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Community member Publish Not your original work? Add source Everyone has standards, but everyone is into different things! This post may include affiliate links. #1 Table manners. Don’t chew with your mouth open. Don’t talk with food in your mouth. Use the napkin.
And if we are at a restaurant, be gracious and treat the staff like they are human beings. Report Final score: 27points Erick Blood POST Danniee Gyrl Danniee Gyrl Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Take their time, to taste and enjoy their meal. Use their fork/spoon/knife properly. 1 1point reply View more comments #2 How they treat waitresses/waiters and also how they react to beggars, I think it’s a small test to observe their empathy level and kindness. Report Final score: 25points Idkman POST Danniee Gyrl Danniee Gyrl Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago This will tell you everything about a person. How you treat others, shows a lot about a person's character in life. 2 2points reply View more comments #3 My date needs to be intelligent. I know people with degrees that don't seem to have two brain cells to rub together and high school drop outs that can verbally run you through with their wit.
So it's not the degrees on the wall I'm looking for but the degrees to which they engage my brain. Report Final score: 21points Karma Belles POST Peej Maybe Peej Maybe Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Same here. Also if it gets to a point where I get invited back to their place, you can bet your butt I'll be looking at their bookshelves to see what they read (and hopefully IF they read!) 5 5points reply View More Replies... View more comments #4 I’ve noticed lately that I can’t date women who have had easy lives. It’s great they live had proper parents but I need someone who had it difficult and saved themselves, like I had to. There is a difference. Report Final score: 16points JustinTime POST Yukon Charlie Yukon Charlie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago "Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle" I highly doubt that you can accurately gauge the difficulty of someones life on first glance or even after months of contact. 6 6points reply View more comments #5 Someone who knows how to communicate and pays attention to the little things about me...(my likes and dislikes) someone who gives little surprises every now and then. There doesn't have to be a reason..just to put a smile on my face... (Because I like to do these things for them too) it keeps a relationship interesting and alive...it makes my heart beat a different kind of way Report Final score: 14points Fadhuwa Hussain POST #6 How they act around their family. If they're rude or disrespectful or sarcastic or fake, it's a no. Report Final score: 11points AnnaJ718 POST girlsrock4ever girlsrock4ever Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago What if they don't have a family? Or their family is toxic and they can't cut ties with their family? 0 0points reply #7 Someone who accepts me for who I am...and really just someone who cares as little as I do about most things. People have feet, you're going to see them. Body hair is normal, shaved or not it doesn't matter. If I haven't brushed my teeth yet, my breath is going to smell bad so either get outta my face or don't care.
Like my body is a very real thing, and if you want me you won't care. Reality isn't like what you see or read about online hun. Report Final score: 10points Little Lion POST girlsrock4ever girlsrock4ever Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago People are worried about feet now? WONDERFUL!! Yay! Woohoo, let's throw a parade! 0 0points reply View more comments #8 Comming to a date without any expectations - not assuming I pay for everything or me being the only one providing entertainment.
If I chosse to pay something for my date then it's because I want to and not because it's some kind of protocol, if I have to do all the conversation to keep the attention up I assume there's no real interest in getting to know each other. Report Final score: 10points TotallyNotAFox POST Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Right! Women want to be independent so 50/50. Further along you can discuss who's paying if you want to. And yes, It's not one persons responsibility to entertain. Imagine you doing all the work and the other person just sits there. BOOOOO RING. As my brother once said - if she's boring then I might as well talk to an onion. :D 1 1point reply View more comments #9 Anyone who'll have me :) Seriously though, anyone who turns up to a date and doesn't spend the whole time on their phone is pretty much in like flynn Report Final score: 9points Peej Maybe POST #10 Honestly, I hate when guys don't understand a woman's needs. Like if I am having a bad day or on my period, you better be there for me. Report Final score: 9points Bella POST GenericPanda09 GenericPanda09 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 1 month ago Depends on how you express your needs during a period and if you think someone should just magically know if your've having one or not or whether you actually.. in words.. tell someone. Otherwise you're basically hating someone for not being able to mind rea your thoughts without having to express them like an adult. 16 16points reply View More Replies... View more comments #11 This is really silly, but when ever I choose a partner, I usually look for little things I’m always attracted to. Do they have an accent? Do they hug me from behind? Call me pet names? Get just a little possessive and jealous when others try to flirt with me?
