobTDG Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago Well good riddance for the best man. She's a f*****g T*ry. 3 3points reply Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago The only Tory at the wedding. 2 2points reply Just saying Just saying Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago We're not talking Allegra are we? 3 3points reply Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago It's not Allegra. 2 2points reply Marilyn Russell Marilyn Russell Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago What a name anyway. Or is it a car? 0 0points reply Marilyn Russell Marilyn Russell Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago Well, the lovely chap didn’t deserve to be cheated on, that’s true, but he is free from the crazy and hopefully found a nice girl and has a happier life. 1 1point reply Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago Thankfully he did and he does. 1 1point reply Milan Milan Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 4 months ago Some people just have a very shallow friendships. Almost every post is about it. 16 16points reply Kit Kat Kit Kat Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago Yup. It's all very high school drama. 9 9points reply Load More Replies... Load More Comments POST Nick Rinnert Nick Rinnert Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago I'm starting to think that a lot of people have no actual grip on the concept of "friendship". 26 26points reply Gigantor the Bog Monster Gigantor the Bog Monster Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago The problem is how kids today see "friends". Just because someone is on your social media and "likes" the stuff you post, does not equal friend. Acquaintances, people you party with, generally not friends. Most people are only going to have 1-2 REAL friends in their lives, the rest are just fluff. 0 0points reply Load More Replies... Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago I have a good nightmare bridesmaid story. It was at the wedding of a close relative. The woman in question got to be a bridesmaid because she was married to the Best Man (IIRC she made a fuss until she was asked) she wasn't especially close to the bride or groom herself. In fact they found her really annoying and tolerated her because she was the wife of a very good friend. I had made the wedding cake. I have also been fencing / demonstration sword fighting since I was about 15 and I have some nice swords. So brought one to cut the cake with style. The kids at the wedding were fascinated and I was letting them have their photo taken holding it under very close supervision. Cue the bridesmaid from hell coming over and trying to snatch the sword off one of the kids to have a go herself. I took it off her, and she had a tantrum because, "You'll let the kids hold it but not me and I am an adult." My response was, "There are three reasons for that. The kids asked first... 1/2 21 21points reply Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago "...The kids listened to the safety briefing and didn't try to wave it about in a crowded marquee, and most importantly, the kids aren't steaming drunk before we've even got to the toasts." I spent the next hour (until the cake was cut) standing guard because she kept trying to steal the sword. After the cutting I locked it in my room. Fast forward to today. The bridesmaid from hell cheated on the Best Man (lovely chap who did not deserve that) and they are now divorced. The juiciest bit? All this time she has worked as one of Boris Johnson's "advisors" and she is now heavily implicated in the Partygate scandal. I shouldn't laugh. 2/2 23 23points reply Load More Replies... Auntriarch Auntriarch Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago Well it's laugh or cry... 8 8points reply Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago Laughing so I don't cry, I think. 5 5points reply MimSorensson MimSorensson Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago (edited) Yeah, or, you know… laughing UNTIL you cry. 3 3points reply BobTDG BobTDG Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago Well good riddance for the best man. She's a f*****g T*ry. 3 3points reply Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago The only Tory at the wedding. 2 2points reply Just saying Just saying Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago We're not talking Allegra are we? 3 3points reply Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago It's not Allegra. 2 2points reply Marilyn Russell Marilyn Russell Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago What a name anyway. Or is it a car? 0 0points reply Marilyn Russell Marilyn Russell Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago Well, the lovely chap didn’t deserve to be cheated on, that’s true, but he is free from the crazy and hopefully found a nice girl and has a happier life. 1 1point reply Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago Thankfully he did and he does. 1 1point reply Milan Milan Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 4 months ago Some people just have a very shallow friendships. Almost every post is about it. 16 16points reply Kit Kat Kit Kat Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago Yup. It's all very high school drama. 