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Community member Publish Not your original work? Add source As children, we grow up in a rather small circle. The older we get, the more people from different parts of the world we meet. That is when our instilled values can be challenged. Most of the time, we don't change a thing, but sometimes we get faced with contradictions that shake up our view forever. When the sudden moment of realization hits, you can never see the way you did before. So, dear fellow Pandas, I ask you, what was that moment for you? This post may include affiliate links. #1 When I was about 9 I went to spend Christmas with my grandmother in Zambia. She had an orphanage and every year would put on a Nativity play and hold a Christmas party for all the children in the village. This particular year she had it on my birthday (21st Dec).
I'd made friends with a girl about my age and even though we didn't speak each other's language we were instant friends, as only children can be. During the day my new friend gave me part of an eraser - needless to say, I was confused.
I asked my grandmother why she would give me part of my eraser and her response was 'that little girl has nothing, but she still wanted to give you something for your birthday'.
To this day I remind myself that often people are giving all they can, even if it doesn't seem like much to us. Arif Hasan Report 468points Jordan Scott POST memyselfandI memyselfandI Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago That’s very similar to a story from the Bible, where a widow came to the temple and donated two small coins to the offering. The priests and rich people were saying that she wasn’t putting in enough, but Jesus told them that even though they were putting in 10% of their income as required, she was putting in all she had. Those two coins were worth more to God than all the donations of the rich people, because it showed that she actually cared about the temple, instead of just doing what was asked. 130 130points reply View More Replies... View more comments #2 A black person I worked with was called the N-word by an angry customer. She turned to me and said, “there is nothing I can call you that will ever make you understand how much that hurts”. That completely changed my thinking. Teddy Report 426points Martha Cox POST Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Fu*king racists. I'm famous for using wrong words (ahum) but never intentionally. I'm trying to think of a word that would hurt me like the N-word and I can't think of one. I've never thought about this. I'm glad you posted this Martha. 141 141points reply View More Replies... View more comments #3 I used to cashier and was often way more honest than I should have been for working in customer service. Someone asked me how my day was going and I said “I’m considering abandoning ship.” It was during the worst time in my life and I was thinking of packing my bags and moving back across the country to where I grew up.
The customer responded: Don’t abandon the ship. Sail a different sea.
Completely changed how I look at situations and life as a whole.
I wish I could thank him.
I’m now a first-year high school English teacher which has been my dream since I was 11. I’m 33. Elina Buzurtanova Report 407points DragonsFox POST Ruth Wile Ruth Wile Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago I've always wanted to be a high school English teacher, too, so it's easy to connect with that. This is so inspiring, thank you so much for sharing!!! 35 35points reply View More Replies... View more comments #4 Once when I was about 10, a fox wandered into our backyard in broad daylight and we noticed it moving around in a peculiar way on a dirt patch in the corner of the yard which we always used to bury our pets (we had many pets over the years). As we slowly got closer to it, we realized the fox was twitching severely, as if having a seizure that wouldn't stop. It didn't react to our presence even as we got closer. We called animal control to take care of it, and they arrived and explained that it had some kind of brain infection that slowly takes over its functions until it becomes completely incapacitated but still functioning as we see it today. They quickly helped it to the final door and it was buried in that very spot.
The fact that it was neurological forced me to consider the state of mind it had been in that day - How long were its motor skills and basic functions slipping away? Did it know what was happening when it walked through broad daylight? Did it know it would pass away soon? Was it fully aware that we were standing over it? How much did it suffer?... How much did it suffer *mentally*?
Until then I had loved animals but still considered them like autonomous bots. This was the first time that I was brought to terms with them as cognizant equals and understood that they have internal mental capabilities and struggles just the same as humans. It brought me to recognize a whole new genre of suffering, and I became significantly more caring because of it. Karen Report 350points [] POST Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Troux, that's a good story. I also think about this. People say that animals have no emotions but only instinct. No way !!! When we are away for a whole day the cat(s) sit by the window and wait till we are home and then won't leave us out of their sight for the rest of the day and the following. Aaaw. 86 86points reply View More Replies... View more comments #5 When my son was about 5 I was doing some housework. He came to me and wanted me to play with him. I told him I was sorry, but I was busy. He said, "But you're always busy."
I put the housework aside and went and played with him. The housework could wait. Ketut Subiyanto Report 305points BusLady POST Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Aaw, perfect! 41 41points reply View more comments #6 When I started a new job as a counselor for inmates in one of our city's detention centers. I always thought people in jail failed society, but I realized I had it backward - society has failed these people.
I have since dedicated my practice to doing what our prisons fail to do - rehabilitating people, starting with basic skills, and mental health issues. Donald Tong Report 305points Meg L POST AffenpinscherMom AffenpinscherMom Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago THIS IS BEYOND TRUE. I am also a mental health counselor working with the inmates. The male inmates are more respectful to me as a female then some guys on the outside. Most of them are genuinely appreciative that someone is empathetic and supportive as most of them have never experienced that before. A large majority have also experienced childhood trauma. 112 112points reply View More Replies... View more comments #7 I had never been aware of the level of racism that is out there (living in the Southern US.) Had finished getting a man ready for surgery and he asked who was "putting him to sleep." I told him his name and then he started to repeatedly ask me "What is he?" I'd answer doctor, anesthesiologist, again that he's a doctor until he got to the part he was really getting at. "Is he an N-word or what? Because you never know what he's going to do to me while I'm asleep."
I felt like I was going to explode inside. "NO HE'S NOT, he's an African American and an excellent physician. While you are asleep he's going to take exceptionally good care of you." Then, I could not resist this. Go ahead mister, try and report me. I dare you. I turned to him as I was going through the curtain and said, " I guess the pre-op interview nurse forgot to tell you our sheets are cream-colored. Next time remember to bring your own white sheet." The look on his face was so worth it. Another time I had been in a room while the MD was also there.
When he left the man said, "He sure is a good doctor for a black man." Exploding inside. "The fact that he is African American is completely irrelevant. He's one of the best cardiologists in the country and you are more than fortunate to have him." Again, the look was so worth it."
Another encounter with a racist patient was so infuriating to all of us... well, just don't p**s off the nurses about something like that. Thirdman Report 280points Miss Frankfurter POST Audrey Kahin Audrey Kahin Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Dang that sheet comment was slick 138 138points reply View More Replies... View more comments #8 When I realized that my life would be so much better for me, emotionally, when I let someone in my life go. Permanently. Chanikarn Thongsupa Report 264points HarriMissesScotland POST Abraham Espinoza Abraham Espinoza Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago I was always very friendly as a kid and always tried to make others happy. There were several times growing up where I would introduce friends to other friends and they would end up being really good friends and end up ignoring me for some reason, pushing me out of the friend group. When I was old enough (about 20) to realize how being treated unkindly or purposely ignored by "friends" and family scarred me, I purposed that I would never ever treat anyone that way. I now try to go and talk to and show interest to people who seem lonely or insecure, even if it means I have to push past my own discomfort or lack of motivation in the moment. I don't want people to have to feel the way I did when younger and wish that those people would understand their self-worth apart from others... 98 98points reply View More Replies... View more comments #9 The realization that being angry is a choice. Vera Arsic Report 246points Sasquatch The Almighty POST Aurora C. Aurora C. Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago That’s powerful 50 50points reply View More Replies... View more comments #10 When I realized that my son would be better with no father than with a toxic, manipulative, alcoholic father. It’s only happened in the last two weeks that I have finally found the strength to cut him out of our lives, but I already feel so much calmer. I always thought I would know the signs of mistreatment, and that because I was not being hit that things weren’t that bad, that it was just “normal” couple stuff that everyone went through. But it’s not.
Being constantly belittled, stolen from, guilted into giving money & taking out loans, gaslit, having any self-confidence destroyed, manipulated, etc. takes its toll. They develop a hold over you. And I felt like I couldn’t cope without him in my life because no one else would want me. But then I had the realization that I cannot have my son grow up and see the relationship between his parents and think that it is an acceptable way to treat a woman (or anyone for that matter).