I do have a rule though- I try not to date people shorter than me. Nothing against short people, but I’m already short, and I wanna balance it out, you know? Report Final score: 7points Ghost Of Panda Rats Past… POST Yukon Charlie Yukon Charlie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I couldn't understand this. I find it odd to put so much emphasis on one of the only features that cannot be changed. That's just me though. 4 4points reply View more comments #12 Strangest Dating Standards
I'm not sure if any of my standards are strange but here goes:
*Someone who is not jealous
*Someone who is not a huge sports fan,
*Someone who is not into reality TV,
*Someone who possess a respectable intelligence level
*Does not have time consuming hobbies that mean we don't spend much time together.
*Someone who does not possess abhorrent political views
*Not overly religious. Report Final score: 5points anarkzie POST Susanne B Susanne B Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Those standards don't seem strange to me except the last one. I am an atheist so a man hos is religious at all might not fit into my life 1 1point reply #13 Someone who is intelligent and ambitious. It sounds pretty obvious but most people I have met are too into video games or shows and have little knowledge of whats going on in the world. By ambitious I mean someone who wants to better themselves and has long term goals. I find those two things to be extremely attractive. Report Final score: 4points Itzy P POST Fadhuwa Hussain Fadhuwa Hussain Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago 100% AGREED!! THAT IS THE SEXIEST THING EVERR!! 1 1point reply #14 For me, it's not so much a particular habit as it is the entire experience. It more or less comes down to asking myself one question:
Does this person make my life more meaningful / enjoyable / happy?
If the answer is not emphatically "yes," then that person will not meet my standard.
Don't get me wrong; there are a few characteristics that would earn someone a "hell no!" right from the start (bigotry, ignorance, chauvinist, addict, etc.)... however, I do happen to like my own company just fine and there is absolutely no point wasting my life in a relationship that doesn't add any value to it.
Fortunately, I was lucky enough to find (and marry) that person a long time ago... and I told him then (just as I still tell him now):
I don't NEED you, but I certainly do LOVE you. I wouldn't be here if I didn't.
He's my best friend in the whole world and I wouldn't have it any other way. Report Final score: 3points Ladedah POST #15 I don’t like the company of other humans. I am happiest by myself. I get sick of people really fast. So if I date you, I need to be at least as happy to be around you as I am by myself. Otherwise the entire thing is pointless. Report Final score: 3points Just Another Girl POST #16 Im ok with aying we are dating, but i dont want to do anything romantic. Basically just act like friends but no romance with the label of bf/gf or date mate. Idk Report Final score: 2points Has sold soul for corn chip POST Fadhuwa Hussain Fadhuwa Hussain Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago YESS!! THAT'S SUCH A VIBEE!! 0 0points reply #17 How they treat waitresses/waiters and also how they react to beggars, I think it’s a small test to observe their empathy level and kindness. Report Final score: 2points Idkman POST #18 Self awareness. If you suck at something, own it. If you’re the GOAT, make it known. If you’re weird, let your freak flag fly. I want to know who you really are, but, more importantly, I need YOU to know who you really are. Report Final score: 2points CapitolQT POST See Also on Bored Panda Woman Shows How "Harry Potter" Characters Were Supposed To Look According To Book Descriptions (35 Pics) 50 ‘Weird Facts’ About The World That Might Give You A Fresh Perspective #19 Must be my husband. In seriousness must have similar values. Kindness. Empathy. And like not just love me Report Final score: 2points Monica Michelle POST #20 Can't use the word "like" more than once every five minutes Report Final score: 2points Korin T POST Fadhuwa Hussain Fadhuwa Hussain Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I KNOWW!! IT'S SUCH A TURN OFF EVEN FOR ME!! IT SOUNDS SOO WEIRD! IT JUST GIVES OFF A VERY OVERALL ENTITLED VIBE! 1 1point reply #21 Visible dental plaque and tartar are a no go for me. Poor hygiene in general. If you plan to sleep at my place and don't bring your toothbrush, you will not come twice. Report Final score: 2points June POST #22 Fat juicy earlobes. And one hell of a sense of humor. Report Final score: 1point D-m Keilman POST #23 Something about the way a person kisses is big to me, and which kisses they like. The big one is people who love giving AND recieving neck kisses! If you do, you jump up a few pegs on my attractiveness scale lol Report Final score: 1point Roni Kova POST #24 I know this is going to sound weird.
Texting/Phone Etiquette is a must
1. Text everything all at once
Do not send a bunch text back to back on the same subject.
2. Do not call me back to back or keep texting me until I answer.
(I might be busy, at work, or not wanting to talk)
3. Text me first to make sure I am available.
4. I am not a phone talker.
IF IT IS AN EMERGENCY or something of importance let me know, at the beginning of the call. IF you are calling just to chit chat about nothing...I will end the call.
