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Employee Has Had Enough After Annoying HR Lady Kept Pestering Her About Silly Things And Touching Her

Rokas Laurinavičius and
Viktorija Ošikaitė
We usually spend more time being around our colleagues than our friends. The difference, however, is that we can't choose who we work with. So there's no guarantee that we will hit it off with everyone in the office. The most we can do is try to form an environment where everyone is respectful and maintains a professional relationship. But some people aren't even that considerate. Ironically, the HR lady at the company Reddit user FellTheBlackWolf earns her living from is damaging interpersonal communication more than she's fostering it. Her inappropriate behavior got so bad that employees are dreading every second they have to interact with her. Sick and tired of the obnoxious woman, FellTheBlackWolf made a post on the r/antiwork subreddit about her to remind us that everyone has different limits and we have to be mindful of the way we interact with each other.

This introverted woman is going to work without the intention to make friends

Image credits: Andrea Piacquadio (not the actual photo)

But the company s HR lady thinks she s lonely and is forcing her to interact

Image credits: Sora Shimazaki (not the actual photo)







Image credits: felltheblackwolf Having friends at work can be really useful. "Our research has repeatedly shown a concrete link between having a best friend at work and the amount of effort employees expend in their job. For example, women who strongly agree they have a best friend at work are more than twice as likely to be engaged (63%) compared with the women who say otherwise (29%)," Annamarie Mann of Gallup said in a statement. Mannn even suggests to put the science aside and look more holistically at what's happening in the workforce: "We now live and work in an era where many employees expect their job to be more than a paycheck. The paycheck still matters, of course, but employees seek out and stay with organizations that have exceptional workplace cultures," she continued. "And while there are numerous components of these cultures, they are often characterized by overall feelings of trust, belongingness and inclusion." When HR advisory and research firm Future Workplace conducted a study with Virgin Pulse of more than 2,000 managers and employees in 10 countries, it found that nearly 1 in 10 people have no friends at work, and more than half have five or fewer. And those with few friends did, in fact, saiy they felt lonely either very often or always and disengaged in their work. Almost two-thirds said they would be more inclined to stay at their company longer if they had more friends-this was especially true for millennials, who consider their manager as their work parent and their co-workers their work family. So assuming she doesn't have any ulterior motives, we can at least understand where the HR lady is coming from. However, the way she goes about it is appalling.

As her post went viral the woman provided more information on her workplace in the comments

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POST liam newton-harding liam newton-harding Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Why is it that in the workplace, and in Society in general, that introverts are expected to molly-coddle self declared extroverts? Why should someone who is okay with their own thoughts be forced to spend time with someone who is terrified of being by themselves? Introverts don't need to be "fixed". 12 12points reply Carol Blyth Carol Blyth Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Years ago I worked in a government department. Had a desk on the 'quiet' side of an open plan office which suited as I worked long days requiring intense concentration and lack of distraction. The other side of the office was party central, constant talking, one co-worker sang opera all frigging day and they just never shut up. The Assistant Director TOLD me to move into the noisy area as I was too isolated....I outright refused saying I couldn't effectively do my job if constantly interrupted...especially the bloody singing...he went to the Exec Director and made up some BS excuse and she then tried to have me move. I again refused and kept asking what the purpose was for the move. Noone could come up with an answer except for my 'isolation'....we are talking about 15m from my area to theirs....they could clearly see me and me them. They drove me nuts....as an introvert and a little noise phobic it drove me crazy.... 3 3points reply jupe77 jupe77 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I am an introvert and noise phobic too. My last job was working at a community college library. No office. Desk in the middle of the room. Students who acted more than high school kids rather than college students. The noise... OMG, the noise, you wouldn't believe how loud it was! Everytime when I went home, I would sleep for 2 hours just to recover. 0 0points reply Load More Replies... idrow1 idrow1 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Forced socializing in the workplace was my most hated thing about working in an office. I left at 6am each morning and got home at 6pm each night with 3 hours to myself each evening, that's it. I do not need to chat with co-workers, I don't want to go for drinks and wtf is this team building bs? I got judged so hard for just wanting to go home at the end of the day. I finally got a job where I was allowed to work at home and it was like a 200 lb weight was lifted. No more people, it was awesome and I got so much more done. 2 2points reply Load More Comments POST liam newton-harding liam newton-harding Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Why is it that in the workplace, and in Society in general, that introverts are expected to molly-coddle self declared extroverts? Why should someone who is okay with their own thoughts be forced to spend time with someone who is terrified of being by themselves? Introverts don't need to be "fixed". 12 12points reply Carol Blyth Carol Blyth Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Years ago I worked in a government department. Had a desk on the 'quiet' side of an open plan office which suited as I worked long days requiring intense concentration and lack of distraction. The other side of the office was party central, constant talking, one co-worker sang opera all frigging day and they just never shut up. The Assistant Director TOLD me to move into the noisy area as I was too isolated....I outright refused saying I couldn't effectively do my job if constantly interrupted...especially the bloody singing...he went to the Exec Director and made up some BS excuse and she then tried to have me move. I again refused and kept asking what the purpose was for the move. Noone could come up with an answer except for my 'isolation'....we are talking about 15m from my area to theirs....they could clearly see me and me them. They drove me nuts....as an introvert and a little noise phobic it drove me crazy.... 3 3points reply jupe77 jupe77 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I am an introvert and noise phobic too. My last job was working at a community college library. No office. Desk in the middle of the room. Students who acted more than high school kids rather than college students. The noise... OMG, the noise, you wouldn't believe how loud it was! Everytime when I went home, I would sleep for 2 hours just to recover. 0 0points reply Load More Replies... idrow1 idrow1 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Forced socializing in the workplace was my most hated thing about working in an office. I left at 6am each morning and got home at 6pm each night with 3 hours to myself each evening, that's it. I do not need to chat with co-workers, I don't want to go for drinks and wtf is this team building bs? I got judged so hard for just wanting to go home at the end of the day. I finally got a job where I was allowed to work at home and it was like a 200 lb weight was lifted. No more people, it was awesome and I got so much more done. 2 2points reply Load More Comments Popular on Bored Panda I Used AI To See What These 23 Popular Cartoon Characters Would Look Like In Real Life 30 Y.O. 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