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Publish Not your original work? Add source The prime time for memories of embarrassing things you said or did to come is when your brain is shutting down and you are trying to fall asleep. At this point, not only can you not sleep, but you contemplate if it's worth talking to people anymore and you try to calm yourself down by telling yourself that nobody even remembers what you said or did and it's only a big deal for you. In most cases, others really don't care if you messed up or have been a bit awkward, but there are times when they really can't forget. At least these women on Reddit can't forget how men told them something embarrassing or even inappropriate. More info: Reddit This post may include affiliate links. #1 My manager looked at me and said with all of my male coworkers in the room, "I hope I can try you out in bed. You must be a freak."
I reported him and he was terminated. toootired2care , Thomas Quine Report Final score: 266points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Da fuq wrong with him? 139 139points reply View More Replies... View more comments #2 My brother and I was in a car accident. The other drivers fault. It's kinda easy to see that my brother and I are siblings we keep out of eachothers space. Like we sit on opposite sides of a row of seats. They sued the insurance company and we had to go testify in court. The guy said loudly infront of the judge and lawyers that ofcourse I'd lie for my boyfriend I f**k him. The guys lawyer told him in not so quiet voice that we are siblings. He turned beet red and lost the case since the evidence clearly showed he was at fault. I had to wait till we left the court to laugh my a*s off. Lunaphoenix23 , Jessica S. Report Final score: 188points POST Rylosalex Rylosalex Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I LOL' d as well. Stupid guy 40 40points reply View more comments #3 I worked at dollar general for a short time after high school. I am biracial (black & white) and a white man I was ringing up winks at me and says “You know, I really like colored girls” and the guy behind him just said “DUDE?” Spiritual_Welcome495 , zenjazzygeek Report Final score: 173points POST Zophra Zophra Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I'm flad that another person at least went "dude?" - I think the only way some people will act appropriately if the rest of society call out their bad behavior. 143 143points reply View More Replies... View more comments #4 Dude I was talking to asked if I was looking to have kids. I said "not anytime soon" (I was 20!!) Proceeds to tell me my breasts would look great swollen with milk :) broke-bee , Sheila Sund Report Final score: 170points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Wow, what a great chat up line, I must remember to never say this ever. 150 150points reply View More Replies... View more comments #5 The guy who took my virginity told me that I was “scientifically altered” because he was my first and that my mind “had been rewired to be attached to him” and that’s why he wanted to break up.
I said , “sure thing” thanarealnobody , Vladimir Pustovit Report Final score: 155points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Who writes this nonsense that idiot men believe? 114 114points reply View More Replies... View more comments #6 "Damn girl, are you as young as you look? Cuz I've got a white van just around the corner" anon , David Hilowitz Report Final score: 144points POST glowworm2 glowworm2 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago What even made him think that was a good pick up line to begin with? 92 92points reply View More Replies... View more comments #7 “… but you’re not real asian-asian” a white dude explaining to me my being Indian isn’t asian weisnice , Bold Content Report Final score: 144points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Being from Asia makes you Asian. How did he define it? 89 89points reply View More Replies... View more comments #8 “I only like vulnerable girls. I want a girl who is reliant on me and will just cry on my shoulder.” That freaked me out, especially since I had mental health issues when we first started dating. Guess the mental state of his next girlfriend smoothestcrayoneater , San Report Final score: 138points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago What a pathetic excuse for a man. 88 88points reply View More Replies... View more comments #9 It was Juneteenth and this man looks me up and down and says "I'd buy you if you were a slave, you look...strong..." eddituser1980 , David Stewart Report Final score: 136points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Absolute tosspot. 99 99points reply View More Replies... View more comments #10 I was at church with my Dad and one of the old men came up. He pointed at me then looked at my Dad and said "I see you've brought your concubine with you."
