Someone Asked quot What Ended Your Friendship With Your Best Friend? quot And 30 People Got Honest

Someone Asked quot What Ended Your Friendship With Your Best Friend? quot And 30 People Got Honest

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Someone Asked What Ended Your Friendship With Your Best Friend And 30 People Got Honest

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Publish Not your original work? Add source Contrary to what we would like to believe, friendships don't last forever. Even the best ones. So when Reddit user gli-tc-h made a post on the platform, asking everyone to share what caused their BFF breakups, they got a collection of honest, heartfelt replies - I guess it's something we all just need to get off our chests. From secret affairs with their partner to evil schemes that were supposed to get them fired, continue scrolling to learn what these folks have experienced. Who knows, maybe their stories will help you navigate your own personal dramas. This post may include affiliate links. #1 When my father was dying of cancer, my “best friend” called me to catch up and I told him about it and he nonchalantly said “your dad's dying because he isn’t praying enough and that he would be healed if someone spoke in tongues over him” I was in disbelief that he got roped into the insane religious cult like his parents.

I told him that was the grossest thing I could ever hear from him and hung up. My father died 2 weeks later. It’s been two years and he hasn’t called or texted once. Good f*****g riddance. F**k you tim. surfngirth , Olga Kononenko Report Final score: 253points POST DennyS (denzoren) DennyS (denzoren) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I'd be just as angry if someone called me to tell me something like that in this situation...worse yet my best friend. 69 69points reply View more comments We managed to get in touch with gli-tc-h and the Redditor agreed to have a little chat with us. "[At the time of making this post], I had just ended one of the longest friendships I've ever had," they told Bored Panda. "I wouldn't call him a best friend but whatever." "I didn't really expect for [the post] to gain so much traction but soon after, I realized that it is quite a popular topic, there were recurring themes such as just drifting apart due to moving, family matters, and some to do with taking spouses. There were a few stating that the friendship ended when it became more intimate." #2 My husband at the time had to step away from his job because he was dealing with pretty severe mental health issues. We had a young child and I was a stay-at-home mom and it was really devastating not only financially, but socially as a lot of our social life revolved around his job and work friends.

I was really good friends with a coworker’s wife. The coworker moved into my husband’s (higher up) position when my husband had to resign. We had to sell our home since we couldn’t make the mortgage payment anymore. The friend came to help me pack, and while doing so told me that they always knew this would happen because the Lord had revealed it to the husband in a dream several years earlier. They had basically been waiting around for my husband to “fail” so that coworker could “succeed” and fulfill the Lord’s prophesy.

Yeah no. Said goodbye to her, moved out of state, and never looked back. I won’t tolerate people using religion to be d***s. LittleWhiteBoots , Bench Accounting Report Final score: 230points POST Marla Marla Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago (edited) The almighty, the omnipresent and omnipotent power of all that ever was and all that will ever be is mainly concerned with the politics surrounding mid-level office management 79 79points reply View More Replies... View more comments According to a study by scientists from Aalto University in Finland and the University of Oxford in England, our social circle shrinks soon after our mid-20s. The teams analyzed data from 3 million mobile phone users to identify the frequency and patterns of whom they contacted and when, as well as overall activity within their networks. Men and women were socially promiscuous – making more and more friends and social contacts – until the age of 25, after which point they started losing them rapidly, with women losing them at an initially faster rate than men. #3 Bacterial meningitis ….after a few days of unanswered calls ( thought maybe I had pissed her off) I drove over to her house. Found my BFF deceased on the couch. Her 5 year old had luckily survived several days on her own. perfecthand29 , Inside Weather Report Final score: 209points POST Mirt Mirt Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago OMG!! That is horrible 122 122points reply View more comments The average 25-year-old woman contacts about 17.5 people per month, while a man contacts 19. (This decline continues for the rest of our life, or at least until retirement, where it plateaus, probably due to reduced data among this age group.) Scientists theorize that around this age, people begin to decide who is most important – and valuable – in their life and make a greater effort to hold on to those friends. This, as a result, hurts other relationships. #4 In 2020, my mom was diagnosed with cancer. At this time by grandfather was also fighting colon cancer; both of whom were in the “high risk” category for covid-19.

