Men Are Sharing 30 Red Flags That Women Should Look Out For If They Don t Want To End Up In Awful Relationships
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Publish Not your original work? Add source Whether we like it or not, the first impression really does matter. We tend to make a whole bunch of immediate judgments about people within the first few seconds of meeting them. The way they dress, how they smile, the way they speak, and their body language all quickly add up into a broad picture of what we think about the person… and if we date them. And even though some initial impressions end up being false, quite a few of them turn out to be right on the money. Redditor u/xDarkPhoenix8161x created a viral thread on r/AskReddit where they asked men to share some of the biggest red flags that women should look out for in men they might want to date. The responses were incredibly honest and give an unfiltered glimpse into the insecurities and toxicity that some men carry with them throughout their lives. Scroll down to read what people said, Pandas, and if you'd like to share some other immediate red flags people should be wary of, feel free to do so in the comments. And above everything, just remember to trust your gut: if you instinctively know something might be wrong, it probably is. Dating expert Dan Bacon, the founder of The Modern Man project, explained to Bored Panda what it means if a guy doesn't want to introduce his girlfriend to his family and friends. He also shared his thoughts about how men who always see themselves as victims can move on from this and develop genuine confidence and learn to take responsibility for their actions. "If a man is serious about a woman, he will almost always want to introduce her to his family or friends within the first few months," he told us. Scroll down to have a read through Dan's insights. This post may include affiliate links. #1 This is one most women learn themselves around high school but still worth mentioning now. If he’s an a*****e to everyone but you, that doesn’t mean he thinks you’re special. It means he is an a*****e but knows how to not be an a*****e in order to get laid. SmartAlec105 , Trinity Kubassek Report Final score: 577points POST kristina law kristina law Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Narcissistic manipulation at its finest! 177 177points reply View More Replies... View more comments Dan, the mastermind behind The Modern Man and an expert in dating and relationships, told Bored Panda that there are some exceptions to introducing your girlfriend to your social circle. "There can be times when he won't introduce her to them for much longer, even though he is serious about the relationship and loves her." Context is important. He gave some examples: "There is drama in his family that he doesn't want her to be aware of.His family doesn't respect him, or treat him well and he doesn't want to be embarrassed in front of them.He's not close to his family and doesn't see them as important in his life. His ex-girlfriend caused a lot of problems for him and his family, so he wants to spend more time with his new girlfriend before introducing her. He has a personal belief that a woman should only be introduced to his family if he intends to marry her and he's not quite sure about marrying her yet." There's also no set time, when we 'should' introduce our partners to the people we care about most. "It's more of a gut instinct. If it feels right, do it. If it doesn't, then delay it," Dan said to trust our gut. #2 If he’s cheating on someone else with you, he will absolutely cheat on you with someone else. anthropocon , Dương Nhân Report Final score: 569points POST Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago i dont get how so many people dont understand this one 303 303points reply View More Replies... View more comments #3 If he claims all his exes were “crazy” or similar. Think for a second about what was the common factor in all those relationships: him. signalstonoise88 , Bruno Salvadori Report Final score: 523points POST Ansi Ansi Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 2 months ago My first experience with a "nice guy" was exactly this. I didn't know guys could be that way and found it romantic that I quickly became "the one" after many crazy ex. I blame me reading"Romantic books" as they are really bad for young girls, they introduce a lot of toxic behaviour as normal and acceptable and even romantic. I learned really quick that books are not real life... 174 174points reply View More Replies... View more comments Meanwhile, we really wanted to get to grips with the fact that some guys blame everyone else but themselves when something goes wrong. Bored Panda was interested to get the dating expert's thoughts on victimhood and confidence. "Unfortunately, some people never get past that level of personal development and as a result, ruin relationships their entire life. It really takes a lot of motivation and follow-through to overcome that kind of behavior, which a lot of people simply don't have," Dan, from The Modern Man, was candid that this level of change takes massive amounts of effort and time. "However, if a man were to have that kind of motivation and willingness to follow through, he should set goals for himself and work towards achieving them no matter what. When he does that, he will begin to realize the amount of personal control and influence he has over his life," he said. "A man like that will rarely overcome his victim mentality the first time he achieves a goal though. In almost all cases, he'll need to keep achieving goals and will then gradually become a man who feels totally accountable for his life and doesn't need to play the victim and blame others for his problems, or lack of success," dating expert Dan noted that it's a long process and deep change won't happen overnight. However, that still sounds motivational and optimistic to us. #4 Avoid people who are very polite and charming when they *want* something from those 'above' them, but are arrogant and demanding when they think they can *take* something from those 'below' them.
People who 'smile up' and 'kick down' are the worst. CiderDrinker , krakenimages Report Final score: 454points POST Chicken Nugget Chicken Nugget Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago That’s very manipulative 80 80points reply View more comments #5 Tried to find a less common one.
For people looking for a long term partner:
Beware when someone complains about everything and is seemingly the victim in every situation.
This is the type of person that will very quickly blame you if anything goes wrong, and is likely s******g on you to other people already. Secondly, it means you will be perpetually drained by the negativity over the long haul. Kurupt-FM-1089 , Keira Burton Report Final score: 449points POST Elijah Morningwood Elijah Morningwood Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Excuse me how did an internet stranger perfectly describe my father??? ? 180 180points reply View More Replies... View more comments #6 One saying I've always lived by is: Pay attention to how they treat waitresses. How they treat waitresses today is how they will treat you in 6 months. b-monster666 , Ketut Subiyanto Report Final score: 445points POST I I I I Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago yeah service staff and animals , if their mean to those walk away 212 212points reply View More Replies... View more comments Some guys have a very hard time admitting when they're wrong and taking responsibility for their actions. They're always the victim. They're super defensive. And they're always right-it's everyone else who's wrong. It's really no way to live because you're smothering your potential, existing in fear, and lashing out at the people closest to you. Previously, fitness expert and entrepreneur Jack Bly, from the US, shared his thoughts with Bored Panda on the importance of self-reflection, improvement, confidence, and moving past a victim mentality. "Do one thing and progress at it to prove you're not a victim. Lift weights. Help someone. Advance your career. Have a successful relationship. When you're successful in one area, you build confidence in yourself and that will translate to all of your life," he explained to us that building confidence starts with small steps. That's the way to stop being a victim, according to him. Fitness expert Jack noted that we all need time to adjust to the positive changes we're making in life. "Your brain needs proof around your new identity," he said. #7 Inability to clean up after themselves or do common household tasks Wudchuck , Gary Barnes Report Final score: 425points POST I I I I Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago man children never grow up , they want a mummy not a wife 170 170points reply View More Replies... View more comments #8 Holes in the drywall.
RUN BMG1976 , Kim Siever Report Final score: 387points POST Miocha Miocha Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago At this point I'm afraid to ask why. 102 102points reply View More Replies... View more comments #9 Pushing small boundaries that aren’t a “big deal.” Then, once called out on it, backpedaling, apologizing for it and then DOING IT AGAIN. MusicalNerDnD , SHVETS production Report Final score: 356points POST Ariel Strong Ariel Strong Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago My mother does this 92 92points reply View More Replies... View more comments According to him, real confidence is a skill that anyone can learn. However, it's something that will take persistence, patience, and time. It won't happen overnight. "Confidence comes from repetition and mastery. The more you do ANYTHING, the more confident you become. The good news about this is everyone is capable of earning confidence," he told Bored Panda. Self-reflection, for the fitness expert, is a vital component of improving one's life. "Responding to failure is all about the story we tell ourselves. Do you tell yourself that you are a failure? Or do you tell yourself you failed, have now gotten feedback, and know how to get better? It's all our perspective," he stressed that how we think, how we see ourselves, shapes who we are and how we act. Embracing failure and seeing our mistakes as learning opportunities is the mature way of responding to what life might throw at us. Instead of throwing a temper tantrum or blaming ourselves for being 'failures,' we ought to realize that everything's a temporary setback that we can definitely overcome. #10 I defer to Chris Rock: If you have been dating a guy for four months and you haven’t met any of his friends, you are not his girlfriend. GotMoFans , Helena Lopes Report Final score: 354points POST Paul Pienkowski Paul Pienkowski Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago My girlfriend legit has zero desire to meet my friends. We've been together for four years. I keep offering, she just isn't very social and takes forever to get comfortable with others. 107 107points reply View More Replies... View more comments #11 A man that blames everyone else for his problems, lack of job, lack of friends, money, etc.