9 9points reply Load More Replies... Load More Comments Popular on Bored Panda I Used AI To See What These 23 Popular Cartoon Characters Would Look Like In Real Life 30 Y.O. 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Publish Not your original work? Add source Your wedding is supposed to be the happiest day in your life. But with all the pressure for it to be perfect, stress and sleepless nights, things more often than not go sour. Blame it on the bad weather, lack of planning, mercury in retrograde, or bridesmaids… speaking of whom, that's who this post is really about. You are probably familiar with the corner of Reddit called "Wedding Shaming" where people gather to roast failed weddings, from tacky dresses to indecent behavior. With 312k members, it's Reddit's destination to blow off that steam if you just returned from a wedding you'd much rather have missed. This time, brides are sharing the worst bridesmaid stories that happened during their weddings both on the subreddit and this Ask Reddit thread. The stories below make you wonder how important it is to choose your close friends and family members so you don't end up with a stolen spotlight and a bad memory. This post may include affiliate links. #1
Bridesmaid Sil From Hell From Dear Prudence
cmrc13 Report Final score: 379points POST Lizzie Lola Lizzie Lola Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago That's absolutely HORRIFYING! 316 316points reply View More Replies... View more comments To find out more about what it means to be a perfect bridesmaid and how common drama during wedding preparation is, as well as how to avoid it, Bored Panda spoke with the person who knows it all: Jen Glantz, the founder of Bridesmaid for Hire and The Newlywed Card Game, a 3x best-selling author, a voice of You're Not Getting Any Younger podcast, and the brains behind Jen & Juice coaching, digital courses, & the Pick-Me-Up newsletter. Glantz said that while we might think there's unity and peace inside of bridal parties, they are actually filled with conflict and drama. "That's because weddings are filled with decisions, pop-up challenges, and a lot of emotions. When you bring your friends and family into that equation and ask them to stand by your side, while also giving them a to-do list of things you expect them to do during your wedding adventure, it can bring a level of intensity that didn't exist before the wedding within that relationship," she explained. #2She Looks Absolutely Gorgeous Except She s Not The Bride
DBear423 Report Final score: 273points POST MacKenzie Moore MacKenzie Moore Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago I thought the same thing, till I read the title. 120 120points reply View more comments #3Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids What Happened
SuddenTerrible_Haiku Report Final score: 258points POST Joe Blowe Joe Blowe Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago (edited) How dare you even ask her to curl her hair, that is going way overboard with the demands, hahaha 161 161points reply View More Replies... View more comments #4There Is A Whole Lot To Unpack Here
BonyMiggsz Report Final score: 256points POST Joe Blowe Joe Blowe Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago I was expecting a lot more since it happened in Florida. 284 284points reply View More Replies... View more comments A lot of conflicts happen because of lack of communication and expectations, Glantz argues. "So much can be avoided if the person getting married clearly states what they want from their bridal party and the people in the bridal party openly share what they are able and willing to do before the wedding process even starts."When asked about what it takes to be the perfect bridesmaid for the bride, Glantz said it's so much like being a good friend. "Before you even say yes to being a bridesmaid, have a game plan in mind," she said. #5Shaming My Bridesmaid For Shaming My Eating Habits
glasssa251 Report Final score: 243points POST Lawrencium Lawrencium Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago Fun fact: people who make negative comments on other people's eating habits are less likely to die of natural causes! 317 317points reply View More Replies... View more comments #6Time To Fire The Bridesmaid
CaffeineFueledLife Report Final score: 229points POST Lizzie Lola Lizzie Lola Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago Get silver spray paint and let her go barefoot. 280 280points reply View More Replies... View more comments #7A Perfect Time To Propose Bridesmaid s Friend s Wedding