During the first summer of the pandemic, I would occasionally share things on social media about why it’s important to make up and social distance, then later on why people should get vaccinated.

Well, my ex best friend married a complete right-wing trumper POS that thought covid was a sham. He commented on one of my posts and we got in a mildly heated debate. Eventually, he said that he didn’t care that people would die, and that it’s a sacrifice to make for everyone’s freedoms.

When I expected my ex best friend to come to my aid, she backed him up. I was sickened. Have not ever spoken a word to either of them since.

I say good riddance. RavenRises , Austin Distel Report Final score: 183points POST deanna woods deanna woods Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Trump's bs has ruined so many friendships and family relationships. Covid is real and I will never understand why people still refuse to take it seriously. 113 113points reply View More Replies... View more comments "Once you've made decisions and found the appropriate people, you can be much less socially promiscuous and invest your time in these people," said Robin Dunbar, a professor of evolutionary psychology at the University of Oxford who co-authored the paper. "But they can't be just anybody," he added. Narrowing down the people you're close to includes friendships as well as life partners, particularly for women, due to the support and help they can provide in times of need. #5 my own transphobia

i've told this story countless amount of times now, but i'll say it again.

i had a crush on this person, ever since i was in 4th grade. always tried to be close to them, and half the time, i was. best friends, we trusted each other with every secret, told each other things we wouldn't tell anyone else. one day, they finally came out and told me they were trans and identified as a male.

i was devastated. my crush suddenly comes out as trans? this has to be a stupid trend, right? i acted cool at first, heavy emphasis on ACTED. i tried to remain friends but they definitely noticed me drifting away. one day, out of my dumb horny state, angry that my crush was a male, i came to them saying i was having a crisis and ghosted them for f*****g months.

didn't talk to them in the halls, didn't contact them afterwards, they were probably worried sick about. they eventually noticed this behavior and at somepoint, blocked me on all platforms. me, unable to speak with them, saw them in the halls of school one day and thought "huh, they look kinda cute" and realized i was still attracted to them.

i left them in a vulnerable state, in a confusing time, for f*****g nothing besides transphobia. since then, i've tried to find anyway to make contact with them. not to reconsile our friendship or give a shot at dating, but so i can say i'm sorry. i just hope they're successful in life, that's it. i just hope they didn't let a dumba** like me dictate their emotions and feelings. i was a huge jerk who didn't deserve them at all.

ever since, i've been making attempts to be less bigoted. more open, less misogynistic. i just don't want a repeat of last time, and don't want anyone to go through what they did.

my only real friend, the only one who actually cared about me, who would go through hell and back for me, pick me up when i'm broken and down, pushed away by my own f*****g transphobia.

sorry for the long read, i just don't like settling for small paragraphs. even then, i don't think this did it justice. JockeyField , Nik Shuliahin Report Final score: 177points POST Nor Nor Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Firstly, well done for admitting you were in thr wrong, secondly, baby steps in all you do. Just remember we all made differently :) 101 101points reply View more comments Personally, gli-tc-h thinks that it's "possible to keep a friend for most if not your entire life without falling out, but it all depends on if you have the same interests and ... [whether or not] your personalities clash. There are a whole bunch of cases where friendships last a lifetime." And the secret is, you guessed it, talking. "A million factors go into a lifelong friendship and no two friendships are alike, but there is one key thing that all ride-or-die friendships have in common – crystal clear communication," Lori Harder, author of A Tribe Called Bliss: Break Through Superficial Friendships, Create Real Connections, Reach Your Highest Potential and host of the Earn Your Happy podcast said. You and your BFF won't be the same people as years go by. So you won't have a successful relationship without speaking up about your ever-changing needs, desires, and expectations. #6 I was diagnosed with bipolar after a very traumatic and public event when I was manic for the first time. Lost all my friends including my best friend. Mental illness sucks. madcatzplayer3 , Anh Nguyen Report Final score: 170points POST DennyS (denzoren) DennyS (denzoren) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago It's not your fault. I hope you make a new best friend and they'll be an even bester best friend! 72 72points reply View more comments #7 I had a good friend in 8th grade who was a very kind and affectionate person.

Never had a crush on her at all.