This was after he had smacked my butt with a rolled up newspaper
I never went back there again PiggyNoDance , Alex Santosa Report Final score: 132points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago What creepy church was this? 99 99points reply View More Replies... View more comments #11 I was 19, married, pregnant with my second son, and working waiting tables and a guy that was sometimes a customer and sometimes a coworker told me I was obviously legal enough to not get him in trouble and looked young enough to please the “lover of young girls in him”…. Like what the actual f**k… Novel_Benefit_6384 , Keith Roper Report Final score: 124points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Predator alert. 100 100points reply View More Replies... View more comments #12 "God. I hate being around all these betas." We were at the gym. He was also 29 and i was 18. That whole 6 months was an embarrassment. AltruisticRevenue869 , Chun Kit To Report Final score: 122points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago If you have to tell people you are an alpha then.... you are not an alpha. 126 126points reply View More Replies... View more comments #13 "YOU'RE JUST LIKE ALL THE OTHER GIRLS... YOU TAKE MY PANCAKES AND LEAVE!!!!"
This was after he fought me for the bill despite the fact that I insisted on paying for myself and then I declined an offer for a second date.
He also said that he was so glad I wore a dress to the date because he thought that women who wear pants and don't have soft skin are overbearing feminists and he could not date someone like that. ANYWAY... I think you might see why I ended that fast. olive_orchid , Celeste Lindell Report Final score: 121points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago (edited) What a raging edgelord. How did he manage to get a date in the first place? 78 78points reply View More Replies... View more comments #14 “You look like a clown with all that makeup on” ~my (now ex) husband on our wedding day Geekbabe2 , Susanne Nilsson Report Final score: 120points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago There should not have been a wedding. 131 131points reply View more comments #15 After a date he asked “could I use your card and pretend it’s mine… I left mine at home and don’t want to look like a loser” I laughed because I thought it was some kind of weird joke but nope. He was 100% serious. We did not have a second date Awkward_Fig3967 , frankieleon Report Final score: 117points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Tiny manhood syndrome. 72 72points reply View More Replies... View more comments #16 What's wrong with your face?
I was working at the time as a customer service representative, so I couldn't respond without repercussions. He was referring to my freckles. Apparently he'd never seen a ginger before. bo_star57 , Anastasia Massone Report Final score: 117points POST Tamra Tamra Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago (edited) Should have replied: "What's wrong with *your* face - it appears to be a giant a*s hole". 66 66points reply View More Replies... View more comments See Also on Bored Panda Woman Shows How "Harry Potter" Characters Were Supposed To Look According To Book Descriptions (35 Pics) 50 ‘Weird Facts’ About The World That Might Give You A Fresh Perspective #17 My husband's first words to me were, 'I like toast'. Things did get better after that. pigadaki , Stiefen Schlingen Report Final score: 116points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Who doesn't? Great conversation starter actually. 90 90points reply View More Replies... View more comments #18 “well if you’re going to move at least let me get you pregnant so you have a child to remember me with”
An no we were not dating and I wasn’t interested in him. anon , Jun Acullador Report Final score: 112points POST Nicole Weymann Nicole Weymann Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago "Don't worry, my dear. I'll remember you every time I see my cat vomit, every time I hear a donkey bray and every time my indigestion makes my wish the ventilation in my bathroom was better." 115 115points reply View More Replies... View more comments #19 I brought a guy out with my friends once and we were talking about nicknames family/friends gave us and he goes “my friends call me silver back gorilla because they recognize my alpha vibe”. Obviously a damn lie CHILLIMEDITING , Tomasz Baranowski Report Final score: 108points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago (edited) Gorilla's famously not very well endowed in a certain department, even though Gorilla's are larger than human's the manhood "gorillahood?) is smaller. Also the pic shows an Orang Utan, not a Gorilla.. 76 76points reply View More Replies... View more comments #20 A white man once said to me, a black woman, he could be the marshmallows to my hot chocolate. Cute but I had second hand embarrassment AsleepAcademic , Selena N. B. H. Report Final score: 99points POST Amused panda Amused panda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Cute...and sounds like he was suggesting he is sweet. But it depends how he might describe his perfect hot chocolate - if is he says it's got to be rich, walk. 40 40points reply View More Replies... View more comments #21 “Your arms are huge” I will never forget it, and am still trying to stop being insecure to show my arms in public. anon , Jessy Rone Report Final score: 86points POST Amber The bear Amber The bear Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I’m insecure abt my arms too, they are very hairy for a teen female, and a guy came up to me some time ago and said “dang, for a girl you have very hairy arms! You look like a bear!!” And proceeded to make growling noises and bear noises. He was really childish if you couldn’t tell, he also proceeded to point it out to everybody in the same classes as us for the rest of the week…. 