19 Things Every Uncouply Couple Will Relate ToSkip To ContentHomepageSign InSearch BuzzFeedSearch BuzzFeedlol Badge Feedwin Badge Feedtrending Badge FeedCalifornia residents can opt out of "sales" of personal data.Do Not Sell My Personal Information 2022 BuzzFeed, Inc PressRSSPrivacyConsent PreferencesUser TermsAd ChoicesHelpContactSitemapPosted on 6 Mar 2017 19 Things Every Uncouply Couple Will Relate To Just because you don't say it doesn't mean you don't mean it. by Tabatha LeggettBuzzFeed Staff, UK FacebookPinterestTwitterMailLink 1 First things first you absolutely hate PDAs Flo Perry / BuzzFeed The thought of snogging your S.O. in public makes you physically cringe. 2 And you never hold hands when you re out together Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF FOX Unless you're the exact same height, how does this even work? 3 You think it looks cute when couples snuggle at the cinema but you will never understand how they manage to get comfy Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Syco Music Unless one of you is significantly smaller than the other, won't one of your arms be awkwardly pressing into the other's back? 4 You basically never appear on each other s social media feeds Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF The CW You see each other every day, but you'd never think to Instagram pictures of each other. 5 If you re married you probably got engaged at the end of a practical conversation about your future together rather than as a result of an elaborate proposal HBO Big proposals are nice, they're just not very you. 6 The good thing about being uncouply is that none of your friends mind hanging out alone with the two of you Natalya Lobanova / BuzzFeed It's practically impossible to be a third wheel to you guys. 7 In fact your friends consider your S O to be one of their friends and vice versa Warner Bros. If your S.O. was out of town, you'd have no problem going to their best friend's birthday party alone. 8 You probably don t know when your actual anniversary is Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Cash Money Records But you have a rough idea of how long you've been together, which is enough. 9 You re all about the small romantic gestures rather than the big ones View this photo on Instagram instagram.com You know that coming home to a glass of wine after a tough day is infinitely more romantic than being sent roses at work. 10 And you definitely don t make a big deal out of Valentine s Day Natalya Lobanova / BuzzFeed You'll probably spend it together, but you don't do big gifts or massive romantic gestures. 11 When you meet new people they sometimes don t even realise you re a couple E4 You're never glued to each other's sides at social events. 12 And you can go weeks without spending a single evening just the two of you ABC You have to make a concerted effort to set 1-1 time aside. 13 All of your couple friends are waaaay more couply than you Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Paramount Pictures Sometimes you wonder whether you should be more affectionate in public, but then you realise you're happy just the way you are. 14 And you ll never understand the desire to hold hands with your S O over the table at a restaurant 20th Century Fox You're not against it; you would just never think to do it. 15 You find the idea of sexting each other absolutely hilarious Grace Spelman / BuzzFeed You send ugly selfies and shopping lists to each other, and that's as dirty as it gets. 16 And you re perfectly comfortable spending whole evenings together but not communicating Paramount Pictures You actually think there's something really romantic about reading in silence next to each other. 17 You never fall asleep hugging each other Lindsay Farber / Zoe Burnett / BuzzFeed You both like your own space. 18 But you show you care in other ways like by cooking dinner when your S O has to work late or doing their laundry without being asked View this photo on Instagram instagram.com It's all about the small things. 19 And even though you don t shout about it you re head over heels in love Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF giphy.com You just show it in different ways. Share This ArticleFacebook PinterestTwitterMailLink BuzzFeed DailyKeep up with the latest daily buzz with the BuzzFeed Daily newsletter!This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply.