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Hypersexuality and Bipolar Disorder When Impulsive Sexual Behavior Is Part of a Manic Episode
An increased sex drive is a common manic symptom of people with bipolar disorder. By Diana RodriguezMedically Reviewed by Allison Young, MDReviewed: December 10, 2021Medically ReviewedHypersexuality in bipolar disorder can be managed when the condition is properly treated.StocksyBipolar disorder is a mood disorder in which a person experiences drastic mood swings — from feeling elated, energetic, and risky to feeling sad and disinterested. These mood swings, called episodes of mania and depression, are the classic signs of bipolar disorder. When someone with bipolar disorder is having a manic episode, impulsive, reckless sexual behaviors and significantly increased sex drive are quite common. Such hypersexual behavior is often a warning sign of a manic episode. Editor' s Picks
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Hypersexuality can exist as a sign of bipolar disorder or on its own. Also referred to as compulsive sexual behavior or sexual addiction, hypersexuality is described as a dysfunctional preoccupation with sexual fantasies, urges, or behaviors that are difficult to control. This compulsive behavior can cause distress and can negatively affect a person’s job, health, relationships, and other aspects of life, notes Mayo Clinic.Hypersexual disorder is a controversial diagnosis, however, partly because there is no formal definition for hypersexuality, according to an article published in May 2016 in the Journal of Affective Disorders. It’s not unusual for people to experience a heightened sense of sexuality during a manic episode. And while an increased interest in sexuality on its own does not present a problem, when the heightened sense of sexuality is paired with the symptoms of bipolar mania — such as impulsivity, risk-taking, and poor judgment — the behavior can be destructive to many aspects of day-to-day life. Experts aren't sure why some people with bipolar disorder experience symptoms of hypersexuality and others do not. "In general, hypersexuality is a symptom of hypomania or mania — it goes with that particular mood episode," says Adele C. Viguera, MD, a psychiatrist at the Cleveland Clinic in Ohio. Mania is one of the two main episodes that someone with bipolar disorder may experience, while hypomania is a milder form of mania. "Hypersexuality can be one of the characteristic symptoms of both," says Dr. Viguera. Other symptoms include:Excessive spendingNot sleepingTrouble concentratingSpeaking quickly and in a scattered manner Bipolar Disorder and an Increased Focus on Sex
While there isn't a clear-cut definition or criteria for being hypersexual, for a person with bipolar disorder, it means being more focused on sex and risky sexual behaviors than the person normally is. What's significant is the change or difference from the normal behavior. People with bipolar disorder who are experiencing hypersexuality may:Have multiple sex partnersThink about sex constantlyHave one-night standsBe very interested in pornographyNotice a difference in their sexual behaviorsEngage in other reckless behaviors, like driving too fast or gambling How Do You Treat Hypersexuality
Hypersexuality with bipolar disorder isn't a separate condition or problem that needs its own treatment — it's a symptom of bipolar disorder. Once the condition is successfully treated and mood swings and symptoms are under control, those hypersexual feelings will dissipate. "When bipolar disorder is not being treated effectively, hypersexuality is often a symptom that can wreak havoc in a person's personal life and lead to poor decisions with possible serious and negative consequences. Treating the bipolar symptoms and getting hypomania and mania under control will often target and help hypersexuality as well,” explains Viguera. "You treat the disease, not the symptom," she adds. “Treatments usually involve medications such as mood stabilizers or antipsychotics, as well as psychotherapy such as cognitive-behavioral therapy or interpersonal social rhythm therapy,” she says. Once the disease is under control, people with bipolar disorder often react differently to sex and their past behaviors. "You often see a lot of regret for the past behavior, because they put themselves in very bad situations," says Viguera. "When they're well, they reflect on that, and there can be a lot of regret and remorse. It's just another clue that shows you that it was not their normal state.” In addition, hypersexuality can be one of the most difficult and challenging symptoms both for people living with the condition and for those close to them. Sometimes the inability to control sexual urges leads to broken marriages and relationships. Both people in a relationship can suffer if these urges result in infidelity: The partner with bipolar disorder may feel distraught over having hurt the other partner, who in turn feels confused and angry for having been cheated on.Hypersexual behavior can also negatively affect a couple’s sex life. Studies that examine sexuality in couples with one bipolar partner found decreased levels of sexual satisfaction associated with the diagnosis. Bipolar Behavior Hypersexuality and Related Conditions
A meta-analysis published in the December 2016 issue of the Journal of Affective Disorders found a high prevalence of comorbidity between substance use disorders and bipolar disorder — meaning that a person is experiencing some form of both conditions simultaneously. The study found substance abuse disorders to be quite common in people with bipolar disorder. The disorders with the highest prevalence in conjunction with bipolar disorder were alcohol use (42 percent), followed by cannabis use (20 percent) and other illicit drug use (17 percent). Stimulants in particular can be problematic: The study authors point out that if stimulants are being used or abused, they could mimic symptoms of mania. In addition, alcohol and cannabis use can be linked to poor judgment, which may further contribute to hypersexual behavior. Different Treatments for Bipolar Disorder
Bipolar disorder is usually treated with:Mood-stabilizing medicationsAntipsychotic medicationsAntidepressantsCognitive-behavioral therapyOther forms of therapy and counseling that may include family membersElectroconvulsive therapy, which involves using small electrical waves to treat the brain The right combination of these various therapies can reduce or eliminate bipolar mood changes between mania and depression, as well as prevent or reduce symptoms, including hypersexuality. Those symptoms of hypersexuality may be a red flag for some people with bipolar disorder indicating that they are slipping into a manic episode. If a person with bipolar disorder starts to notice themselves thinking more about sex or engaging in promiscuous behavior, they should notify their doctor of this onset of symptoms. Resources We Love
Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance (DBSA) This organization supports people with depression and bipolar disorder. Learn more about treatment options for bipolar disorder, and check out the DBSA Wellness Toolbox. Mayo Clinic A top U.S. hospital, Mayo Clinic has educational information about bipolar disorder on its website and also offers care for bipolar disorder at its four locations in the United States. Learn more about how to schedule an appointment. National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH) NIMH is a part of the National Institutes of Health, which is the world’s largest biomedical research agency. If you’re interested, consider participating in a research trial to help researchers discover more about potential treatments for bipolar disorder. Additional reporting by Barbara Kean. Editorial Sources and Fact-Checking
Compulsive Sexual Behavior. Mayo Clinic. February 7, 2020.Kopeykina I, Kim HJ, Khatun T, et al. Hypersexuality and Couple Relationships in Bipolar Disorder: A Review. Journal of Affective Disorders. May 2016.Hunt GE, Malhi GS, Cleary M, et al. Prevalence of Comorbid Bipolar and Substance Use Disorders in Clinical Settings, 1990–2015: Systematic Review and Meta-Analysis. Journal of Affective Disorders. December 2016.Show LessNEWSLETTERS Sign up for our Mental Wellness Newsletter
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