35 Of The Dumbest Wedding Traditions People Hope Will Disappear As Soon As Possible

35 Of The Dumbest Wedding Traditions People Hope Will Disappear As Soon As Possible

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35 Of The Dumbest Wedding Traditions People Hope Will Disappear As Soon As Possible

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Publish Not your original work? Add source A wedding is a beautiful thing. When done correctly, it's a personal celebration of love; a proverbial fusion of two souls into one. At its worst, however, it can morph into a money-hungry industry, chasing after every penny in your pocket. This is largely because there are a lot of outdated and quite frankly superficial customs that have been carrying on for far too long, mainly due to social inertia. Interested in these cases, Reddit user u/mathsoprano17 posted a question on the platform: "What's the dumbest wedding tradition?" And they got plenty of replies. Below, you will find some of the most popular ones that should make you rethink what a typical modern ceremony ought to look like. This post may include affiliate links. #1 Bachelor parties at strip clubs/ Vegas hotel rooms with a private stripper.

Your last hoorah was before you started dating her, not the night before you get married. Stop acting like being faithful is some kind of funeral. ringoandme , Level 23 Media Report Final score: 373points POST troufaki13 troufaki13 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago It's getting more absurd with each passing year. It went from a night out with the guys/girls to one-week vacation abroad. Why?? 101 101points reply View More Replies... View more comments #2 Going deeply into debt to make it happen in the first place. despecific , Álvaro CvG Report Final score: 359points POST Biliegh Berrie Biliegh Berrie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago American bride fantasy. Growing up believing the wedding has to be a princess fairytale. 49 49points reply View More Replies... View more comments #3 Expecting your friends to spend thousands of dollars on you with stupid destination bachelor parties, dress/tux rentals, hotels, miscellaneous b******t. TRex_N_Truex , Leonardo Miranda Report Final score: 319points POST troufaki13 troufaki13 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago THIS!! If I ever get married, it would be as simple as it can get. 48 48points reply View More Replies... View more comments #4 Smashing a cake in the groom/bride face. Seen too many where they really smash them with the cake Beer2Bear , steews4 Report Final score: 275points POST Tildy Tildy Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Wtf do people really do this? 65 65points reply View More Replies... View more comments #5 Rehearsal dinners and all the pre-wedding events are b******t. They are unnecessary money spent. If you need to rehearse getting married, then you've complicated your damn ceremony. Get engaged, walk up to your fiance/finacee, say "I do", eat and end the day. S**t. ZeeKayGee , Fabio Sangregorio Report Final score: 222points POST James016 James016 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Not really a thing in the UK. 57 57points reply View More Replies... View more comments #6 Spending a lot of money for a dress you will wear once anon , Asdrubal luna Report Final score: 204points POST Kakofonyx Kakofonyx Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I don't get this either. Just rent and return the dress. You will save a lot of money which you'll be glad to have as a new couple. 46 46points reply View More Replies... View more comments #7 Removing the garter, the following garter toss, and application on another woman. That s**t is just weird. BLMdidHarambe , Chalo Garcia Report Final score: 202points POST UpupaEpops UpupaEpops Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago This is the one I hate the most. Especially when the groom climbs under her dress and removes it with his teeth. Luckily, I've only ever seen this in a wedding photo and have never had to suffer through it in real life. It's such a crass thing to do. Especially in front of your older relatives. 75 75points reply View More Replies... View more comments #8 Color matching outfits for the attendants. Those dresses are always ugly and can never be worn outside the wedding. When I got married, I chose an easy color scheme and told my bride maid and maid of honor to match it with whatever they had. They looked lovely. oceanbreze , Guy Basabose Report Final score: 196points POST Biliegh Berrie Biliegh Berrie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago It's not that they can't be worn outside the wedding it's that normally the bride picks ugly dresses so she looks pretty. So how about these brides cowboy up and stop with the ugly dresses. 40 40points reply View More Replies... View more comments #9 Diamond rings. Didn't become a thing until the 30s when DeBeers made it a thing and had been profitiing ever since. decorama , TranStudios Photography & Video Report Final score: 193points POST Kakofonyx Kakofonyx Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Diamonds are beautiful but they are not as rare as they make us believe. It's the artificially restricted supply that causes the high prices. Kinda like when OPEC (the cartel of crude oil producing nations) decided to lower supply to increase prices at will. 62 62points reply View More Replies... View more comments #10 I feel like I'm gonna be one of the very few people to think this, but I think the whole 'be given away at the alter' thing is weird. When I get married, I'm walking myself down the aisle.