We were physically affectionate people, never sexual. She would mess with my hair, and sometimes put her hand on my leg, so I did the same.

At the time, her boyfriend was aware of our relationship, and was cool with it, I even was good friends with him.

One day, I got called to the principals office and I walked into my mother, father, principal, and a police officer asking me to sit down. I felt like someone I knew died, but no, they said that she had accused me of sexually assaulting her.

I spent 2 hours crying, giving them my phone, watching them comb through my texts, reviewing, video footage, and interviewing the boyfriend and the girl.

In the end, she lied to her parents because she got caught that she was dating her boyfriend, and used me as a scapegoat, and saying her boyfriend hit her.

The police called my household and said that I was free, and that if we wanted to sue, we would win.

The rest of the year, anytime I saw her, I walked away and threw up because I felt like I was a monster.

After severe depression, I sat in my room and got over it.

The following years, the boyfriend and I would joke about it all the time.

Good man, terrible friend girl. GreatDizzyAction , Jakob Owens Report Final score: 149points POST Sapna Sarfare Sapna Sarfare Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Damn... What was the girl thinking? 50 50points reply View More Replies... View more comments #8 She was very pro-life, and shamed me for being pro choice and pro women, even though she had an abortion at 15 and it literally saved her life. I instantly cut ties with her. Dropped 10 years of friendship with one sentence. Never looked back. ThisSorrowfulLife , Obie Fernandez Report Final score: 149points POST Kate Jones Kate Jones Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago My mother is this way. My parents are both staunchly pro-life but my mom paid for my brother's old girlfriend to get 2 abortions. They were both drug addicted at the time and it was absolutely the right decision but I knew about it and she made me promise to never tell my dad because he would never forgive her. And it would be one thing if she just kept her mouth shut but she's a big Trumper, conservative sign waiver and it's totally hypocritical. So one time we were arguing about abortion rights and she's arguing with me like I don't know she literally drove the girl to the clinic. Like, do you have amnesia or something? So I scared her once and made it seem like I was about to talk about it in front of my dad and her eyes bugged out like 'no please don't'. I didn't, because I'm not going to cause problems in my family but so many people feel like their problems are different or they are different somehow and don't have to live by their own beliefs but expect others to. 75 75points reply View More Replies... View more comments #9 She didn't invite me to her birthday party. It was my first time back from college and I would have been able to go. She made a whole Facebook event page and invited everybody but me. I found out through mutual friends, the kicker was no one showed up and she called me crying that this other girl didn't show up. ubettawuurrrk69 , Jon Tyson Report Final score: 137points POST liyanee liyanee Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Karma can be quite beautiful. 86 86points reply View more comments #10 He cheated on his wife with my girlfriend. Killed what I thought was two great relationships with one f**k.

Actually it was a lot more than that, but I liked the way it sounded.

Edit: Thanks all, it was a long time ago (30+ years), so plenty of time to get over it. For a very long time I held onto a lot of hatred towards the guy, but for some reason not my ex. I realized at some point that the hate was only harming me and not affecting him in any way so that helped me let it go. trashcanfairy , Womanizer Toys Report Final score: 119points POST Felice Coles Felice Coles Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago He and your ex will deal with the consequences forever. You: live well. 23 23points reply View More Replies... View more comments #11 I got cancer twice. He didn't bother to call, text or visit. Oh, this was pre pandemic so the hospitals were allowing visitors. Significant_Screen45 , Marcelo Leal Report Final score: 109points POST DennyS (denzoren) DennyS (denzoren) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago (edited) Sure we fall apart as we get older but when you friend has cancer and is in hospital you bloody make time to go see them. Not even a text or call? That's not a friend. 46 46points reply View More Replies... View more comments #12 Mental health, fell into depression which isolated me, and eventually made me forgotten by the world badwithchemistry Report Final score: 108points POST Scarlett Scarlett Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago That’s one reason why I’m grateful for my bff because she stayed even when I was distant and so deep in depression that I barely talked. 28 28points reply View More Replies... View more comments #13 He tried to get me fired from a job I hired him at as his boss MykeCecc , ANTONI SHKRABA production Report Final score: 105points POST DennyS (denzoren) DennyS (denzoren) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Well that's just very backstabbing...quite a Brutus move there. Even after you got him a job. 31 31points reply View More Replies... View more comments #14 Every single time that I would tell her I was interested in/talking to a guy, she would try to get with him. She was never successful but it hurt that she kept trying. I confronted her about this in a very nice and civil way and explained to her how I felt about this. She apologized profusely and promised it would never happened again. And then it happened again. I just immediately cut her off after that, no explanation or words needed. She knows what she did. Haven't spoken a word to her since WhiskeyMeAway- , Eric Ward Report Final score: 103points POST DennyS (denzoren) DennyS (denzoren) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Yeah, that wasn't very "friendly" of her. 25 25points reply View more comments #15 she was my best friend for two years.