56 56points reply View More Replies... View more comments #22 That he refused to do skincare or even wash his face because it was "girly". quarantinearea , Liz Mesa Report Final score: 85points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Did... Did he wash anywhere else? 79 79points reply View More Replies... View more comments #23 Is tall, blonde, and has a beard. He keeps mentioning how he looks like a Viking whenever he comes into our work. Bro no one gives a f**k anon , Heysham Vikings assembled Report Final score: 83points POST Rachael Sampson Rachael Sampson Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago And not all Vikings had blonde hair. 55 55points reply View More Replies... View more comments #24 Are you a boy or a girl? Really Really hurt my feelings. depressedcoconut2727 , *Robert* Report Final score: 79points POST New Nemo New Nemo Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Some people look gender neutral. It took my neighbour a year and some revealing clothes to realise I wasn't the boy next door 59 59points reply View More Replies... View more comments #25 I was an extra on a film set and I had to smoke a prop cigarette- I don't smoke but I was cool with it and had agreed prior to filming, thought it would be an interesting experience. I was doing a scene with an older (and incredibly attractive) Russian man. In between takes, I wasn't holding it between my fingers to give my hands a break, but there was also nowhere to put it so I was holding it differently. Dude snatches it from my hand, puts it between my fingers to show me the "correct way" and says "typical womans." I was immediately turned off.
Prior to shooting, I had noticed him and was low key crushing on him hard, so I was very excited to be picked doing the scene together. Well that took a complete 180.
After we wrapped around midnight, he approached and said ," It's very late, I could give you a ride home." I'm pretty sure it wasn't even offered as a question and more of a command, it made me uneasy. I guess it was more of a weird interaction, but the first thing was certainly embarrassing for me. Misseskat , Lindsay Fox Report Final score: 77points POST Rachael Sampson Rachael Sampson Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago What a misogynist creep. 46 46points reply View More Replies... View more comments #26 “Congratulations on your maternity leave!”
A regular customer said that to me. I am not pregnant… cwt48 , zenjazzygeek Report Final score: 75points POST Amused panda Amused panda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I mean...it could have been he confused them with someone else who he'd heard had been on maternity leave, and he thought she'd lost the baby weight? But strange phrase, to congratulate them on maternity leave rather than a baby - unless are in a country where maternity leave is not an automatic entitlement, and something harder to get approved?? 22 22points reply View more comments See Also on Bored Panda Overworked Employee Quits Because He Wasn't Getting A Fair Wage, Costs The Company $40 Million 40 Embarrassing Moments People Didn't Know Who They Were Talking To And Made A Fool Of Themselves #27 I was getting McDonald's after a night out with some friends and we noticed this guy that looked very sad. My friend asked if he was okay, and he took it the wrong way. He then pointed out the hotel he was staying in and said "I have a lot of money". We left immediately. Sea_Computer_5578 , mr.bologna Report Final score: 68points POST Amused panda Amused panda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I...what? How can anyone hear the question are you okay, and assume the person asking is soliciting? 38 38points reply View More Replies... View more comments Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing! Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda! Add Your Answer! Not your original work? Add source Publish Change image Upload Photo Ooops! Your image is too large, maximum file size is 8 MB. Upload Upload Edit Image Error occurred when generating embed. Please check link and try again. Render conversation
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A couple of these reminded me of one from where I work. A white dude from way out in the country who among other things told two women we work with, one Chinese and one Puerto Rican, that they were “real pretty” and “they only had white girls” where he comes from. He wasn’t fired, but he was put on probation and had to repeat his diversity training. 9 9points reply Blue Blue Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Genuine question, I get this said to me a lot (I live in Au) because I'm Asian with long curly hair but I always took it as just a compliment, like oh maybe they grew up in a place that didn't have a lot of diversity? but now I feel really stupid. would you please explain why this is not ok? 6 6points reply Load More Replies... Courtney Christelle Courtney Christelle Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago When someone says something like that, they're tokenizing that person, looking at them more like an object than a human being. 