We’re finally free. I’m going to get therapy. I have amazingly supportive family & friends, that are just glad that I have finally seen the light. My son will grow up surrounded by love, happiness & good people. Ian Stauffer Report 246points Lolabean POST Tee Witt Tee Witt Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago So [leased you found the courage. 39 39points reply View More Replies... View more comments #11 When I found out the church I attended was a bunch of hypocrites and liars. Left that church and religion altogether when I realized all was based on lies and misinformation. Akira Hojo Report 243points Terry Filkohazi POST Ivo H Ivo H Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago Almost all religions are… 86 86points reply View More Replies... View more comments #12 I (58M) allowed my fanatically religious mother to bully and harass me about religion for my entire life. She drilled Jesus into me every day as a child. I was sent to Christian schools and we attended church every time the doors were open. We went to revivals and camp meetings at every opportunity. When I became an adult I move out, but she continued the campaign of trying to convert me to her fanatical brand of hate-based Christianity. I grew up among racists, misogynist, and homophobes. They preach interracial couples are a sin, women are subservient to men, and gays are going straight to hell. The latter has been particularly painful for me because I'm gay. I knew the moment puberty hit. The preachers preached that gays were the lowest form of life to slither across this earth and they deserved to burn in hell. There were no role models on TV. I had no one to turn to. My parents gave my siblings cars when they turned 16. I bought my own car so I would have something to live in if they found out I was gay. My teen years were terrifying.
During adulthood, I have withstood my mother's religious mistreatments to keep the family peace and to avoid offending her (given how she has treated me, I know that sounds crazy). But she is my mother and no one wants to hurt their mother. I turned the other cheek when she came after me, until...
I married my husband in 2013. In 2018, I finally mustered the courage to tell my mother we were married. She offered no kind words, no congratulations, no support, and didn't ask a single question. She just lowered her head and said, "I know." That was the end of the conversation.
During my next visit to her house (I was 55 at the time), her Christian anger erupted. She physically restrained me in a chair, got in my face, and said over and over and over that I'm going to hell. Despite the devastation, that moment was cathartic for me.
That one minute interaction with my mother changed my life forever. I stood up, walked out of her house and life, and I haven't looked back. I blocked her on my phone so she can't call me. I am free of this woman finally. My only regret is that I didn't do it 30 years ago. Oh how much more peaceful my life would have been.
By the way, I have seen psychotherapists for my entire adult life trying to recover from her. It has helped. Report 237points J_runner POST Kimmie E Kimmie E Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago Glad you got away from her. Good luck in the future xx 55 55points reply View more comments #13 It’s been 15 months since I gave up alcohol, and my life is recognizable again. Best decision I’ve ever made. DiamondRehab Thailand Report 229points Remy De La Mora POST Summer Mason Summer Mason Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Whoop whoop! Good for you person! 43 43points reply View more comments #14 In my early 20s, I became frustrated with the constant harassment and general bulls**t of working a dead-end office job and decided to go back to school and earn a degree. I was in a slightly male-dominated program (science) but felt respected by my peers.
Fast-forward six years to graduation and I was at a celebration with students from my program. I overheard a large group of drunk male students talking about a female classmate, referring to her with a disgusting, objectifying "nickname." They saw the look on my face and one of them said "relax, we've got names for all of you." I was less shocked than I was disappointed in myself, for being stupid enough to think that "educated" men would be more respectful.
I've worked in research for 25 years and have had a lot of great male colleagues, but sadly there is just as much sexist bulls**t as in any other job. Kier... in Sight Report 216points Jake 1 POST Andrea Delden Andrea Delden Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago Sad, but true. 48 48points reply View more comments #15 When a dear friend passed away suddenly, and when clearing out their desk, I found their mantra on a piece of paper on top of their workload in the drawer…
1. Don’t worry about things, as most things never happen.
2. Don’t sweat the small stuff, it too will probably not happen
3. Give more.
4. Expect less.
(and the one I always smile at, as they said it often)
5. To get something you never had before, you gotta do something you have never done before. Charlotte May Report 210points Willy POST Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago That's a good mantra. 31 31points reply View more comments #16 I was doing an internship for my Ph.D. in psychology at a large, public hospital. I told my supervisor about a patient and he asked me what I did about the situation. I told him I didn’t do anything, that I waited to ask him. He said, “If you don’t do anything, who will?” That statement taught me to take on my professional role and step up to help. It guided me through a long career. Erkan Utu Report 193points Paula MV POST Den Ver Den Ver Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago (edited) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gwWNlaF-PLE . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Comedian John Mulany tells how he learned a similar lesson at age 6. (1 min.) 15 15points reply View more comments #17 When I learned that my doctors didn’t expect me to survive cancer. They told me I’d never see my 40th birthday.
I’m 45 now, but facing my own mortality completely changed me. Michelle Leman Report 185points Rebecca Larson POST Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Every single person who has had cancer (or has it) changes. I'm glad you are ok now. Hugs for you Rebecca. 50 50points reply View More Replies... View more comments #18 I used to be an awful person (Well, more than I am now), and I was generally being an a**hole because I got stressed out (which was a poor excuse), and I accidentally made my grandfather cry.
I’m a shi**y person, but it opened my eye to how awful I truly was. I make sure to at least apologize and stop myself now. Tim Doerfler Report 177points Chernobyl Guide POST Naesil Naesil Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Very powerful to see strong older male family member cry about something, we still live in a world where "men dont cry" and they had it much worse when they were growing up. You know the s**t is real when even they show emotion. 53 53points reply View more comments #19 When I was maybe 9 or 10 I was jealous of the "rich" families in our small town, and I asked my mom why we didn't have a nice new big house and a nice car.
She told me they probably aren't really rich, they just have a lot of debt, and it has always stuck with me. Now as an adult I don't feel jealous, I feel sorry for them because they feel the need to display their "wealth". Anastase Maragos Report 165points Chelsea Aaron POST Ivo H Ivo H Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago No need to be sorry either. They used their lives and their money their way, they are most probably not struggling, just made a different choices. Just be happy with your life and don’t mind theirs. 47 47points reply View More Replies... View more comments #20 I was basically told to be afraid of gay people my entire life. My dad decided to take a job down in the Florida keys. Gay capital or Florida. After high-school I basically came to the conclusion I love everyone as long as their not f*****g a**hats to me. Problem solved. Well not for my dad. This still cracks me up to this day.....fast forward 6 years. Dad comes down after leaving Florida to come see me. I still live in key west and work at a "gay bar" as a shot girl. I allowed people to take body shots off my belly button. Yeah...eww... but it's liquor so there's that.
Anywhom.... took my dad to the bar. He is mortified. Constantly making homofobic comments but to only me. I told him to shut the f**k up. This is my family.
He finally sits down watches one of the drag queens and falls in love with it all.
Because of me I have single handly changed my family to the point my conservative grandma loves the f**k out of the gay community and supports them from harm at her church. Who has a rainbow flag flying from their temple or worship. Thank you lord. Report 162points Summer Mason POST Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago Summer, this story made me SMILE. 31 31points reply View more comments #21 When my best friend came out and I realized I wasn’t straight either and I was opened up to a whole new world of LGBTQ+ people. Isi Parente Report 151points That One Weird Bi POST Raven DeathShade Raven DeathShade Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago (edited) For me it was my cousin. I started thinking about my own sexuality, and came to the conclusion that if it was okay for her to like girls, then it's okay for me to like them too. I'm bisexual, but I haven't told anyone outside BP. EDIT 9 months later: I'm out, I'm proud, and I've been having a blast now that the secret is out :). 86 86points reply View More Replies... View more comments See Also on Bored Panda Woman Shows How "Harry Potter" Characters Were Supposed To Look According To Book Descriptions (35 Pics) 50 ‘Weird Facts’ About The World That Might Give You A Fresh Perspective #22 When I realized that nothing really matters, like to the universe. This thought actually helped my depression and anxiety because it lifts some of the weight off my chest, that even if I mess something up, the universe will carry on just fine, it's not the end of the world if I do/say something wrong. Report 147points Lilly Swaim POST Nurichwersonst Nurichwersonst Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago Learned this also. We are all basically a bunch of billion years old carbon-atoms... we go where we came from and the universe isnt affected by it at all, so it doesnt matter what we all do. Its about us how we feel and how we do through our current state of life. 23 23points reply View more comments #23 When God's booming voice from above told me to quit drinking & using drugs...OR ELSE!
Well, it was actually a judge, but he thought he was a god. Tingey Injury Law Firm Report 144points Whitey Black POST DUN DUN DUN DUN Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago If it did you good and changed you for the better, then maybe he was God 47 47points reply View More Replies... View more comments #24 I was in a cruel relationship for years. I didn't mind being the victim as much as it bothered me that he would mistreat our daughter. I'm normally a non-confrontational person and often had recurring nightmares of the mistreatment. I was being stalked, harrassed as i had come to expect from this recurring nightmare, and i kept waiting for someone to save me. These nightmares kept going even after i left the relationship. Then, one night, it occurred to me that nobody was coming to save me. I was on my own. I could either get used to being someone's domestic plaything, or i could stand up and save myself. So i did.