we were in similar traumatic experiences and we helped each other throughout the 22 months we were best friends and we had a great friendship. we protected each other.

one day she told me her father was back from jail and she was scared. i don't remember exactly what he went to jail for, but he was gone for about 6 years. she told me, on may eighteenth 2020, that she could not handle it anymore, that she was exhausted.

two hours later, her older sister finds her and tells their grand parents and then me that she had hung herself. her exact words were: "im so sorry Grace, she's gone. my little sister is gone." The0nlyGeckoo Report Final score: 102points POST Weirdest Bi You’ll Ever Meet Weirdest Bi You’ll Ever Meet Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 1 month ago I’m so sorry. I must have been hard. I was down there with your bestfriend. Know even though I don’t know you I support you! <3 ? 35 35points reply View more comments #16 Over the years be became increasingly more abusive to his wife. She is a stay at home mom and he is out of town 9 months out of the year for work. He moved her from CA to TX after driving a wedge in every relationship she’d built there. She got a job in TX to get out of the house while the kids were in school. He didn’t like her having friends. He came home for the summer and discovered the owners of the kids’ daycare were lesbians, so he pulled them out because he “doesn’t want them thinking that is okay.” He took them home and told his wife she needs to quit her job because they kids don’t have daycare anymore.

He will come home for the summer and smoke weed and do shrooms since he doesn’t get drug tested during that time. It was only okay for him. If she smokes, she is a “bad mom” because she cares more about drugs than she does the kids. He refuses to contribute to anything around the house - dishes, basic cleaning, garage, yard, feeding the kids - because he brings in 100% of the money. “Chores are the 100% her job”.

He had an affair last summer for 2-3 weeks. He’d just disappear for a week at a time. When he’d come home and the kids asked where he was, he’d tell them “I needed a break from mommy.” He almost got caught so he broke off the affair.

Trying to keep this short to maintain people’s interest, but the last straw was when he started locking his wife outside because she wouldn’t obey him. He hides the car keys so she can’t go anywhere and does not give her access to money. Essentially, he just makes her homeless at will whenever she doesn’t anticipate and tend to his every need.

F**k that guy. I put up with it for so long because we’d been friends since high school and our kids are good friends. After he started locking his wife outside, I decided that I can’t be civil anymore. He is not welcome at my house. He is not welcome around my kids. He is not welcome to LOOK at my wife, because I know how he views women and the superiority he feels over them. Knowing he looks at her as sub-human really gets my blood boiling.

I am ashamed that I ever called this poor excuse of a man my friend. catfish_billy91 Report Final score: 99points POST Aubrey Theo Aubrey Theo Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I hope the wife got out safely with the kids, who knows what the sad excuse of a husband was doing behind closed doors 74 74points reply View More Replies... View more comments #17 He passed away at his job after we graduated high school. He worked at a asphalt creation center and fell 30ish feet into a boiling asphalt silo and boiled to death. He had just turned 18, and it was a few days before my 19th birthday. TheShining02 , Jamar Penny Report Final score: 91points POST DennyS (denzoren) DennyS (denzoren) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago WTH. That sounds like a freaking horrible death. 67 67points reply View More Replies... View more comments See Also on Bored Panda Woman Shows How "Harry Potter" Characters Were Supposed To Look According To Book Descriptions (35 Pics) 50 ‘Weird Facts’ About The World That Might Give You A Fresh Perspective #18 Time. We grew up, had kids, and moved apart.