samshoe242 Report Final score: 226points POST MacKenzie Moore MacKenzie Moore Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago attention stealers!! 230 230points reply View More Replies... View more comments Glantz's advice is to reflect on a couple of things: "Understand how much time, money, and energy you can spend on this person's wedding adventure. Say no to things you can't afford or can't do. Be upfront and don't be scared to be honest about your expectations in the role." Moreover, Glantz argues that "if the person getting married gets mad at you because you can't afford to take three days off work and spend $1,500 on her bachelorette party, then the friendship has bigger issues." #8With Friends Like These Who Needs Enemies
spookysadghoul Report Final score: 215points POST Lizzie Lola Lizzie Lola Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago What is even happening....? 125 125points reply View More Replies... View more comments #9My Sister Is Getting Married This Is The Dress One Of Her Bridesmaids Bought
hallengoats Report Final score: 200points POST MacKenzie Moore MacKenzie Moore Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago R U D E 189 189points reply View More Replies... View more comments #10Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids What Happened
Greyhoundowner Report Final score: 194points POST Olivia Lisbon Olivia Lisbon Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago (edited) So either an attention seeking prat or the MOH knew the husband better than the bride thought… 174 174points reply View More Replies... View more comments "Also, as a bridesmaid, it's important to practice some selflessness in the tough moments. Be there for the person getting married and support them. Let things go that don't really matter so you can help your friend get through the wedding. For example, if you're getting your hair done on the morning of the wedding but it's not perfect, rather than holding up the wedding timeline for you to get it re-done and bringing attention to it (which can stress the bride out), fix it privately yourself and move on," the life coach and Bridesmaid for Hire explained. #11Oh Dear Oh Dear Seen On Facebook
mdnnnsph Report Final score: 167points POST James G. Currie James G. Currie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago Drop her. A "first met" date in comparison to a wedding is like a candle to the sun. It. Is. Not. Her. Day. It is YOURS! 254 254points reply View More Replies... View more comments #12Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids What Happened
UnsuspectingCoyote Report Final score: 152points POST Olivia Lisbon Olivia Lisbon Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago I’m surprised there was a friendship in the first place…or did the new guy turn her into this monster? Huge red flag. 71 71points reply View more comments #13Oh God Found On Fb Even Matching Pearls
mdnnnsph Report Final score: 150points POST MacKenzie Moore MacKenzie Moore Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago please tell me they're a lesbian couple?? please?? 189 189points reply View More Replies... View more comments When it comes to deciding who you want to have as a bridesmaid, Glantz suggests thinking about this: "who would you want to get stuck in an elevator with for 4 hours? Those are the people who should be your bridesmaids. Pick people who make you feel calm and loved." She added that it's not a good idea to pick people because you feel obligated to. For the bride who feels very pressured to have the most perfect day in their life, Glantz reminds that no wedding is perfect, just like no day in your life is. "Instead, think about practicing ways to go with the flow, handle emotions, and rebalance expectations before your big day comes to life." #14Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids What Happened
pregnant-and-cold Report Final score: 143points POST MacKenzie Moore MacKenzie Moore Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago seems like she may need a *little* therapy. 108 108points reply View More Replies... View more comments #15Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids What Happened
I’ll try to keep this short. My supposed best friend “E” was a toxic friend but I was still in the 16yr friendship at the time of my wedding, urgh.I didn’t want a hen do & my hubby didn’t want a stagger so we just had a wee pre-wedding party, it was just cheesey good natured fun including games and stuff. I totally understand that’s not everyone’s idea of fun but, y’know... it was our wedding. She sat apart from us all, audibly making fun of everything we did but I just ignored her because she was always nasty & insufferably ‘cool’ & I didn’t want drama when my sister had organised it & we were having fun.
“E” has stretched ear lobes so I asked her if she wouldn’t mind wearing flesh coloured plugs and earrings to match the other girls. She said yes but on the day she said she’d lost the plugs I’d bought her and had in obnoxiously large black things that really drew your eye but I’m not a maniac, these things happen & I didn’t really care that much.... until I found out she’d been making fun of how she loved throwing the plugs in the bin and that I’m such an idiot, I’d believe her. Why wouldn’t I since I’d only asked her to do it for me as a favour because I liked the earring I bought my bridesmaids, I would never demand someone change their appearance for me.