Somene that is unwilling to take personal responsibility for improving his situation in life. dheffe01 , Kampus Production Report Final score: 318points POST CHRIS DOMRES CHRIS DOMRES Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Kind of like unemployable white men who blame Mexican laborers for stealing the work? 197 197points reply View More Replies... View more comments #12 Inability to say sorry when they do something wrong. Mandaface , Timur Weber Report Final score: 305points POST censorshipsucks censorshipsucks Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago This is a red flag both ways. 85 85points reply View More Replies... View more comments #13 Sexual pressure after you directly reject an advance. Healthy people with your interests in mind only need to hear no one time and are respectful of boundaries if they bring it up again in the future. freemason777 , cottonbro Report Final score: 302points POST propgamer XL propgamer XL Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Those exist? Amazing. 49 49points reply View More Replies... View more comments #14 Refusing to admit that they could possibly be wrong. I have seen many men get super frustrated and aggressive over the idea that they could be possibly wrong about something.
To add onto this, many of these same men when presented with the proof of them being wrong they will either deflect or make it seem like it doesn't matter and that *you* were "making such a big deal about this".
We are all humans and we all make mistakes. I feel for many of these men they feel stupid and less "manly" if they are wrong about something. Being able to accept your mistakes and move on is a healthy trait. Jomanderisreal , Alex Green Report Final score: 287points POST Saico Hipe Saico Hipe Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Many men seem to (erroneously) believe that to admit to being wrong is a sign of weakness, as with many forms of vulnerability. A truly strong man is able to maintain a sense of humility, and to realize/embrace their mistakes as a way to grow and learn. No one is infallible, and one who tries to pretend they are is in fact displaying an extremely weak character. 105 105points reply View More Replies... View more comments #15 If he checks your phone without permission, that to me is a huge red flag. Mydogisphotogenic , Adrienn Report Final score: 286points POST I I I I Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago 35 years never checked my wife's phone once , just like her FB , it's HERS not mine , if she wants a private friend list so be it 119 119points reply View More Replies... View more comments #16 These apply to everyone not just men. Report Final score: 278points Circa POST Bored Retsuko Bored Retsuko Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) Most of them, yes. Edit: I'd like to elaborate a bit... The crucial thing is whether or not there is a power gap within the relationship. I've seen several pandas comment that their parents had such toxic traits (and so did mine). Clearly, between a parent (male or female) and a child, there's a power gap. Also, traditionally (and physically) there is a power gap in heterosexual relationships; that's why pointing out such red flags to women is a good thing, and if a man's knee jerk reaction is "but applies to women, too!", it may be a case of downplaying and minimizing this fact, as someone pointed out in the comments. But of course it is COMPLETELY possible to end up in a dependent relationship with a toxic female person; it's just much more frequent in heterosexual relationships to be on the woman's expense. Hope I got my point across... I didn't mean to offend or downplay anyone's experience. 126 126points reply View More Replies... View more comments #17 Suddenly flying off the handle at a minor inconvenience. It's one thing to stub your toe at the end of a bad day and give the table a whack. It's another if every moment of stress or misfortune triggers rage. thesaga , Vera Arsic Report Final score: 261points POST I I I I Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago I had to learn to lower my tone , i'm short and grew up in a rough area so i was LOUD and swore a lot , not violent , i just had to act like i was 71 71points reply View More Replies... View more comments See Also on Bored Panda Woman Shows How "Harry Potter" Characters Were Supposed To Look According To Book Descriptions (35 Pics) 50 ‘Weird Facts’ About The World That Might Give You A Fresh Perspective #18 ALCOHOLISM. gladtoknow , Tembela Bohle Report Final score: 246points POST Dani M Dani M Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Dropped my partner off at Rehab yesterday. 2-3 months.... let´s hope for the best. 161 161points reply View More Replies... View more comments #19 Does he talk about always being ready to fight if necessary? Then he's a lunatic. Well adjusted people in things like MMA don't want to fight randomly and don't seek it out outside of the sport of it. Half the point is to have a place for your aggression in a controlled setting. jl_theprofessor , Bahaa A. Shawqi Report Final score: 227points POST Am I A Bear (She/Her) Am I A Bear (She/Her) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago That checks off all the men I know. Thanks a lot. 33 33points reply View More Replies... View more comments #20 If he is overtly angry when you talk to other people, (specifically other men) that's a major red flag and he's probably gonna start to be possessive over you by not letting you talk to anyone else.
daddytoelicker Report Final score: 227points POST Chicken Nugget Chicken Nugget Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Very paranoid 29 29points reply View More Replies... View more comments #21 If he talks about his ex too much. As someone who was in love with an ex for way too long, I was not ready for a relationship with anyone else. swervin87 , Priscilla Du Preez Report Final score: 220points POST Alicia M Alicia M Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago No one should go into a new relationship talking about their ex. I don't care if your ex was wonderful. They are an ex. You are only hurting yourself, and possibly your romantic interest, by carrying on about your previous relationships. 51 51points reply View More Replies... View more comments #22 Only talks about themselves PaleRhinos , Ketut Subiyanto Report Final score: 208points POST Beeps Beeps Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Or just generally talking nonstop and not letting you speak. I once got that at a first date, but made excuses for him, thinking he was just nervous, but nope, when we were in a relationship, he was still constantly just talking at me and interrupting me the minute I spoke. 76 76points reply View More Replies... View more comments #23 I’ll die on this hill: every man I’ve ever known who was an *outspoken* feminist was horrible to women behind the scenes. tenaciousDaniel Report Final score: 207points POST Tim Pateman Tim Pateman Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Much better to be a feminist by action - get on with raising the kids, cooking the meals, or just going down on a woman. 129 129points reply View More Replies... View more comments #24 Emotional manipulation, trying to guilt trap you Quality-vs-Quantity Report Final score: 195points POST Saico Hipe Saico Hipe Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago The pedant in me wanted to say, "I think you mean guilt *trip,*" but after thinking about it a moment, 'guilt trap' also works. Perhaps even better ? 86 86points reply View More Replies... View more comments #25 If a guy tells you he's no good, listen. JackPoe , Nik Shuliahin Report Final score: 182points POST Bored Retsuko Bored Retsuko Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) I disagree. Someone who says this might simply suffer from low self-esteem. Not great but not necessarily a horrible thing... The idea is to lower the other person's expectations because one is afraid to be seen as a disappointment lateron... typical coping mechanism if you were never good enough when you grew up. Source: been there, done that. 133 133points reply View More Replies... View more comments #26 His hyper focus on money. While this might be a plus in some women's opinion, this can also be a HUGE red flag.
I knew some men that was so focused on money they tried to put a price on everything, even a woman, her actions, her respect and what he is allowed to do simply because he pays for it.
This has serious ramifications due to him keeping track of everything he does for a woman and coming up with some weird idea that you owe him when things start to fall apart in the relationship.
Just keep an eye out. Brown_bear82 Report Final score: 182points POST Chicken Nugget Chicken Nugget Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Too money centered is not a good thing! 46 46points reply View more comments #27 If he doesn't put in an effort to make you happy. It doesn't have to make you happy whatever he does but the fact he's putting in the effort means he truly cares about you enough that he cares about your mental health as well. Goes both ways. Positive_Balance620 , Priscilla Du Preez Report Final score: 177points POST Chicken Nugget Chicken Nugget Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago A good SO always thinks about their lover! 34 34points reply View More Replies... View more comments See Also on Bored Panda Overworked Employee Quits Because He Wasn't Getting A Fair Wage, Costs The Company $40 Million 40 Embarrassing Moments People Didn't Know Who They Were Talking To And Made A Fool Of Themselves #28 If they wear sunglasses at night. You should never masquerade with the guy in the shades ZonkedTheBoy , Phil Nguyen Report Final score: 177points POST Jihana Jihana Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Well, I sometimes wear sunglasses at night. I suffer from migraines and light just hurts. 160 160points reply View More Replies... View more comments #29 Calls himself a feminist and apologizes on behalf of men. Political nice guy red flag. Bonus points if he apologize for being a man himself. He's trying to get in someone's pants.