Five years later, i'm married to an amazing man, and the mistreatment is just a bad memory from long ago. My husband's friends regard me as a terrifying force of nature. All because i decided to be my own damn hero. Report 135points Arica Kimball POST Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago Good on you! I'm glad you're happy now. It took guts but you did it !!! 23 23points reply View More Replies... View more comments #25 In my final year of high school, I (F) hung out with a girl. We did everything together but I mostly enjoyed the sleepovers. We lost touch after graduation. A few years later we are both back home visiting family and run into each other. She tells me she is recently engaged and brought her fiancé to meet her dad. A young woman approaches us and I get introduced - to her fiancée.
I am clearly surprised and asked her how long she had known. She said since she was 13. Does your dad know? Yep, since I first knew. Why did you not tell me? You know why. Indeed, I did. It was not something that was ever spoken - just a given. It was not right - period!
It was then that I realized any prejudices, racism, or anything else in that regard that I may have, was not of my own. I swore, that day, to rid myself of all the toxic garbage that my parents and family had passed onto me and, especially, to never pass it on to my future children.
Skip ahead 20 years and I am watching Lethal Weapon with my 15-year-old son. Mom, I can't remember that one actor's name. Which one? The guy with the mustache. I tell him, Danny Glover. And then I had a silent cry. Tallie Robinson Report 123points ShadowLand POST Remi Flynne Remi Flynne Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago My father was racist and homophobic. My mother... she didn't think she was but she would say things like 'a very nice black man helped me today' as if the description was necessary. I'd say 'you don't need to say he was black' and get told 'but he was'. Pointing out that she never mentioned skin colour when talking about white people went over her head. I was lucky to end up getting to know very open minded people early in life and realising my parents were not great role models here!! Well done for being that much better role model yourself. 61 61points reply View More Replies... View more comments #26 I never truly understood what real helplessness was until my infant daughter had an illness that she might never recover from. Thankfully everything is fine but I often think of that and it centers me on any life problems I might encounter to provide perspective. Alexander Grey Report 116points Todd POST Nora Nora Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago I can't even imagine. I'm sorry you had to go through that, well done taking some positivity away from it. Hope she's well. 15 15points reply View more comments #27 When I found out my favorite dinosaur the Brontosaurus ("B" from now on) wasn't real. I still believed in Santa so this was my first big "lie". The guy who found/named it had cludged it together from several dinosaurs and made a fake skull to say he found the biggest one. Scientists realized the mistake several years later and fixed it but the guy who funded the "B" scientist was a publisher so he continued the lie. I wasn't heart broken when the guy at the museum told me. Instead it hooked me on science because he showed me why. Science is about finding better answers and its ok to correct things that are wrong. For the first time, dinosaurs became real because they weren't perfect. I became a scientist whose chased marmots up mountains and worked in organ banks because of that "lie". Happy ending - they found a "B" skull in 2015 that matched most of the other bones from the original "B" and 3 species are back. So a mistaken mistake was corrected. I love science. Report 113points Two_rolling_black_eyes POST Angelar Angelar Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago That's a post I can very much relate :) Nice post 18 18points reply View More Replies... View more comments #28 That I have full control of my own happiness. No matter what anyone says, it is their opinion and I have my own as well. What I do that will make me happy, I chose that... whatever the consequences are, I take full responsibility for it.
Happiest I have ever been in the past 2 decades. I wish I knew this when I was younger! I chose my choices! Fernando Brasil Report 101points Lucy Lee POST Danny Trejo Danny Trejo Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago emotions are the point where mind and body meet. dont let your mind control you, you are not your mind, be the watcher over your thoughts. accept every situations like you chose it. that helped me a lot. 16 16points reply View More Replies... View more comments #29 When I was about 11, I was talking with my best friend and I don't remember what I said, but it wasn't about Africa, but she misunderstood something and yelled, "I am not African!" and ran home crying. This is in the US and she was black and I was white. She rarely got mad and rarely yelled. She was a quiet, sweet person who would typically get hurt rather than mad.
I didn't understand all that stuff. (I thought I was black for 6 months when I was 7, because she was "black" and we were the same in my view.)
I realized when she went home crying that she had some ongoing, never-ending pain in her life that I didn't have in mine (and which nobody should have, let alone a little girl). I don't remember how I figured out exactly what this was all about not being African (probably my Mom explained).
She was two grades below me, so if people were saying mean, racist things to her in school, I didn't know. The kids in the neighborhood were fine as far as I know, but my other friend's mom was clearly prejudiced, possibly racist.
That is the day I lost my innocence and realized how incredibly unfair the world can be. And the saddest thing about that is that she had learned it years before :-( Report 94points Marnie POST LimaBeanie LimaBeanie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago oh my goodness. thats so sad!! :( 17 17points reply View more comments #30 Leaving all toxic people behind. 28 rn but have never been this happy before. Obie Fernandez Report 88points Anshika Malik POST Tobias Reaper Tobias Reaper Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago good for you massive change in your life when you do that you realise the difference big time 13 13points reply View more comments #31 The time I started to read the Bible on my own - not relying on what others had told me about the Bible..... Report 86points Mike McKeever POST Queen Boudicca Queen Boudicca Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago Which is why the church and state did not want the Bible printed in anything other than Latin... 42 42points reply View More Replies... View more comments See Also on Bored Panda Overworked Employee Quits Because He Wasn't Getting A Fair Wage, Costs The Company $40 Million 40 Embarrassing Moments People Didn't Know Who They Were Talking To And Made A Fool Of Themselves #32 The moment in my life that changed the way I think was being told I had stage 3c ovarian cancer. It actually changed a lot more than my way of thinking. Thirdman Report 83points Huskymom POST Ann Dennis Ann Dennis Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago I hope you are getting treatment and will experience a long long remission. 35 35points reply View more comments #33 A few years earlier , I used to HATE K-pop and My friends who liked it. I am born in a Homophobic Family and always saw the world from their eyes. But as Now I grew up a bit , I realized How racist I am becoming !! I hated them because they have tiny eyes , and because K-pop guys wore makeup !! I was so embarrassed when I learned about Homophobic people , Because I was one and didn't knew !! Even tho I was just 11 , Im Still embarrassed that how stupid I was. If we should not judge a book by its cover , Why judge music by its language ? Why judge people by how they look ? WHY JUDGE PEOPLE ?? Report 82points Official_Blink️ POST Ann Dennis Ann Dennis Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Good on you! However, I think you're meaning "xenophobic" (fear/dislike of foreigners) rather than "homophobic" (fear/dislike of members of the LGBTQ community) Your last sentence says it all!! 35 35points reply View More Replies... View more comments #34 Got promoted to a leadership role. Shortly afterwards, of my closest coworkers get in a beef. I try to sort it out myself because one or both of them could have been fired over the incident. I deal with it before anyone else finds out, but neither one appreciates my help.
First one (same position as me) reports me for using the word "s**t" in our conversation (trust me - every second word out of his mouth was worse). I get hauled into the manager's office and a letter placed in my employee file for being "unprofessional". Not much I can do about it.
Second one (my subordinate) invites me to her place for a bbq where she gets stoned and tells me something disturbing about how she stalked an ex-coworker (that I was still friends with). Next day - coincidentally- the ex-coworker asks if I think she was crazy to think she was being stalked. I said no. It gets back to the stalker that I had the conversation with the ex-employee and said she wasn't crazy ... and I get hauled into the manager's office and suspended for two days for "breaching confidentiality" of my subordinate...... For talking to someone not employed by our company...... about something that had nothing to do with our business....... in the private residence of the subordinate..... who was high at the time.
This has changed the fundamental nature of who I am as a leader. It's everyone for themselves out there. There is no such thing as a work-friend. Report 73points Smitin POST Troux Troux Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 9 months ago I hate to say it and I hate to follow it, but as a leader you really should not hang out with your subordinates unless it's a work outing (i.e. multiple coworkers, tame setting). Even if things never go badly, it can look like special treatment. 47 47points reply View More Replies... View more comments #35 I worked in a highly competitive sporting industry when I was a young adult. I enjoyed some association with the England squad and ended up being on 'standby' for an International junior tournament. Flash forward to me turning professional and being as green as they come, trusting everybody, thinking everyone would be my friend. Like a daft labrador, wagging my tail at people.
The situation was that we had the first team (that you would see on the TV) and the reserves (that people came to watch in the stadium). There were three of us battling for those two positions. Healthy competition, I thought. May the best man win.
Oh, how wrong I was. Everyone was friendly to your face but was just in it for themselves. I thought they were my friends but things got back to me that they had been saying behind my back. I was so disappointed in them that I was inconsolable. How can someone be so two-faced? The worst was yet to come.