On my wedding day, she waltzed into breakfast at the venue in her pyjamas with a bucket, claiming she had a migraine and was going to be spewing all day. I knew she was faking because it’s nearly impossible to fake a full on migraine while you’re walking about talking to people & laughing. I suggested that she can go lie down in one of the bedrooms but she aggressively said “I guess I’ll just have to deal with it but I’ll need to have a bucket at the ceremony”. My sister told her that wasn’t an acceptable option and if she needed to go home that could be arranged for her but she didn’t go home nor show any further signs of a migraine. She was snippy for the whole rest of the day & made a scene on the dance floor at night by doing an unplanned choreographed dance with her new friend to a song that we used to dance to when we went out at weekends as kids. It was a kick in the teeth although I was too happy to get upset. Our friendship was never the same after that day & she ended up finishing the friendship in a storm of drama just after I had my first kid. She’s an awful person. courageous_stumbling Report Final score: 141points POST Nick Rinnert Nick Rinnert Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago There it is again. "friendship". These people have no clue what friendship actually means. 112 112points reply View More Replies... View more comments #16
Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids What Happened
godzillaeatsasians Report Final score: 132points POST Olivia Lisbon Olivia Lisbon Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago She may have been embarrassed that she left things too late, or perhaps couldn’t afford them, but this is still a terrible way to treat people. But then why tell other people not to come? There has to be more to this… 87 87points reply View more comments "In the end, you're celebrating a new step you're taking in your relationship. That's all that matters. If the flowers don't look right or a bridesmaid is causing drama, let it go, focus on the good, and have a good time. You staying present and celebrating the good will outshine what goes wrong on your wedding day," the life coach concluded. #17Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids What Happened
I was pretty young when I got married, got engaged my senior year of college and got married the summer out of college. We’re in the South, so it’s not uncommon for that to happen.Had a bridesmaid who had been a somewhat close friend. Her boyfriend (of 6 months, but they “had known each other for longer”) had not proposed to her yet, and she would consistently take her frustration about that out on me. Saying things like how they “deserve” to get married first since they knew each other longer than my now husband and I (which, I might add was false), saying nasty, damning with faint praise things to me. Insulting my body, insulting me in general, little caustic comments that would just hurt honestly. It got really out of hand. She finally stopped talking to me and would purposely leave me out of things that our friend group would do. She was a very homely type of person, and a big part of a Church crowd which made things so much worse imo. She constantly acted holier than thou and many people saw her “innocence” as kindness and assumed she was nice just because she was Churchy.
About a month or so later, I confronted her about it. I told her that I felt like our friendship was dwindling and I didn’t understand why. I told her how I felt and that if it was something I had done that I’d do my best to amend it. She flipped out saying “she wasn’t jealous but she just knew what was right and wrong”, inferring that her relationship was “better” somehow. It was absolutely mad. I asked her if she even wanted to be in the wedding at this point. She said she did, she really did and never even apologized. Looking back on this situation I should’ve never asked her in the first place. She suddenly went cold-Turkey ignoring me. I finally asked if she and I could talk and she acquiesced. I “fired” her from being a bridesmaid. I felt horrible about it. I truly did. At the same time, I couldn’t handle all the straight up bullying I was taking. I never once yelled at her, never once called her any names. She told everyone I yelled at her and called her a b***h. Even if I had, that would’ve been nothing compared to the s**t I endured from her.
My other bridesmaids were amazing and really took my side on this. She finally got engaged and married to that dude and I hope she’s happy now. Jesus she made my life miserable for a solid 6 months.
tl;dr lesson - if you choose to have bridesmaids, pick only the people you know you’ll be close to for years to come. And don’t let people bully you! needsacaffeinedrip Report Final score: 120points POST MacKenzie Moore MacKenzie Moore Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago I'm so sorry for you!! 47 47points reply View More Replies... View more comments #18
Groom s Sister Is Told Prior To Wedding That Her Dress Choice Is Inappropriate Sister Replies She Will Never Speak To Her Brother Again If He Goes Through With The Wedding She Is Uninvited From Wedding Then Shows Up To Wedding In This Off-White Cocktail Dress
ffaancy Report Final score: 110points POST MacKenzie Moore MacKenzie Moore Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago change the color by pouring champagne all over her. problem solved. (have her pay for the wasted bubbly). 88 88points reply View More Replies... View more comments #19Shaming Bridesmaid
TIIWS Report Final score: 110points POST Olivia Lisbon Olivia Lisbon Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago I don’t think I’d mind having a good boy at my wedding or in the pictures…but I’d definitely like to know about it in advance. 129 129points reply View More Replies... View more comments #20Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids What Happened
savageexplosive Report Final score: 107points POST MacKenzie Moore MacKenzie Moore Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago ok then.. 50 50points reply View More Replies... View more comments #21Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids What Happened
I chose my sisters, which was the biggest mistake.They fought me on every single decision when it came to the dress. Everyone they chose looked too casual or was very inappropriate for a wedding (think either a faux leather peplum dress from Guess, or a casual Wilfred dress from Aritzia). After I searched for weeks online and at stores, they finally agreed on one from Nordstrom which I had to order and take care of. They fought me on any "duties" or helping with any sort of prep. They showed up for 4 hours the day before. Argued on any placement of decorations and took off after I begged everyone to do a short rehearsal. Even though I told them I needed help. (Keep in mind they did not have to travel for the wedding, my husband and I arranged it so WE were the only ones who had to travel far). No bridal shower, no bachelorette party. They claimed they were too busy. A friend offered to throw one and they told her no, they would plan one...they never did. Two nights before the wedding, I told them I booked reservations for us and my mom at a local pub just to have something. I ended up having to cancel because they didn't want too. (My mom enabled and justified a lot of their behavior. And she wonders why I felt like they were the favourites growing up). The day of they did not help me at all get ready at all. My photographers were amazing who did everything from help me finish my hair and make up
(they even ran out to get me new lashes because mine got wrecked) and get me into my dress. And, at the reception, they made a toast...which was so awkward. It was basically about who should have been the maid of honour and basically being all about them. I remember looking out and peoples faces were just cringing. At the end I just focused on having fun the rest of the night and ignoring them.