This is not a call out of men who are feminist but those that wear the label but only engage in call out hot takes ie feels good in the moment but does the opposite of helping anything. firekstk , RODNAE Productions Report Final score: 169points POST I I I I Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago you guys know some right creeps 54 54points reply View More Replies... View more comments #30 Goes for both sexes... If the person has no hobbies. Now you are their new hobby. blueboy664 Report Final score: 148points POST Gabriel Vonadler Gabriel Vonadler Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) Not everybody need or want a hobby ? My "hobby "is the same like the carton bull 's Ferdinand...smell the roses 63 63points reply View More Replies... View more comments Note: this post originally had 32 images. It’s been shortened to the top 30 images based on user votes. Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing! Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda! Add Your Answer! Not your original work? Add source Publish Change image Upload Photo Ooops! Your image is too large, maximum file size is 8 MB. Upload Upload Edit Image Error occurred when generating embed. Please check link and try again. Render conversation
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As if it's okay when women show the same red flags. 25 25points reply Vera1 Vera1 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) It’s is not. However, unfortunately, the vast majority of domestic abusers are men. And the vast majority of victims of those men are women. Therefore, it’s even more imperative that we educate women about red flags in men that often escalate into abuse. 28 28points reply Load More Replies... censorshipsucks censorshipsucks Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Correct. But not a vast majority. It's actually 1:5 (women) vs 1:7 (men). https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/images/ipv/how-big-is-the-problem-ipv-large.PNG?_=80316 10 10points reply Vera1 Vera1 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Interestingly, I have found several scientific studies that said that domestic violence is overwhelmingly a male problem. For example: "The findings suggest that intimate partner violence is primarily an asymmetrical problem of men's violence to women, and women's violence does not equate to men's in terms of frequency, severity, consequences and the victim's sense of safety and well-being." (Hester, 2009). I'll like an article who has the sources together, but I did read their sources separately and they are legit. https://www.womensaid.org.uk/information-support/what-is-domestic-abuse/domestic-abuse-is-a-gendered-crime/ (I am aware that this is a women's Aid website, but again, their sources are legit scientific sources). 1/2 10 10points reply De Nilla De Nilla Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Men are a lot less likely to report abuse by a woman 10 10points reply Becca Hauck Becca Hauck Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago And you know that most women don't report sexual abuse by men, right? So there's a lot of underreporting and the statistics say men are much more likely to abuse. Males are more often serial killers and school shooters and rapists. You'll say there's underreporting of rape by men too. You'll ignore the fact that all serial killers with a sexual motivation are men. I do know a man that was raped by a woman. One. I've known several men that were raped by men. I've known hundreds of girls and women that were raped by men. But tell me, are you defensive because you do these things considered red flags? 0 0points reply RandomCitizen RandomCitizen Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago This comment has been deleted. 0 0points reply Mrs. Jan Glass Mrs. Jan Glass Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) RandomCitizen, you know many more than one woman who has experienced rape/SA, but they don't tell you, because they don't trust you with that information. 2 2points reply Cesar Cesar Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Implying that someone's abuse is less important than another because one is more prevalent and violent is insulting to people being abused. You're contributing to their feelings of isolation and not feeling recognized. It isn't a popularity contest and the suffering and experiences you're living don't lessen the importance or gain priority over others. If you're the one being abused, it's possible to find offense at gender-focused abuse posts and feel the need to mention that it's not isolated to gender. Because the consequences of male abuse of women are often more violent, there's less focus on abuse from women and many men aren't able to recognize it or know how to deal with it. It can be very isolating. 2 2points reply Sam Spade Sam Spade Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago In an environment where reports by men of abuse by women aren't even accepted 1 1point reply Brandon Walker Brandon Walker Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago 1, domestic abuse doesn't just mean physical, 2, these do NOTHING to say the ratio of total ratio of abusers, he provided a link from the CDC tracking ratios, he perfectly showed exactly what the ratio is, you can throw a million articles saying anything you want, but unless they directly refute the cdcs findings, they are worthless and contribute nothing. 0 0points reply Vera1 Vera1 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) Additionally: "in the year ending March 2020, the victim was female in 74% of domestic abuse-related crimes between the year ending March 2017 and the year ending March 2019, 77% of victims of domestic homicide were female compared with 13% of victims of non-domestic homicide" (https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/crimeandjustice/articles/domesticabusevictimcharacteristicsenglandandwales/yearendingmarch2020). So yeah, domestic violence IS a male problem AND the vast majority of victims are women. Which does not mean that men can't be the victim of domestic violence do. They absolutely can. But it is nowhere near the scale of domestic violence against women, and we must acknowledge that before we can even attempt to fix the problem 2/2 8 8points reply Charles Williams Charles Williams Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Also, men tend to not report when they've been a victim of domestic violence. 2 2points reply Stephen Duff Stephen Duff Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) And when they do report it, it is rarely taken seriously by law enforcement. 1 1point reply Evil Little Thing Evil Little Thing Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) The gap isn't as big as you'd think, but women who abuse men are much less likely to kill or severely injure them than men who abuse women. 7 7points reply Becca Hauck Becca Hauck Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. When women are afraid of men it's because they fear rape and murder. When men are afraid of women it's because they think she might be crazy. -4 -4points reply Mrs. Jan Glass Mrs. Jan Glass Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Yep. It's the Atwood quote. "Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them." 1 1point reply Ian Conelley Ian Conelley Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago The FBI, after a decade long, exhaustive study, which was repeated three times, with the same results, respectfully, but vehemently, disagrees with you. The director of the FBI held a press conference about this. During this conference, he apologized for the agency's extensive list of cases which went unsolved due to ingrained bias. The short version: They systemically operated from an ingrained bias which prevented them from even considering women as suspects in cases involving everything from serial child abuse, sex trafficking, and pattern homicides which indicated single serial perpetrators. Had they considered female suspects, in the moment, many of those cases would've been solved. 0 0points reply Elihishua ibn dabit barAbbas Elihishua ibn dabit barAbbas Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Bullying bwo nagging, trying to change or mold a bf into thier idea of a man is domestic abuse. It's not cute. It's not expected. It's not ok. If a woman don't love a man for who he is then she may not expect reciprocation and for God's sake she should end it before children or before she strays. I feel this overlooked form of abuse and manipulation would destroy the statistics represented. Women abuse far more than men imo. -1 -1point reply WoodenLion WoodenLion Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. not sure that is accurate. censorshipsucks said it best -4 -4points reply Vera1 Vera1 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago If you read the again, scientific studies, you'd see that it is indeed accurate. 2 2points reply Skeeter Skeeter Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Men Are Sharing 30 Red Flags That Women Should Look Out For If They Don’t Want To End Up In Awful Relationships. That's why. Start a new list of WOMEN sharing red flags. 3 3points reply Mrs. Jan Glass Mrs. Jan Glass Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Hell, ask us, we'll happily share! 3 3points reply Charles Williams Charles Williams Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago It's sad how they always bash men not realizing that women do the same bad things. Sometimes, women will do them more often and more harshly. 1 1point reply Austin Axley Austin Axley Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago I feel like they should add as a red flag anyone who reads these and their first response is "BuT dA waHmENs CaN hAvE tHeSe TOo!" 1 1point reply Brian Stanton Brian Stanton Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Number 17 0 0points reply Megan Maisano Megan Maisano Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago This comment has been deleted. 0 0points reply Becca Hauck Becca Hauck Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Who said it was okay for women to do these things? Why are you so defensive? I thought it was women that are supposed to be too emotional? -3 -3points reply guyx23 guyx23 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Ok but like 80% of what's listed here are generic toxic behaviors, that aren't exclusive to men. 21 21points reply Penguin2224 Penguin2224 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Or dating/marriage style relationships 4 4points reply Load More Replies... Becca Hauck Becca Hauck Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Has anyone said differently? Why the defensiveness? -3 -3points reply MorgothBauglir MorgothBauglir Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 2 months ago He's not being defensive, he's merely confirming what everyone knows to be true. 2 2points reply anarkzie anarkzie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago You're the only person being defensive here. 1 1point reply De Nilla De Nilla Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago From reading all of your replies, it seems like you're hell bent on demonizing anyone that even hints that this is a 2-way street. You're acting offended at concept of a man being the victim and a woman being the perpetrator. You're coming off as a triggered feminazi 0 0points reply pelemele pelemele Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 2 months ago As said above, the vast majority of these examples can apply to both women and men. 17 17points reply Load More Comments POST jonathan rasco jonathan rasco Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago How are these exclusive to men though? As if it's okay when women show the same red flags. 