As I caught up on my experience, I was a threat to the position of the other two guys. Exactly around that time, I was called into the manager's office where I was accused of having a gambling problem - I did not. A couple of weeks later the manager asks me whether I thought I would pass a drug test. Of course, I would. Then it was a drinking problem - nope. Somebody was spreading rumors.
Eventually, I realized that you can't trust anybody and it's not paranoia if they really are all out to get you. Markus Spiske Report 73points Scagsy POST Justin Schalow Justin Schalow Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago It was one of my hardest realizations how awful people really are!!! Even over the littlest thing! 20 20points reply View more comments #36 When Russians, sorry Russian soldiers in unofficial disguise, invaded Ukraine's Crimea. Peaceful post-WW2 era and my youth ended right then even though I'm not Ukrainian myself... Алесь Усцінаў Report 73points PADNA POST censorshipsucks censorshipsucks Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago sorry to say but actually most of the middle east has been a warzone for the last 60 years or more... since ww2 onwards and even before. Largely due to western adventurism. So actually, there's never been a peaceful post-ww2 era. Maybe just in your country. 25 25points reply View More Replies... View more comments #37 "Be prepared to fail" - like things don't always work out perfectly. Some things just fail and that's normal. My perfectionist a** just took a new perspective. Report 71points Mart Se POST Mrs. Mustang Mrs. Mustang Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago This. 7 7points reply View more comments #38 The USMC and Iraq, I don’t recommend either. Joel Rivera-Camacho Report 65points JustinTime POST K Sir K Sir Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Thank you for your service and I am sorry for what you experienced. I hope somewhere in all of that you found happiness. I have a father who served in Vietnam for 4 years. Green Beret. Much love and respect to you. 17 17points reply View More Replies... View more comments #39 I often go to church and pray (I’m Catholic) and ask God questions about life.
Once I asked Him, "If you are God, and you are almighty, and you let us deliberately struggle in life, and with all those problems we got, doesn’t it make you mean?" And I heard a voice, like coming directly from my heart, "Like a parent watches his kid learning how to walk, and even if it fails and tries again over and over," and "The real purpose is to never give up the process, and watching all of you doing so fills Me with immense love" (I don’t know how to express it accurately in English… it was very intense).
First of all, that kind of an answer would have never come out from my then actual state of mind (I was in a bad divorce from a narcissistic manipulative person) so that was definitely not me; and secondly, it totally opened my eyes: from that point on I just try very, very hard at everything without being obsessed with the outcome. It made me become a lot more positive and generous person, and professionally I even got multiple promotions since. Just wanted to share. Arina Krasnikova Report 58points Nidi Nidii POST Tilfeldig Forbipasserende Tilfeldig Forbipasserende Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago An omnipotent, loving god could just as well have created their people with that knowledge in place, and also without the need to be able to choose evil. They should have been able to create people exactly how they would want them. If there was such a god. problems, evil, torments and life trials would have been completely non-existent. After all, that is how life in heaven is often described to be; living without the need to choose evil, without sickness and suffering, and supposedly people are going to be very happy there. 30 30points reply View More Replies... View more comments #40 You know, life's not fair. Although I miss the mark on some days. Some days I get it right. After hearing Bobby Mcferrin's song "Don't worry be happy ", I realized it's all a state of mind and it changed the way I think about what it takes for me to be happy. Fuu J Report 56points Dip thong POST Raven DeathShade Raven DeathShade Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago I honestly didn't know it was possible for someone to actually choose to be happy. Good for you. 19 19points reply View More Replies... View more comments Note: this post originally had 59 images. It’s been shortened to the top 40 images based on user votes. Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing! Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda! Add Your Answer! Not your original work? Add source Publish Change image Upload Photo Ooops! Your image is too large, maximum file size is 8 MB. Upload Upload Edit Image Error occurred when generating embed. Please check link and try again. Render conversation
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I'd suffered from chronic depression and anxiety for 12 years, increasing meds and treatment without success. Turns out all I needed was to be without him. 20 20points reply Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Men is too headache ?? 15 15points reply Load More Replies... 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Click here to view. ? ??? ???? ???? $??? ??? ???? ??????? ???? ???? ???? ? ???? ?? ????. ? ????? ??????? ?'? ?? ???? ?? ?? ?? ??? ?? ???? ?????? ????? ???? ??? ? ????? ????? ???? ??? ??? ????????? ?? ?? ???. ??? ????????? ???? ???? ?? ???????. HERE ???.??????????.??? -34 -34points reply Load More Replies... grouchybooty grouchybooty Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago ?????!!!!!???!?! ?! 2 2points reply K Witmer K Witmer Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago The day I saw the video of George Floyd crying for his mom while being murdered by the police. It changed the way I saw the world and people as a whole. I used to not be too involved in activism(unless it was woman's rights) now I see everyone needs help no matter how small my contribution is. I realized one person can really make a difference and start a movement. I no longer hold my tongue and I've learned NO is a full sentence. 11 11points reply David Leick David Leick Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago The raw video of that was the last thing I posted on Facebook before deleting my account. I didn't even bother to look at any replies. 2 2points reply Load More Replies... Bobby Bobby Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. "Unless it was a woman's right"? Why exemption here? -4 -4points reply Ray Martin Ray Martin Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Did you deliberately misquote? K Witmer's sentence makes perfect sense, so what exactly are you asking? 4 4points reply K Witmer K Witmer Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Thanks Ray 1 1point reply K Witmer K Witmer Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Bobby my mom took me to a woman's rights protest when I was 15 and I continued that activism throughout my life until I realized there was more I could be doing 2 2points reply Bobby Bobby Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Rallies, Blockades, Continuous change of laws, so called free press.... didn't changed any thing in USA. IT is still the center of isolation, Mental health, Suppression, depression, oppression, condemnation, insurrection, and the comments' completion. 0 0points reply K Witmer K Witmer Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Yes but it helps individuals and that's all it takes sometimes for things to change for the better even a little. 2 2points reply Bobby Bobby Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Like there have been 3 centuries already passed. How much time do you want? -5 -5points reply K Witmer K Witmer Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Well change is slow but I've seen some in my lifetime. It's unfair of course but that doesn't mean I'll give up. I have a daughter to think about and possibly one day grandkids if she chooses that, which I'm not going to lie the thought of her having kids w the impending climate change, makes me fearful for her and the pain she'll go through watching them suffer. 1 1point reply Load More Comments POST PupperPanda PupperPanda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago The day I realised that my ex-husband asking for a divorce was the best the thing could have happened. I'd suffered from chronic depression and anxiety for 12 years, increasing meds and treatment without success. Turns out all I needed was to be without him. 20 20points reply Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Men is too headache ?? 15 15points reply Load More Replies... 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Click here to view. ? ??? ???? ???? $??? ??? ???? ??????? ???? ???? ???? ? ???? ?? ????. ? ????? ??????? ?'? ?? ???? ?? ?? ?? ??? ?? ???? ?????? ????? ???? ??? ? ????? ????? ???? ??? ??? ????????? ?? ?? ???. ??? ????????? ???? ???? ?? ???????. HERE ???.??????????.??? -34 -34points reply Load More Replies... grouchybooty grouchybooty Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago ?????!!!!!???!?! ?! 2 2points reply K Witmer K Witmer Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago The day I saw the video of George Floyd crying for his mom while being murdered by the police. It changed the way I saw the world and people as a whole. I used to not be too involved in activism(unless it was woman's rights) now I see everyone needs help no matter how small my contribution is. I realized one person can really make a difference and start a movement. I no longer hold my tongue and I've learned NO is a full sentence. 11 11points reply David Leick David Leick Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago The raw video of that was the last thing I posted on Facebook before deleting my account. I didn't even bother to look at any replies. 2 2points reply Load More Replies... Bobby Bobby Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. "Unless it was a woman's right"? Why exemption here? -4 -4points reply Ray Martin Ray Martin Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Did you deliberately misquote? 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IT is still the center of isolation, Mental health, Suppression, depression, oppression, condemnation, insurrection, and the comments' completion. 0 0points reply K Witmer K Witmer Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Yes but it helps individuals and that's all it takes sometimes for things to change for the better even a little. 2 2points reply Bobby Bobby Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Like there have been 3 centuries already passed. How much time do you want? -5 -5points reply K Witmer K Witmer Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Well change is slow but I've seen some in my lifetime. It's unfair of course but that doesn't mean I'll give up. 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72Kviews ツ chihuahua n.Community member Publish Not your original work? Add source As children, we grow up in a rather small circle. The older we get, the more people from different parts of the world we meet. That is when our instilled values can be challenged. Most of the time, we don't change a thing, but sometimes we get faced with contradictions that shake up our view forever. When the sudden moment of realization hits, you can never see the way you did before. So, dear fellow Pandas, I ask you, what was that moment for you? This post may include affiliate links. #1 When I was about 9 I went to spend Christmas with my grandmother in Zambia. She had an orphanage and every year would put on a Nativity play and hold a Christmas party for all the children in the village. This particular year she had it on my birthday (21st Dec).
