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Mom Is Embarrassed After Nanny Quits Because She “ Couldn’ t Be Around My Husband Another Day”

Liucija Adomaite and
Ilona Baliūnaitė
Recently, a first-time mom of 6-month-old twins who goes by the handle DearRiver4425 asked for advice on the r/Nanny community. In a post, she shared how their babies' nanny began acting weird and couldn't wait to leave, although everything went fine in the beginning. "I didn't exactly blame her, she's caring for infant twins. I'm often excited to go to work so I can get a break from them," the author explained but added that there must have been some bigger reason. One Friday night, when her husband and nanny were both at home, the woman witnessed a little incident. "Oh, I think (son) has a poopy diaper. Nanny is still here, it's her job, just let her do it," he casually said to his wife. This left the author appalled and it soon became clear it wasn't the first time her husband had ordered the nanny around. Let's see how this story evolved and be sure to share your advice in the comments.

Mom found out her husband has been secretly giving their babies nanny extra work forcing her to the brink of quitting br

Image credits: pvandermaesen0 (not the actual photo) Image credits: Engin_Akyurt (not the actual photo)

The author also clarified a couple of details about the whole situation

Mom later came back with an unfortunate update about the nanny

With a second update the author broke out yet more news about why the nanny felt so uncomfortable being around her husband

In the last edit the author noted that some things that happened in this situation she is keeping private