25 25points reply Vera1 Vera1 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) It’s is not. However, unfortunately, the vast majority of domestic abusers are men. And the vast majority of victims of those men are women. Therefore, it’s even more imperative that we educate women about red flags in men that often escalate into abuse. 28 28points reply Load More Replies... censorshipsucks censorshipsucks Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Correct. But not a vast majority. It's actually 1:5 (women) vs 1:7 (men). https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/images/ipv/how-big-is-the-problem-ipv-large.PNG?_=80316 10 10points reply Vera1 Vera1 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Interestingly, I have found several scientific studies that said that domestic violence is overwhelmingly a male problem. For example: "The findings suggest that intimate partner violence is primarily an asymmetrical problem of men's violence to women, and women's violence does not equate to men's in terms of frequency, severity, consequences and the victim's sense of safety and well-being." (Hester, 2009). I'll like an article who has the sources together, but I did read their sources separately and they are legit. https://www.womensaid.org.uk/information-support/what-is-domestic-abuse/domestic-abuse-is-a-gendered-crime/ (I am aware that this is a women's Aid website, but again, their sources are legit scientific sources). 1/2 10 10points reply De Nilla De Nilla Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Men are a lot less likely to report abuse by a woman 10 10points reply Becca Hauck Becca Hauck Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago And you know that most women don't report sexual abuse by men, right? So there's a lot of underreporting and the statistics say men are much more likely to abuse. Males are more often serial killers and school shooters and rapists. You'll say there's underreporting of rape by men too. You'll ignore the fact that all serial killers with a sexual motivation are men. I do know a man that was raped by a woman. One. I've known several men that were raped by men. I've known hundreds of girls and women that were raped by men. But tell me, are you defensive because you do these things considered red flags? 0 0points reply RandomCitizen RandomCitizen Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago This comment has been deleted. 0 0points reply Mrs. Jan Glass Mrs. Jan Glass Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) RandomCitizen, you know many more than one woman who has experienced rape/SA, but they don't tell you, because they don't trust you with that information. 2 2points reply Cesar Cesar Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Implying that someone's abuse is less important than another because one is more prevalent and violent is insulting to people being abused. You're contributing to their feelings of isolation and not feeling recognized. It isn't a popularity contest and the suffering and experiences you're living don't lessen the importance or gain priority over others. If you're the one being abused, it's possible to find offense at gender-focused abuse posts and feel the need to mention that it's not isolated to gender. Because the consequences of male abuse of women are often more violent, there's less focus on abuse from women and many men aren't able to recognize it or know how to deal with it. It can be very isolating. 2 2points reply Sam Spade Sam Spade Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago In an environment where reports by men of abuse by women aren't even accepted 1 1point reply Brandon Walker Brandon Walker Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago 1, domestic abuse doesn't just mean physical, 2, these do NOTHING to say the ratio of total ratio of abusers, he provided a link from the CDC tracking ratios, he perfectly showed exactly what the ratio is, you can throw a million articles saying anything you want, but unless they directly refute the cdcs findings, they are worthless and contribute nothing. 0 0points reply Vera1 Vera1 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) Additionally: "in the year ending March 2020, the victim was female in 74% of domestic abuse-related crimes between the year ending March 2017 and the year ending March 2019, 77% of victims of domestic homicide were female compared with 13% of victims of non-domestic homicide" (https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/crimeandjustice/articles/domesticabusevictimcharacteristicsenglandandwales/yearendingmarch2020). So yeah, domestic violence IS a male problem AND the vast majority of victims are women. Which does not mean that men can't be the victim of domestic violence do. They absolutely can. But it is nowhere near the scale of domestic violence against women, and we must acknowledge that before we can even attempt to fix the problem 2/2 8 8points reply Charles Williams Charles Williams Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Also, men tend to not report when they've been a victim of domestic violence. 2 2points reply Stephen Duff Stephen Duff Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) And when they do report it, it is rarely taken seriously by law enforcement. 1 1point reply Evil Little Thing Evil Little Thing Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) The gap isn't as big as you'd think, but women who abuse men are much less likely to kill or severely injure them than men who abuse women. 7 7points reply Becca Hauck Becca Hauck Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. When women are afraid of men it's because they fear rape and murder. When men are afraid of women it's because they think she might be crazy. -4 -4points reply Mrs. Jan Glass Mrs. Jan Glass Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Yep. It's the Atwood quote. "Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them." 1 1point reply Ian Conelley Ian Conelley Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago The FBI, after a decade long, exhaustive study, which was repeated three times, with the same results, respectfully, but vehemently, disagrees with you. The director of the FBI held a press conference about this. During this conference, he apologized for the agency's extensive list of cases which went unsolved due to ingrained bias. The short version: They systemically operated from an ingrained bias which prevented them from even considering women as suspects in cases involving everything from serial child abuse, sex trafficking, and pattern homicides which indicated single serial perpetrators. Had they considered female suspects, in the moment, many of those cases would've been solved. 0 0points reply Elihishua ibn dabit barAbbas Elihishua ibn dabit barAbbas Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Bullying bwo nagging, trying to change or mold a bf into thier idea of a man is domestic abuse. It's not cute. It's not expected. It's not ok. If a woman don't love a man for who he is then she may not expect reciprocation and for God's sake she should end it before children or before she strays. I feel this overlooked form of abuse and manipulation would destroy the statistics represented. Women abuse far more than men imo. -1 -1point reply WoodenLion WoodenLion Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. not sure that is accurate. censorshipsucks said it best -4 -4points reply Vera1 Vera1 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago If you read the again, scientific studies, you'd see that it is indeed accurate. 2 2points reply Skeeter Skeeter Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Men Are Sharing 30 Red Flags That Women Should Look Out For If They Don’t Want To End Up In Awful Relationships. That's why. Start a new list of WOMEN sharing red flags. 3 3points reply Mrs. Jan Glass Mrs. Jan Glass Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Hell, ask us, we'll happily share! 3 3points reply Charles Williams Charles Williams Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago It's sad how they always bash men not realizing that women do the same bad things. Sometimes, women will do them more often and more harshly. 1 1point reply Austin Axley Austin Axley Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago I feel like they should add as a red flag anyone who reads these and their first response is "BuT dA waHmENs CaN hAvE tHeSe TOo!" 1 1point reply Brian Stanton Brian Stanton Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Number 17 0 0points reply Megan Maisano Megan Maisano Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago This comment has been deleted. 0 0points reply Becca Hauck Becca Hauck Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Who said it was okay for women to do these things? Why are you so defensive? I thought it was women that are supposed to be too emotional? -3 -3points reply guyx23 guyx23 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Ok but like 80% of what's listed here are generic toxic behaviors, that aren't exclusive to men. 21 21points reply Penguin2224 Penguin2224 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Or dating/marriage style relationships 4 4points reply Load More Replies... Becca Hauck Becca Hauck Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Has anyone said differently? Why the defensiveness? -3 -3points reply MorgothBauglir MorgothBauglir Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 2 months ago He's not being defensive, he's merely confirming what everyone knows to be true. 2 2points reply anarkzie anarkzie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago You're the only person being defensive here. 1 1point reply De Nilla De Nilla Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago From reading all of your replies, it seems like you're hell bent on demonizing anyone that even hints that this is a 2-way street. You're acting offended at concept of a man being the victim and a woman being the perpetrator. 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Men Are Sharing 30 Red Flags That Women Should Look Out For If They Don’ t Want To End Up In Awful Relationships