This is probably because I'm just not close with anyone besides my boyfriend (and obviously he can't simultainiously walk me down the aisle and be at the alter), but I've just never liked that tradition. GoghAway13 , Ignatios Kourouvasilis Report Final score: 183points POST Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago My father was disappointed that I didn't want him to "give me away". I hate it and it's so old fashioned. I'm not someone's property. 109 109points reply View More Replies... View more comments #11 Maybe this is just me, but the wedding cake.

Over priced, silly, they all pretty much look the same. They're like 90% frosting, and even if you try to get a nice cake, they taste like sandpaper after the six hours they have to be out to be decorated. No one at the party actually wants to eat it, so you end up with about eighty pounds of left over cake.

My husband and I went to a local cupcake shop and order cupcakes, all different varieties. They were made fresh and decorated the morning of, low on frosting because we asked. We put them nicely on the table and when the party was done, we had boxes for everyone to take some home in. People took them into work or school the next day, and it was like we were sharing our happiness with the whole world. SalemScout , Jeremy Wong Report Final score: 168points POST Tildy Tildy Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago That is such a good idea! 47 47points reply View More Replies... View more comments #12 Wedding showers. Being a female person, I get invited to a lot of these, and they're all pretty much the same: sitting around eating finger sandwiches, tentatively sipping white wine, and watching the bride open boilerplate registry gifts and Bed Bath & Beyond gift cards for 3 hours. No thanks. SmoreOfBabylon , Taha Samet Arslan Report Final score: 155points POST Mohsie Supposie Mohsie Supposie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Any showers really, except the ones I have alone in the bathroom! 60 60points reply View more comments #13 I've been a bridesmaid in 3 weddings. In all of them, I had to "pair up" with a groomsman, who I was expected to flirt with and "act like a couple" with. This was usually for photos, but also for walking down the aisle. In all three cases, I didn't know the groomsmen and didn't appreciate the implication that we were a couple just because we had to walk together down the aisle.

For example, i had to take group photos where the groomsman I was paired with had to dip me and look lovingly into my eyes. I don't even know that guy's name. At my sister's wedding, I had to walk down the aisle arm-in-arm with my brother-in-law's brother (I was 13, he was 22) and he had to kiss my hand. This was all orchestrated by the mothers-in-law who thought it was precious.

I also had to take pictures where all the bridesmaids would swoon over the groom (and vice versa with groomsmen and the bride), with the implication that we are all jealous that the bride got such a great catch and we wish WE were getting married to him. I was there to support my friend on her wedding day by being her bridesmaid - I am NOT there to secretly undermine her or feel envious.