5 5points reply Blue Blue Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Thank you, that does actually make sense too! I never saw it that way! 0 0points reply April Stephens April Stephens Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago My guess is since it happened at work, it wasn't appropriate conversation for the workplace. The way I am reading Appalachian Panda's dude's comments, it's like bordering on sexual harassment to say what kind of "girls" were on the menu, and the two women were trapped in the uncomfortable conversation. But in your case, Blue, it does sound like a compliment, like, "You look so striking! I have never seen such pretty hair!" which seems so innocent and nice. 3 3points reply Blue Blue Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Thanks so much April!! You're so right! the time and place really do make a difference that way! it makes a lot more sense now 0 0points reply Mousey Mousey Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Don't let people tell you to take this as anything other than a compliment. Chances are, you're right. But there are a lot of people that only see the bad and make everything out to be a bad thing. If it makes you feel good, please let it continue! 3 3points reply Blue Blue Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago thank you! I feel much better now. It's a much easier life if I see the good in people's words... 1 1point reply Mousey Mousey Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago When I was TEN, at my grandmother's funeral, and older man (in his 70s I think?) told me I had "great child-bearing hips". What the actual fukc dude?? 5 5points reply Blue Blue Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago People like him should have a warning sticker on them. That's so creepy 2 2points reply Load More Replies... Boreddd Boreddd Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Why are men like this:( 0 0points reply POST Appalachian Panda Appalachian Panda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Okay. A couple of these reminded me of one from where I work. A white dude from way out in the country who among other things told two women we work with, one Chinese and one Puerto Rican, that they were “real pretty” and “they only had white girls” where he comes from. He wasn’t fired, but he was put on probation and had to repeat his diversity training. 9 9points reply Blue Blue Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Genuine question, I get this said to me a lot (I live in Au) because I'm Asian with long curly hair but I always took it as just a compliment, like oh maybe they grew up in a place that didn't have a lot of diversity? but now I feel really stupid. would you please explain why this is not ok? 6 6points reply Load More Replies... Courtney Christelle Courtney Christelle Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago When someone says something like that, they're tokenizing that person, looking at them more like an object than a human being. 5 5points reply Blue Blue Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Thank you, that does actually make sense too! I never saw it that way! 0 0points reply April Stephens April Stephens Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago My guess is since it happened at work, it wasn't appropriate conversation for the workplace. The way I am reading Appalachian Panda's dude's comments, it's like bordering on sexual harassment to say what kind of "girls" were on the menu, and the two women were trapped in the uncomfortable conversation. But in your case, Blue, it does sound like a compliment, like, "You look so striking! I have never seen such pretty hair!" which seems so innocent and nice. 3 3points reply Blue Blue Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Thanks so much April!! You're so right! the time and place really do make a difference that way! it makes a lot more sense now 0 0points reply Mousey Mousey Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Don't let people tell you to take this as anything other than a compliment. Chances are, you're right. But there are a lot of people that only see the bad and make everything out to be a bad thing. If it makes you feel good, please let it continue! 3 3points reply Blue Blue Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago thank you! I feel much better now. It's a much easier life if I see the good in people's words... 1 1point reply Mousey Mousey Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago When I was TEN, at my grandmother's funeral, and older man (in his 70s I think?) told me I had "great child-bearing hips". What the actual fukc dude?? 5 5points reply Blue Blue Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago People like him should have a warning sticker on them. That's so creepy 2 2points reply Load More Replies... Boreddd Boreddd Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Why are men like this:( 0 0points reply Popular on Bored Panda I Used AI To See What These 23 Popular Cartoon Characters Would Look Like In Real Life 30 Y.O. 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27 Times Men Embarrassed Themselves By Saying Something Cringey As Shared By Women In This Online Community
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Publish Not your original work? Add source The prime time for memories of embarrassing things you said or did to come is when your brain is shutting down and you are trying to fall asleep. At this point, not only can you not sleep, but you contemplate if it's worth talking to people anymore and you try to calm yourself down by telling yourself that nobody even remembers what you said or did and it's only a big deal for you. In most cases, others really don't care if you messed up or have been a bit awkward, but there are times when they really can't forget. At least these women on Reddit can't forget how men told them something embarrassing or even inappropriate. More info: Reddit This post may include affiliate links. #1 My manager looked at me and said with all of my male coworkers in the room, "I hope I can try you out in bed. You must be a freak."