I'd made friends with a girl about my age and even though we didn't speak each other's language we were instant friends, as only children can be. During the day my new friend gave me part of an eraser - needless to say, I was confused.
I asked my grandmother why she would give me part of my eraser and her response was 'that little girl has nothing, but she still wanted to give you something for your birthday'.
To this day I remind myself that often people are giving all they can, even if it doesn't seem like much to us. Arif Hasan Report 468points Jordan Scott POST memyselfandI memyselfandI Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago That’s very similar to a story from the Bible, where a widow came to the temple and donated two small coins to the offering. The priests and rich people were saying that she wasn’t putting in enough, but Jesus told them that even though they were putting in 10% of their income as required, she was putting in all she had. Those two coins were worth more to God than all the donations of the rich people, because it showed that she actually cared about the temple, instead of just doing what was asked. 130 130points reply View More Replies... View more comments #2 A black person I worked with was called the N-word by an angry customer. She turned to me and said, “there is nothing I can call you that will ever make you understand how much that hurts”. That completely changed my thinking. Teddy Report 426points Martha Cox POST Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Fu*king racists. I'm famous for using wrong words (ahum) but never intentionally. I'm trying to think of a word that would hurt me like the N-word and I can't think of one. I've never thought about this. I'm glad you posted this Martha. 141 141points reply View More Replies... View more comments #3 I used to cashier and was often way more honest than I should have been for working in customer service. Someone asked me how my day was going and I said “I’m considering abandoning ship.” It was during the worst time in my life and I was thinking of packing my bags and moving back across the country to where I grew up.
The customer responded: Don’t abandon the ship. Sail a different sea.
Completely changed how I look at situations and life as a whole.
I wish I could thank him.
I’m now a first-year high school English teacher which has been my dream since I was 11. I’m 33. Elina Buzurtanova Report 407points DragonsFox POST Ruth Wile Ruth Wile Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago I've always wanted to be a high school English teacher, too, so it's easy to connect with that. This is so inspiring, thank you so much for sharing!!! 35 35points reply View More Replies... View more comments #4 Once when I was about 10, a fox wandered into our backyard in broad daylight and we noticed it moving around in a peculiar way on a dirt patch in the corner of the yard which we always used to bury our pets (we had many pets over the years). As we slowly got closer to it, we realized the fox was twitching severely, as if having a seizure that wouldn't stop. It didn't react to our presence even as we got closer. We called animal control to take care of it, and they arrived and explained that it had some kind of brain infection that slowly takes over its functions until it becomes completely incapacitated but still functioning as we see it today. They quickly helped it to the final door and it was buried in that very spot.
The fact that it was neurological forced me to consider the state of mind it had been in that day - How long were its motor skills and basic functions slipping away? Did it know what was happening when it walked through broad daylight? Did it know it would pass away soon? Was it fully aware that we were standing over it? How much did it suffer?... How much did it suffer *mentally*?
Until then I had loved animals but still considered them like autonomous bots. This was the first time that I was brought to terms with them as cognizant equals and understood that they have internal mental capabilities and struggles just the same as humans. It brought me to recognize a whole new genre of suffering, and I became significantly more caring because of it. Karen Report 350points [] POST Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Troux, that's a good story. I also think about this. People say that animals have no emotions but only instinct. No way !!! When we are away for a whole day the cat(s) sit by the window and wait till we are home and then won't leave us out of their sight for the rest of the day and the following. Aaaw. 86 86points reply View More Replies... View more comments #5 When my son was about 5 I was doing some housework. He came to me and wanted me to play with him. I told him I was sorry, but I was busy. He said, "But you're always busy."
I put the housework aside and went and played with him. The housework could wait. Ketut Subiyanto Report 305points BusLady POST Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Aaw, perfect! 41 41points reply View more comments #6 When I started a new job as a counselor for inmates in one of our city's detention centers. I always thought people in jail failed society, but I realized I had it backward - society has failed these people.
I have since dedicated my practice to doing what our prisons fail to do - rehabilitating people, starting with basic skills, and mental health issues. Donald Tong Report 305points Meg L POST AffenpinscherMom AffenpinscherMom Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago THIS IS BEYOND TRUE. I am also a mental health counselor working with the inmates. The male inmates are more respectful to me as a female then some guys on the outside. Most of them are genuinely appreciative that someone is empathetic and supportive as most of them have never experienced that before. A large majority have also experienced childhood trauma. 112 112points reply View More Replies... View more comments #7 I had never been aware of the level of racism that is out there (living in the Southern US.) Had finished getting a man ready for surgery and he asked who was "putting him to sleep." I told him his name and then he started to repeatedly ask me "What is he?" I'd answer doctor, anesthesiologist, again that he's a doctor until he got to the part he was really getting at. "Is he an N-word or what? Because you never know what he's going to do to me while I'm asleep."
I felt like I was going to explode inside. "NO HE'S NOT, he's an African American and an excellent physician. While you are asleep he's going to take exceptionally good care of you." Then, I could not resist this. Go ahead mister, try and report me. I dare you. I turned to him as I was going through the curtain and said, " I guess the pre-op interview nurse forgot to tell you our sheets are cream-colored. Next time remember to bring your own white sheet." The look on his face was so worth it. Another time I had been in a room while the MD was also there.
When he left the man said, "He sure is a good doctor for a black man." Exploding inside. "The fact that he is African American is completely irrelevant. He's one of the best cardiologists in the country and you are more than fortunate to have him." Again, the look was so worth it."
Another encounter with a racist patient was so infuriating to all of us... well, just don't p**s off the nurses about something like that. Thirdman Report 280points Miss Frankfurter POST Audrey Kahin Audrey Kahin Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Dang that sheet comment was slick 138 138points reply View More Replies... View more comments #8 When I realized that my life would be so much better for me, emotionally, when I let someone in my life go. Permanently. Chanikarn Thongsupa Report 264points HarriMissesScotland POST Abraham Espinoza Abraham Espinoza Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago I was always very friendly as a kid and always tried to make others happy. There were several times growing up where I would introduce friends to other friends and they would end up being really good friends and end up ignoring me for some reason, pushing me out of the friend group. When I was old enough (about 20) to realize how being treated unkindly or purposely ignored by "friends" and family scarred me, I purposed that I would never ever treat anyone that way. I now try to go and talk to and show interest to people who seem lonely or insecure, even if it means I have to push past my own discomfort or lack of motivation in the moment. I don't want people to have to feel the way I did when younger and wish that those people would understand their self-worth apart from others... 98 98points reply View More Replies... View more comments #9 The realization that being angry is a choice. Vera Arsic Report 246points Sasquatch The Almighty POST Aurora C. Aurora C. Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago That’s powerful 50 50points reply View More Replies... View more comments #10 When I realized that my son would be better with no father than with a toxic, manipulative, alcoholic father. It’s only happened in the last two weeks that I have finally found the strength to cut him out of our lives, but I already feel so much calmer. I always thought I would know the signs of mistreatment, and that because I was not being hit that things weren’t that bad, that it was just “normal” couple stuff that everyone went through. But it’s not.
Being constantly belittled, stolen from, guilted into giving money & taking out loans, gaslit, having any self-confidence destroyed, manipulated, etc. takes its toll. They develop a hold over you. And I felt like I couldn’t cope without him in my life because no one else would want me. But then I had the realization that I cannot have my son grow up and see the relationship between his parents and think that it is an acceptable way to treat a woman (or anyone for that matter).
We’re finally free. I’m going to get therapy. I have amazingly supportive family & friends, that are just glad that I have finally seen the light. My son will grow up surrounded by love, happiness & good people. Ian Stauffer Report 246points Lolabean POST Tee Witt Tee Witt Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago So [leased you found the courage. 39 39points reply View More Replies... View more comments #11 When I found out the church I attended was a bunch of hypocrites and liars. Left that church and religion altogether when I realized all was based on lies and misinformation. Akira Hojo Report 243points Terry Filkohazi POST Ivo H Ivo H Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago Almost all religions are… 86 86points reply View More Replies... View more comments #12 I (58M) allowed my fanatically religious mother to bully and harass me about religion for my entire life. She drilled Jesus into me every day as a child. I was sent to Christian schools and we attended church every time the doors were open. We went to revivals and camp meetings at every opportunity. When I became an adult I move out, but she continued the campaign of trying to convert me to her fanatical brand of hate-based Christianity. I grew up among racists, misogynist, and homophobes. They preach interracial couples are a sin, women are subservient to men, and gays are going straight to hell. The latter has been particularly painful for me because I'm gay. I knew the moment puberty hit. The preachers preached that gays were the lowest form of life to slither across this earth and they deserved to burn in hell. There were no role models on TV. I had no one to turn to. My parents gave my siblings cars when they turned 16. I bought my own car so I would have something to live in if they found out I was gay. My teen years were terrifying.