Looking back, I should have not had them. I came pretty close to having a bridezilla moment, because I was just so fed up. All they did was go dress shopping with me once, they went out one afternoon to look for bridesmaid dresses which they didn't find any, I had too. They showed up a the hall for 4 hours to set up, and they showed up at the wedding. That was it. Anything additional I asked, I got told no. Or, any plans I tried to make to have a bit of fun before I was told no. I had a couple friends who step up big time the weeks before, and I felt so shitty because I should have asked them. _northernlights Report Final score: 106points POST Linda van der Pal Linda van der Pal Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago You would not have been a bridezilla even if you would have blown up! 74 74points reply View more comments #22
Shaming Bridesmaid
TIIWS Report Final score: 102points POST Olivia Lisbon Olivia Lisbon Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago Fascinating priorities. 42 42points reply View more comments #23A Mean Bridesmaid Picked It Apart Before The Bride Could See It This Is The Only Pic I Took
genetic-counselor Report Final score: 100points POST Crease Almighty Crease Almighty Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago Did she peel back the layers? It looks like a bouquet of onions ? 137 137points reply View More Replies... View more comments #24Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids What Happened
I chose my best friend of 16 years to be my maid of honor. Big mistake on my part as she has a strong personality, can be very controlling, and is studying to be a lawyer, so she believes she can never be wrong.About 4 months ago, my fiancé and I were thinking it over and decided it’d be cheaper and easier to just have a backyard wedding to save some money, as we were due to spend at least $16k at our current venue. I told my MOH about it, thinking she’d be supportive, but instead she just s**t all over the idea. She called it trashy and a “glorified graduation party”.
Thinking it would do no harm I asked her mom if it’d be a possibility for us to have the wedding in her backyard. Due to liability reasons she declined. The next day my MOH confronts me and calls me a sh**ty person and selfish for going behind her back and asking her mom. They don’t have the best relationship, but they still talk every now and then and I really thought it wouldn’t be an issue. I apologized over and over to my friend, while she repeatedly told me I was stupid and didn’t know how to use my f*****g brain and didn’t know what I was doing. I finally ended the conversation by basically kicking her out of the wedding party.
We’re now getting married in 3 months on the beach in Florida, with a small set of close friends and family. Either my friend doesn’t know, or she does and hasn’t bothered to confront me about it. I’ve only spoken to her once since our fight a few months ago - to wish her a happy birthday and she was a complete d**k to me. Sad to say I lost one of my best friends over my own wedding, because I didn’t agree with her.
