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Lead by Example

A man with a criminal record has made it his mission to break the cycle of violence in his neighborhood — and stop the flow of young people to prison or worse

Photo by SILVIO PACIFICO Antonio Hendrickson (seated, wearing yellow pants) with participants in a Lead by Example workshop. “Many of our mentors did skip school, did join gangs, and did commit crimes,” the nonprofit states on its website. “All have paid their dues and don’t want others to make the same mistakes.” A man with a record makes it his mission to reverse the trend was 25 years old when he was convicted on drug conspiracy charges and sent to prison for 22 years, then the mandatory minimum under federal sentencing guidelines. Now in his 50s, Hendrickson sees himself in the dozens of New York City adolescents he mentors. “I identify with them. All of those shenanigans they’re trying to play, I’m hip to it,” he explains. “More than that, I care about them — and they know it.” Hendrickson began his mentorship work in prison, where he established a program that had older convicts counseling new inmates about the impulsivity and anger that often lead to crime and recidivism. After being released in 2013, Hendrickson was determined to use his experience to break the cycle of violence in his Harlem neighborhood and stop the flow of young people to prison, or worse. , his nonprofit organization, was created to help prepare young people in disadvantaged communities for adulthood. “These particular kids are emotionally challenged — not mentally challenged,” Hendrickson emphasizes. “They don’t know how to handle their emotions when they’re confronted with challenges, and it manifests in their behavior. They get into fights, disrupt their classes and get suspended.” “They’re angry, and often with reason,” he adds. “Nobody listens to them. They have no voice, no power and no hope.” Often, the teens come from homes where their mothers work long hours and their fathers are absent, in prison or dead. Hendrickson believes that when at-risk youth are armed with positive communication strategies and social skills, they can become productive, confident adults. Lead by Example runs school and community programs that bring together ex-convicts and “off-track scholars,” as Hendrickson calls them. “We give them the support they need from somebody they can respect, trust and talk to,” he says. Respect, trust and attention are the three things Hendrickson and his team of ex-offenders seek to provide every child, in endless measure, during Saturday morning basketball games, field trips and in classrooms throughout Harlem and the South Bronx. “You’ll see. In just six to eight weeks, their thought process changes. Their behaviors change,” Hendrickson says. “And if you ask them, ‘Do you want more?’ they say, ‘Yes!’” This article is an excerpt from the "Inspire Community Engagement" chapter of the AARP book . Download or order your free copy. Article by Mary Ellen Flannery Book published June 2018 Learn more about what AARP is up to in New York by connecting with . The weekly, award-winning AARP Livable Communities e-Newsletter provides local leaders with information and inspiration for making their town, city or neighborhood more livable for older adults and people of all ages.

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