5. If you are having side conversations with the people around you, I will hang up on you. Report Final score: 1point Danniee Gyrl POST Susanne B Susanne B Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Nr 5 hit me. If you are having conversations with people around you don't call anyone else unless of course to invite them to the party or where you are 1 1point reply #25 if i text him something kinda long, i DO NOT want him to just respond with "oh". also, he shouldn't be commenting on every bad thing i do. he also should have a sense of humor. Report Final score: 1point citrus POST #26 My potential future girlfriend has to be also my best friend, I don't understand how can people maintain relationships with, like, zero things in common. But we're talking about weird standards here, so... I'm looking for a Star Wars fan, and I mean ALL of Star Wars, including recent/less popular entries to the franchise. I doubt I could live with someone who sneers at me for liking The Last Jedi. Report Final score: 1point Luke Branwen POST Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago *googling Luke Branwen*. Just kidding. I get it, things to enjoy together and be mates too! 0 0points reply #27 Sense of humour. Open minded and polite. With polite I mean to everybody. Me, my friends and family, waiting staff, taxi-drivers, whatever. But not a sucker. Just because he's kind doesn't mean he's a push over... Has confidence to act nuts and make fun of himself. Oh --- and he better like cheese ;) Report Final score: 1point Caro Caro POST #28 I have no clue why, but no guys, I just have no feelings for them. It may be because every guy I've ever met doesn't respect my pronouns (They/She) or the fact that I am genderless ("you look like a girl though") or that I also am polyromantic ("but you like every other gender? that's sexist!" "you are only romantically attracted to people? lame") or it may just be my horrible ex, but I still cannot bear the thought of dating a man. Report Final score: 0points aZZy_d3Lta POST Amanda W Amanda W Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Their loss 1 1point reply See Also on Bored Panda Overworked Employee Quits Because He Wasn't Getting A Fair Wage, Costs The Company $40 Million 40 Embarrassing Moments People Didn't Know Who They Were Talking To And Made A Fool Of Themselves Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing! Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda! Add Your Answer! Not your original work? Add source Publish Change image Upload Photo Ooops! Your image is too large, maximum file size is 8 MB. Upload Upload Edit Image Error occurred when generating embed. Please check link and try again. Render conversation
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Hey Pandas What Are Your Strangest Dating Standards Closed
3Kviews Jocie (she/they)Community member Publish Not your original work? Add source Everyone has standards, but everyone is into different things! This post may include affiliate links. #1 Table manners. Don’t chew with your mouth open. Don’t talk with food in your mouth. Use the napkin.
And if we are at a restaurant, be gracious and treat the staff like they are human beings. Report Final score: 27points Erick Blood POST Danniee Gyrl Danniee Gyrl Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Take their time, to taste and enjoy their meal. Use their fork/spoon/knife properly. 1 1point reply View more comments #2 How they treat waitresses/waiters and also how they react to beggars, I think it’s a small test to observe their empathy level and kindness. Report Final score: 25points Idkman POST Danniee Gyrl Danniee Gyrl Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago This will tell you everything about a person. How you treat others, shows a lot about a person's character in life. 2 2points reply View more comments #3 My date needs to be intelligent. I know people with degrees that don't seem to have two brain cells to rub together and high school drop outs that can verbally run you through with their wit.
So it's not the degrees on the wall I'm looking for but the degrees to which they engage my brain. Report Final score: 21points Karma Belles POST Peej Maybe Peej Maybe Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Same here. Also if it gets to a point where I get invited back to their place, you can bet your butt I'll be looking at their bookshelves to see what they read (and hopefully IF they read!) 5 5points reply View More Replies... View more comments #4 I’ve noticed lately that I can’t date women who have had easy lives. It’s great they live had proper parents but I need someone who had it difficult and saved themselves, like I had to. There is a difference. Report Final score: 16points JustinTime POST Yukon Charlie Yukon Charlie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago "Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle" I highly doubt that you can accurately gauge the difficulty of someones life on first glance or even after months of contact. 6 6points reply View more comments #5 Someone who knows how to communicate and pays attention to the little things about me...(my likes and dislikes) someone who gives little surprises every now and then. There doesn't have to be a reason..just to put a smile on my face... (Because I like to do these things for them too) it keeps a relationship interesting and alive...it makes my heart beat a different kind of way Report Final score: 14points Fadhuwa Hussain POST #6 How they act around their family. If they're rude or disrespectful or sarcastic or fake, it's a no. Report Final score: 11points AnnaJ718 POST girlsrock4ever girlsrock4ever Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago What if they don't have a family? Or their family is toxic and they can't cut ties with their family? 0 0points reply #7 Someone who accepts me for who I am...and really just someone who cares as little as I do about most things. People have feet, you're going to see them. Body hair is normal, shaved or not it doesn't matter. If I haven't brushed my teeth yet, my breath is going to smell bad so either get outta my face or don't care.