When I eventually got married, I had a consultation with my photographer. I whipped out these photos and said, 'I don't want THAT.' She laughed and said she hated those too. anon , Joeyy Lee Report Final score: 150points POST Sadia Timmermans Sadia Timmermans Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Never heard of this, never seen this. Thank god! 87 87points reply View More Replies... View more comments #14 Having only girls on the bride's wedding party and only males on the grooms side. sauerpatchkid , Melike Benli Report Final score: 148points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago If I ever get married I have promised the position of Best Man to a woman. 51 51points reply View More Replies... View more comments #15 Asking the father or the parents for their permission or blessing. I'm not marrying a child here. I'm marrying an adult who can make her own decisions. WorkRedditEqualsFun Report Final score: 143points POST David H David H Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Nothing wrong with asking for a blessing, it's a sign that their family is accepting you in. The Permission is a relic from a different time when a fathers permission was required. But what is wrong with a blessing of support? You want the other family to show full acceptance. 49 49points reply View More Replies... View more comments #16 Spending tens of thousands of dollars on a stupid ceremony that is nothing but a showboat of gaudy excess and barely anything to do with the relationship. Bielzabutt Report Final score: 138points POST ohjojo (you/your's) ohjojo (you/your's) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Celebrating the wedding instead of the marriage 47 47points reply View More Replies... View more comments #17 The bride being expected to wear white. I've told people I don't want a white wedding dress when and if I get married and you wouldn't believe the looks of disbelief and horror I've gotten in return. ankhes , Brianna Amick Report Final score: 137points POST ScarletRos ScarletRos Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Wear whatever colour you want, it’s your wedding not theirs. I wore a red. 71 71points reply View More Replies... View more comments #18 That the brides family should pay for the wedding. I know it's becoming less common. I have a single mom (dad passed away when I was little) and I know she felt terrible about not being able to contribute more to my wedding. I, knowing my mom has a single income, would never expect my mother to pay for my wedding. I'm not putting down any bride whose family is fortunate enough to pay for their wedding, i just don't think it should be the expectation anymore. Anyways, we had a beautiful wedding and we paid for the majority of it on our own. Thewhitneygirl , Pixabay Report Final score: 133points POST Ripley Ripley Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I suspect it's a carry over from when a girl's parents paid a dowry. If so, then really old fashioned and should definitely be done away with! 36 36points reply View More Replies... View more comments #19 Throwing confetti (or rice) at the couple outside the front doors of the church after the ceremony to wish them "good luck."

The pastor of one church asked those in attendance to "please throw $20 bills instead to spare the sexton a huge clean-up job." Back2Bach , Juliana Navajas Robb Report Final score: 112points POST Jill Rhodry Jill Rhodry Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I think it's meant to symbolise fertility - rose petals, blowing bubbles are some ways it can be done without the clean up or ill birds. 49 49points reply View More Replies... View more comments #20 This is a bit late but there is a tradition in Sweden where if the groom leaves the room without the bride every man in the formentioned room is allowed (or have) to kiss the bride.

I would to so far as to say that it's a bit weird, anon , Valerie Elash Report Final score: 111points POST Mohsie Supposie Mohsie Supposie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago And she lets them? 28 28points reply View More Replies... View more comments #21 For me, wedding itself is a pretty dumb tradition.
You're going to start a life with your future partner and you toss all you life savings on a one night celebration. geraaaaald Report Final score: 91points POST Ripley Ripley Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago My partner and I got married at the registry, essentially for a work visa (so romantic!). 10 years later to the day, we had a party as a "reception". It was fun, we got to have a bit of a fancy party and get dressed up, and our marriage had 10 solid years behind it, so it wasn't wasted effort. 24 24points reply View More Replies... View more comments #22 Forcing several of your closest friends to spend hundreds of dollars on a dress, or a tux rental, to literally stand in the front of the church with you. Other than the best man and maid/matron/man of honor, there's no purpose.

If you go casual and let people wear their own stuff, it's not so bad. tommyjohnpauljones , Gad Samuel Report Final score: 90points POST Foxxy says goodbye. Foxxy says goodbye. Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago We asked our groomsmen to just wear a white shirt, black pants and a black tie. We offered to pay for them but all the groomsmen already had them. So easy done. 27 27points reply View More Replies... View more comments #23 The idea of throwing a party for gazillion people, because 'they are family!'. No, if I haven't seen them for last 20 years they are not. The whole general social concept of a modern wedding is just stupid. People spending much more they can afford on one night, that is stressful and makes them hate each other and scream at each other. Blah.

edit: grammar codingraf Report Final score: 83points POST Summer Mason Summer Mason Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago My father flew up, my brother drove down. All others where my husband's family and our kids. Total 20 people. It was beautiful. We paid for food and our clothing, mil paid for decorating, and everyone brought their own booze. 16 16points reply View more comments #24 Inviting people you don't like, who you never see and have a greater than 50% chance of ruining the event.