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Publish Not your original work? Add source Whether we like it or not, the first impression really does matter. We tend to make a whole bunch of immediate judgments about people within the first few seconds of meeting them. The way they dress, how they smile, the way they speak, and their body language all quickly add up into a broad picture of what we think about the person… and if we date them. And even though some initial impressions end up being false, quite a few of them turn out to be right on the money. Redditor u/xDarkPhoenix8161x created a viral thread on r/AskReddit where they asked men to share some of the biggest red flags that women should look out for in men they might want to date. The responses were incredibly honest and give an unfiltered glimpse into the insecurities and toxicity that some men carry with them throughout their lives. Scroll down to read what people said, Pandas, and if you'd like to share some other immediate red flags people should be wary of, feel free to do so in the comments. And above everything, just remember to trust your gut: if you instinctively know something might be wrong, it probably is. Dating expert Dan Bacon, the founder of The Modern Man project, explained to Bored Panda what it means if a guy doesn't want to introduce his girlfriend to his family and friends. He also shared his thoughts about how men who always see themselves as victims can move on from this and develop genuine confidence and learn to take responsibility for their actions. "If a man is serious about a woman, he will almost always want to introduce her to his family or friends within the first few months," he told us. Scroll down to have a read through Dan's insights. This post may include affiliate links. #1 This is one most women learn themselves around high school but still worth mentioning now. If he’s an a*****e to everyone but you, that doesn’t mean he thinks you’re special. It means he is an a*****e but knows how to not be an a*****e in order to get laid. SmartAlec105 , Trinity Kubassek Report Final score: 577points POST kristina law kristina law Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Narcissistic manipulation at its finest! 177 177points reply View More Replies... View more comments Dan, the mastermind behind The Modern Man and an expert in dating and relationships, told Bored Panda that there are some exceptions to introducing your girlfriend to your social circle. "There can be times when he won't introduce her to them for much longer, even though he is serious about the relationship and loves her." Context is important. He gave some examples: "There is drama in his family that he doesn't want her to be aware of.His family doesn't respect him, or treat him well and he doesn't want to be embarrassed in front of them.He's not close to his family and doesn't see them as important in his life. His ex-girlfriend caused a lot of problems for him and his family, so he wants to spend more time with his new girlfriend before introducing her. He has a personal belief that a woman should only be introduced to his family if he intends to marry her and he's not quite sure about marrying her yet." There's also no set time, when we 'should' introduce our partners to the people we care about most. "It's more of a gut instinct. If it feels right, do it. If it doesn't, then delay it," Dan said to trust our gut. #2 If he’s cheating on someone else with you, he will absolutely cheat on you with someone else. anthropocon , Dương Nhân Report Final score: 569points POST Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago i dont get how so many people dont understand this one 303 303points reply View More Replies... View more comments #3 If he claims all his exes were “crazy” or similar. Think for a second about what was the common factor in all those relationships: him. signalstonoise88 , Bruno Salvadori Report Final score: 523points POST Ansi Ansi Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 2 months ago My first experience with a "nice guy" was exactly this. I didn't know guys could be that way and found it romantic that I quickly became "the one" after many crazy ex. I blame me reading"Romantic books" as they are really bad for young girls, they introduce a lot of toxic behaviour as normal and acceptable and even romantic. I learned really quick that books are not real life... 174 174points reply View More Replies... View more comments Meanwhile, we really wanted to get to grips with the fact that some guys blame everyone else but themselves when something goes wrong. Bored Panda was interested to get the dating expert's thoughts on victimhood and confidence. "Unfortunately, some people never get past that level of personal development and as a result, ruin relationships their entire life. It really takes a lot of motivation and follow-through to overcome that kind of behavior, which a lot of people simply don't have," Dan, from The Modern Man, was candid that this level of change takes massive amounts of effort and time. "However, if a man were to have that kind of motivation and willingness to follow through, he should set goals for himself and work towards achieving them no matter what. When he does that, he will begin to realize the amount of personal control and influence he has over his life," he said. "A man like that will rarely overcome his victim mentality the first time he achieves a goal though. In almost all cases, he'll need to keep achieving goals and will then gradually become a man who feels totally accountable for his life and doesn't need to play the victim and blame others for his problems, or lack of success," dating expert Dan noted that it's a long process and deep change won't happen overnight. However, that still sounds motivational and optimistic to us. #4 Avoid people who are very polite and charming when they *want* something from those 'above' them, but are arrogant and demanding when they think they can *take* something from those 'below' them.
People who 'smile up' and 'kick down' are the worst. CiderDrinker , krakenimages Report Final score: 454points POST Chicken Nugget Chicken Nugget Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago That’s very manipulative 80 80points reply View more comments #5 Tried to find a less common one.
For people looking for a long term partner:
Beware when someone complains about everything and is seemingly the victim in every situation.
This is the type of person that will very quickly blame you if anything goes wrong, and is likely s******g on you to other people already. Secondly, it means you will be perpetually drained by the negativity over the long haul. Kurupt-FM-1089 , Keira Burton Report Final score: 449points POST Elijah Morningwood Elijah Morningwood Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Excuse me how did an internet stranger perfectly describe my father??? ? 180 180points reply View More Replies... View more comments #6 One saying I've always lived by is: Pay attention to how they treat waitresses. How they treat waitresses today is how they will treat you in 6 months. b-monster666 , Ketut Subiyanto Report Final score: 445points POST I I I I Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago yeah service staff and animals , if their mean to those walk away 212 212points reply View More Replies... View more comments Some guys have a very hard time admitting when they're wrong and taking responsibility for their actions. They're always the victim. They're super defensive. And they're always right-it's everyone else who's wrong. It's really no way to live because you're smothering your potential, existing in fear, and lashing out at the people closest to you. Previously, fitness expert and entrepreneur Jack Bly, from the US, shared his thoughts with Bored Panda on the importance of self-reflection, improvement, confidence, and moving past a victim mentality. "Do one thing and progress at it to prove you're not a victim. Lift weights. Help someone. Advance your career. Have a successful relationship. When you're successful in one area, you build confidence in yourself and that will translate to all of your life," he explained to us that building confidence starts with small steps. That's the way to stop being a victim, according to him. Fitness expert Jack noted that we all need time to adjust to the positive changes we're making in life. "Your brain needs proof around your new identity," he said. #7 Inability to clean up after themselves or do common household tasks Wudchuck , Gary Barnes Report Final score: 425points POST I I I I Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago man children never grow up , they want a mummy not a wife 170 170points reply View More Replies... View more comments #8 Holes in the drywall.
RUN BMG1976 , Kim Siever Report Final score: 387points POST Miocha Miocha Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago At this point I'm afraid to ask why. 102 102points reply View More Replies... View more comments #9 Pushing small boundaries that aren’t a “big deal.” Then, once called out on it, backpedaling, apologizing for it and then DOING IT AGAIN. MusicalNerDnD , SHVETS production Report Final score: 356points POST Ariel Strong Ariel Strong Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago My mother does this 92 92points reply View More Replies... View more comments According to him, real confidence is a skill that anyone can learn. However, it's something that will take persistence, patience, and time. It won't happen overnight. "Confidence comes from repetition and mastery. The more you do ANYTHING, the more confident you become. The good news about this is everyone is capable of earning confidence," he told Bored Panda. Self-reflection, for the fitness expert, is a vital component of improving one's life. "Responding to failure is all about the story we tell ourselves. Do you tell yourself that you are a failure? Or do you tell yourself you failed, have now gotten feedback, and know how to get better? It's all our perspective," he stressed that how we think, how we see ourselves, shapes who we are and how we act. Embracing failure and seeing our mistakes as learning opportunities is the mature way of responding to what life might throw at us. Instead of throwing a temper tantrum or blaming ourselves for being 'failures,' we ought to realize that everything's a temporary setback that we can definitely overcome. #10 I defer to Chris Rock: If you have been dating a guy for four months and you haven’t met any of his friends, you are not his girlfriend. GotMoFans , Helena Lopes Report Final score: 354points POST Paul Pienkowski Paul Pienkowski Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago My girlfriend legit has zero desire to meet my friends. We've been together for four years. I keep offering, she just isn't very social and takes forever to get comfortable with others. 107 107points reply View More Replies... View more comments #11 A man that blames everyone else for his problems, lack of job, lack of friends, money, etc.