I reported him and he was terminated. toootired2care , Thomas Quine Report Final score: 266points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Da fuq wrong with him? 139 139points reply View More Replies... View more comments #2 My brother and I was in a car accident. The other drivers fault. It's kinda easy to see that my brother and I are siblings we keep out of eachothers space. Like we sit on opposite sides of a row of seats. They sued the insurance company and we had to go testify in court. The guy said loudly infront of the judge and lawyers that ofcourse I'd lie for my boyfriend I f**k him. The guys lawyer told him in not so quiet voice that we are siblings. He turned beet red and lost the case since the evidence clearly showed he was at fault. I had to wait till we left the court to laugh my a*s off. Lunaphoenix23 , Jessica S. Report Final score: 188points POST Rylosalex Rylosalex Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I LOL' d as well. Stupid guy 40 40points reply View more comments #3 I worked at dollar general for a short time after high school. I am biracial (black & white) and a white man I was ringing up winks at me and says “You know, I really like colored girls” and the guy behind him just said “DUDE?” Spiritual_Welcome495 , zenjazzygeek Report Final score: 173points POST Zophra Zophra Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I'm flad that another person at least went "dude?" - I think the only way some people will act appropriately if the rest of society call out their bad behavior. 143 143points reply View More Replies... View more comments #4 Dude I was talking to asked if I was looking to have kids. I said "not anytime soon" (I was 20!!) Proceeds to tell me my breasts would look great swollen with milk :) broke-bee , Sheila Sund Report Final score: 170points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Wow, what a great chat up line, I must remember to never say this ever. 150 150points reply View More Replies... View more comments #5 The guy who took my virginity told me that I was “scientifically altered” because he was my first and that my mind “had been rewired to be attached to him” and that’s why he wanted to break up.
I said , “sure thing” thanarealnobody , Vladimir Pustovit Report Final score: 155points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Who writes this nonsense that idiot men believe? 114 114points reply View More Replies... View more comments #6 "Damn girl, are you as young as you look? Cuz I've got a white van just around the corner" anon , David Hilowitz Report Final score: 144points POST glowworm2 glowworm2 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago What even made him think that was a good pick up line to begin with? 92 92points reply View More Replies... View more comments #7 “… but you’re not real asian-asian” a white dude explaining to me my being Indian isn’t asian weisnice , Bold Content Report Final score: 144points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Being from Asia makes you Asian. How did he define it? 89 89points reply View More Replies... View more comments #8 “I only like vulnerable girls. I want a girl who is reliant on me and will just cry on my shoulder.” That freaked me out, especially since I had mental health issues when we first started dating. Guess the mental state of his next girlfriend smoothestcrayoneater , San Report Final score: 138points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago What a pathetic excuse for a man. 88 88points reply View More Replies... View more comments #9 It was Juneteenth and this man looks me up and down and says "I'd buy you if you were a slave, you look...strong..." eddituser1980 , David Stewart Report Final score: 136points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Absolute tosspot. 99 99points reply View More Replies... View more comments #10 I was at church with my Dad and one of the old men came up. He pointed at me then looked at my Dad and said "I see you've brought your concubine with you."