And she called me the selfish one... thosethickthighs Report Final score: 98points POST Carol Emory Carol Emory Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago I do think it was weird for you to bypass her and ask her mother if you could use her backyard. 46 46points reply View More Replies... View more comments #25
Bridesmaidzilla Can t Accept She s Not Moh Insists Bride Is Lying About Her Relationship With Real Moh And Thinks It s Because She s Hot
Ellie_Loves_ Report Final score: 81points POST Summer Newton Summer Newton Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago I couldn't even be friends with a person like her . 130 130points reply View More Replies... View more comments See Also on Bored Panda Woman Shows How "Harry Potter" Characters Were Supposed To Look According To Book Descriptions (35 Pics) 50 ‘Weird Facts’ About The World That Might Give You A Fresh Perspective #26Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids What Happened
ForElise47 Report Final score: 80points POST Kalpana M Kalpana M Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago I don't see a problem with this.. What happened to the bride's family? Her parents or siblings if any? The other bridesmaid was married. Married folks always sleep with their spouses? Single friends definitely can have a sleepover with the bride. But can't be expected the same from married people if the spouse is present right there! MOH was kinda shitty by having affair with photographer, but the other bridesmaid isn't at fault. 35 35points reply View More Replies... View more comments #27Brides Who Had Horrible Bridesmaids What Happened
3GoalCushion Report Final score: 80points POST Olivia Lisbon Olivia Lisbon Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago I’m starting to wonder on what basis people choose their bridesmaids… 96 96points reply View More Replies... View more comments #28Laid Back Wedding In The Summer The Bride Wore A Tank Top And Sarong Her Friend Asked What Her Wedding Dress Would Be And The Colors
Tinawebmom Report Final score: 61points POST Sarah Pierce Sarah Pierce Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago I don't think these comments are getting the issue is the bridesmaid turned up in the same outfit in the same colours after asking about it, not what the bride wanted to wear for her wedding 102 102points reply View More Replies... View more comments #29Groomsmen Plans To Propose At Bachelor Ette Party Group Is Split On Whether Or Not It s Okay Comments Are All Bashing The Bride For Not Being Completely On Board I Don t Think She s Wrong To Feel A Little Upset Though What s Supposed To Be A Bach Party Is Going To Turn Into An Engagement Party
Ellie_Loves_ Report Final score: 57points POST A Random Potato A Random Potato Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago as far as I know, its considered super rude to propose at someones wedding, i'm not positive that its the same for bachelor party, but I would assume that its still considered rude, as they are drawing the attention away from the couple, on what is supposed to be their day 131 131points reply View More Replies... View more comments #30Bride Needs To Find New Bridesmaids Asap
laelleest Report Final score: 44points POST Linnea Linnea Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago WTAF is this person trying to say? Best I can figure, this bridesmaid decided to attend some random bachelor party at a different hotel, instead of going to her friend's bachelorette party? Is...is that it? I'm so confused. 59 59points reply View More Replies... View more comments Note: this post originally had 35 images. It’s been shortened to the top 30 images based on user votes. Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing! Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda! Add New Image Add Your Photo To This List Please use high-res photos without watermarks Upload Photo Ooops! Your image is too large, maximum file size is 8 MB. Not your original work? Add source Publish Change image Upload Photo Ooops! Your image is too large, maximum file size is 8 MB. Upload Upload Edit Image Error occurred when generating embed. Please check link and try again. Render conversationUse html version
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Just because someone is on your social media and "likes" the stuff you post, does not equal friend. Acquaintances, people you party with, generally not friends. Most people are only going to have 1-2 REAL friends in their lives, the rest are just fluff. 0 0points reply Load More Replies... Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago I have a good nightmare bridesmaid story. It was at the wedding of a close relative. The woman in question got to be a bridesmaid because she was married to the Best Man (IIRC she made a fuss until she was asked) she wasn't especially close to the bride or groom herself. In fact they found her really annoying and tolerated her because she was the wife of a very good friend. I had made the wedding cake. I have also been fencing / demonstration sword fighting since I was about 15 and I have some nice swords. So brought one to cut the cake with style. The kids at the wedding were fascinated and I was letting them have their photo taken holding it under very close supervision. Cue the bridesmaid from hell coming over and trying to snatch the sword off one of the kids to have a go herself. I took it off her, and she had a tantrum because, "You'll let the kids hold it but not me and I am an adult." My response was, "There are three reasons for that. The kids asked first... 1/2 21 21points reply Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago "...The kids listened to the safety briefing and didn't try to wave it about in a crowded marquee, and most importantly, the kids aren't steaming drunk before we've even got to the toasts." I spent the next hour (until the cake was cut) standing guard because she kept trying to steal the sword. After the cutting I locked it in my room. Fast forward to today. The bridesmaid from hell cheated on the Best Man (lovely chap who did not deserve that) and they are now divorced. The juiciest bit? All this time she has worked as one of Boris Johnson's "advisors" and she is now heavily implicated in the Partygate scandal. I shouldn't laugh. 