Edit: I've know this guy since I was 6 or 7, which has now been 40+ years (ugh). He was my best friend, and I'd still consider him as such. We were both best men at each others' weddings, and I was the first non-family member invited to the hospital to hold his children after they were born.

Time just sneaks up on you - it's the small things to start with, and eventually, the relationship is still there but there's no significant time or contact spent on either side. We still text/call each other about 1-2 times a year about serious matters (family/jobs) but the regular "screwing around" time we used to have is done and gone. I know if either of us called the other and said "Hey, I need help ASAP" we'd both still drop whatever we were doing to help the other, but what I really miss is the small goofy interactions we used to have. Abbithedog , Tyler Nix Report Final score: 85points POST Felice Coles Felice Coles Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Sometimes that level of goofy is just unsustainable. Nothing bad, just poignant. 16 16points reply View more comments #19 My best friend was my cousin. Born the same year and raised together in nearby towns. We are from a purple state which bleeds more red every year. He turned Trump, very hard.

This was a cult conversion. He didn't watch Fox, because theybwere part of the MSM (in fact they are!). He went to conspiracy reddits, 8chan and discord and decided "for himself" that only an outsider like Trump could "break the wheel" and bring a new voice into US politics.

After that, nothing could turn him away. No moral failure, no policy failure, no amount of corruption.

We finally cut everything off when I said his illegal immigrant wife ought to suffer the same consequences others do under Trump. He said THIS DOESNT APPLY TO HER.

that was the end. It was a good friendship for 30 years. sonic_tower Report Final score: 79points POST Luke Branwen Luke Branwen Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Yeah, reminds me of my former best friend. That was before Trump - she started following Jordan Peterson and fell into some weird alt-right rabbit hole. The last straw for me was when she just casually mentioned she supports conversion therapy. 31 31points reply View More Replies... View more comments #20 I got tired of always being the one to put forth any effort. Fly across the world to meet up, attend family gatherings, reach out, be patient, make sacrifice. It was good times when we were together. So it was worth it for a while but when she moved close and still never bothered to make an effort, I was over it. Wish her nothing but the best. SpoonfulofYou , Christian Erfurt Report Final score: 77points POST DennyS (denzoren) DennyS (denzoren) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago That sucks. Sometimes you try your best to make the effort and they just don't care. One day you'll find a friend who will reciprocate the effort just as you do. 22 22points reply View more comments #21 She cheated on this guy she was with almost constantly.

She cheated on him while miscarrying his child.
She cheated on him after she got a disease and he helped her learn to walk again.
She cheated on him after he raised her son and took care of him like his own.
She cheated on him after he dropped charges of assault against her and property damage.
She cheated on him after she ruined his reputation in the town (he comes from a big family business)
She cheated on him with the guy she left for him
She cheated on him and then posted screenshots of him having a breakdown (of course only his messages) calling him abusive - and everyone on FB ate it up, ‘cause “single mom with a kid is being mistreated!”

After I confronted her about how awful she was being, she said, “If you’re not on my side, you’re not my friend.”