Like my body is a very real thing, and if you want me you won't care. Reality isn't like what you see or read about online hun. Report Final score: 10points Little Lion POST girlsrock4ever girlsrock4ever Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago People are worried about feet now? WONDERFUL!! Yay! Woohoo, let's throw a parade! 0 0points reply View more comments #8 Comming to a date without any expectations - not assuming I pay for everything or me being the only one providing entertainment.
If I chosse to pay something for my date then it's because I want to and not because it's some kind of protocol, if I have to do all the conversation to keep the attention up I assume there's no real interest in getting to know each other. Report Final score: 10points TotallyNotAFox POST Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Right! Women want to be independent so 50/50. Further along you can discuss who's paying if you want to. And yes, It's not one persons responsibility to entertain. Imagine you doing all the work and the other person just sits there. BOOOOO RING. As my brother once said - if she's boring then I might as well talk to an onion. :D 1 1point reply View more comments #9 Anyone who'll have me :) Seriously though, anyone who turns up to a date and doesn't spend the whole time on their phone is pretty much in like flynn Report Final score: 9points Peej Maybe POST #10 Honestly, I hate when guys don't understand a woman's needs. Like if I am having a bad day or on my period, you better be there for me. Report Final score: 9points Bella POST GenericPanda09 GenericPanda09 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 1 month ago Depends on how you express your needs during a period and if you think someone should just magically know if your've having one or not or whether you actually.. in words.. tell someone. Otherwise you're basically hating someone for not being able to mind rea your thoughts without having to express them like an adult. 16 16points reply View More Replies... View more comments #11 This is really silly, but when ever I choose a partner, I usually look for little things I’m always attracted to. Do they have an accent? Do they hug me from behind? Call me pet names? Get just a little possessive and jealous when others try to flirt with me?
I do have a rule though- I try not to date people shorter than me. Nothing against short people, but I’m already short, and I wanna balance it out, you know? Report Final score: 7points Ghost Of Panda Rats Past… POST Yukon Charlie Yukon Charlie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I couldn't understand this. I find it odd to put so much emphasis on one of the only features that cannot be changed. That's just me though. 4 4points reply View more comments #12 Strangest Dating Standards
I'm not sure if any of my standards are strange but here goes:
*Someone who is not jealous
*Someone who is not a huge sports fan,
*Someone who is not into reality TV,
*Someone who possess a respectable intelligence level
*Does not have time consuming hobbies that mean we don't spend much time together.
*Someone who does not possess abhorrent political views
*Not overly religious. Report Final score: 5points anarkzie POST Susanne B Susanne B Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Those standards don't seem strange to me except the last one. I am an atheist so a man hos is religious at all might not fit into my life 1 1point reply #13 Someone who is intelligent and ambitious. It sounds pretty obvious but most people I have met are too into video games or shows and have little knowledge of whats going on in the world. By ambitious I mean someone who wants to better themselves and has long term goals. I find those two things to be extremely attractive. Report Final score: 4points Itzy P POST Fadhuwa Hussain Fadhuwa Hussain Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago 100% AGREED!! THAT IS THE SEXIEST THING EVERR!! 1 1point reply #14 For me, it's not so much a particular habit as it is the entire experience. It more or less comes down to asking myself one question:
Does this person make my life more meaningful / enjoyable / happy?
If the answer is not emphatically "yes," then that person will not meet my standard.
Don't get me wrong; there are a few characteristics that would earn someone a "hell no!" right from the start (bigotry, ignorance, chauvinist, addict, etc.)... however, I do happen to like my own company just fine and there is absolutely no point wasting my life in a relationship that doesn't add any value to it.
Fortunately, I was lucky enough to find (and marry) that person a long time ago... and I told him then (just as I still tell him now):
I don't NEED you, but I certainly do LOVE you. I wouldn't be here if I didn't.