Somene that is unwilling to take personal responsibility for improving his situation in life. dheffe01 , Kampus Production Report Final score: 318points POST CHRIS DOMRES CHRIS DOMRES Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Kind of like unemployable white men who blame Mexican laborers for stealing the work? 197 197points reply View More Replies... View more comments #12 Inability to say sorry when they do something wrong. Mandaface , Timur Weber Report Final score: 305points POST censorshipsucks censorshipsucks Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago This is a red flag both ways. 85 85points reply View More Replies... View more comments #13 Sexual pressure after you directly reject an advance. Healthy people with your interests in mind only need to hear no one time and are respectful of boundaries if they bring it up again in the future. freemason777 , cottonbro Report Final score: 302points POST propgamer XL propgamer XL Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Those exist? Amazing. 49 49points reply View More Replies... View more comments #14 Refusing to admit that they could possibly be wrong. I have seen many men get super frustrated and aggressive over the idea that they could be possibly wrong about something.
To add onto this, many of these same men when presented with the proof of them being wrong they will either deflect or make it seem like it doesn't matter and that *you* were "making such a big deal about this".
We are all humans and we all make mistakes. I feel for many of these men they feel stupid and less "manly" if they are wrong about something. Being able to accept your mistakes and move on is a healthy trait. Jomanderisreal , Alex Green Report Final score: 287points POST Saico Hipe Saico Hipe Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Many men seem to (erroneously) believe that to admit to being wrong is a sign of weakness, as with many forms of vulnerability. A truly strong man is able to maintain a sense of humility, and to realize/embrace their mistakes as a way to grow and learn. No one is infallible, and one who tries to pretend they are is in fact displaying an extremely weak character. 105 105points reply View More Replies... View more comments #15 If he checks your phone without permission, that to me is a huge red flag. Mydogisphotogenic , Adrienn Report Final score: 286points POST I I I I Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago 35 years never checked my wife's phone once , just like her FB , it's HERS not mine , if she wants a private friend list so be it 119 119points reply View More Replies... View more comments #16 These apply to everyone not just men. Report Final score: 278points Circa POST Bored Retsuko Bored Retsuko Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) Most of them, yes. Edit: I'd like to elaborate a bit... The crucial thing is whether or not there is a power gap within the relationship. I've seen several pandas comment that their parents had such toxic traits (and so did mine). Clearly, between a parent (male or female) and a child, there's a power gap. Also, traditionally (and physically) there is a power gap in heterosexual relationships; that's why pointing out such red flags to women is a good thing, and if a man's knee jerk reaction is "but applies to women, too!", it may be a case of downplaying and minimizing this fact, as someone pointed out in the comments. But of course it is COMPLETELY possible to end up in a dependent relationship with a toxic female person; it's just much more frequent in heterosexual relationships to be on the woman's expense. Hope I got my point across... I didn't mean to offend or downplay anyone's experience. 126 126points reply View More Replies... View more comments #17 Suddenly flying off the handle at a minor inconvenience. It's one thing to stub your toe at the end of a bad day and give the table a whack. It's another if every moment of stress or misfortune triggers rage. thesaga , Vera Arsic Report Final score: 261points POST I I I I Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago I had to learn to lower my tone , i'm short and grew up in a rough area so i was LOUD and swore a lot , not violent , i just had to act like i was 71 71points reply View More Replies... View more comments See Also on Bored Panda Woman Shows How "Harry Potter" Characters Were Supposed To Look According To Book Descriptions (35 Pics) 50 ‘Weird Facts’ About The World That Might Give You A Fresh Perspective #18 ALCOHOLISM. gladtoknow , Tembela Bohle Report Final score: 246points POST Dani M Dani M Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Dropped my partner off at Rehab yesterday. 2-3 months.... let´s hope for the best. 161 161points reply View More Replies... View more comments #19 Does he talk about always being ready to fight if necessary? Then he's a lunatic. Well adjusted people in things like MMA don't want to fight randomly and don't seek it out outside of the sport of it. Half the point is to have a place for your aggression in a controlled setting. jl_theprofessor , Bahaa A. Shawqi Report Final score: 227points POST Am I A Bear (She/Her) Am I A Bear (She/Her) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago That checks off all the men I know. Thanks a lot. 33 33points reply View More Replies... View more comments #20 If he is overtly angry when you talk to other people, (specifically other men) that's a major red flag and he's probably gonna start to be possessive over you by not letting you talk to anyone else.
daddytoelicker Report Final score: 227points POST Chicken Nugget Chicken Nugget Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Very paranoid 29 29points reply View More Replies... View more comments #21 If he talks about his ex too much. As someone who was in love with an ex for way too long, I was not ready for a relationship with anyone else. swervin87 , Priscilla Du Preez Report Final score: 220points POST Alicia M Alicia M Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago No one should go into a new relationship talking about their ex. I don't care if your ex was wonderful. They are an ex. You are only hurting yourself, and possibly your romantic interest, by carrying on about your previous relationships. 51 51points reply View More Replies... View more comments #22 Only talks about themselves PaleRhinos , Ketut Subiyanto Report Final score: 208points POST Beeps Beeps Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Or just generally talking nonstop and not letting you speak. I once got that at a first date, but made excuses for him, thinking he was just nervous, but nope, when we were in a relationship, he was still constantly just talking at me and interrupting me the minute I spoke. 76 76points reply View More Replies... View more comments #23 I’ll die on this hill: every man I’ve ever known who was an *outspoken* feminist was horrible to women behind the scenes. tenaciousDaniel Report Final score: 207points POST Tim Pateman Tim Pateman Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Much better to be a feminist by action - get on with raising the kids, cooking the meals, or just going down on a woman. 129 129points reply View More Replies... View more comments #24 Emotional manipulation, trying to guilt trap you Quality-vs-Quantity Report Final score: 195points POST Saico Hipe Saico Hipe Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago The pedant in me wanted to say, "I think you mean guilt *trip,*" but after thinking about it a moment, 'guilt trap' also works. Perhaps even better ? 86 86points reply View More Replies... View more comments #25 If a guy tells you he's no good, listen. JackPoe , Nik Shuliahin Report Final score: 182points POST Bored Retsuko Bored Retsuko Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) I disagree. Someone who says this might simply suffer from low self-esteem. Not great but not necessarily a horrible thing... The idea is to lower the other person's expectations because one is afraid to be seen as a disappointment lateron... typical coping mechanism if you were never good enough when you grew up. Source: been there, done that. 133 133points reply View More Replies... View more comments #26 His hyper focus on money. While this might be a plus in some women's opinion, this can also be a HUGE red flag.
I knew some men that was so focused on money they tried to put a price on everything, even a woman, her actions, her respect and what he is allowed to do simply because he pays for it.
This has serious ramifications due to him keeping track of everything he does for a woman and coming up with some weird idea that you owe him when things start to fall apart in the relationship.
Just keep an eye out. Brown_bear82 Report Final score: 182points POST Chicken Nugget Chicken Nugget Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Too money centered is not a good thing! 46 46points reply View more comments #27 If he doesn't put in an effort to make you happy. It doesn't have to make you happy whatever he does but the fact he's putting in the effort means he truly cares about you enough that he cares about your mental health as well. Goes both ways. Positive_Balance620 , Priscilla Du Preez Report Final score: 177points POST Chicken Nugget Chicken Nugget Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago A good SO always thinks about their lover! 34 34points reply View More Replies... View more comments See Also on Bored Panda Overworked Employee Quits Because He Wasn't Getting A Fair Wage, Costs The Company $40 Million 40 Embarrassing Moments People Didn't Know Who They Were Talking To And Made A Fool Of Themselves #28 If they wear sunglasses at night. You should never masquerade with the guy in the shades ZonkedTheBoy , Phil Nguyen Report Final score: 177points POST Jihana Jihana Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Well, I sometimes wear sunglasses at night. I suffer from migraines and light just hurts. 160 160points reply View More Replies... View more comments #29 Calls himself a feminist and apologizes on behalf of men. Political nice guy red flag. Bonus points if he apologize for being a man himself. He's trying to get in someone's pants.