This was after he had smacked my butt with a rolled up newspaper
I never went back there again PiggyNoDance , Alex Santosa Report Final score: 132points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago What creepy church was this? 99 99points reply View More Replies... View more comments #11 I was 19, married, pregnant with my second son, and working waiting tables and a guy that was sometimes a customer and sometimes a coworker told me I was obviously legal enough to not get him in trouble and looked young enough to please the “lover of young girls in him”…. Like what the actual f**k… Novel_Benefit_6384 , Keith Roper Report Final score: 124points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Predator alert. 100 100points reply View More Replies... View more comments #12 "God. I hate being around all these betas." We were at the gym. He was also 29 and i was 18. That whole 6 months was an embarrassment. AltruisticRevenue869 , Chun Kit To Report Final score: 122points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago If you have to tell people you are an alpha then.... you are not an alpha. 126 126points reply View More Replies... View more comments #13 "YOU'RE JUST LIKE ALL THE OTHER GIRLS... YOU TAKE MY PANCAKES AND LEAVE!!!!"
This was after he fought me for the bill despite the fact that I insisted on paying for myself and then I declined an offer for a second date.
He also said that he was so glad I wore a dress to the date because he thought that women who wear pants and don't have soft skin are overbearing feminists and he could not date someone like that. ANYWAY... I think you might see why I ended that fast. olive_orchid , Celeste Lindell Report Final score: 121points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago (edited) What a raging edgelord. How did he manage to get a date in the first place? 78 78points reply View More Replies... View more comments #14 “You look like a clown with all that makeup on” ~my (now ex) husband on our wedding day Geekbabe2 , Susanne Nilsson Report Final score: 120points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago There should not have been a wedding. 131 131points reply View more comments #15 After a date he asked “could I use your card and pretend it’s mine… I left mine at home and don’t want to look like a loser” I laughed because I thought it was some kind of weird joke but nope. He was 100% serious. We did not have a second date Awkward_Fig3967 , frankieleon Report Final score: 117points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Tiny manhood syndrome. 72 72points reply View More Replies... View more comments #16 What's wrong with your face?
I was working at the time as a customer service representative, so I couldn't respond without repercussions. He was referring to my freckles. Apparently he'd never seen a ginger before. bo_star57 , Anastasia Massone Report Final score: 117points POST Tamra Tamra Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago (edited) Should have replied: "What's wrong with *your* face - it appears to be a giant a*s hole". 66 66points reply View More Replies... View more comments See Also on Bored Panda Woman Shows How "Harry Potter" Characters Were Supposed To Look According To Book Descriptions (35 Pics) 50 ‘Weird Facts’ About The World That Might Give You A Fresh Perspective #17 My husband's first words to me were, 'I like toast'. Things did get better after that. pigadaki , Stiefen Schlingen Report Final score: 116points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Who doesn't? Great conversation starter actually. 90 90points reply View More Replies... View more comments #18 “well if you’re going to move at least let me get you pregnant so you have a child to remember me with”
An no we were not dating and I wasn’t interested in him. anon , Jun Acullador Report Final score: 112points POST Nicole Weymann Nicole Weymann Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago "Don't worry, my dear. I'll remember you every time I see my cat vomit, every time I hear a donkey bray and every time my indigestion makes my wish the ventilation in my bathroom was better." 115 115points reply View More Replies... View more comments #19 I brought a guy out with my friends once and we were talking about nicknames family/friends gave us and he goes “my friends call me silver back gorilla because they recognize my alpha vibe”. Obviously a damn lie CHILLIMEDITING , Tomasz Baranowski Report Final score: 108points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago (edited) Gorilla's famously not very well endowed in a certain department, even though Gorilla's are larger than human's the manhood "gorillahood?) is smaller. Also the pic shows an Orang Utan, not a Gorilla.. 76 76points reply View More Replies... View more comments #20 A white man once said to me, a black woman, he could be the marshmallows to my hot chocolate. Cute but I had second hand embarrassment AsleepAcademic , Selena N. B. H. Report Final score: 99points POST Amused panda Amused panda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Cute...and sounds like he was suggesting he is sweet. But it depends how he might describe his perfect hot chocolate - if is he says it's got to be rich, walk. 40 40points reply View More Replies... View more comments #21 “Your arms are huge” I will never forget it, and am still trying to stop being insecure to show my arms in public. anon , Jessy Rone Report Final score: 86points POST Amber The bear Amber The bear Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I’m insecure abt my arms too, they are very hairy for a teen female, and a guy came up to me some time ago and said “dang, for a girl you have very hairy arms! You look like a bear!!” And proceeded to make growling noises and bear noises. He was really childish if you couldn’t tell, he also proceeded to point it out to everybody in the same classes as us for the rest of the week…. 