He's my best friend in the whole world and I wouldn't have it any other way. Report Final score: 3points Ladedah POST #15 I don’t like the company of other humans. I am happiest by myself. I get sick of people really fast. So if I date you, I need to be at least as happy to be around you as I am by myself. Otherwise the entire thing is pointless. Report Final score: 3points Just Another Girl POST #16 Im ok with aying we are dating, but i dont want to do anything romantic. Basically just act like friends but no romance with the label of bf/gf or date mate. Idk Report Final score: 2points Has sold soul for corn chip POST Fadhuwa Hussain Fadhuwa Hussain Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago YESS!! THAT'S SUCH A VIBEE!! 0 0points reply #17 How they treat waitresses/waiters and also how they react to beggars, I think it’s a small test to observe their empathy level and kindness. Report Final score: 2points Idkman POST #18 Self awareness. If you suck at something, own it. If you’re the GOAT, make it known. If you’re weird, let your freak flag fly. I want to know who you really are, but, more importantly, I need YOU to know who you really are. Report Final score: 2points CapitolQT POST See Also on Bored Panda Woman Shows How "Harry Potter" Characters Were Supposed To Look According To Book Descriptions (35 Pics) 50 ‘Weird Facts’ About The World That Might Give You A Fresh Perspective #19 Must be my husband. In seriousness must have similar values. Kindness. Empathy. And like not just love me Report Final score: 2points Monica Michelle POST #20 Can't use the word "like" more than once every five minutes Report Final score: 2points Korin T POST Fadhuwa Hussain Fadhuwa Hussain Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I KNOWW!! IT'S SUCH A TURN OFF EVEN FOR ME!! IT SOUNDS SOO WEIRD! IT JUST GIVES OFF A VERY OVERALL ENTITLED VIBE! 1 1point reply #21 Visible dental plaque and tartar are a no go for me. Poor hygiene in general. If you plan to sleep at my place and don't bring your toothbrush, you will not come twice. Report Final score: 2points June POST #22 Fat juicy earlobes. And one hell of a sense of humor. Report Final score: 1point D-m Keilman POST #23 Something about the way a person kisses is big to me, and which kisses they like. The big one is people who love giving AND recieving neck kisses! If you do, you jump up a few pegs on my attractiveness scale lol Report Final score: 1point Roni Kova POST #24 I know this is going to sound weird.
Texting/Phone Etiquette is a must
1. Text everything all at once
Do not send a bunch text back to back on the same subject.
2. Do not call me back to back or keep texting me until I answer.
(I might be busy, at work, or not wanting to talk)
3. Text me first to make sure I am available.
4. I am not a phone talker.
IF IT IS AN EMERGENCY or something of importance let me know, at the beginning of the call. IF you are calling just to chit chat about nothing...I will end the call.
5. If you are having side conversations with the people around you, I will hang up on you. Report Final score: 1point Danniee Gyrl POST Susanne B Susanne B Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Nr 5 hit me. If you are having conversations with people around you don't call anyone else unless of course to invite them to the party or where you are 1 1point reply #25 if i text him something kinda long, i DO NOT want him to just respond with "oh". also, he shouldn't be commenting on every bad thing i do. he also should have a sense of humor. Report Final score: 1point citrus POST #26 My potential future girlfriend has to be also my best friend, I don't understand how can people maintain relationships with, like, zero things in common. But we're talking about weird standards here, so... I'm looking for a Star Wars fan, and I mean ALL of Star Wars, including recent/less popular entries to the franchise. I doubt I could live with someone who sneers at me for liking The Last Jedi. Report Final score: 1point Luke Branwen POST Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago *googling Luke Branwen*. Just kidding. I get it, things to enjoy together and be mates too! 0 0points reply #27 Sense of humour. Open minded and polite. With polite I mean to everybody. Me, my friends and family, waiting staff, taxi-drivers, whatever. But not a sucker. Just because he's kind doesn't mean he's a push over... Has confidence to act nuts and make fun of himself. Oh --- and he better like cheese ;) Report Final score: 1point Caro Caro POST #28 I have no clue why, but no guys, I just have no feelings for them. It may be because every guy I've ever met doesn't respect my pronouns (They/She) or the fact that I am genderless ("you look like a girl though") or that I also am polyromantic ("but you like every other gender? that's sexist!" "you are only romantically attracted to people? lame") or it may just be my horrible ex, but I still cannot bear the thought of dating a man. Report Final score: 0points aZZy_d3Lta POST Amanda W Amanda W Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Their loss 1 1point reply See Also on Bored Panda Overworked Employee Quits Because He Wasn't Getting A Fair Wage, Costs The Company $40 Million 40 Embarrassing Moments People Didn't Know Who They Were Talking To And Made A Fool Of Themselves Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing! Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda! Add Your Answer! Not your original work? Add source Publish Change image Upload Photo Ooops! Your image is too large, maximum file size is 8 MB. Upload Upload Edit Image Error occurred when generating embed. Please check link and try again. Render conversation
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