12 years of best friendship down the drain. Just like that. Zepplitty Report Final score: 73points POST DennyS (denzoren) DennyS (denzoren) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Apart from your relationship, I feel really bad for the guy, like damn. Did someone check on him? 54 54points reply View more comments #22 He died. Miss him. We met at 4 yrs old. Friends for about 30 years. He’s been gone 8 years now. beewhole Report Final score: 72points POST Weirdest Bi You’ll Ever Meet Weirdest Bi You’ll Ever Meet Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 1 month ago I’m sorry <3 26 26points reply View more comments #23 She was dating a really toxic guy and wouldn't listen to anyone who said to break it off, including me. We got in multiple fights about it until the guy said she wasn't allowed to talk to me anymore, that last fight was pretty ugly. So she called it quits with me. She's long since moved on to a better guy but I still miss her she was special to me. Tripl3R , Brent Ninaber Report Final score: 70points POST DennyS (denzoren) DennyS (denzoren) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I think a big red flag for her there was him "allowing" her to talk to people. 40 40points reply View more comments #24 After 14 years of friendship we get an apartment and suddenly he loses his job as a personal trainer because of a dress code violation (he wore a hoodie to work, allegedly) and then 2-3 months of him not working. Then after he agreed to pay me back eventually, all he ever gave me was $400 from his mom (I paid over 14,000 for the year). So I paid the full year lease and he stayed 8 months total. I never talked to him again also because I found a receipt where he was trying to make a copy of my car keys make and model. F**K THAT GUY autumnsromeo , Towfiqu barbhuiya Report Final score: 67points POST ERIKA H. ERIKA H. Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago A hoodie being a dress code violation for a personal trainer makes as much sense as a duck being afraid of water. That is like the uniform for anyone who works out! Sorry that happened. I had to cover rent for my friend/roommate of many years ago, but i made clear i had to be paid back within the month or they were getting kicked out 36 36points reply View More Replies... View more comments #25 I came out to him Dew-It420 , Stavrialena Gontzou Report Final score: 66points POST Pumpkin Spice Pumpkin Spice Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago He was never a friend in the first place. Good on you for living as yourself. 47 47points reply View more comments #26 My family was going through a hard time and had to move to an apartment suddenly. We had eight cats and they would only let us bring two. So my friend said she had really bonded with one of my cats and asked if she could take her. I really didn’t have many options for people who would take my cats on such short notice and was so heartbroken over this situation so I was absolutely delighted that she wanted to take the cat. Well a couple months into her having the cat I asked her how it was going and she told me the that the cat had started peeing on the furniture so they let her go outside. They hadn’t seen her since. I went and searched for the cat and couldn’t find her. After not speaking to her for weeks I decided to try to have a friendship with her again but it literally won’t work- I simply don’t like her anymore after that. Every time she would text me I would just roll my eyes and barely had the energy to respond. Then I finally just let it all out and blocked her on everything. Andandromeda3821 , The Lucky Neko Report Final score: 62points POST Zara (she/they) Zara (she/they) Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago poor cat :( and good riddance of that friend 48 48points reply View More Replies... View more comments #27 I heard him making fun of me to other kids in school. That one really cut deep. kdawgster1 Report Final score: 61points POST Keara Ritson Keara Ritson Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago im sorry...you dont deserve that 18 18points reply View More Replies... View more comments See Also on Bored Panda Overworked Employee Quits Because He Wasn't Getting A Fair Wage, Costs The Company $40 Million 40 Embarrassing Moments People Didn't Know Who They Were Talking To And Made A Fool Of Themselves #28 We idolized each other, but then she started to adopt aspects of my personality, how I dressed, what music I listened to, etc. Then she started throwing herself at anyone she knew that I found attractive so she could “get” them first. Then she tried to screw my brother. In my bed. PlaceboRoshambo Report Final score: 58points POST Hex Gurls Hex Gurls Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago wait she ‘tried’? that must’ve been awkward 37 37points reply View More Replies... View more comments #29 Politics, unfortunately. lordTigas , Scott Spiegel Report Final score: 51points POST Tamra Tamra Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Trump's presidency did one thing successfully: it divided the nation like I've never seen before. 49 49points reply View More Replies... View more comments #30 He had a horrible birth defect where his brain formed in his d**k and he f****d my, at the time, girlfriend. Boschdog03 Report Final score: 51points POST Mirt Mirt Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Takes two to tango 49 49points reply View More Replies... View more comments Note: this post originally had 100 images. It’s been shortened to the top 30 images based on user votes. Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing! Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda! Add Your Answer! Not your original work? Add source Publish Change image Upload Photo Ooops! 