56 56points reply View More Replies... View more comments #22 That he refused to do skincare or even wash his face because it was "girly". quarantinearea , Liz Mesa Report Final score: 85points POST Nathaniel Nathaniel Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Did... Did he wash anywhere else? 79 79points reply View More Replies... View more comments #23 Is tall, blonde, and has a beard. He keeps mentioning how he looks like a Viking whenever he comes into our work. Bro no one gives a f**k anon , Heysham Vikings assembled Report Final score: 83points POST Rachael Sampson Rachael Sampson Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago And not all Vikings had blonde hair. 55 55points reply View More Replies... View more comments #24 Are you a boy or a girl? Really Really hurt my feelings. depressedcoconut2727 , *Robert* Report Final score: 79points POST New Nemo New Nemo Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Some people look gender neutral. It took my neighbour a year and some revealing clothes to realise I wasn't the boy next door 59 59points reply View More Replies... View more comments #25 I was an extra on a film set and I had to smoke a prop cigarette- I don't smoke but I was cool with it and had agreed prior to filming, thought it would be an interesting experience. I was doing a scene with an older (and incredibly attractive) Russian man. In between takes, I wasn't holding it between my fingers to give my hands a break, but there was also nowhere to put it so I was holding it differently. Dude snatches it from my hand, puts it between my fingers to show me the "correct way" and says "typical womans." I was immediately turned off.
Prior to shooting, I had noticed him and was low key crushing on him hard, so I was very excited to be picked doing the scene together. Well that took a complete 180.
After we wrapped around midnight, he approached and said ," It's very late, I could give you a ride home." I'm pretty sure it wasn't even offered as a question and more of a command, it made me uneasy. I guess it was more of a weird interaction, but the first thing was certainly embarrassing for me. Misseskat , Lindsay Fox Report Final score: 77points POST Rachael Sampson Rachael Sampson Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago What a misogynist creep. 46 46points reply View More Replies... View more comments #26 “Congratulations on your maternity leave!”
A regular customer said that to me. I am not pregnant… cwt48 , zenjazzygeek Report Final score: 75points POST Amused panda Amused panda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I mean...it could have been he confused them with someone else who he'd heard had been on maternity leave, and he thought she'd lost the baby weight? But strange phrase, to congratulate them on maternity leave rather than a baby - unless are in a country where maternity leave is not an automatic entitlement, and something harder to get approved?? 22 22points reply View more comments See Also on Bored Panda Overworked Employee Quits Because He Wasn't Getting A Fair Wage, Costs The Company $40 Million 40 Embarrassing Moments People Didn't Know Who They Were Talking To And Made A Fool Of Themselves #27 I was getting McDonald's after a night out with some friends and we noticed this guy that looked very sad. My friend asked if he was okay, and he took it the wrong way. He then pointed out the hotel he was staying in and said "I have a lot of money". We left immediately. Sea_Computer_5578 , mr.bologna Report Final score: 68points POST Amused panda Amused panda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I...what? How can anyone hear the question are you okay, and assume the person asking is soliciting? 38 38points reply View More Replies... View more comments Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing! Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda! Add Your Answer! Not your original work? Add source Publish Change image Upload Photo Ooops! Your image is too large, maximum file size is 8 MB. Upload Upload Edit Image Error occurred when generating embed. Please check link and try again. Render conversation