During adulthood, I have withstood my mother's religious mistreatments to keep the family peace and to avoid offending her (given how she has treated me, I know that sounds crazy). But she is my mother and no one wants to hurt their mother. I turned the other cheek when she came after me, until...
I married my husband in 2013. In 2018, I finally mustered the courage to tell my mother we were married. She offered no kind words, no congratulations, no support, and didn't ask a single question. She just lowered her head and said, "I know." That was the end of the conversation.
During my next visit to her house (I was 55 at the time), her Christian anger erupted. She physically restrained me in a chair, got in my face, and said over and over and over that I'm going to hell. Despite the devastation, that moment was cathartic for me.
That one minute interaction with my mother changed my life forever. I stood up, walked out of her house and life, and I haven't looked back. I blocked her on my phone so she can't call me. I am free of this woman finally. My only regret is that I didn't do it 30 years ago. Oh how much more peaceful my life would have been.
By the way, I have seen psychotherapists for my entire adult life trying to recover from her. It has helped. Report 237points J_runner POST Kimmie E Kimmie E Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago Glad you got away from her. Good luck in the future xx 55 55points reply View more comments #13 It’s been 15 months since I gave up alcohol, and my life is recognizable again. Best decision I’ve ever made. DiamondRehab Thailand Report 229points Remy De La Mora POST Summer Mason Summer Mason Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Whoop whoop! Good for you person! 43 43points reply View more comments #14 In my early 20s, I became frustrated with the constant harassment and general bulls**t of working a dead-end office job and decided to go back to school and earn a degree. I was in a slightly male-dominated program (science) but felt respected by my peers.
Fast-forward six years to graduation and I was at a celebration with students from my program. I overheard a large group of drunk male students talking about a female classmate, referring to her with a disgusting, objectifying "nickname." They saw the look on my face and one of them said "relax, we've got names for all of you." I was less shocked than I was disappointed in myself, for being stupid enough to think that "educated" men would be more respectful.
I've worked in research for 25 years and have had a lot of great male colleagues, but sadly there is just as much sexist bulls**t as in any other job. Kier... in Sight Report 216points Jake 1 POST Andrea Delden Andrea Delden Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago Sad, but true. 48 48points reply View more comments #15 When a dear friend passed away suddenly, and when clearing out their desk, I found their mantra on a piece of paper on top of their workload in the drawer…
1. Don’t worry about things, as most things never happen.
2. Don’t sweat the small stuff, it too will probably not happen
3. Give more.
4. Expect less.
(and the one I always smile at, as they said it often)
5. To get something you never had before, you gotta do something you have never done before. Charlotte May Report 210points Willy POST Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago That's a good mantra. 31 31points reply View more comments #16 I was doing an internship for my Ph.D. in psychology at a large, public hospital. I told my supervisor about a patient and he asked me what I did about the situation. I told him I didn’t do anything, that I waited to ask him. He said, “If you don’t do anything, who will?” That statement taught me to take on my professional role and step up to help. It guided me through a long career. Erkan Utu Report 193points Paula MV POST Den Ver Den Ver Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago (edited) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gwWNlaF-PLE . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Comedian John Mulany tells how he learned a similar lesson at age 6. (1 min.) 15 15points reply View more comments #17 When I learned that my doctors didn’t expect me to survive cancer. They told me I’d never see my 40th birthday.
I’m 45 now, but facing my own mortality completely changed me. Michelle Leman Report 185points Rebecca Larson POST Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Every single person who has had cancer (or has it) changes. I'm glad you are ok now. Hugs for you Rebecca. 50 50points reply View More Replies... View more comments #18 I used to be an awful person (Well, more than I am now), and I was generally being an a**hole because I got stressed out (which was a poor excuse), and I accidentally made my grandfather cry.
I’m a shi**y person, but it opened my eye to how awful I truly was. I make sure to at least apologize and stop myself now. Tim Doerfler Report 177points Chernobyl Guide POST Naesil Naesil Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Very powerful to see strong older male family member cry about something, we still live in a world where "men dont cry" and they had it much worse when they were growing up. You know the s**t is real when even they show emotion. 53 53points reply View more comments #19 When I was maybe 9 or 10 I was jealous of the "rich" families in our small town, and I asked my mom why we didn't have a nice new big house and a nice car.
She told me they probably aren't really rich, they just have a lot of debt, and it has always stuck with me. Now as an adult I don't feel jealous, I feel sorry for them because they feel the need to display their "wealth". Anastase Maragos Report 165points Chelsea Aaron POST Ivo H Ivo H Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago No need to be sorry either. They used their lives and their money their way, they are most probably not struggling, just made a different choices. Just be happy with your life and don’t mind theirs. 47 47points reply View More Replies... View more comments #20 I was basically told to be afraid of gay people my entire life. My dad decided to take a job down in the Florida keys. Gay capital or Florida. After high-school I basically came to the conclusion I love everyone as long as their not f*****g a**hats to me. Problem solved. Well not for my dad. This still cracks me up to this day.....fast forward 6 years. Dad comes down after leaving Florida to come see me. I still live in key west and work at a "gay bar" as a shot girl. I allowed people to take body shots off my belly button. Yeah...eww... but it's liquor so there's that.
Anywhom.... took my dad to the bar. He is mortified. Constantly making homofobic comments but to only me. I told him to shut the f**k up. This is my family.
He finally sits down watches one of the drag queens and falls in love with it all.
Because of me I have single handly changed my family to the point my conservative grandma loves the f**k out of the gay community and supports them from harm at her church. Who has a rainbow flag flying from their temple or worship. Thank you lord. Report 162points Summer Mason POST Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago Summer, this story made me SMILE. 31 31points reply View more comments #21 When my best friend came out and I realized I wasn’t straight either and I was opened up to a whole new world of LGBTQ+ people. Isi Parente Report 151points That One Weird Bi POST Raven DeathShade Raven DeathShade Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago (edited) For me it was my cousin. I started thinking about my own sexuality, and came to the conclusion that if it was okay for her to like girls, then it's okay for me to like them too. I'm bisexual, but I haven't told anyone outside BP. EDIT 9 months later: I'm out, I'm proud, and I've been having a blast now that the secret is out :). 86 86points reply View More Replies... View more comments See Also on Bored Panda Woman Shows How "Harry Potter" Characters Were Supposed To Look According To Book Descriptions (35 Pics) 50 ‘Weird Facts’ About The World That Might Give You A Fresh Perspective #22 When I realized that nothing really matters, like to the universe. This thought actually helped my depression and anxiety because it lifts some of the weight off my chest, that even if I mess something up, the universe will carry on just fine, it's not the end of the world if I do/say something wrong. Report 147points Lilly Swaim POST Nurichwersonst Nurichwersonst Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago Learned this also. We are all basically a bunch of billion years old carbon-atoms... we go where we came from and the universe isnt affected by it at all, so it doesnt matter what we all do. Its about us how we feel and how we do through our current state of life. 23 23points reply View more comments #23 When God's booming voice from above told me to quit drinking & using drugs...OR ELSE!
Well, it was actually a judge, but he thought he was a god. Tingey Injury Law Firm Report 144points Whitey Black POST DUN DUN DUN DUN Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago If it did you good and changed you for the better, then maybe he was God 47 47points reply View More Replies... View more comments #24 I was in a cruel relationship for years. I didn't mind being the victim as much as it bothered me that he would mistreat our daughter. I'm normally a non-confrontational person and often had recurring nightmares of the mistreatment. I was being stalked, harrassed as i had come to expect from this recurring nightmare, and i kept waiting for someone to save me. These nightmares kept going even after i left the relationship. Then, one night, it occurred to me that nobody was coming to save me. I was on my own. I could either get used to being someone's domestic plaything, or i could stand up and save myself. So i did.