Then paying $250 a head for the privilege. jalif Report Final score: 72points POST censorshipsucks censorshipsucks Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago ouch, here it's about $15 a head. 9 9points reply View More Replies... View more comments #25 Apparently there is a weird tradition that it's bad luck for the bride to walk down the aisle at the rehearsal and some other girl/woman is supposed to walk down and stand with the groom. My wife said "screw that" and walked herself. Why would she want to sit and watch some other girl our age stand up there with me and the preacher the day before the wedding? wabrown4 , Владимир Васильев Report Final score: 70points POST Isabella Isabella Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago In my part of Europe, the wedding rehearsals are only heard of in American movies. 66 66points reply View More Replies... View more comments #26 Engagement rings. Obscene waste of money to support an evil industry. Puckhead88 , Daniel Moises Magulado Report Final score: 63points POST Biliegh Berrie Biliegh Berrie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago It could be basic design to match the lady's personality. Doesn't have to be full of diamonds. 50 50points reply View More Replies... View more comments #27 I'm getting married next month.

I think most of the traditions are dumb.

- I don't want to do a first dance with everyone staring at me. Awkward and unnecessary.

- I don't want to take the garter off of her and throw it to some dudes.

- The dollar dance is dumb

- I wish "Give me money" was an acceptable registry for wedding gifts. No, no gift cards. Money. I've been hassled relentlessly for months about what gifts I want. I want money because this wedding is expensive. That's it.

- The tradition of pricing everything up once the word "wedding" is mentioned. Great photoshoot for your family -- $300. Wedding photos of the same quality and quantity -- $1500. Yeah, I'll gladly just have friends whip out an iPhone and take pics and edit them myself. TheRealHooks , TranStudios Photography & Video Report Final score: 60points POST Isabella Isabella Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago A good professional photography is not about the portrait or group photos. A good photographer is in the middle of the event, knowing when and what to capture, things for which friends won't have time or a trained eye. A good photographer makes a huge difference. 35 35points reply View More Replies... View more comments #28 The over the top spending in general. I'm now divorced; however, when I got married... I was excited to BE married... I wasn't excited to GET married. I think there's too much of an emphasis on rings, gowns, and impressing all of your guests. I walked into the bridal shop, tried on ONE dress, and said "Ok, good to go!" I believe it was maybe $250. We ordered our rings off of Amazon for probably $50-$75 each, at the most.

A wedding should be about celebrating a commitment to one another, not spending a down payment on a house to throw a party, in my opinion. This holds true, especially, for those people that spend money they don't have on it. I could have just walked down to the courthouse with my ex and been just as happy. I would rather have the money to save for a home for a future family or a college fund for future kids than on a single day of my life.

pagirl023 Report Final score: 59points POST Richard Smith Richard Smith Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago "A wedding should be about celebrating a commitment to one another, not spending a down payment on a house to throw a party, in my opinion." AGREE! 13 13points reply View more comments See Also on Bored Panda Woman Shows How "Harry Potter" Characters Were Supposed To Look According To Book Descriptions (35 Pics) 50 ‘Weird Facts’ About The World That Might Give You A Fresh Perspective #29 The woman buying her dress. I mean why? In theory you will only wear it once. It makes more sense for the guy to buy his tux, there's at least a chance he'll wear it again. EBJ1990 , PhotoMIX Company Report Final score: 55points POST Foxxy says goodbye. Foxxy says goodbye. Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I have been with my hubby for 20 years and he has never worn a tux. Not even for our own wedding. 18 18points reply View More Replies... View more comments #30 All the flowers arrangements. I have been to so many weddings where there are amazing, expensive displays on all the tables, down the aisle, etc. etc. It's a lot of money to spend, and totally not worth it (put it toward the food!). Though it can be amusing to see people fight over them once the event is over. selfstopper , José León Report Final score: 49points POST Monika Rhodes Monika Rhodes Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I had someone use food tins, cheap yellow flowers and leftover ribbons tied on the cans, taken the labels off, of course. Loved how amazing it looked. 17 17points reply View More Replies... View more comments #31 Just had my wedding back in May. It was AWESOME because if I don't know you, or talk to you, or visit you, and you don't know my birthday, where I work, that I'm even engaged, what state I live in... no, I'm not inviting you. Sorry.