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A couple of these reminded me of one from where I work. A white dude from way out in the country who among other things told two women we work with, one Chinese and one Puerto Rican, that they were “real pretty” and “they only had white girls” where he comes from. He wasn’t fired, but he was put on probation and had to repeat his diversity training. 9 9points reply Blue Blue Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Genuine question, I get this said to me a lot (I live in Au) because I'm Asian with long curly hair but I always took it as just a compliment, like oh maybe they grew up in a place that didn't have a lot of diversity? but now I feel really stupid. would you please explain why this is not ok? 6 6points reply Load More Replies... Courtney Christelle Courtney Christelle Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago When someone says something like that, they're tokenizing that person, looking at them more like an object than a human being. 5 5points reply Blue Blue Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Thank you, that does actually make sense too! I never saw it that way! 0 0points reply April Stephens April Stephens Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago My guess is since it happened at work, it wasn't appropriate conversation for the workplace. The way I am reading Appalachian Panda's dude's comments, it's like bordering on sexual harassment to say what kind of "girls" were on the menu, and the two women were trapped in the uncomfortable conversation. But in your case, Blue, it does sound like a compliment, like, "You look so striking! I have never seen such pretty hair!" which seems so innocent and nice. 3 3points reply Blue Blue Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Thanks so much April!! You're so right! the time and place really do make a difference that way! it makes a lot more sense now 0 0points reply Mousey Mousey Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Don't let people tell you to take this as anything other than a compliment. Chances are, you're right. But there are a lot of people that only see the bad and make everything out to be a bad thing. If it makes you feel good, please let it continue! 3 3points reply Blue Blue Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago thank you! I feel much better now. It's a much easier life if I see the good in people's words... 1 1point reply Mousey Mousey Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago When I was TEN, at my grandmother's funeral, and older man (in his 70s I think?) told me I had "great child-bearing hips". What the actual fukc dude?? 5 5points reply Blue Blue Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago People like him should have a warning sticker on them. That's so creepy 2 2points reply Load More Replies... Boreddd Boreddd Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Why are men like this:( 0 0points reply POST Appalachian Panda Appalachian Panda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Okay. A couple of these reminded me of one from where I work. A white dude from way out in the country who among other things told two women we work with, one Chinese and one Puerto Rican, that they were “real pretty” and “they only had white girls” where he comes from. He wasn’t fired, but he was put on probation and had to repeat his diversity training. 9 9points reply Blue Blue Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Genuine question, I get this said to me a lot (I live in Au) because I'm Asian with long curly hair but I always took it as just a compliment, like oh maybe they grew up in a place that didn't have a lot of diversity? but now I feel really stupid. would you please explain why this is not ok? 6 6points reply Load More Replies... Courtney Christelle Courtney Christelle Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago When someone says something like that, they're tokenizing that person, looking at them more like an object than a human being. 5 5points reply Blue Blue Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Thank you, that does actually make sense too! I never saw it that way! 0 0points reply April Stephens April Stephens Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago My guess is since it happened at work, it wasn't appropriate conversation for the workplace. The way I am reading Appalachian Panda's dude's comments, it's like bordering on sexual harassment to say what kind of "girls" were on the menu, and the two women were trapped in the uncomfortable conversation. But in your case, Blue, it does sound like a compliment, like, "You look so striking! I have never seen such pretty hair!" which seems so innocent and nice. 3 3points reply Blue Blue Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Thanks so much April!! You're so right! the time and place really do make a difference that way! it makes a lot more sense now 0 0points reply Mousey Mousey Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Don't let people tell you to take this as anything other than a compliment. Chances are, you're right. But there are a lot of people that only see the bad and make everything out to be a bad thing. If it makes you feel good, please let it continue! 3 3points reply Blue Blue Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago thank you! I feel much better now. It's a much easier life if I see the good in people's words... 1 1point reply Mousey Mousey Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago When I was TEN, at my grandmother's funeral, and older man (in his 70s I think?) told me I had "great child-bearing hips". What the actual fukc dude?? 5 5points reply Blue Blue Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago People like him should have a warning sticker on them. That's so creepy 2 2points reply Load More Replies... Boreddd Boreddd Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Why are men like this:( 0 0points reply Popular on Bored Panda I Used AI To See What These 23 Popular Cartoon Characters Would Look Like In Real Life 30 Y.O. 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