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POST idrow1 idrow1 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago My best friend turned into a momby and I tried to be understanding. We had mass layoffs at work and people all around me were packing up their cubes. A guy who was on my team and was the sole provider for a family of 5 who was next to my cube was packing his stuff and you could tell he was holding back tears. Friend calls me, I tell her it's like a death march here and it's surreal and we're all stunned and devastated. She says, "Yeah, I'm having a hard day, too. [kid] dropped her light brites on the floor." That she even compared the two told me she was no longer the same person I once knew. I was disgusted and done. 7 7points reply Sooploosh MacSchnibble Sooploosh MacSchnibble Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago My best friend passed away when he swallowed an unknown object that blocked his intestines. We took him to the vet, but they said as long as he was walking, and drinking water, he'd make it. However, when my aunt, brother, and uncle were at a baseball game (my little brother plays baseball), and I was keeping charlie company, he stopped drinking, and ended up laying down in my room for almost an hour before my aunt came home and rushed him to the vet. He died on the way there. 6 6points reply Aunt Riarch Aunt Riarch Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago So sorry for your loss 0 0points reply Load More Replies... Silre Silre Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago God, I'm so sorry! 0 0points reply Sooploosh MacSchnibble Sooploosh MacSchnibble Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago to this day we still don't know what it is he swallowed. 0 0points reply Tamra Tamra Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I'm so sorry. It's so, so hard to lose a pet. They give us a simple, pure, uncomplicated love and it hurts like hell to lose it. 2 2points reply Sooploosh MacSchnibble Sooploosh MacSchnibble Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Thank you. 0 0points reply Leo Domitrix Leo Domitrix Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Diagnosis with epilepsy showed me who was a friend and who wasn't. Turns out, there are good friends in my life. And some I don't miss a da*n bit. (One called my epilepsy "baggage she didn't want to carry". Oy.) 5 5points reply Aunt Riarch Aunt Riarch Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago SHE didn't want to carry? Goodness me 2 2points reply Load More Replies... Hoodoo Hoodoo Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Know what you mean Leo- both m' father & brother committed suicide. There were friends who dropped everything to contact me, pop in, & continued to do so after all the services were over. Others abandoned me. I think many times people feel there's something they "should" do or say. They really don't know what to do & avoid you. You & I know that there really isn't anything they can do, but them just showin up helps. It can be painful to be abandoned like that but I found the experience gave me useful information- you learn who really gives a sh*t. 0 0points reply Load More Comments POST idrow1 idrow1 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago My best friend turned into a momby and I tried to be understanding. We had mass layoffs at work and people all around me were packing up their cubes. A guy who was on my team and was the sole provider for a family of 5 who was next to my cube was packing his stuff and you could tell he was holding back tears. Friend calls me, I tell her it's like a death march here and it's surreal and we're all stunned and devastated. She says, "Yeah, I'm having a hard day, too. [kid] dropped her light brites on the floor." That she even compared the two told me she was no longer the same person I once knew. I was disgusted and done. 7 7points reply Sooploosh MacSchnibble Sooploosh MacSchnibble Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago My best friend passed away when he swallowed an unknown object that blocked his intestines. We took him to the vet, but they said as long as he was walking, and drinking water, he'd make it. However, when my aunt, brother, and uncle were at a baseball game (my little brother plays baseball), and I was keeping charlie company, he stopped drinking, and ended up laying down in my room for almost an hour before my aunt came home and rushed him to the vet. He died on the way there. 6 6points reply Aunt Riarch Aunt Riarch Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago So sorry for your loss 0 0points reply Load More Replies... Silre Silre Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago God, I'm so sorry! 0 0points reply Sooploosh MacSchnibble Sooploosh MacSchnibble Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago to this day we still don't know what it is he swallowed. 0 0points reply Tamra Tamra Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago I'm so sorry. It's so, so hard to lose a pet. They give us a simple, pure, uncomplicated love and it hurts like hell to lose it. 2 2points reply Sooploosh MacSchnibble Sooploosh MacSchnibble Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Thank you. 0 0points reply Leo Domitrix Leo Domitrix Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Diagnosis with epilepsy showed me who was a friend and who wasn't. Turns out, there are good friends in my life. And some I don't miss a da*n bit. (One called my epilepsy "baggage she didn't want to carry". Oy.) 5 5points reply Aunt Riarch Aunt Riarch Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago SHE didn't want to carry? Goodness me 2 2points reply Load More Replies... Hoodoo Hoodoo Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 month ago Know what you mean Leo- both m' father & brother committed suicide. There were friends who dropped everything to contact me, pop in, & continued to do so after all the services were over. Others abandoned me. I think many times people feel there's something they "should" do or say. They really don't know what to do & avoid you. You & I know that there really isn't anything they can do, but them just showin up helps. It can be painful to be abandoned like that but I found the experience gave me useful information- you learn who really gives a sh*t. 0 0points reply Load More Comments Popular on Bored Panda I Used AI To See What These 23 Popular Cartoon Characters Would Look Like In Real Life 30 Y.O. 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