My best friend got married over the weekend. I didn't get to see or talk to her at all during the reception because they were stuck walking around talking to extended family. F**k that noise. I wanna get wasted and dance. It's a party! She did get a f**k ton of presents though.
BurberryCustardbath , Pixabay Report Final score: 46points POST S S Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago This is how we did ours. Less than 100 people and everyone had an amazing time. It was a 10 min ceremony (we aren't religious so none of that extra c**p) and then partied all night. 8 8points reply View More Replies... View more comments #32 Brides jumping into water with their wedding dress on.

You could drown idiot! anon Report Final score: 46points POST Greta Kolding Greta Kolding Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Where is that a tradition? 37 37points reply View More Replies... View more comments #33 Registering for gifts. Giving gift cards instead of cash, although this applies to more than just weddings.

I mean, we eventually spent the $1200 in Target gift cards, but it would've been cool to spend it at other places as well. spanxxxy , Amy Shamblen Report Final score: 44points POST Mohsie Supposie Mohsie Supposie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago (edited) Yes, cold hard cash please! Not just for the wedding, you can give it to me ANY time! 25 25points reply View more comments #34 Buying a ring then struggling to be financially happy anon Report Final score: 42points POST Allan Allan Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Just to impress insta.... So common 3 3points reply View More Replies... View more comments #35 Being expected to have a dance. I hate dancing I've never ever liked it (no not even as a child) and basically everyone tells me that ill have fun dancing because it'll be my wedding day blah blah. Seriously. I always think it'd be fun to go bowling or something but get a third degree burn for not wanting to dance on my wedding day. Maybe the rest of the people there could dance while i enjoy spending time with all the people who came to my wedding anon , Edward Eyer Report Final score: 36points POST Allan Allan Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I've dated Candace but still Can't-Dance 12 12points reply View more comments Note: this post originally had 40 images. It’s been shortened to the top 35 images based on user votes. Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing! Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda! Add Your Answer! Not your original work? Add source Publish Change image Upload Photo Ooops! Your image is too large, maximum file size is 8 MB. Upload Upload Edit Image Error occurred when generating embed. Please check link and try again. Render conversation
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You can choose not to follow them. People could wear nice clothes of their own choosing, no wedding showers, rehearsal dinners, demeaning garter throwing, or absurd expenses. A lot less debt-inducing and much more fun! In other parts of the world we have some silly stuff too, like the Swedish one and the dad walking the bride to her groom. But we’re working on that. Don’t listen to the salespeople and do what makes you happy! 24 24points reply Paula Pattison Paula Pattison Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago This is what I was thinking the whole way through this article. I have never seen or heard of most of these traditions. My wedding cake was a dense fruit cake, you could have broken someone's nose if you smashed it into their face (we kept the bottom layer, soaked in plenty of brandy and used it as my son's christening cake) 9 9points reply Load More Replies... censorshipsucks censorshipsucks Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago British? 0 0points reply BobTDG BobTDG Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Gotta be one of us 1 1point reply S S Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago As an American, I've never heard of most of these. Some may be regional traditions. I wouldn't lump us all together like you people love to do. 4 4points reply Bernd Herbert Bernd Herbert Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I think Hollywood movies have a big influence on our view of you guys. 2 2points reply Mrs. Jan Glass Mrs. Jan Glass Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Reality TV, too, for sure. 1 1point reply Ben Ben Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I think the point of "just don't do it then" is really key here. This preoccupation with how much it *should* cost, or *this specific thing* is really bad because it often is expensive. Is just mad. My ring cost £50 and I love it, our cake was made by a local Baker, the suits where wear what you already had, the dresses where nice high street ones. It didn't matter or change the day one but. 2 2points reply Bernd Herbert Bernd Herbert Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago German here: probably been to a dozen weddings over the past years. Haven’t seen or heard of nothing or almost nothing on that list. Here you simply get together and have big party. And the guests usually give some money, not present. 