This is not a call out of men who are feminist but those that wear the label but only engage in call out hot takes ie feels good in the moment but does the opposite of helping anything. firekstk , RODNAE Productions Report Final score: 169points POST I I I I Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago you guys know some right creeps 54 54points reply View More Replies... View more comments #30 Goes for both sexes... If the person has no hobbies. Now you are their new hobby. blueboy664 Report Final score: 148points POST Gabriel Vonadler Gabriel Vonadler Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) Not everybody need or want a hobby ? My "hobby "is the same like the carton bull 's Ferdinand...smell the roses 63 63points reply View More Replies... View more comments Note: this post originally had 32 images. It’s been shortened to the top 30 images based on user votes. Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing! Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda! Add Your Answer! Not your original work? Add source Publish Change image Upload Photo Ooops! Your image is too large, maximum file size is 8 MB. Upload Upload Edit Image Error occurred when generating embed. Please check link and try again. Render conversation
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As if it's okay when women show the same red flags. 25 25points reply Vera1 Vera1 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) It’s is not. However, unfortunately, the vast majority of domestic abusers are men. And the vast majority of victims of those men are women. Therefore, it’s even more imperative that we educate women about red flags in men that often escalate into abuse. 28 28points reply Load More Replies... censorshipsucks censorshipsucks Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Correct. But not a vast majority. It's actually 1:5 (women) vs 1:7 (men). https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/images/ipv/how-big-is-the-problem-ipv-large.PNG?_=80316 10 10points reply Vera1 Vera1 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Interestingly, I have found several scientific studies that said that domestic violence is overwhelmingly a male problem. For example: "The findings suggest that intimate partner violence is primarily an asymmetrical problem of men's violence to women, and women's violence does not equate to men's in terms of frequency, severity, consequences and the victim's sense of safety and well-being." (Hester, 2009). I'll like an article who has the sources together, but I did read their sources separately and they are legit. https://www.womensaid.org.uk/information-support/what-is-domestic-abuse/domestic-abuse-is-a-gendered-crime/ (I am aware that this is a women's Aid website, but again, their sources are legit scientific sources). 1/2 10 10points reply De Nilla De Nilla Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Men are a lot less likely to report abuse by a woman 10 10points reply Becca Hauck Becca Hauck Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago And you know that most women don't report sexual abuse by men, right? So there's a lot of underreporting and the statistics say men are much more likely to abuse. Males are more often serial killers and school shooters and rapists. You'll say there's underreporting of rape by men too. You'll ignore the fact that all serial killers with a sexual motivation are men. I do know a man that was raped by a woman. One. I've known several men that were raped by men. I've known hundreds of girls and women that were raped by men. But tell me, are you defensive because you do these things considered red flags? 0 0points reply RandomCitizen RandomCitizen Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago This comment has been deleted. 0 0points reply Mrs. Jan Glass Mrs. Jan Glass Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) RandomCitizen, you know many more than one woman who has experienced rape/SA, but they don't tell you, because they don't trust you with that information. 2 2points reply Cesar Cesar Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Implying that someone's abuse is less important than another because one is more prevalent and violent is insulting to people being abused. You're contributing to their feelings of isolation and not feeling recognized. It isn't a popularity contest and the suffering and experiences you're living don't lessen the importance or gain priority over others. If you're the one being abused, it's possible to find offense at gender-focused abuse posts and feel the need to mention that it's not isolated to gender. Because the consequences of male abuse of women are often more violent, there's less focus on abuse from women and many men aren't able to recognize it or know how to deal with it. It can be very isolating. 2 2points reply Sam Spade Sam Spade Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago In an environment where reports by men of abuse by women aren't even accepted 1 1point reply Brandon Walker Brandon Walker Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago 1, domestic abuse doesn't just mean physical, 2, these do NOTHING to say the ratio of total ratio of abusers, he provided a link from the CDC tracking ratios, he perfectly showed exactly what the ratio is, you can throw a million articles saying anything you want, but unless they directly refute the cdcs findings, they are worthless and contribute nothing. 0 0points reply Vera1 Vera1 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) Additionally: "in the year ending March 2020, the victim was female in 74% of domestic abuse-related crimes between the year ending March 2017 and the year ending March 2019, 77% of victims of domestic homicide were female compared with 13% of victims of non-domestic homicide" (https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/crimeandjustice/articles/domesticabusevictimcharacteristicsenglandandwales/yearendingmarch2020). So yeah, domestic violence IS a male problem AND the vast majority of victims are women. Which does not mean that men can't be the victim of domestic violence do. They absolutely can. But it is nowhere near the scale of domestic violence against women, and we must acknowledge that before we can even attempt to fix the problem 2/2 8 8points reply Charles Williams Charles Williams Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Also, men tend to not report when they've been a victim of domestic violence. 2 2points reply Stephen Duff Stephen Duff Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) And when they do report it, it is rarely taken seriously by law enforcement. 1 1point reply Evil Little Thing Evil Little Thing Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) The gap isn't as big as you'd think, but women who abuse men are much less likely to kill or severely injure them than men who abuse women. 7 7points reply Becca Hauck Becca Hauck Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. When women are afraid of men it's because they fear rape and murder. When men are afraid of women it's because they think she might be crazy. -4 -4points reply Mrs. Jan Glass Mrs. Jan Glass Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Yep. It's the Atwood quote. "Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them." 1 1point reply Ian Conelley Ian Conelley Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago The FBI, after a decade long, exhaustive study, which was repeated three times, with the same results, respectfully, but vehemently, disagrees with you. The director of the FBI held a press conference about this. During this conference, he apologized for the agency's extensive list of cases which went unsolved due to ingrained bias. The short version: They systemically operated from an ingrained bias which prevented them from even considering women as suspects in cases involving everything from serial child abuse, sex trafficking, and pattern homicides which indicated single serial perpetrators. Had they considered female suspects, in the moment, many of those cases would've been solved. 0 0points reply Elihishua ibn dabit barAbbas Elihishua ibn dabit barAbbas Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Bullying bwo nagging, trying to change or mold a bf into thier idea of a man is domestic abuse. It's not cute. It's not expected. It's not ok. If a woman don't love a man for who he is then she may not expect reciprocation and for God's sake she should end it before children or before she strays. I feel this overlooked form of abuse and manipulation would destroy the statistics represented. Women abuse far more than men imo. -1 -1point reply WoodenLion WoodenLion Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. not sure that is accurate. censorshipsucks said it best -4 -4points reply Vera1 Vera1 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago If you read the again, scientific studies, you'd see that it is indeed accurate. 2 2points reply Skeeter Skeeter Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Men Are Sharing 30 Red Flags That Women Should Look Out For If They Don’t Want To End Up In Awful Relationships. That's why. Start a new list of WOMEN sharing red flags. 3 3points reply Mrs. Jan Glass Mrs. Jan Glass Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Hell, ask us, we'll happily share! 3 3points reply Charles Williams Charles Williams Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago It's sad how they always bash men not realizing that women do the same bad things. Sometimes, women will do them more often and more harshly. 1 1point reply Austin Axley Austin Axley Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago I feel like they should add as a red flag anyone who reads these and their first response is "BuT dA waHmENs CaN hAvE tHeSe TOo!" 1 1point reply Brian Stanton Brian Stanton Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Number 17 0 0points reply Megan Maisano Megan Maisano Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago This comment has been deleted. 0 0points reply Becca Hauck Becca Hauck Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Who said it was okay for women to do these things? Why are you so defensive? I thought it was women that are supposed to be too emotional? -3 -3points reply guyx23 guyx23 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Ok but like 80% of what's listed here are generic toxic behaviors, that aren't exclusive to men. 21 21points reply Penguin2224 Penguin2224 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Or dating/marriage style relationships 4 4points reply Load More Replies... Becca Hauck Becca Hauck Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Has anyone said differently? Why the defensiveness? -3 -3points reply MorgothBauglir MorgothBauglir Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 2 months ago He's not being defensive, he's merely confirming what everyone knows to be true. 2 2points reply anarkzie anarkzie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago You're the only person being defensive here. 1 1point reply De Nilla De Nilla Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago From reading all of your replies, it seems like you're hell bent on demonizing anyone that even hints that this is a 2-way street. You're acting offended at concept of a man being the victim and a woman being the perpetrator. You're coming off as a triggered feminazi 0 0points reply pelemele pelemele Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 2 months ago As said above, the vast majority of these examples can apply to both women and men. 17 17points reply Load More Comments POST jonathan rasco jonathan rasco Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago How are these exclusive to men though? As if it's okay when women show the same red flags. 