Five years later, i'm married to an amazing man, and the mistreatment is just a bad memory from long ago. My husband's friends regard me as a terrifying force of nature. All because i decided to be my own damn hero. Report 135points Arica Kimball POST Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago Good on you! I'm glad you're happy now. It took guts but you did it !!! 23 23points reply View More Replies... View more comments #25 In my final year of high school, I (F) hung out with a girl. We did everything together but I mostly enjoyed the sleepovers. We lost touch after graduation. A few years later we are both back home visiting family and run into each other. She tells me she is recently engaged and brought her fiancé to meet her dad. A young woman approaches us and I get introduced - to her fiancée.
I am clearly surprised and asked her how long she had known. She said since she was 13. Does your dad know? Yep, since I first knew. Why did you not tell me? You know why. Indeed, I did. It was not something that was ever spoken - just a given. It was not right - period!
It was then that I realized any prejudices, racism, or anything else in that regard that I may have, was not of my own. I swore, that day, to rid myself of all the toxic garbage that my parents and family had passed onto me and, especially, to never pass it on to my future children.
Skip ahead 20 years and I am watching Lethal Weapon with my 15-year-old son. Mom, I can't remember that one actor's name. Which one? The guy with the mustache. I tell him, Danny Glover. And then I had a silent cry. Tallie Robinson Report 123points ShadowLand POST Remi Flynne Remi Flynne Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago My father was racist and homophobic. My mother... she didn't think she was but she would say things like 'a very nice black man helped me today' as if the description was necessary. I'd say 'you don't need to say he was black' and get told 'but he was'. Pointing out that she never mentioned skin colour when talking about white people went over her head. I was lucky to end up getting to know very open minded people early in life and realising my parents were not great role models here!! Well done for being that much better role model yourself. 61 61points reply View More Replies... View more comments #26 I never truly understood what real helplessness was until my infant daughter had an illness that she might never recover from. Thankfully everything is fine but I often think of that and it centers me on any life problems I might encounter to provide perspective. Alexander Grey Report 116points Todd POST Nora Nora Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago I can't even imagine. I'm sorry you had to go through that, well done taking some positivity away from it. Hope she's well. 15 15points reply View more comments #27 When I found out my favorite dinosaur the Brontosaurus ("B" from now on) wasn't real. I still believed in Santa so this was my first big "lie". The guy who found/named it had cludged it together from several dinosaurs and made a fake skull to say he found the biggest one. Scientists realized the mistake several years later and fixed it but the guy who funded the "B" scientist was a publisher so he continued the lie. I wasn't heart broken when the guy at the museum told me. Instead it hooked me on science because he showed me why. Science is about finding better answers and its ok to correct things that are wrong. For the first time, dinosaurs became real because they weren't perfect. I became a scientist whose chased marmots up mountains and worked in organ banks because of that "lie". Happy ending - they found a "B" skull in 2015 that matched most of the other bones from the original "B" and 3 species are back. So a mistaken mistake was corrected. I love science. Report 113points Two_rolling_black_eyes POST Angelar Angelar Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago That's a post I can very much relate :) Nice post 18 18points reply View More Replies... View more comments #28 That I have full control of my own happiness. No matter what anyone says, it is their opinion and I have my own as well. What I do that will make me happy, I chose that... whatever the consequences are, I take full responsibility for it.
Happiest I have ever been in the past 2 decades. I wish I knew this when I was younger! I chose my choices! Fernando Brasil Report 101points Lucy Lee POST Danny Trejo Danny Trejo Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago emotions are the point where mind and body meet. dont let your mind control you, you are not your mind, be the watcher over your thoughts. accept every situations like you chose it. that helped me a lot. 16 16points reply View More Replies... View more comments #29 When I was about 11, I was talking with my best friend and I don't remember what I said, but it wasn't about Africa, but she misunderstood something and yelled, "I am not African!" and ran home crying. This is in the US and she was black and I was white. She rarely got mad and rarely yelled. She was a quiet, sweet person who would typically get hurt rather than mad.
I didn't understand all that stuff. (I thought I was black for 6 months when I was 7, because she was "black" and we were the same in my view.)
I realized when she went home crying that she had some ongoing, never-ending pain in her life that I didn't have in mine (and which nobody should have, let alone a little girl). I don't remember how I figured out exactly what this was all about not being African (probably my Mom explained).
She was two grades below me, so if people were saying mean, racist things to her in school, I didn't know. The kids in the neighborhood were fine as far as I know, but my other friend's mom was clearly prejudiced, possibly racist.
That is the day I lost my innocence and realized how incredibly unfair the world can be. And the saddest thing about that is that she had learned it years before :-( Report 94points Marnie POST LimaBeanie LimaBeanie Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago oh my goodness. thats so sad!! :( 17 17points reply View more comments #30 Leaving all toxic people behind. 28 rn but have never been this happy before. Obie Fernandez Report 88points Anshika Malik POST Tobias Reaper Tobias Reaper Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago good for you massive change in your life when you do that you realise the difference big time 13 13points reply View more comments #31 The time I started to read the Bible on my own - not relying on what others had told me about the Bible..... Report 86points Mike McKeever POST Queen Boudicca Queen Boudicca Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago Which is why the church and state did not want the Bible printed in anything other than Latin... 42 42points reply View More Replies... View more comments See Also on Bored Panda Overworked Employee Quits Because He Wasn't Getting A Fair Wage, Costs The Company $40 Million 40 Embarrassing Moments People Didn't Know Who They Were Talking To And Made A Fool Of Themselves #32 The moment in my life that changed the way I think was being told I had stage 3c ovarian cancer. It actually changed a lot more than my way of thinking. Thirdman Report 83points Huskymom POST Ann Dennis Ann Dennis Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago I hope you are getting treatment and will experience a long long remission. 35 35points reply View more comments #33 A few years earlier , I used to HATE K-pop and My friends who liked it. I am born in a Homophobic Family and always saw the world from their eyes. But as Now I grew up a bit , I realized How racist I am becoming !! I hated them because they have tiny eyes , and because K-pop guys wore makeup !! I was so embarrassed when I learned about Homophobic people , Because I was one and didn't knew !! Even tho I was just 11 , Im Still embarrassed that how stupid I was. If we should not judge a book by its cover , Why judge music by its language ? Why judge people by how they look ? WHY JUDGE PEOPLE ?? Report 82points Official_Blink️ POST Ann Dennis Ann Dennis Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Good on you! However, I think you're meaning "xenophobic" (fear/dislike of foreigners) rather than "homophobic" (fear/dislike of members of the LGBTQ community) Your last sentence says it all!! 35 35points reply View More Replies... View more comments #34 Got promoted to a leadership role. Shortly afterwards, of my closest coworkers get in a beef. I try to sort it out myself because one or both of them could have been fired over the incident. I deal with it before anyone else finds out, but neither one appreciates my help.
First one (same position as me) reports me for using the word "s**t" in our conversation (trust me - every second word out of his mouth was worse). I get hauled into the manager's office and a letter placed in my employee file for being "unprofessional". Not much I can do about it.
Second one (my subordinate) invites me to her place for a bbq where she gets stoned and tells me something disturbing about how she stalked an ex-coworker (that I was still friends with). Next day - coincidentally- the ex-coworker asks if I think she was crazy to think she was being stalked. I said no. It gets back to the stalker that I had the conversation with the ex-employee and said she wasn't crazy ... and I get hauled into the manager's office and suspended for two days for "breaching confidentiality" of my subordinate...... For talking to someone not employed by our company...... about something that had nothing to do with our business....... in the private residence of the subordinate..... who was high at the time.
This has changed the fundamental nature of who I am as a leader. It's everyone for themselves out there. There is no such thing as a work-friend. Report 73points Smitin POST Troux Troux Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 9 months ago I hate to say it and I hate to follow it, but as a leader you really should not hang out with your subordinates unless it's a work outing (i.e. multiple coworkers, tame setting). Even if things never go badly, it can look like special treatment. 47 47points reply View More Replies... View more comments #35 I worked in a highly competitive sporting industry when I was a young adult. I enjoyed some association with the England squad and ended up being on 'standby' for an International junior tournament. Flash forward to me turning professional and being as green as they come, trusting everybody, thinking everyone would be my friend. Like a daft labrador, wagging my tail at people.
The situation was that we had the first team (that you would see on the TV) and the reserves (that people came to watch in the stadium). There were three of us battling for those two positions. Healthy competition, I thought. May the best man win.
Oh, how wrong I was. Everyone was friendly to your face but was just in it for themselves. I thought they were my friends but things got back to me that they had been saying behind my back. I was so disappointed in them that I was inconsolable. How can someone be so two-faced? The worst was yet to come.