Image credits: DearRiver4425

Many people had a lot to say about this whole situation

Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing! Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda! Share on Facebook Liucija Adomaite Liucija Adomaite Writer, BoredPanda staff Liucija Adomaite is a creative mind with years of experience in copywriting. She has a dynamic set of experiences from advertising, academia, and journalism. This time, she has set out on a journey to investigate the ways in which we communicate ideas on a large scale. Her current mission is to find a magic formula for how to make ideas, news, and other such things spread like a virus. Read more » Ilona Baliūnaitė Ilona Baliūnaitė Author, BoredPanda staff Ilona is a photo editor at Bored Panda with an MA in Communication Of Creative Society. Before Bored Panda, she worked as a social media manager and freelance graphic designer. 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Am I the only one thinking dad was sexually harassing the nanny? 73 73points reply LH25 LH25 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago Not at all, that's what I suspect as well. Esp. since the OP is being so vague when they offered so much detail about everything else. 40 40points reply Load More Replies... Deborah B Deborah B Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago If the Dad was not sexually harassing the nanny, then he was treating her as his personal maid, "Could you please bring me a cup of coffee. Just wipe up these crumbs on my desk, would you? Grab me my jumper, it's downstairs." Asking her to preform small menial tasks, specificly for him, that aren't part of her job. It's a form of misogyny that often evolves into sexual harassment. If she's been sexually harassed before, it would be a red flag, even if it wasn't overtly sexual yet. It's also hard for her to explain as being a separate and more worrying problem than the child-related and household tasks that aren't in her job description. 22 22points reply Squirrelly Panda Squirrelly Panda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago I'm hoping it's as you described and wasn't (yet) full on sexual harassment, otherwise OP should be reevaluating her relationship with her husband, not just working out a new child care plan. 7 7points reply Chris berkley Chris berkley Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago No you are not that's immediately what I thought, the keeping vague comment, to me personally kinda confirmed that 11 11points reply Bobbi Spence Bobbi Spence Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago Her level of discomfort says he was definitely doing something totally inappropriate and still opting to quit after the “meeting” says, to me at least, that he scared her enough for her to believe nothing would change. 6 6points reply Karin Morris Karin Morris Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago He was sexually harrassing her Keith. 3 3points reply Cecily Holland Cecily Holland Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago The only reason this woman wants to keep things “vague”: because her self entitled dirt bag sleaze of a husband is hitting on the nanny. I read the original post and replies. This woman intimated that the “jokes” Mr Sleaze made we’re of a sexual nature. She should be divorcing the sleaze 39 39points reply MiriPanda MiriPanda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago (edited) I really would like to know what tasks her husband wanted the nanny to do that were going beyond cleaning and nannying and were making her so uncomfortable to the point of not wanting to stay a single day longer... Was he hitting on her?! 36 36points reply Hex Gurls Hex Gurls Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago that’s probably why she wanted to ‘keep it vague’ tbh 34 34points reply Load More Replies... Rannveig Ess Rannveig Ess Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago (edited) If that's true - which I thought it was, too - then the OP has a lot more issues going on than finding a nanny. She's lucky the old one didn't go after him for sexual harassment. 8 8points reply Ash Ash Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago I think he undoubtedly was asking her for sexual favors. It was smart of the OP to check up with the nanny. I hope she goes nuclear on him. 8 8points reply CatWoman312 CatWoman312 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago That’s what I’m thinking or either he was being creepy. 5 5points reply Load More Comments POST Keith O Keith O Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago The dad made "jokes"......wtf does that mean? Am I the only one thinking dad was sexually harassing the nanny? 73 73points reply LH25 LH25 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago Not at all, that's what I suspect as well. Esp. since the OP is being so vague when they offered so much detail about everything else. 40 40points reply Load More Replies... Deborah B Deborah B Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago If the Dad was not sexually harassing the nanny, then he was treating her as his personal maid, "Could you please bring me a cup of coffee. Just wipe up these crumbs on my desk, would you? Grab me my jumper, it's downstairs." Asking her to preform small menial tasks, specificly for him, that aren't part of her job. It's a form of misogyny that often evolves into sexual harassment. If she's been sexually harassed before, it would be a red flag, even if it wasn't overtly sexual yet. It's also hard for her to explain as being a separate and more worrying problem than the child-related and household tasks that aren't in her job description. 22 22points reply Squirrelly Panda Squirrelly Panda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago I'm hoping it's as you described and wasn't (yet) full on sexual harassment, otherwise OP should be reevaluating her relationship with her husband, not just working out a new child care plan. 7 7points reply Chris berkley Chris berkley Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago No you are not that's immediately what I thought, the keeping vague comment, to me personally kinda confirmed that 11 11points reply Bobbi Spence Bobbi Spence Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago Her level of discomfort says he was definitely doing something totally inappropriate and still opting to quit after the “meeting” says, to me at least, that he scared her enough for her to believe nothing would change. 6 6points reply Karin Morris Karin Morris Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago He was sexually harrassing her Keith. 3 3points reply Cecily Holland Cecily Holland Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago The only reason this woman wants to keep things “vague”: because her self entitled dirt bag sleaze of a husband is hitting on the nanny. I read the original post and replies. This woman intimated that the “jokes” Mr Sleaze made we’re of a sexual nature. She should be divorcing the sleaze 39 39points reply MiriPanda MiriPanda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago (edited) I really would like to know what tasks her husband wanted the nanny to do that were going beyond cleaning and nannying and were making her so uncomfortable to the point of not wanting to stay a single day longer... Was he hitting on her?! 36 36points reply Hex Gurls Hex Gurls Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago that’s probably why she wanted to ‘keep it vague’ tbh 34 34points reply Load More Replies... Rannveig Ess Rannveig Ess Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago (edited) If that's true - which I thought it was, too - then the OP has a lot more issues going on than finding a nanny. She's lucky the old one didn't go after him for sexual harassment. 8 8points reply Ash Ash Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago I think he undoubtedly was asking her for sexual favors. It was smart of the OP to check up with the nanny. I hope she goes nuclear on him. 8 8points reply CatWoman312 CatWoman312 Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 2 weeks ago That’s what I’m thinking or either he was being creepy. 5 5points reply Load More Comments Popular on Bored Panda I Used AI To See What These 23 Popular Cartoon Characters Would Look Like In Real Life 30 Y.O. 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