2 2points reply Rachael Sampson Rachael Sampson Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago How do you know which country these traditions are from? 1 1point reply Mrs. Jan Glass Mrs. Jan Glass Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago One I loathe is the clinking of glasses to get the couple to kiss. I hate the noise. I hate the spectacle. I hate the "command performance" feeling. We told everyone we weren't going to do it, but a few of my aunts tried it, anyway. George planted a smooch on his best man's cheek, and I kissed one of my pals on the top of the head. They didn't clink glasses any more after that. Guys, if a couple says they don't want to do a thing at their wedding, don't try to force them to do the thing. 6 6points reply Aunt Riarch Aunt Riarch Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Muwahaha! 1 1point reply Load More Replies... James016 James016 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Wedding speeches: I hated writing it, I hated saying it. The fact I had to stand up in front of everyone and speak with all eyes on me was just horrible and made me anxious. Rest of the night was great though. 6 6points reply censorshipsucks censorshipsucks Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I didn't write it - I just ad-libbed on the day, as if I was having a funny chat at a bar with friends. Needless to say I said some off-colour stuff but who cares. It was just for laughs. 1 1point reply Load More Replies... S S Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago We didn't do any speeches at my wedding. None lol. 0 0points reply Load More Comments POST Fembot Fembot Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago (edited) Dear Americans, most of these are your traditions. You can choose not to follow them. People could wear nice clothes of their own choosing, no wedding showers, rehearsal dinners, demeaning garter throwing, or absurd expenses. A lot less debt-inducing and much more fun! In other parts of the world we have some silly stuff too, like the Swedish one and the dad walking the bride to her groom. But we’re working on that. Don’t listen to the salespeople and do what makes you happy! 24 24points reply Paula Pattison Paula Pattison Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago This is what I was thinking the whole way through this article. I have never seen or heard of most of these traditions. My wedding cake was a dense fruit cake, you could have broken someone's nose if you smashed it into their face (we kept the bottom layer, soaked in plenty of brandy and used it as my son's christening cake) 9 9points reply Load More Replies... censorshipsucks censorshipsucks Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago British? 0 0points reply BobTDG BobTDG Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Gotta be one of us 1 1point reply S S Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago As an American, I've never heard of most of these. Some may be regional traditions. I wouldn't lump us all together like you people love to do. 4 4points reply Bernd Herbert Bernd Herbert Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I think Hollywood movies have a big influence on our view of you guys. 2 2points reply Mrs. Jan Glass Mrs. Jan Glass Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Reality TV, too, for sure. 1 1point reply Ben Ben Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I think the point of "just don't do it then" is really key here. This preoccupation with how much it *should* cost, or *this specific thing* is really bad because it often is expensive. Is just mad. My ring cost £50 and I love it, our cake was made by a local Baker, the suits where wear what you already had, the dresses where nice high street ones. It didn't matter or change the day one but. 2 2points reply Bernd Herbert Bernd Herbert Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago German here: probably been to a dozen weddings over the past years. Haven’t seen or heard of nothing or almost nothing on that list. Here you simply get together and have big party. And the guests usually give some money, not present. 2 2points reply Rachael Sampson Rachael Sampson Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago How do you know which country these traditions are from? 1 1point reply Mrs. Jan Glass Mrs. Jan Glass Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago One I loathe is the clinking of glasses to get the couple to kiss. I hate the noise. I hate the spectacle. I hate the "command performance" feeling. We told everyone we weren't going to do it, but a few of my aunts tried it, anyway. George planted a smooch on his best man's cheek, and I kissed one of my pals on the top of the head. They didn't clink glasses any more after that. Guys, if a couple says they don't want to do a thing at their wedding, don't try to force them to do the thing. 6 6points reply Aunt Riarch Aunt Riarch Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Muwahaha! 1 1point reply Load More Replies... James016 James016 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Wedding speeches: I hated writing it, I hated saying it. The fact I had to stand up in front of everyone and speak with all eyes on me was just horrible and made me anxious. Rest of the night was great though. 6 6points reply censorshipsucks censorshipsucks Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I didn't write it - I just ad-libbed on the day, as if I was having a funny chat at a bar with friends. Needless to say I said some off-colour stuff but who cares. It was just for laughs. 1 1point reply Load More Replies... S S Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago We didn't do any speeches at my wedding. None lol. 0 0points reply Load More Comments Popular on Bored Panda I Used AI To See What These 23 Popular Cartoon Characters Would Look Like In Real Life 30 Y.O. 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