As I caught up on my experience, I was a threat to the position of the other two guys. Exactly around that time, I was called into the manager's office where I was accused of having a gambling problem - I did not. A couple of weeks later the manager asks me whether I thought I would pass a drug test. Of course, I would. Then it was a drinking problem - nope. Somebody was spreading rumors.
Eventually, I realized that you can't trust anybody and it's not paranoia if they really are all out to get you. Markus Spiske Report 73points Scagsy POST Justin Schalow Justin Schalow Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago It was one of my hardest realizations how awful people really are!!! Even over the littlest thing! 20 20points reply View more comments #36 When Russians, sorry Russian soldiers in unofficial disguise, invaded Ukraine's Crimea. Peaceful post-WW2 era and my youth ended right then even though I'm not Ukrainian myself... Алесь Усцінаў Report 73points PADNA POST censorshipsucks censorshipsucks Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago sorry to say but actually most of the middle east has been a warzone for the last 60 years or more... since ww2 onwards and even before. Largely due to western adventurism. So actually, there's never been a peaceful post-ww2 era. Maybe just in your country. 25 25points reply View More Replies... View more comments #37 "Be prepared to fail" - like things don't always work out perfectly. Some things just fail and that's normal. My perfectionist a** just took a new perspective. Report 71points Mart Se POST Mrs. Mustang Mrs. Mustang Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago This. 7 7points reply View more comments #38 The USMC and Iraq, I don’t recommend either. Joel Rivera-Camacho Report 65points JustinTime POST K Sir K Sir Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Thank you for your service and I am sorry for what you experienced. I hope somewhere in all of that you found happiness. I have a father who served in Vietnam for 4 years. Green Beret. Much love and respect to you. 17 17points reply View More Replies... View more comments #39 I often go to church and pray (I’m Catholic) and ask God questions about life.
Once I asked Him, "If you are God, and you are almighty, and you let us deliberately struggle in life, and with all those problems we got, doesn’t it make you mean?" And I heard a voice, like coming directly from my heart, "Like a parent watches his kid learning how to walk, and even if it fails and tries again over and over," and "The real purpose is to never give up the process, and watching all of you doing so fills Me with immense love" (I don’t know how to express it accurately in English… it was very intense).
First of all, that kind of an answer would have never come out from my then actual state of mind (I was in a bad divorce from a narcissistic manipulative person) so that was definitely not me; and secondly, it totally opened my eyes: from that point on I just try very, very hard at everything without being obsessed with the outcome. It made me become a lot more positive and generous person, and professionally I even got multiple promotions since. Just wanted to share. Arina Krasnikova Report 58points Nidi Nidii POST Tilfeldig Forbipasserende Tilfeldig Forbipasserende Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago An omnipotent, loving god could just as well have created their people with that knowledge in place, and also without the need to be able to choose evil. They should have been able to create people exactly how they would want them. If there was such a god. problems, evil, torments and life trials would have been completely non-existent. After all, that is how life in heaven is often described to be; living without the need to choose evil, without sickness and suffering, and supposedly people are going to be very happy there. 30 30points reply View More Replies... View more comments #40 You know, life's not fair. Although I miss the mark on some days. Some days I get it right. After hearing Bobby Mcferrin's song "Don't worry be happy ", I realized it's all a state of mind and it changed the way I think about what it takes for me to be happy. Fuu J Report 56points Dip thong POST Raven DeathShade Raven DeathShade Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago I honestly didn't know it was possible for someone to actually choose to be happy. Good for you. 19 19points reply View More Replies... View more comments Note: this post originally had 59 images. It’s been shortened to the top 40 images based on user votes. Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing! Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda! Add Your Answer! Not your original work? Add source Publish Change image Upload Photo Ooops! Your image is too large, maximum file size is 8 MB. Upload Upload Edit Image Error occurred when generating embed. Please check link and try again. Render conversation
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Click here to view. ? ??? ???? ???? $??? ??? ???? ??????? ???? ???? ???? ? ???? ?? ????. ? ????? ??????? ?'? ?? ???? ?? ?? ?? ??? ?? ???? ?????? ????? ???? ??? ? ????? ????? ???? ??? ??? ????????? ?? ?? ???. ??? ????????? ???? ???? ?? ???????. HERE ???.??????????.??? -34 -34points reply Load More Replies... grouchybooty grouchybooty Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago ?????!!!!!???!?! ?! 2 2points reply K Witmer K Witmer Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago The day I saw the video of George Floyd crying for his mom while being murdered by the police. It changed the way I saw the world and people as a whole. I used to not be too involved in activism(unless it was woman's rights) now I see everyone needs help no matter how small my contribution is. I realized one person can really make a difference and start a movement. I no longer hold my tongue and I've learned NO is a full sentence. 11 11points reply David Leick David Leick Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago The raw video of that was the last thing I posted on Facebook before deleting my account. I didn't even bother to look at any replies. 2 2points reply Load More Replies... Bobby Bobby Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. "Unless it was a woman's right"? Why exemption here? -4 -4points reply Ray Martin Ray Martin Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Did you deliberately misquote? K Witmer's sentence makes perfect sense, so what exactly are you asking? 4 4points reply K Witmer K Witmer Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Thanks Ray 1 1point reply K Witmer K Witmer Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Bobby my mom took me to a woman's rights protest when I was 15 and I continued that activism throughout my life until I realized there was more I could be doing 2 2points reply Bobby Bobby Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Rallies, Blockades, Continuous change of laws, so called free press.... didn't changed any thing in USA. IT is still the center of isolation, Mental health, Suppression, depression, oppression, condemnation, insurrection, and the comments' completion. 0 0points reply K Witmer K Witmer Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Yes but it helps individuals and that's all it takes sometimes for things to change for the better even a little. 2 2points reply Bobby Bobby Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Like there have been 3 centuries already passed. How much time do you want? -5 -5points reply K Witmer K Witmer Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Well change is slow but I've seen some in my lifetime. It's unfair of course but that doesn't mean I'll give up. I have a daughter to think about and possibly one day grandkids if she chooses that, which I'm not going to lie the thought of her having kids w the impending climate change, makes me fearful for her and the pain she'll go through watching them suffer. 1 1point reply Load More Comments POST PupperPanda PupperPanda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago The day I realised that my ex-husband asking for a divorce was the best the thing could have happened. I'd suffered from chronic depression and anxiety for 12 years, increasing meds and treatment without success. Turns out all I needed was to be without him. 20 20points reply Caro Caro Caro Caro Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Men is too headache ?? 15 15points reply Load More Replies... 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Click here to view. ? ??? ???? ???? $??? ??? ???? ??????? ???? ???? ???? ? ???? ?? ????. ? ????? ??????? ?'? ?? ???? ?? ?? ?? ??? ?? ???? ?????? ????? ???? ??? ? ????? ????? ???? ??? ??? ????????? ?? ?? ???. ??? ????????? ???? ???? ?? ???????. HERE ???.??????????.??? -34 -34points reply Load More Replies... grouchybooty grouchybooty Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago ?????!!!!!???!?! ?! 2 2points reply K Witmer K Witmer Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago The day I saw the video of George Floyd crying for his mom while being murdered by the police. It changed the way I saw the world and people as a whole. I used to not be too involved in activism(unless it was woman's rights) now I see everyone needs help no matter how small my contribution is. I realized one person can really make a difference and start a movement. I no longer hold my tongue and I've learned NO is a full sentence. 11 11points reply David Leick David Leick Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 1 week ago The raw video of that was the last thing I posted on Facebook before deleting my account. I didn't even bother to look at any replies. 2 2points reply Load More Replies... Bobby Bobby Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. "Unless it was a woman's right"? Why exemption here? -4 -4points reply Ray Martin Ray Martin Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Did you deliberately misquote? K Witmer's sentence makes perfect sense, so what exactly are you asking? 4 4points reply K Witmer K Witmer Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Thanks Ray 1 1point reply K Witmer K Witmer Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Bobby my mom took me to a woman's rights protest when I was 15 and I continued that activism throughout my life until I realized there was more I could be doing 2 2points reply Bobby Bobby Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Rallies, Blockades, Continuous change of laws, so called free press.... didn't changed any thing in USA. IT is still the center of isolation, Mental health, Suppression, depression, oppression, condemnation, insurrection, and the comments' completion. 0 0points reply K Witmer K Witmer Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Yes but it helps individuals and that's all it takes sometimes for things to change for the better even a little. 2 2points reply Bobby Bobby Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago This comment is hidden. Click here to view. Like there have been 3 centuries already passed. How much time do you want? -5 -5points reply K Witmer K Witmer Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 9 months ago Well change is slow but I've seen some in my lifetime. It's unfair of course but that doesn't mean I'll give up. 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