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Woman Is Fed Up With Husband s Snarky Comments About Her Finances So She Withdraws All Her Money Leaving Him With $900

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Saulė Tolstych
Being in a committed relationship is hard work that requires constant communication, or else things are bound to go south. Whether you're just starting your journey, or you've been together since school – it's crucial to remember that, in reality, the only person you've truly got is yourself. Quite frankly, every unforeseen complication that occurs in your little family, whether it's something to do with finances or any other unexpected troubles, can trigger a conflict that'll show you your partner's true colors. Finding yourself in such a situation can be upsetting, as we all want to believe that the person we're devoting our life to is a reliable human that'll promise us emotional support whenever things get rocky. More info: Reddit

Sometimes an unexpected situation can trigger the appearance of your partner s true colors

Image source: Doug Tammany (not the actual photo) "AITA for pulling all my money from the account after he refused to stop making comments about me getting a job?" – this netizen took to one of Reddit's most well-known communities to find out whether she's indeed a jerk for withdrawing all of her savings and transferring them to a different account, as her husband wouldn't stop making remarks about her unemployment. The post has managed to receive nearly 12K upvotes and 1K comments discussing the man's snarky behavior.

Woman wonders if she s a jerk for taking all her money out of a joint account as her husband kept making comments about her unemployment

Image source: ZookeepergameHuge627 The woman began her post by revealing that she's currently unemployed for the first time since she was a teen; she said that even prior to switching jobs, she'd usually have other opportunities lined up, meaning that there was never a break between pay checks. Image source: ZookeepergameHuge627 Her husband, on the other hand, is known for having dry spells, where he'd be jobless for months – moreover, whenever he does get a job, he never sticks with it for more than 6 months. The author also added that she didn't quit her job voluntarily; the company went bankrupt, and they didn't inform the employees until the very last minute. It's been 1 month without a steady income; however, the woman's been searching endlessly, and because the man's forced to use the OP's car to get to work due to a blown engine on his vehicle, it complicates the whole process, as the woman is now stuck searching for remote positions only. The spouse recently got a promotion, and ever since, he's been breathing down the OP's neck. He is well aware that the woman is very devoted to job-hunting, yet he doesn't miss a chance to nag. Image source: ZookeepergameHuge627 The woman revealed that she had $8,6K sitting in the bank from her previous job, which would ultimately cover 8 months' worth of rent, so his unnecessary comments were really starting to wind her up. It got to the point where the author suggested that she work with him, although the husband didn't think that it was a good idea. Besides, the man also seemed to start the whole "my money" argument whenever it was convenient for him. For instance, when he referred to taxes, they would be both of theirs, but when it came to other things, then everything miraculously became his. The woman then mentioned that he had no problem living off of her money throughout the entire time he was unemployed. Image source: ZookeepergameHuge627 Image source: Amanda (not the actual photo) On one of the days, the man made another comment that simply infuriated the OP. It was the last straw, so she took her car and left to go to the bank to withdraw every penny she had in that shared account. The woman immediately transferred everything to an account he can't touch, leaving the husband with a little over $900. Naturally, the man flipped out and called the OP "financially controlling."

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I would say run from it as it never ends well. Speaking from experience... 42 42points reply Rens Rens Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago Me too... 6 6points reply Load More Replies... Debrina Blackmoon Debrina Blackmoon Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago (edited) SAME. 3 3points reply Michelle C Michelle C Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago After reading all these relationship posts...AITA for remaining single for almost 20 years? 32 32points reply Jaap Jaap Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago After my 2nd divorce I was so jealous of my brother, who was so smart to stay single. 8 8points reply Load More Replies... ί?ＣίŦᵃт?? ί?ＣίŦᵃт?? Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 3 months ago Coming from someone who is very happily married here, I have to say that no relationship is worth putting up with s**t like this. Why do people do it?? Single is far preferable. 7 7points reply Bobbi McGough Robert Bobbi McGough Robert Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago (edited) You may be the smart one! Although marriage can also be good if both parties want it to be. 3 3points reply Keisha Keisha Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago You are envied here. So many people in bad relationships here that don't have the financial means to leave. You are definitely NTA !!! 2 2points reply Linda Faix Linda Faix Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago Absolutely not 2 2points reply CM Kar CM Kar Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago Being single is far better than being in an abusive relationship. I've had both, and I'm far happier being single. I don't have the experience of a healthy romantic relationship so I'm biased. 1 1point reply LucyGoosey LucyGoosey Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago NTA. You're not hurting nobody by being single. If anybody has a problem with it, they can suck it and screw off. 1 1point reply Katinka Min Katinka Min Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago I've been thinking the same thing. But to be fair: Noone makes posts about relationships that run well. 1 1point reply Katherine Boag Katherine Boag Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago Noone deciding to be single is ever an AH. If you dont need romance in your life, then you do you. 1 1point reply María Hermida María Hermida Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago I think she has a far bigger problem than money. The husband sounds like a selfish entitled a*****e. I don't think they are going to be together for long. 27 27points reply Load More Comments POST Dorota Martin Dorota Martin Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago This dynamic in your partner's behaviour is actually called financial abuse. I would say run from it as it never ends well. Speaking from experience... 42 42points reply Rens Rens Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago Me too... 6 6points reply Load More Replies... Debrina Blackmoon Debrina Blackmoon Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago (edited) SAME. 3 3points reply Michelle C Michelle C Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago After reading all these relationship posts...AITA for remaining single for almost 20 years? 32 32points reply Jaap Jaap Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago After my 2nd divorce I was so jealous of my brother, who was so smart to stay single. 8 8points reply Load More Replies... ί?ＣίŦᵃт?? ί?ＣίŦᵃт?? Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 3 months ago Coming from someone who is very happily married here, I have to say that no relationship is worth putting up with s**t like this. Why do people do it?? Single is far preferable. 7 7points reply Bobbi McGough Robert Bobbi McGough Robert Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago (edited) You may be the smart one! Although marriage can also be good if both parties want it to be. 3 3points reply Keisha Keisha Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago You are envied here. So many people in bad relationships here that don't have the financial means to leave. You are definitely NTA !!! 2 2points reply Linda Faix Linda Faix Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago Absolutely not 2 2points reply CM Kar CM Kar Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago Being single is far better than being in an abusive relationship. I've had both, and I'm far happier being single. I don't have the experience of a healthy romantic relationship so I'm biased. 1 1point reply LucyGoosey LucyGoosey Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago NTA. You're not hurting nobody by being single. If anybody has a problem with it, they can suck it and screw off. 1 1point reply Katinka Min Katinka Min Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago I've been thinking the same thing. But to be fair: Noone makes posts about relationships that run well. 1 1point reply Katherine Boag Katherine Boag Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago Noone deciding to be single is ever an AH. If you dont need romance in your life, then you do you. 1 1point reply María Hermida María Hermida Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 3 months ago I think she has a far bigger problem than money. The husband sounds like a selfish entitled a*****e. 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