2/2 23 23points reply Load More Replies... Auntriarch Auntriarch Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago Well it's laugh or cry... 8 8points reply Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago Laughing so I don't cry, I think. 5 5points reply MimSorensson MimSorensson Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago (edited) Yeah, or, you know… laughing UNTIL you cry. 3 3points reply BobTDG BobTDG Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago Well good riddance for the best man. She's a f*****g T*ry. 3 3points reply Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago The only Tory at the wedding. 2 2points reply Just saying Just saying Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago We're not talking Allegra are we? 3 3points reply Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago It's not Allegra. 2 2points reply Marilyn Russell Marilyn Russell Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago What a name anyway. Or is it a car? 0 0points reply Marilyn Russell Marilyn Russell Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago Well, the lovely chap didn’t deserve to be cheated on, that’s true, but he is free from the crazy and hopefully found a nice girl and has a happier life. 1 1point reply Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago Thankfully he did and he does. 1 1point reply Milan Milan Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 4 months ago Some people just have a very shallow friendships. Almost every post is about it. 16 16points reply Kit Kat Kit Kat Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago Yup. It's all very high school drama. 9 9points reply Load More Replies... Load More Comments POST Nick Rinnert Nick Rinnert Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago I'm starting to think that a lot of people have no actual grip on the concept of "friendship". 26 26points reply Gigantor the Bog Monster Gigantor the Bog Monster Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago The problem is how kids today see "friends". Just because someone is on your social media and "likes" the stuff you post, does not equal friend. Acquaintances, people you party with, generally not friends. Most people are only going to have 1-2 REAL friends in their lives, the rest are just fluff. 0 0points reply Load More Replies... Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago I have a good nightmare bridesmaid story. It was at the wedding of a close relative. The woman in question got to be a bridesmaid because she was married to the Best Man (IIRC she made a fuss until she was asked) she wasn't especially close to the bride or groom herself. In fact they found her really annoying and tolerated her because she was the wife of a very good friend. I had made the wedding cake. I have also been fencing / demonstration sword fighting since I was about 15 and I have some nice swords. So brought one to cut the cake with style. The kids at the wedding were fascinated and I was letting them have their photo taken holding it under very close supervision. Cue the bridesmaid from hell coming over and trying to snatch the sword off one of the kids to have a go herself. I took it off her, and she had a tantrum because, "You'll let the kids hold it but not me and I am an adult." My response was, "There are three reasons for that. The kids asked first... 1/2 21 21points reply Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago "...The kids listened to the safety briefing and didn't try to wave it about in a crowded marquee, and most importantly, the kids aren't steaming drunk before we've even got to the toasts." I spent the next hour (until the cake was cut) standing guard because she kept trying to steal the sword. After the cutting I locked it in my room. Fast forward to today. The bridesmaid from hell cheated on the Best Man (lovely chap who did not deserve that) and they are now divorced. The juiciest bit? All this time she has worked as one of Boris Johnson's "advisors" and she is now heavily implicated in the Partygate scandal. I shouldn't laugh. 2/2 23 23points reply Load More Replies... Auntriarch Auntriarch Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago Well it's laugh or cry... 8 8points reply Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago Laughing so I don't cry, I think. 5 5points reply MimSorensson MimSorensson Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago (edited) Yeah, or, you know… laughing UNTIL you cry. 3 3points reply BobTDG BobTDG Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago Well good riddance for the best man. She's a f*****g T*ry. 3 3points reply Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago The only Tory at the wedding. 2 2points reply Just saying Just saying Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago We're not talking Allegra are we? 3 3points reply Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago It's not Allegra. 2 2points reply Marilyn Russell Marilyn Russell Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago What a name anyway. Or is it a car? 0 0points reply Marilyn Russell Marilyn Russell Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago Well, the lovely chap didn’t deserve to be cheated on, that’s true, but he is free from the crazy and hopefully found a nice girl and has a happier life. 1 1point reply Hannah Hudson-Lee Hannah Hudson-Lee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago Thankfully he did and he does. 1 1point reply Milan Milan Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 4 months ago Some people just have a very shallow friendships. Almost every post is about it. 16 16points reply Kit Kat Kit Kat Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 4 months ago Yup. It's all very high school drama. 9 9points reply Load More Replies... Load More Comments Popular on Bored Panda I Used AI To See What These 23 Popular Cartoon Characters Would Look Like In Real Life 30 Y.O. 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