25 25points reply Vera1 Vera1 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) It’s is not. However, unfortunately, the vast majority of domestic abusers are men. And the vast majority of victims of those men are women. Therefore, it’s even more imperative that we educate women about red flags in men that often escalate into abuse. 28 28points reply Load More Replies... censorshipsucks censorshipsucks Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Correct. But not a vast majority. It's actually 1:5 (women) vs 1:7 (men). https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/images/ipv/how-big-is-the-problem-ipv-large.PNG?_=80316 10 10points reply Vera1 Vera1 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Interestingly, I have found several scientific studies that said that domestic violence is overwhelmingly a male problem. For example: "The findings suggest that intimate partner violence is primarily an asymmetrical problem of men's violence to women, and women's violence does not equate to men's in terms of frequency, severity, consequences and the victim's sense of safety and well-being." (Hester, 2009). I'll like an article who has the sources together, but I did read their sources separately and they are legit. https://www.womensaid.org.uk/information-support/what-is-domestic-abuse/domestic-abuse-is-a-gendered-crime/ (I am aware that this is a women's Aid website, but again, their sources are legit scientific sources). 1/2 10 10points reply De Nilla De Nilla Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Men are a lot less likely to report abuse by a woman 10 10points reply Becca Hauck Becca Hauck Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago And you know that most women don't report sexual abuse by men, right? So there's a lot of underreporting and the statistics say men are much more likely to abuse. Males are more often serial killers and school shooters and rapists. You'll say there's underreporting of rape by men too. You'll ignore the fact that all serial killers with a sexual motivation are men. I do know a man that was raped by a woman. One. I've known several men that were raped by men. I've known hundreds of girls and women that were raped by men. But tell me, are you defensive because you do these things considered red flags? 0 0points reply RandomCitizen RandomCitizen Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago This comment has been deleted. 0 0points reply Mrs. Jan Glass Mrs. Jan Glass Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) RandomCitizen, you know many more than one woman who has experienced rape/SA, but they don't tell you, because they don't trust you with that information. 2 2points reply Cesar Cesar Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Implying that someone's abuse is less important than another because one is more prevalent and violent is insulting to people being abused. You're contributing to their feelings of isolation and not feeling recognized. It isn't a popularity contest and the suffering and experiences you're living don't lessen the importance or gain priority over others. If you're the one being abused, it's possible to find offense at gender-focused abuse posts and feel the need to mention that it's not isolated to gender. Because the consequences of male abuse of women are often more violent, there's less focus on abuse from women and many men aren't able to recognize it or know how to deal with it. It can be very isolating. 2 2points reply Sam Spade Sam Spade Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago In an environment where reports by men of abuse by women aren't even accepted 1 1point reply Brandon Walker Brandon Walker Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago 1, domestic abuse doesn't just mean physical, 2, these do NOTHING to say the ratio of total ratio of abusers, he provided a link from the CDC tracking ratios, he perfectly showed exactly what the ratio is, you can throw a million articles saying anything you want, but unless they directly refute the cdcs findings, they are worthless and contribute nothing. 0 0points reply Vera1 Vera1 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) Additionally: "in the year ending March 2020, the victim was female in 74% of domestic abuse-related crimes between the year ending March 2017 and the year ending March 2019, 77% of victims of domestic homicide were female compared with 13% of victims of non-domestic homicide" (https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/crimeandjustice/articles/domesticabusevictimcharacteristicsenglandandwales/yearendingmarch2020). So yeah, domestic violence IS a male problem AND the vast majority of victims are women. Which does not mean that men can't be the victim of domestic violence do. They absolutely can. But it is nowhere near the scale of domestic violence against women, and we must acknowledge that before we can even attempt to fix the problem 2/2 8 8points reply Charles Williams Charles Williams Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Also, men tend to not report when they've been a victim of domestic violence. 2 2points reply Stephen Duff Stephen Duff Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) And when they do report it, it is rarely taken seriously by law enforcement. 1 1point reply Evil Little Thing Evil Little Thing Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago (edited) The gap isn't as big as you'd think, but women who abuse men are much less likely to kill or severely injure them than men who abuse women. 7 7points reply Becca Hauck Becca Hauck Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. When women are afraid of men it's because they fear rape and murder. When men are afraid of women it's because they think she might be crazy. -4 -4points reply Mrs. Jan Glass Mrs. Jan Glass Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Yep. It's the Atwood quote. "Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them." 1 1point reply Ian Conelley Ian Conelley Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago The FBI, after a decade long, exhaustive study, which was repeated three times, with the same results, respectfully, but vehemently, disagrees with you. The director of the FBI held a press conference about this. During this conference, he apologized for the agency's extensive list of cases which went unsolved due to ingrained bias. The short version: They systemically operated from an ingrained bias which prevented them from even considering women as suspects in cases involving everything from serial child abuse, sex trafficking, and pattern homicides which indicated single serial perpetrators. Had they considered female suspects, in the moment, many of those cases would've been solved. 0 0points reply Elihishua ibn dabit barAbbas Elihishua ibn dabit barAbbas Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Bullying bwo nagging, trying to change or mold a bf into thier idea of a man is domestic abuse. It's not cute. It's not expected. It's not ok. If a woman don't love a man for who he is then she may not expect reciprocation and for God's sake she should end it before children or before she strays. I feel this overlooked form of abuse and manipulation would destroy the statistics represented. Women abuse far more than men imo. -1 -1point reply WoodenLion WoodenLion Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. not sure that is accurate. censorshipsucks said it best -4 -4points reply Vera1 Vera1 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago If you read the again, scientific studies, you'd see that it is indeed accurate. 2 2points reply Skeeter Skeeter Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Men Are Sharing 30 Red Flags That Women Should Look Out For If They Don’t Want To End Up In Awful Relationships. That's why. Start a new list of WOMEN sharing red flags. 3 3points reply Mrs. Jan Glass Mrs. Jan Glass Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Hell, ask us, we'll happily share! 3 3points reply Charles Williams Charles Williams Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago It's sad how they always bash men not realizing that women do the same bad things. Sometimes, women will do them more often and more harshly. 1 1point reply Austin Axley Austin Axley Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago I feel like they should add as a red flag anyone who reads these and their first response is "BuT dA waHmENs CaN hAvE tHeSe TOo!" 1 1point reply Brian Stanton Brian Stanton Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Number 17 0 0points reply Megan Maisano Megan Maisano Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago This comment has been deleted. 0 0points reply Becca Hauck Becca Hauck Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Who said it was okay for women to do these things? Why are you so defensive? I thought it was women that are supposed to be too emotional? -3 -3points reply guyx23 guyx23 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Ok but like 80% of what's listed here are generic toxic behaviors, that aren't exclusive to men. 21 21points reply Penguin2224 Penguin2224 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Or dating/marriage style relationships 4 4points reply Load More Replies... Becca Hauck Becca Hauck Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago Has anyone said differently? Why the defensiveness? -3 -3points reply MorgothBauglir MorgothBauglir Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 2 months ago He's not being defensive, he's merely confirming what everyone knows to be true. 2 2points reply anarkzie anarkzie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago You're the only person being defensive here. 1 1point reply De Nilla De Nilla Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 months ago From reading all of your replies, it seems like you're hell bent on demonizing anyone that even hints that this is a 2-way street. You're acting offended at concept of a man being the victim and a woman being the perpetrator. You're coming off as a triggered feminazi 0 0points reply pelemele pelemele Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 2 months ago As said above, the vast majority of these examples can apply to both women and men. 17 17points reply Load More Comments Popular on Bored Panda I Used AI To See What These 23 Popular Cartoon Characters Would Look Like In Real Life 30 Y.O. Woman Takes DNA Test For Fun Only To Discover Her Long-Term Boyfriend Is Her Full Sibling "I Just Said Thank You And Left": Man’s Nice Gesture Is Praised After Pizza Hut Driver Got A $20 Tip On A $938 Order Woman Flabbergasted At Thrift Store's Prices, Calls Them Out By Sharing 14 Examples 50 Parents Having A Pretty Miserable Day Photoshop Troll Who Takes Photo Requests Too Literally Strikes Again, And The Result Is Hilarious (17 Pics) Popular on Bored Panda 30 Y.O. 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